Love The One You Are With... Or... Is There Something Else... πŸ€”  

Paulxx001 64M  
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9/5/2019 12:16 pm

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Love The One You Are With... Or... Is There Something Else... πŸ€”

All hospitals, have that smell . It nudges your nose and leans on your stomach. It's as if, a thousand butterflies, have punched you in the gut. You know what I mean?

Many... many... years ago, I visited her. It was morning. The September sun was shining - slashing brilliant lines - through the slits, in the blinds. They'd moved her, to the Terminal Ward. I was early. I must have surprised her, as I walked into the tiny, stuffy room. Her eyes were closed. She'd painted her lips - ruby red - for me. Her skin was ashen grey and she clutched a bible... quietly praying. She stopped, when she heard me. She slowly, opened her eyes and looked at me.

"I'm sorry. I'll come back in a few minutes," I mumbled.

"No. Don't leave! Stay. I was praying for you. I was praying for you, Paul. I was praying... that YOU find someone.... after I'm gone. I was praying for you ... my love !" Tears streamed down, from her tired eyes.

I clasped her hands, as my eyes filled. I could barely see her face. But I felt her love and the intimacy, of her prayer. I didn't have the heart, to tell her - it would never ... come to pass.

Thirty seconds, thirty days... thirty years. The question, isn't how we die... it's how we live. It's how we're loved... and how we love.


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Paulxx001 64M  
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9/5/2019 12:17 pm

Have a great and safe and happy day. Love the one you're with, or go find someone ! They're looking for you! 😊

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Paulxx001 64M  
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9/5/2019 12:17 pm

Or.... hey... cheap, frivolous, meaningless sex... is fine as well. 😊
Is there something in between? πŸ€”

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author51 59F  
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9/5/2019 12:27 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Have a great and safe and happy day. Love the one you're with, or go find someone ! They're looking for you! 😊
Today must be the day for thinking about our loved ones who are no longer with us..That was so moving and brought a tear to my eye my coffee mate....Thank you....xoxo

You can never have enough JOY in your life.xoxo

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sexyldy1000 61F  
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9/5/2019 12:35 pm

Love, life and happiness can be snatched away from us in the blink of an eye. It’s one of the reasons, I live by the credo: Make the best of each day, as you don’t know, if there will be a tomorrow.


HermanG67 54M
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9/5/2019 12:36 pm

True Love lives inside us always


Tmptrzz 59F  
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9/5/2019 12:38 pm

That is so beautiful Paul and it's so true love isn't about how we live, it's truly about how much time we get to spend with the one that we truly love and how that time is spent together..I hope your day continues to be a good one..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


smartasswoman 64F  
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9/5/2019 12:50 pm

It's a good message for sure. I do think there's a middle ground between deep enduring love and cheap meaningless sex. I had a FWB for four years (he has since become serious with a lady who's local to him - I'm happy for him). We were good friends who happened to have sex now and then. I do love him as a very good friend but would say we were never "in love".


superbjversion2 66F
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9/5/2019 1:10 pm

The comment pathway from thinking brain to typing fingertips is momentarily clogged.

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pocogato12 69F  
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9/5/2019 1:36 pm

This made me teary but I cant find it right now to comment properly{=}

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Paulxx001 64M  
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9/5/2019 2:31 pm

    Quoting author51:
    Today must be the day for thinking about our loved ones who are no longer with us..That was so moving and brought a tear to my eye my coffee mate....Thank you....xoxo
Funny how both our blogs today... took a look at similar themes... huh? πŸ€”

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Paulxx001 64M  
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9/5/2019 2:32 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Love, life and happiness can be snatched away from us in the blink of an eye. It’s one of the reasons, I live by the credo: Make the best of each day, as you don’t know, if there will be a tomorrow.
That's a good philosophy to follow.
I have a tenancy to stray... You must be strong willed... πŸ€”

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Paulxx001 64M  
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9/5/2019 2:33 pm

    Quoting HermanG67:
    True Love lives inside us always
That's true...
Mine seems to be covered up by some debris... Ya gotta clean house... once in a while, right? πŸ‘

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Paulxx001 64M  
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9/5/2019 2:35 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    That is so beautiful Paul and it's so true love isn't about how we live, it's truly about how much time we get to spend with the one that we truly love and how that time is spent together..I hope your day continues to be a good one..
Time is a precious commodity, isn't it? πŸ€”
I've gotta learn how to spend mine... more wisely...
I've got that quality thing down though. Kids who grow up, will do that to you, right? 😊

