Sex With Your Boss... Not Always A Good Idea... ๐Ÿ˜Š  

Paulxx001 64M  
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10/3/2019 1:23 pm

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Sex With Your Boss... Not Always A Good Idea... ๐Ÿ˜Š

I had a meeting this morning, at work...

The office was sparse. Two brown leather arm chairs faced a large teak wood desk. A phone and a small lamp, framed the sides of the polished surface. Horizontal shades, hid a broad window, casting an ivory glow behind the shadow figure, who sat in the tall chair. She rocked back... and forth. Her hands were clenched ; her knuckles white.

Linda adjusted her glasses, smiled sweetly, then... glared at me from behind her desk ; "If you're wrong, if your information and advice are wrong ; if this deal fucks up? I can assure you, that I will fire your ass, then sue your pathetic net worth into extinction . And then I'll make sure that your family... lives on the streets... for the rest of their lives. Do you understand me Paul ?" She seethed.

Without blinking - expressionless - I stood up from my chair, put my hands on Linda's desk and leaned forward. I replied to her, in a raspy whisper.

"Unlike you Linda. I have nothing to lose. My family? They'll be fine. I'll be fine. You .... on the other hand....will have to do something other, than fire and sue me. Because I can assure you, you're life... will be the last thing I would ever care less ... about messing with. You don't know.... who you're fucking with. Does your husband know about us? I'll bet he'd be curious, to see the videos and texts - I have ready for him. You're a fucking zombie to me. You... keep up your end of the bargain and we'll be fine. Do your job. Understand ?"

Silence echoed... off bare walls, as I turned my back. The heels of my shoes, clicking off the marble floors... were the only sounds, I heard. I didn't have to see, to know panick and fear, had gripped Linda's throat and turned her perfect complexion... a sickly, pale green.

I was suddenly nudged, in the elbow...

"Paul... Paul? Come on buddy. You daydreaming or something? Let's go to lunch. How was your meeting this morning with Linda? Heard you guys nailed that big contract?"

"We did," I replied to Eduardo as I stood up from my chair. "We certainly did."

I gotta stop binge watching, police detective, porn mysteries. I think they're MESSING ... with my head.

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It's nice to have an open, understanding, relationship at work... isn't it? ๐Ÿค”
Sex with your boss or co-worker anyone?

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/3/2019 1:25 pm

Imagination... it's a funny thing. Do you ever use yours, to daydream and invent bizarre scenarios? Or is it just me? ๐Ÿค”

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/3/2019 1:27 pm

It's nice to have an open working relationship at work... isn't it? ๐Ÿค”
Sex with your boss or co-worker anyone?

Me...? Of course! Worked out OK.
I ended up marrying her. ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Indiglo547 50M
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10/3/2019 2:01 pm

Always did when I was in high school I wanted to fuck my boss who was so hot


smartasswoman 64F  
35758 posts
10/3/2019 3:24 pm

Only once, when I was pretty young. Went out for a drink with a coworker, we got pretty trashed and ended up hooking up. But, turns out that was all he was interested in, a one time hookup. It grated on me to have to see him around the office. Luckily he was just doing an internship and wasn't around for long.

Lesson learned!


pollly_anna 58F  
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10/3/2019 3:37 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Imagination... it's a funny thing. Do you ever use yours, to daydream and invent bizarre scenarios? Or is it just me? ๐Ÿค”
..........It's just you ......Paul.!


Tmptrzz 59F  
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10/3/2019 4:02 pm

I have been there and done that and it's a real bitch when you get busted like we did. But it's all good because it was so worth it as we were so good together. Too bad it was just a summer job. I hope all works out with you and Linda, and congrats on the big contract..Have a great evening..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Paulxx001 64M  
22498 posts
10/3/2019 4:26 pm

    Quoting Indiglo547:
    Always did when I was in high school I wanted to fuck my boss who was so hot
Hopes and dreams are fun to cling to no? ๐Ÿค”
Thanks for popping in. Drop by any time. ๐Ÿ‘

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/3/2019 4:53 pm

    Quoting  :

If ya decided to find another job, ya think he'd give you a reference? ๐Ÿค”

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/3/2019 4:55 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    Only once, when I was pretty young. Went out for a drink with a coworker, we got pretty trashed and ended up hooking up. But, turns out that was all he was interested in, a one time hookup. It grated on me to have to see him around the office. Luckily he was just doing an internship and wasn't around for long.

