Is It Love... Or Does She Just... Reeeelee Like You... ðŸĪ”  

Paulxx001 64M  
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10/7/2019 12:18 pm

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Is It Love... Or Does She Just... Reeeelee Like You... ðŸĪ”

He liked her.

Although he'd only known her for a few hours - he knew - he could learn to 'like' her... even more . The DJ played another tune. He held her tightly in his arms... enjoying the warmth of her breasts and softness of her skin, as he held his cheek against hers. She draped her arms tightly around his neck ; admiring the strength in his arms and the firmness, of his shoulders.

They'd been slow dancing, u.nder the glow, of dark shadows and in the path of music... that was too loud, for any conversation. They both, became familiar with each other's curves and bumps. Wet tongues explored open mouths. Eyes closed, as they would... when you inhale someone's essence, for the first time. Their mutual exploration reached a zenith, just as the last ballad played and the final notes... faded into the walls. On cue... large overhead lights, flooded the club with unholy brilliance.

They both stood... momentarily blinded.

He hoped he was good looking enough , for her - in that magnesium glare. He braced himself as she squinted at him and paused. Then... peering into his eyes, she gently stroked his jaw, with the tips of her fingers, ran her hand through his thick, black hair... and spoke...

"Ya know... once my eyes adjust to this fricken light... and a few more drinks... I'd be happy... to sit on your f.ace ," she blurted o.ut, laughing.

Leaning forward on her toes, she kissed him, with giddy enthusiasm. He kissed her back ; grateful that he'd found her. In that moment... he knew - he liked her a lot ! "It might even be LOVE ."

His thought was interrupted, as he choked on her tongue... when she grabbed his balls.


.........................................
'Like', 'Lust', 'Love' - are they all clearly defined, with different conclusions ; Or can they all wind up in the bedroom anyway ? ðŸĪ”
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Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
10/7/2019 12:18 pm

I think lines could get blurred, with alcohol and other outside influences.
You might be asking yourself; When was the last time I had sex? Or had someone touch me ? Or had someone pay attention to me ?

Those thoughts, might sway someone. And then.... THOSE lines get blurred. But in the end... they can all lead to the bedroom. ðŸĪ”

Men are probably more shallow than women. Just guessing here. 😊


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
10/7/2019 12:19 pm

Today is National Inner Beauty Day. So... even if you're not the most attractive person on the outside... you have hope! Go for it! 👍


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
10/7/2019 12:19 pm

Getting blasted by the brilliant lights in a night club, in the middle of the early morning hours... is NOT something that I miss. 😊


Maxbillion87 34M
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10/7/2019 12:40 pm

I'm not shallow I just want to find someone who wants to fuck me like I want to fuck them


Tmptrzz 59F  
106083 posts
10/7/2019 12:41 pm

Interesting read, I hope his balls are alright, and you know lust, like or love, they are so much alike and yet not alike at the same time. Lust is something that's usually a one time thing. Like can always turn into love, and who knows maybe it will. I hope you enjoy the rest of your evening..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Aguercola 25M/25F

10/7/2019 12:46 pm

Nice!


author51 59F  
128877 posts
10/7/2019 12:52 pm

One without the other my coffee mate, in my opinion makes for meaningless sex.. When combined together, it makes for a wicked combination..that leads to endless possibilities.......Beautiful read Hun.....xo

You can never have enough JOY in your life..xoxo

TEASE YOU TUESDAY SEXUAL SIREN


Naughtypursuit 54F  
2761 posts
10/7/2019 12:57 pm

Her warm breasts, was she naked? Do breasts generate heat? Oh, maybe she was wearing those hot paws breast covers.

I would hope that lines are clearer as we get older. Then again you see lots of people even on here. a supposed sex site that get caught up in the honeymoon phase professing their love for someone miles and miles away that they may or may not have met a couple of times.

Winter is coming, invest in some breast warmers Paul...


EnigmaInitiative 53F
5705 posts
10/7/2019 1:01 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I think lines could get blurred, with alcohol and other outside influences.
    You might be asking yourself; When was the last time I had sex? Or had someone touch me ? Or had someone pay attention to me ?

    Those thoughts, might sway someone. And then.... THOSE lines get blurred. But in the end... they can all lead to the bedroom. ðŸĪ”

    Men are probably more shallow than women. Just guessing here. 😊
Lines can get blurred with alcohol in my opinion. That's the real killer, it ain't "Marijuana Madness", that's for sure. Just sayin. Winks.

I'm paying attention right now.

Head Nod

Wasssssssup

How's You?

How You Doin?

Head Nod.

I'd get into your pants

Eventually.