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Paulxx001 64M  
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9/5/2019 2:37 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    It's a good message for sure. I do think there's a middle ground between deep enduring love and cheap meaningless sex. I had a FWB for four years (he has since become serious with a lady who's local to him - I'm happy for him). We were good friends who happened to have sex now and then. I do love him as a very good friend but would say we were never "in love".
Sounds like you had a great thing going for you. I've had friends like that...
These days... perhaps, not as many.
I don't seem to be looking under the right rocks... You? πŸ€”

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Paulxx001 64M  
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9/5/2019 2:39 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    The comment pathway from thinking brain to typing fingertips is momentarily clogged.
Yep... I understand.
I thought a couple of times before I pressed enter, on this one.
It's just the way I felt today. Tomorrow... I'll be much more shallow... and happier.
I'm sure we both will, right? πŸ‘

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Paulxx001 64M  
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9/5/2019 2:41 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    This made me teary but I cant find it right now to comment properly{=}
I know.... Me too. And I wrote the damn thing...
I'll be funnier, next time. Sorry for the push sideways... Ever get in a mood ya just can't shake?

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smartasswoman 64F  
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9/5/2019 3:02 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Sounds like you had a great thing going for you. I've had friends like that...
    These days... perhaps, not as many.
    I don't seem to be looking under the right rocks... You? πŸ€”
I suppose my issue is more like I’m not looking at all! Online dating has been a bust lately and I don’t really see any options amongst my many kink community friends...aside from flirting with my dominatrix friend who already has several relationships in her life.


Livin_my_Life14 51F

9/5/2019 3:14 pm

I know this very well. I had to fight for 5 years and now It's just a yearly blessing when I get a clean bill of health. No one knows how emotional it is to have to think about death. Physically, my body has been beaten. Mentally, I play a strong game....sometimes I just need to be hugged. Mental fog has never gone away. Somethings...I just don't remember. Drama and stress is something I try and stay away from. It wrecks havoc on my body when I feel stress. I just go with the flow. It is amazing how much I have changed as a person.

Life truly flies by......I try and smell the roses and enjoy their beauty!


Paulxx001 64M  
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9/5/2019 4:57 pm

    Quoting  :

Sorry that my words, had that effect... although, when I wrote it, I thought twice.
I tend to stick my personality out there... a bit. I don't have the patience for bs... Yet, I've been known to use adjectives and synonyms... for a simple thought.
I hope I brought you back, to a few good seconds. I understand what you mean. I do!
I'll be much funnier and whacked out, next time. Promise! πŸ‘ 😊
Thanks for sharing..... sorry for your loss .... 😢

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Paulxx001 64M  
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9/5/2019 5:04 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    I suppose my issue is more like I’m not looking at all! Online dating has been a bust lately and I don’t really see any options amongst my many kink community friends...aside from flirting with my dominatrix friend who already has several relationships in her life.
Yep.... You and your friends. You know, I'm intrigued. No point in speculating. I would just sprain... another ligament in my brain.
Well... I bought some fresh leeks today. Cream of leek soup will be on the menu.
I know many Slovenians.. Close to Ukrainians in culture and vibe. I'm surprised that I didn't hear about your vodka parties with them.. lol πŸ˜‚

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Paulxx001 64M  
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9/5/2019 5:08 pm

    Quoting  :

Sorry guys..
I'll be way.. less serious... next time.
Ever been in a mood, ya just can't shake?
The best way to dump it, is to confront it! πŸ‘
Cheers... 🍻🍺πŸ₯‚πŸ·

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Paulxx001 64M  
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9/5/2019 5:12 pm

    Quoting Livin_my_Life14:
    I know this very well. I had to fight for 5 years and now It's just a yearly blessing when I get a clean bill of health. No one knows how emotional it is to have to think about death. Physically, my body has been beaten. Mentally, I play a strong game....sometimes I just need to be hugged. Mental fog has never gone away. Somethings...I just don't remember. Drama and stress is something I try and stay away from. It wrecks havoc on my body when I feel stress. I just go with the flow. It is amazing how much I have changed as a person.

    Life truly flies by......I try and smell the roses and enjoy their beauty!
Those... are a great set of guidelines to live by. Yep... more people should follow that path.
I know many people who are survivors... so I know - almost), exactly.. how you feel! πŸ‘
Yep.. life is short... But it's gonna last at least another day... right?
I'll be funnier.... next time!
Thanks for sharing! 😊

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Paulxx001 64M  
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9/5/2019 5:20 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks for the props.
I don't think I'm really reminding anyone about anything. I'm sorta... just reminding myself and... hoping... someone else, gets my point of view.
Life is short, but this snippet was a call to quality, over quantity.
Everyone, has hope... knowing its not about how much time you have, but rather.... How much you can still do, with the time you have. Thanks for sharing.
I'll be funnier, next time. πŸ‘

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Paulxx001 64M  
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9/6/2019 5:27 am

    Quoting  :

Yeah... enough of THAT... lol πŸ˜‚
I'll be less heavy, next time. πŸ‘
Happy Friday!

