Sex In Jamaica... or in The Kitchen... FrankeeZee Had Hope... 😊  

Paulxx001 64M  
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11/4/2019 12:40 pm

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Sex In Jamaica... or in The Kitchen... FrankeeZee Had Hope... 😊

I was over at Gina's place - *FrankeeZee's cousin - last Saturday. She and her husband Gino ( yes... Gina and Gino ), had bought a home entertainment system. FrankeeZee and I were crouched in the living room, buried in bubble wrap and styrofoam... hooking it up for them. The house was popping full of screaming and raucous adults.

Gina... and Maria ( another cousin), were sitting in the nearby kitchen - their two babies, crying on their laps. Their four other , were squealing and yelling ; chasing each other round... and under, Gina's large kitchen table.

Amidst the cacophony, the two 'Cousin Moms' jealously critiqued the latest pictures, from (their younger cousin) Lina - on vacation in Jamaica. Maria pointed to the cell phone and exclaimed (to no one in particular) ; "Look at Lina standing there on the beach. A fricken pineapple in her hand , a palm tree by her side... and the fricken ocean in the background. How is she there ... and we're HERE ? HOW ?"

"Condoms, " FrankeeZee blurted out to me, under his breath.

He plugged an RCA jack into the main console. I looked at my buddy and shook my head.

"What? It's true, for fucks sake," he rasped, nodding.

That 'new' wireless sound system we were installing, had speakers, in every room in the house. When FrankeeZee and I did the sound check, I'm not sure if anyone in THAT house, even heard it.

The were busy bursting bubble wrap, as FrankeeZee and I, finally escaped. We waved goodbye to 'all' and scurried into FrankeeZee's Jeep.

Sitting in that driveway, far from the mayhem (content in total silence)... we looked at each other and smiled. FrankeeZee spoke ; "When I have ? They're gonna be quiet . Ya know the type Paul. No screaming and yelling or crazy stuff. "

"How ya gonna manage that, Frankee? You're not into . You don't understand them or like them. You're never gonna have . It's too late for you."

FrankeeZee looked at me, slowly shook his head and smiled wryly. For a second... I thought I'd hurt Frankee's feelings. And then he spoke ; "Paul... get fucking serious! I'm gonna adopt . Hopefully... a university graduate."

FrankeeZee grinned a wide grin. Before I could reply, he'd started the engine, turned on the radio and was cruising out onto the main road. The volume was so loud, we couldn't talk. Just as well. I had nothing to say. What could I say?

I can't see FrankeeZee with , at all. Some folks are built for and some... aren't. Right?

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*FrankeeZee is a member and top blogger, of ™FOGCAF - Friends Of Good Clean Adulterous Fun
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Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/4/2019 12:41 pm

I always thought I'd have kids and I'm glad I did. On the job experience is all it took. The verdict is still out on how well I (we) managed. Time will tell, right?
They seem to be doing all right. 🤔


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/4/2019 12:41 pm

We had two daughters and that was fine by me. I guess I'm waiting for the next wave. That would be grandkids. Hmmm... I wonder if I'll be up for that? 😊👍❤️


Tmptrzz 59F  
106083 posts
11/4/2019 12:48 pm

Sounds like another fun adventure with your buddy FrankieZee I always enjoy reading these, and FrankieZee with kids hmm, and a college graduate at that. Would definitely be another interesting adventure for him.. Thanks for sharing another fun adventure about you two. I hope your day has been a great start to your week..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


bbuckwwheat 63M
6236 posts
11/4/2019 1:00 pm

Another thoughtful and funny story.

Observing others (we have no children), you get to spoil the grandkids and then send them home. A small amount of revenge on the parents for when they were kids.


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author51 59F  
128877 posts
11/4/2019 1:10 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I always thought I'd have kids and I'm glad I did. On the job experience is all it took. The verdict is still out on how well I (we) managed. Time will tell, right?
    They seem to be doing all right. 🤔
I had three. One oldest, a daughter and two sons.. The verdict is still out but would not have traded having those three for anything else in the world my coffee mate......I did not allow my kids in the kitchen because that was when they sat down at the dining room table and did their homework before football and soccer respectively....lol.