Winky winky.

Did I tell you the Story of Winky winky?

So, do you remember Bewitched? Samantha who wiggled her nose?

I wiggle my ass and type Winky winky.

It's a comingling of BDSM typing from the Early Forum Days of the Internet

My Belief In Magic

You know...

My Magic is Love



And, since I'm sWitch?

Non Binary Person?

Who Feels Her FATHER, the man who raised her, May Not be HER Father?

Because Her Parents were Swingers?

Ayup

TruthBomb

Galore

Booooooooooooom

Goes the Kryptonite by Three Doors Down


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
10/7/2019 1:06 pm

    Quoting Maxbillion87:
    I'm not shallow I just want to find someone who wants to fuck me like I want to fuck them
Good point. Really good point.
Best of luck with your search! Drop by any time. 👍


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
10/7/2019 1:08 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Interesting read, I hope his balls are alright, and you know lust, like or love, they are so much alike and yet not alike at the same time. Lust is something that's usually a one time thing. Like can always turn into love, and who knows maybe it will. I hope you enjoy the rest of your evening..
Like... sometimes leads to sex. Lust usually does and love should... yet, in some cases... people in love get comfortable and bored and sex disappears... no? ðŸĪ”
But it is an interesting thought.


Paulxx001 64M  
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10/7/2019 1:09 pm

Thanks. Drop in any time! 👍 😊


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
10/7/2019 1:11 pm

    Quoting author51:
    One without the other my coffee mate, in my opinion makes for meaningless sex.. When combined together, it makes for a wicked combination..that leads to endless possibilities.......Beautiful read Hun.....xo
True... if you can squeeze love in there.. you're flying at full power.
Although... I have had GREAT sex with some someone I've liked. Haven't you?


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
10/7/2019 1:14 pm

    Quoting  :

I presume he did. I imagine some women like to play rough. Is your style a gentler one? ðŸĪ”
Do you need passion to fuel â›― the night, or is a friendly companionship sufficient to heat things up?
or.. perhaps.. that Q is too personal. Sorry if it is.


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
10/7/2019 1:19 pm

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    Her warm breasts, was she naked? Do breasts generate heat? Oh, maybe she was wearing those hot paws breast covers.

    I would hope that lines are clearer as we get older. Then again you see lots of people even on here. a supposed sex site that get caught up in the honeymoon phase professing their love for someone miles and miles away that they may or may not have met a couple of times.

    Winter is coming, invest in some breast warmers Paul...
"Do breasts generate heat?" - Oh yeah! Big time! Especially when you're pressed up against them... dancing. And these days (unless you're wearing a wool sweater), guys can definitely FEEL the heat ðŸ”Ĩ ðŸ”ĨðŸ”Ĩ
It's a turn on for sure.
True about that honeymoon phase you speak of. I guess people learn, dont they?
Can't you feel a guy's heat from between his legs when you slow dance or up really close ? ðŸĪ” ðŸ”Ĩ


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
10/7/2019 1:23 pm

    Quoting EnigmaInitiative:
    Lines can get blurred with alcohol in my opinion. That's the real killer, it ain't "Marijuana Madness", that's for sure. Just sayin. Winks.

    I'm paying attention right now.

    Head Nod

    Wasssssssup

    How's You?

    How You Doin?

    Head Nod.

    I'd get into your pants

    Eventually.

    Winky winky.

    Did I tell you the Story of Winky winky?

    So, do you remember Bewitched? Samantha who wiggled her nose?

    I wiggle my ass and type Winky winky.

    It's a comingling of BDSM typing from the Early Forum Days of the Internet

    My Belief In Magic

    You know...

    My Magic is Love



    And, since I'm sWitch?

    Non Binary Person?

    Who Feels Her FATHER, the man who raised her, May Not be HER Father?

    Because Her Parents were Swingers?

    Ayup

    TruthBomb

    Galore

    Booooooooooooom

    Goes the Kryptonite by Three Doors Down
Alcohol or "Marijuana Madness"? ðŸĪ” I'll take the latter... lol 😂 ðŸ˜Ū
On that other point... ya think so? hmmm... Ya can always use your imagination. I have motivational videos... lol 😂
Hey Happy trails. Heard you're on the road. Have fun.