    Lesson learned!
Sounds like fodder for an interesting blog post? ๐Ÿค”
Was the sex any good? ๐Ÿ˜ถ

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/3/2019 4:57 pm

    Quoting pollly_anna:
    ..........It's just you ......Paul.!
Really? hmmm ๐Ÿค”
You don't think about weird things? Imagine scenarios? ๐Ÿ˜ถ

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/3/2019 4:59 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    I have been there and done that and it's a real bitch when you get busted like we did. But it's all good because it was so worth it as we were so good together. Too bad it was just a summer job. I hope all works out with you and Linda, and congrats on the big contract..Have a great evening..
Oooo... sounds like blog post material.
So.... howdja get busted? Or you can keep it your secret.... ๐Ÿ˜Š
Yep... My boss and I are ok... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚

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SeaGirlFL 57F
9220 posts
10/3/2019 5:16 pm

My ex was my boss for awhile, in several different jobs...our working relationship was fine, until the last few years before we separated when he would not keep the personal stuff out of the office.

Because of that, won't date or sleep with a coworker or boss.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." โ€“ Mark Black


EnigmaInitiative 53F
5804 posts
10/3/2019 5:34 pm

I don't know about all that, I think it can be complicated.

Besides, Paul, you know ME, I'm an Independent Contractor, a Relationship Anarchist, a Buddhist

I'm MY OWN BOSS

Winky winky

But, I do like to play pretend certain "games".

Where I'm the

"Secretary"

It's Funnnnnnn

Some of it

You know

The Movie

with Maggie Gyllenhaul (s?)

and

James Spader

There's Elements of That Movie

I'd Like to Relive

Just Sayin

Or Should I say Experience for the First Time

Winky winky

"Subcity" by Tracy Chapman

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Paulxx001 64M  
22498 posts
10/3/2019 7:15 pm

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    My ex was my boss for awhile, in several different jobs...our working relationship was fine, until the last few years before we separated when he would not keep the personal stuff out of the office.

    Because of that, won't date or sleep with a coworker or boss.
Ooo... I'm repeating myself... But a blog worthy post?
I can relate to that. Sounds like a lotta drama?
How'd ya manage to stay there? ๐Ÿค” I guess, you had no choice?
Hmmm... I agree with you. No more worker flings. Unless....

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/3/2019 7:18 pm

    Quoting EnigmaInitiative:
    I don't know about all that, I think it can be complicated.

    Besides, Paul, you know ME, I'm an Independent Contractor, a Relationship Anarchist, a Buddhist

    I'm MY OWN BOSS

    Winky winky

    But, I do like to play pretend certain "games".

    Where I'm the

    "Secretary"

    It's Funnnnnnn

    Some of it

    You know

    The Movie

    with Maggie Gyllenhaul (s?)

    and

    James Spader

    There's Elements of That Movie

    I'd Like to Relive

    Just Sayin

    Or Should I say Experience for the First Time

    Winky winky

    "Subcity" by Tracy Chapman
Yep... I know what you're talking about.
Hmmm... such a fine line.... ๐Ÿ‘‰?

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EnigmaInitiative 53F
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10/3/2019 7:29 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Yep... I know what you're talking about.
    Hmmm... such a fine line.... ๐Ÿ‘‰?
It is a Fine Line

However,

With

Good Communicators?

It Can Be Amazing

Back to Black: Amy Winehouse Unplugged

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Paulxx001 replies on 10/3/2019 8:31 pm:
Oooo.... Amie is a classic... ๐Ÿ˜Š ๐Ÿ‘

EnigmaInitiative 53F
5804 posts
10/3/2019 7:31 pm

    Quoting  :

I'm here, in email, if you want to chat.

Remember,

You're my Friend

I would NEVER DIVULGE YOUR SECRETS

Without consent

Because, though I, Sometimes, Fight with Words?

I am a Pacifist and a Patriot

a SUBversive Patriot

But, I promise you that everyone who knows me well? They know how much I love FREEDOM

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Paulxx001 64M  
22498 posts
10/3/2019 8:33 pm

    Quoting EnigmaInitiative:
    It is a Fine Line

    However,

    With

    Good Communicators?