You can never have enough JOY in your life..xoxo

TEASE YOU TUESDAY SEXUAL SIREN


1seeking1 56F
3767 posts
11/4/2019 1:10 pm

What an exciting time..i have 2 daughters, one does not want children she is 25, my 24 year old might. Adoption has been spoken about so many kids need good homes. For now I am a fur baby grandma 😊


Suprcuk49 60M
254 posts
11/4/2019 1:21 pm

kids are only as bad as the parents let them be. but good kids are worth every breath you have and every little headache that may pop up from time to time.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9549 posts
11/4/2019 1:47 pm

I agree, 'Some folks are built for children and some... aren't'. Growing up, I wasn't sure I would get married, let alone have kids. Marriage lasted under 4 years and I have the 'millionaire's family': a daughter and a son. No grandkids anticipated and that's OK...I would never try to guilt my kids into giving me any.

(p.s. great pics to support the ongoing adventures of FrankeeZee and you)


smartasswoman 64F  
35715 posts
11/4/2019 1:54 pm

It didn’t turn out for me to have kids. Sometimes, on gloomy days when I’m worried about climate change and democracy going down the tubes, I’m ok with it turning out that way.

I feel quite sure that you’ll enjoy grandchildren!


smileybugg69 51F
397 posts
11/4/2019 2:33 pm

I always figured my kids would take care of me when I got old. All they say now is they plan on putting me in a home as soon as they can! Brats.


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/4/2019 2:46 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Sounds like another fun adventure with your buddy FrankieZee I always enjoy reading these, and FrankieZee with kids hmm, and a college graduate at that. Would definitely be another interesting adventure for him.. Thanks for sharing another fun adventure about you two. I hope your day has been a great start to your week..
Glad you enjoyed it. Guess what I'm getting tomorrow?Yes... donuts! 👍 😊 🍩


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/4/2019 2:48 pm

    Quoting bbuckwwheat:
    Another thoughtful and funny story.

    Observing others (we have no children), you get to spoil the grandkids and then send them home. A small amount of revenge on the parents for when they were kids.
Thanks for popping in.
Revenge.. hmmm. Now there's something I can do. lol 😂 😮 👍
Maybe my kids will finally get it. 😁


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/4/2019 2:50 pm

    Quoting author51:
    I had three. One oldest, a daughter and two sons.. The verdict is still out but would not have traded having those three for anything else in the world my coffee mate......I did not allow my kids in the kitchen because that was when they sat down at the dining room table and did their homework before football and soccer respectively....lol.
Yep... Absolutely correct. No regrets at all.
Yeah.. Our kitchen table served the same purpose. So the verdict is still out, huh? 🤔
Good luck! 🍀 As if you had any influence now, right? 😮


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/4/2019 2:52 pm

    Quoting 1seeking1:
    What an exciting time..i have 2 daughters, one does not want children she is 25, my 24 year old might. Adoption has been spoken about so many kids need good homes. For now I am a fur baby grandma 😊
True... adoption IS a valid option for some!
Fur baby huh? 🤔 😂
Hey.. that's almost as much trouble as kids, no? 🤔 😊


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/4/2019 2:54 pm

    Quoting Suprcuk49:
    kids are only as bad as the parents let them be. but good kids are worth every breath you have and every little headache that may pop up from time to time.
THAT... is so true! I never let my kids get wild. I've seen other parents just let their children do whatever they wanted Used to bug me.
So.. you seem to have experience. 🙄 lol 😂
Drop by any time. 👍


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/4/2019 2:56 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    I agree, 'Some folks are built for children and some... aren't'. Growing up, I wasn't sure I would get married, let alone have kids. Marriage lasted under 4 years and I have the 'millionaire's family': a daughter and a son. No grandkids anticipated and that's OK...I would never try to guilt my kids into giving me any.

    (p.s. great pics to support the ongoing adventures of FrankeeZee and you)
... and yet, those parents still go out and have kids. Go figure, right? 😮
So... maybe they'll change their minds. Ya never know... do you?
A F F keeps deleting my pics. Doesn't like them, I guess. 🤔 Fricken A F F! 👍


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/4/2019 2:59 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    It didn’t turn out for me to have kids. Sometimes, on gloomy days when I’m worried about climate change and democracy going down the tubes, I’m ok with it turning out that way.