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scoupe42 58M  
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9/6/2019 7:17 am

Dude, you have a talent of telling a story! Good blog.


scoupe42 58M  
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9/6/2019 7:22 am

To love and lost, it better that not to had love at all! There someone for everyone.


Paulxx001 64M  
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9/6/2019 9:56 am

    Quoting scoupe42:
    Dude, you have a talent of telling a story! Good blog.
Thanks. Much appreciated! πŸ‘

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Paulxx001 64M  
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9/6/2019 9:57 am

    Quoting scoupe42:
    To love and lost, it better that not to had love at all! There someone for everyone.
True! I like that one. That's a great one to live by! πŸ‘

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sweet_VM 63F
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9/6/2019 8:24 pm

Beautiful. Love is always with you. hugs V

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Paulxx001 64M  
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9/7/2019 7:23 am

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Beautiful. Love is always with you. hugs V
I hope you're right. Sometimes ya gotta dig around for it a bit, no? πŸ€”
Thanks for popping in.

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Paulxx001 64M  
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9/7/2019 8:11 am

Thanks for stopping by. Drop in any time. πŸ‘

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BeccaLuvs 59F
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9/7/2019 2:09 pm

Yes Paul, "better to have loved, been loved and lost, then not at all"!

..... And always 'hold onto all those sexy thoughts'!
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SeaGirlFL 57F
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9/7/2019 6:38 pm

I think perhaps you needed a hug. I'm sorry I'm late to see this.

Hope you are doing well.

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Paulxx001 64M  
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9/7/2019 7:44 pm

    Quoting BeccaLuvs:
    Yes Paul, "better to have loved, been loved and lost, then not at all"!
True... yep...!
I hope you have...! πŸ‘
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Paulxx001 64M  
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9/7/2019 9:33 pm

    Quoting  :

Hmmm.. wouldn't we all... 😊?

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Paulxx001 64M  
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9/7/2019 9:38 pm

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    I think perhaps you needed a hug. I'm sorry I'm late to see this.

    Hope you are doing well.
Of course... I'd love a hug.... at any time..
But this event happened many... many years ago... I've recovered.
I'm sure you have your special memories to share?
Thanks for the hug. 😊
Much appreciated... 😘

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Heathen_G 63M
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9/9/2019 7:44 pm

ha.. Older women [family or close friend]!! Seems they are always trying to match us up with someone.

[the question really is] how we live...... How each of us lives their life ... that's all that is important. Did you do most of the stuff you always wanted to do? That's the important question.

It's how we're loved... and how we love. .... No...No...No... . this isn't as important. A persons life, by definition is "Selfish". That's a good thing.... Ones life is about that one person.

Now if you choose to love, or be loved, that's fine, but absolutely not critical when you're checking out.

Usually the condition of experiencing "Love", holds a person back from their personal life time goals. Wastes their life time. Uses up their life time.

Ya, don't get all emotionally wrapped around the love-nonsense. Go out and accomplish all your goals to the best of your ability.


Heathen_G 63M
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9/9/2019 7:45 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Or.... hey... cheap, frivolous, meaningless sex... is fine as well. 😊
    Is there something in between? πŸ€”
In between? .... Sure, hopefully your personal lifetime goals.


Paulxx001 64M  
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9/9/2019 8:33 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    ha.. Older women [family or close friend]!! Seems they are always trying to match us up with someone.

    [the question really is] how we live...... How each of us lives their life ... that's all that is important. Did you do most of the stuff you always wanted to do? That's the important question.

    It's how we're loved... and how we love. .... No...No...No... . this isn't as important. A persons life, by definition is "Selfish". That's a good thing.... Ones life is about that one person.

    Now if you choose to love, or be loved, that's fine, but absolutely not critical when you're checking out.

    Usually the condition of experiencing "Love", holds a person back from their personal life time goals. Wastes their life time. Uses up their life time.

    Ya, don't get all emotionally wrapped around the love-nonsense. Go out and accomplish all your goals to the best of your ability.
Nah... so many lonely people with medals on the wall and no one to share it with.
I'll take a passenger in the front seat with me, if I have a choice. 😊
Someone complaining about how fast I'm driving won't stop me from getting where I have to go. And when we get there... I'm getting the queen sized bed.I'm sure she'd forgive me.

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Paulxx001 64M  
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9/9/2019 8:35 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    In between? .... Sure, hopefully your personal lifetime goals.
... lifetime goals and cheap frivolous sex.... mixed in with deep meaningful sex... Now that's a plan.

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