    It Can Be Amazing

    Back to Black: Amy Winehouse Unplugged
Great suggestion. Now I'm flipping through her repertoire. ๐Ÿ‘
Thanks for the reminder!, ๐Ÿ˜Š

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EnigmaInitiative 53F
5804 posts
10/3/2019 8:41 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Great suggestion. Now I'm flipping through her repertoire. ๐Ÿ‘
    Thanks for the reminder!, ๐Ÿ˜Š
It's all about how you approach her.

I've found many don't like the commercialism of her work, but they didn't dig deeper into her later Stuff.

It's Deep

her TONE? Amazing

Phrasing? Genius

I watched a Documentary About Amy Winehouse, I believe it was on amazon prime. They had her singing a duet with the

Jazz Legend

Himself

Old Blue Eyes

Frank Sinatra

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sexyldy1000 61F  
9575 posts
10/3/2019 9:47 pm

No. I never got involved with anyone at work. I did however, see, how most 'relationships' that evolved ended badly. One of the most embarrassing was between my married Manager and a very single co-worker who used to arrive together in the morning. One lunch hour, I was sitting at my cubicle which was in front of his, and I heard her voice. Unsure of just what might occur, I started loudly clearly my throat and banging desk drawers!


Livin_my_Life14 51F

10/3/2019 9:56 pm

Day dreams can almost feel real!!

Iโ€™ll be your boss๐Ÿ’•


Paulxx001 64M  
22498 posts
10/3/2019 11:31 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    No. I never got involved with anyone at work. I did however, see, how most 'relationships' that evolved ended badly. One of the most embarrassing was between my married Manager and a very single co-worker who used to arrive together in the morning. One lunch hour, I was sitting at my cubicle which was in front of his, and I heard her voice. Unsure of just what might occur, I started loudly clearly my throat and banging desk drawers!
Ya didn't feel like sitting there quietly... and perving them? ๐Ÿค”
Oh that would have been me...
I worked for some larger companies where Xmas parties kinda exploded with coworker amours. Alcohol was involved.
I'm sure you musta seen that happen, right? ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/3/2019 11:40 pm

    Quoting Livin_my_Life14:
    Day dreams can almost feel real!!

    Iโ€™ll be your boss๐Ÿ’•
Some of my daydreams DO. I guess we both share vivid imaginations! That's so true! ๐Ÿ‘
Really? hmmm... I guess you'd be able to order me around. I suppose I'd have to obey.
Ya like to be in charge do ya? ๐Ÿค”

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author51 59F  
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10/4/2019 12:30 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Imagination... it's a funny thing. Do you ever use yours, to daydream and invent bizarre scenarios? Or is it just me? ๐Ÿค”
Imagination is a beautiful thing and can take us wherever we want to go..When it is in the bedroom, even better my coffee mate..As for sex with a co worker or boss, I never go there..except only in my mind....lol


Paulxx001 64M  
22498 posts
10/4/2019 2:25 am

    Quoting author51:
    Imagination is a beautiful thing and can take us wherever we want to go..When it is in the bedroom, even better my coffee mate..As for sex with a co worker or boss, I never go there..except only in my mind....lol
Bedroom? Sure.. that's where imagination always works.
True.... I'd avoid boss sex... But co-worker sex?
Sounds like a plan, if you're both into it and understand what each expects.... No? ๐Ÿค”

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sexyldy1000 61F  
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10/4/2019 4:56 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Ya didn't feel like sitting there quietly... and perving them? ๐Ÿค”
    Oh that would have been me...
    I worked for some larger companies where Xmas parties kinda exploded with coworker amours. Alcohol was involved.
    I'm sure you musta seen that happen, right? ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
It was tough enough, walking past his cubicle with her somewhat draped over his chair lol. There was a couple caught on security video, having sex on a little grassy knoll next to the parking garage! Yes, alcohol definitely led to some crazy stuff (mostly skirmishes, or telling a boss off) at some Xmas โ€˜celebrationsโ€™.