    I feel quite sure that you’ll enjoy grandchildren!
"... climate change and democracy..." Hmmm... I hope that the younger generation won't blame us for all this crap!
Perhaps they'll be better equipped to fix it. 🤔
If I have grand kids, I'm sure I'll have my va second wind 🍃 by then! 👍
So... ya never changed a diaper? 🤔 😂


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/4/2019 3:02 pm

    Quoting smileybugg69:
    I always figured my kids would take care of me when I got old. All they say now is they plan on putting me in a home as soon as they can! Brats.
Noooo... You're making a joke! 👍 😮
They've got a ways to go before you'll get the keys to THAT home.
They've got a long ways to go. Do you remind them? lol 😂 😮 👍


EnigmaInitiative 53F
5705 posts
11/4/2019 3:34 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    We had two daughters and that was fine by me. I guess I'm waiting for the next wave. That would be grandkids. Hmmm... I wonder if I'll be up for that? 😊👍❤️
I always wanted a lot of kids, but got one daughter, a quasi step daughter, a quasi adopted daughter, and two quasi stepsons instead. And some quasi step grandchildren. I'm cool with that.


smartasswoman 64F  
35715 posts
11/4/2019 4:54 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    "... climate change and democracy..." Hmmm... I hope that the younger generation won't blame us for all this crap!
    Perhaps they'll be better equipped to fix it. 🤔
    If I have grand kids, I'm sure I'll have my va second wind 🍃 by then! 👍
    So... ya never changed a diaper? 🤔 😂
I think they do blame us, probably rightfully so. Go google "OK Boomer".

I'm sure I've changed a diaper at some point...maybe babysitting for my sister? I certainly don't remember specifics though.

The man I was involved with for 13 years did have a son so I was a pseudo stepmom, but he was six years old when we met, so already out of diapers


superbjversion2 66F
24122 posts
11/4/2019 5:45 pm

For years, I didn't want kids. I didn't think I'd be a good mother. Then I met my husband. Giving him a child was the "ultimate sacrifice of love". Turns out I was better at motherhood than I expected and my one little offspring has turned out pretty good.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


mc_justmc 61M  
6926 posts
11/4/2019 5:55 pm

My son isn't built for kids, despite having two. And that's why they live with me, I'm a natural.


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/4/2019 8:53 pm

    Quoting EnigmaInitiative:
    I always wanted a lot of kids, but got one daughter, a quasi step daughter, a quasi adopted daughter, and two quasi stepsons instead. And some quasi step grandchildren. I'm cool with that.
Quasi is good. I like quasi!
You're funny and really positive! Or so I'm lead to believe! 👍 😊
I know it to be true.


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/4/2019 8:58 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    I think they do blame us, probably rightfully so. Go google "OK Boomer".

    I'm sure I've changed a diaper at some point...maybe babysitting for my sister? I certainly don't remember specifics though.

    The man I was involved with for 13 years did have a son so I was a pseudo stepmom, but he was six years old when we met, so already out of diapers
OK Done it! lol 😂
You're such a wealth of info. It's funny but sometimes stuff slips thorough the cracks. Ya know what I mean?
And then my daughter reminds me ;"Didja read this?" And of course I hadn't. Then I do.
Nah... diapers is not something I'd expect you to remember. I imagine... it's buried somewhere - pretty deep..
That's where I'd bury it. 😶😮 😊


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/4/2019 9:02 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    For years, I didn't want kids. I didn't think I'd be a good mother. Then I met my husband. Giving him a child was the "ultimate sacrifice of love". Turns out I was better at motherhood than I expected and my one little offspring has turned out pretty good.
Nice profile pic. Really nice. 👍😊
You? Doubting yourself? Nah.. I don't believe THAT.
But heck... I know what you mean. A split second of doubt... sure.
Pretty good... is pretty good! 😊 Good for you. Ya did good! 😊

It was the ultimate sacrifice...?


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/4/2019 9:06 pm

    Quoting  :

You know, it's true. You get a vibe from people and you can tell if they may or may not be good parents. I can't judge myself but I really do love children and I love interacting with them. Small miniature people... in the development stage. lol 😂
You have that good parent vibe. 👍


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/4/2019 9:09 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    My son isn't built for kids, despite having two. And that's why they live with me, I'm a natural.
I don't doubt it and... I'm pretty sure your son is grateful for that!
I'm sure your sons kids, get IT! That's for sure.
Kids know. They are really do. And they remember shit! lol 😂 👍 I'm sure you do.


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/4/2019 10:25 pm

    Quoting  :

How can you see all THAT, in a profile pic? 🤔 But I know what you mean. It's a vibe that you get from someone.
But... I've met some really nice people, who were crap, as parents.
In this case though, you're right... about me. (I think) 😊👍
And how about you? What's about your kids? Ya think ya they'd make good parents? I look at my daughters and I shiver... just a touch.


secret_lade 47F
8991 posts
11/5/2019 2:46 am

I have 3 kids.... Motherhood didn't come easy to me, I wasn't one of those people lived and died to be a mom. I love them SO much, and you know what? It eventually does come to you, you may not be like all the other parents who attend every event, every pto shit show, every game, but you are where you need to be when it counts. You're their #1.


EnigmaInitiative 53F
5705 posts
11/5/2019 7:54 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Quasi is good. I like quasi!
    You're funny and really positive! Or so I'm lead to believe! 👍 😊
    I know it to be true.
I now save my positivity for those who deserve it, I have less time now that I'm running a charity.

You know, those who support me, like you and others on the blogs, and those people in my life who make an effort to be there. Ya know, Like YangGang, My GodFather, My Guys Logan, Nick, and Mainman.

This site that's treated us all so poorly over the years? The bloggers who were unkind to me?

I don't wish to be positive with them.

I'm funny that way.


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/5/2019 9:10 am

    Quoting secret_lade:
    I have 3 kids.... Motherhood didn't come easy to me, I wasn't one of those people lived and died to be a mom. I love them SO much, and you know what? It eventually does come to you, you may not be like all the other parents who attend every event, every pto shit show, every game, but you are where you need to be when it counts. You're their #1.
Sounds like you had a plan and a great set of priorities. Good for you! 👍
You're right... it's about being THERE for them when they are need you. 😊
So.. ya think there's a book there? 🤔


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/5/2019 9:12 am

    Quoting EnigmaInitiative:
    I now save my positivity for those who deserve it, I have less time now that I'm running a charity.

    You know, those who support me, like you and others on the blogs, and those people in my life who make an effort to be there. Ya know, Like YangGang, My GodFather, My Guys Logan, Nick, and Mainman.

    This site that's treated us all so poorly over the years? The bloggers who were unkind to me?

    I don't wish to be positive with them.

    I'm funny that way.
hmm... I understand.
I'm glad to hear that I'm on your 'good' list. 👍📃Have a great and safe and happy day. 🙏


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/5/2019 9:16 am

    Quoting  :

I'm sure there's a story or two there.
Should I ask? Or just a great day and move along? 🤔
I think I understand what you mean. But since I haven't walked a mile in your shoes, I guess I really don't. 😊 But they're on their own now so you can breathe. 😊


superbjversion2 66F
24122 posts
11/5/2019 9:23 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Nice profile pic. Really nice. 👍😊
    You? Doubting yourself? Nah.. I don't believe THAT.
    But heck... I know what you mean. A split second of doubt... sure.
    Pretty good... is pretty good! 😊 Good for you. Ya did good! 😊

    It was the ultimate sacrifice...?
Why do I call motherhood the ultimate sacrifice of love? Kids are more of a ball and chain than a spouse. Your life is no longer your own - at least for the first 20 years or so. Heck, in the beginning, not even your body is your own. Even your name changes! I took the responsibility of parenting very seriously. It's only now - with my child a fully fledged adult - that I'm finding the joy.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Paulxx001 replies on 11/5/2019 10:03 am:
I understand what you mean. It's true to a large extent. I find myself looking at my watch ⌚ some days... reminded that - we'd be doing THIS thing at THAT time. I pause for a moment. 😊
It's weird, but yeah. I get what you're saying.

scoupe42 58M  
13019 posts
11/6/2019 2:15 am

Kids are nice. I have a 36 years daughter and two grand children. You tell some interesting stories!


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/6/2019 9:54 am

    Quoting scoupe42:
    Kids are nice. I have a 36 years daughter and two grand children. You tell some interesting stories!
Wow! A grandfather! Good for you.
I guess you get to spoil them! lol 😂 👍


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/6/2019 10:01 am

    Quoting  :

Ahhh... peas! 👍 lol 😂 I recall my brother and I doing the same thing and mom banging us on the hands with a spoon. We had to find every last one of those green guys.
You'd be a GREAT mom! You have to be a kid at heart to succeed in raising children. At least that's what I think.
So... when are you gonna get it done. 😊 lol 😂 😮 👍


SeaGirlFL 57F
9220 posts
11/8/2019 6:32 pm

Oh, it's definitely the case that some people should not have kids...then there are those who'd make great parents, and want to be parents, and don't get the chance...

I have a lot of respect for the people who know they don't want to raise kids and choose not to.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
11/8/2019 9:13 pm

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    Oh, it's definitely the case that some people should not have kids...then there are those who'd make great parents, and want to be parents, and don't get the chance...

    I have a lot of respect for the people who know they don't want to raise kids and choose not to.
Then again... if those who can't, figure it out and decide NOT to have kids - that's a good thing, no? 🤔
I mean, the alternative is those who think they can - and make a mess of it.
But... I see your point.


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