Paulxx001 64M  
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10/4/2019 6:34 am

    Quoting  :

I understand what you mean, although.
.. I've seen it work for really large companies. Ya can get lost on those big ships, if you know what I mean. ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/4/2019 6:36 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    It was tough enough, walking past his cubicle with her somewhat draped over his chair lol. There was a couple caught on security video, having sex on a little grassy knoll next to the parking garage! Yes, alcohol definitely led to some crazy stuff (mostly skirmishes, or telling a boss off) at some Xmas โ€˜celebrationsโ€™.
Cam footage? ๐Ÿค” ๐Ÿ”ฅ Oooo.. sounds hot ๐Ÿ”ฅ lol... Ooops. A blog post? ๐Ÿ˜

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/4/2019 8:56 am

    Quoting  :

Hmmm... But ya didn't. Well... its always tricky at work isn't it? Unless you work for a really huge company. I worked in a building that had over three thousand employees and people could get away with more stuff in THAT type of environment.
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scoupe42 58M  
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10/4/2019 9:53 am

Having a wild imagination is a good thing! Hell, I do it often. Good Blog!


smartasswoman 64F  
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10/4/2019 11:48 am

I honestly don't remember at all whether the sex was good. It must have been at least "ok" if I was wishing for it to continue and mad that it didn't...

Here's what I do remember...at the time I did not own a car and I took the bus everywhere. As did he. From the bar we stumbled out to the bus stop and when MY bus came he just hopped on it with me. At the time I thought that was really cute. If it happened today I'd probably find it presumptuous!


Paulxx001 64M  
22498 posts
10/4/2019 6:56 pm

    Quoting scoupe42:
    Having a wild imagination is a good thing! Hell, I do it often. Good Blog!
Glad to hear there's someone besides me, dreaming up stuff... lol ๐Ÿ‘

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/4/2019 7:02 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    I honestly don't remember at all whether the sex was good. It must have been at least "ok" if I was wishing for it to continue and mad that it didn't...

    Here's what I do remember...at the time I did not own a car and I took the bus everywhere. As did he. From the bar we stumbled out to the bus stop and when MY bus came he just hopped on it with me. At the time I thought that was really cute. If it happened today I'd probably find it presumptuous!
Ahhh... young love. Innocent and without restrictions or judgement.
That bus thingy WAS cute. Lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
I woulda jumped on with you, as well! ๐Ÿ‘
It's a cavalier thing to do... ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/4/2019 7:04 pm

    Quoting  :

Jmmm... Sounds like you have a story to share? ๐Ÿค” I'd listen.
I've seen small companies where couples didn't quite... make it! lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ Too much drama... right? I hear you... ๐Ÿ˜Š

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sweet_VM 63F
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10/5/2019 12:32 am

Love this one hugs V

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/5/2019 6:47 am

Hugs back at you... ๐Ÿ˜Š
Never an affair with an office colleague? lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/6/2019 7:30 am

    Quoting  :

Sounds... like a perfect job!
Yep... sounds like a perfect job! ๐Ÿ‘ I can imagine... ๐Ÿ˜Š

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pollly_anna 58F  
696 posts
10/7/2019 10:29 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Really? hmmm ๐Ÿค”
    You don't think about weird things? Imagine scenarios? ๐Ÿ˜ถ
...........NO............


Paulxx001 64M  
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10/7/2019 11:04 pm

Ahhh... ๐Ÿ˜Š

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HermanG67 54M
8463 posts
10/8/2019 8:13 am

porn sure does change out daydreaming .... LOL


Paulxx001 64M  
22498 posts
10/8/2019 8:45 am

    Quoting HermanG67:
    porn sure does change out daydreaming .... LOL
It certainly does!
Thank goodness for vivid imaginations... and porn hub! ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ˜Š

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pocogato12 69F  
37204 posts
10/9/2019 7:16 am

Again late to this party- had to re-group. Nope- never involved with any co-worker and zero inclinations over the years, Worked to hard to get this far so that might make me no fun-unless you step outside

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/9/2019 9:33 am

    Quoting pocogato12:
    Again late to this party- had to re-group. Nope- never involved with any co-worker and zero inclinations over the years, Worked to hard to get this far so that might make me no fun-unless you step outside
Late is never bad. Ever been the last one to leave a party? The hosts are relaxed... they'll probably open up the GOOD bottle of wine ๐Ÿท and everyone seems to get a open minded... second wind ๐Ÿƒ
I've worked for huge companies where couples - got lost in the crowd. ๐Ÿ˜Š
But I've also worked for small companies where stuff... well stuff hit the fan. Ya know what I mean? ๐Ÿค” lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
Yep... the 'outside'... THAT'S... a whole different story. Woudja invite me to the Xmas ๐ŸŽ„ party? Loved meeting people who she worked with. Interesting dynamic!
So? You're regrouping? Sounds like fun. I just adjusted something too! ๐Ÿ˜Š

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