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
10/7/2019 1:38 pm

    Quoting mamacita38dd:
    I completely agree with Tmptrzz! Thanks for keeping things interesting around Paulxx001
Ya do? Hmmm.. So do I. Let's celebrate... I have stir fry chicken 🐔 ready to go! 👍
So... did you change your profile pic again? Nice! ðŸ”Ĩ
Thanks for popping in and always happy to oblige with a twisted point of view! 👍


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
10/7/2019 1:42 pm

    Quoting  :

A knee? omg... LMAO... 😂
OK... in my case, all you'd need to do is 'slow grind' it in there. Nice and easy... lol 😂
Sideways... hmmm ðŸĪŠ?
Like that? ðŸ˜ķ


Heathen_G 63M
7963 posts
10/7/2019 1:42 pm

Mostly always every weekend , at least those who still do, people leave their personal domain, and find social gathering places. "Boxes". These places are often low lit, have blaring music [some good, some bad] , but people enter these 'boxes', with hope of forgetting , or with hopes of getting some sex. Yes, even women do this, too. But sometimes the "Box" needs to add a better incentive to get more women to come in and sniff around as she consumes , sometimes , free drinks, either from the club, or from sucker who wants to buy her drinks.

Also there are those "Boxes" that are better lit, and the music is low enough , such that you can hear someone talking to you. Often, in these 'Boxes' people are better dressed, smell much better, and usually more sedentary. But , here, too, there senses may be dulled by alcohol consumption, and if a woman looks very sexually appealing, she gets more free drinks from suckers who buy them for her.

Common point between the two boxes? [males] Score some poon. [females] See how many free drinks she can get, and get out and away without surrendering her vagina.
Or..[female].. See if she can find some good dick.

'Like', 'Lust', 'Love' - are they all clearly defined, ... Within the recipe of your story, that was entirely all lust. In about 6 to 8 hours , if they both occupy a bed somewhere, their gut full of alcohol will have drained off, and their perceptions dimmed by mild alcohol poisoning will have cleared.

The "Lust" is usually temporary, gone by 7AM. Will they like each other? Probably not because they don't know anything about each other, other than being tipsy-to-drunk in a very loud 'box' and ended up in bed.

LOL.. will they love each other... oh fuck no!! That takes about 3 to 4 years to know for sure.

Or can they all wind up in the bedroom anyway ? .... This part of the question seems not to be about your scenario in your story.

To end up in a bed, naked between sheets , and "Enjoying" sex, the feeling of "Like" will not get you into bed with someone. In fact, "Love" will not assure you of getting sex with someone either.

The star suspect and star ingredient for sex to happen, is "Lust", at least some level of lust. "Mutual", of course is the greatly preferred way.


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
10/7/2019 1:54 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Mostly always every weekend , at least those who still do, people leave their personal domain, and find social gathering places. "Boxes". These places are often low lit, have blaring music [some good, some bad] , but people enter these 'boxes', with hope of forgetting , or with hopes of getting some sex. Yes, even women do this, too. But sometimes the "Box" needs to add a better incentive to get more women to come in and sniff around as she consumes , sometimes , free drinks, either from the club, or from sucker who wants to buy her drinks.

    Also there are those "Boxes" that are better lit, and the music is low enough , such that you can hear someone talking to you. Often, in these 'Boxes' people are better dressed, smell much better, and usually more sedentary. But , here, too, there senses may be dulled by alcohol consumption, and if a woman looks very sexually appealing, she gets more free drinks from suckers who buy them for her.

    Common point between the two boxes? [males] Score some poon. [females] See how many free drinks she can get, and get out and away without surrendering her vagina.
    Or..[female].. See if she can find some good dick.

    'Like', 'Lust', 'Love' - are they all clearly defined, ... Within the recipe of your story, that was entirely all lust. In about 6 to 8 hours , if they both occupy a bed somewhere, their gut full of alcohol will have drained off, and their perceptions dimmed by mild alcohol poisoning will have cleared.

    The "Lust" is usually temporary, gone by 7AM. Will they like each other? Probably not because they don't know anything about each other, other than being tipsy-to-drunk in a very loud 'box' and ended up in bed.

    LOL.. will they love each other... oh fuck no!! That takes about 3 to 4 years to know for sure.

    Or can they all wind up in the bedroom anyway ? .... This part of the question seems not to be about your scenario in your story.

    To end up in a bed, naked between sheets , and "Enjoying" sex, the feeling of "Like" will not get you into bed with someone. In fact, "Love" will not assure you of getting sex with someone either.

    The star suspect and star ingredient for sex to happen, is "Lust", at least some level of lust. "Mutual", of course is the greatly preferred way.
Interesting theory about 'boxes'. I like the smaller, quieter more intimate ones myself. The wild crazy ones.. just get outta control.
I think the guy's motives are ambiguous at best. He may be dazzled by the woman and think he likes her. The woman... seems to be out for a good time.
And the Q... well... I gotta fill up the space with something that'll scratch heads, no? ðŸĪ”
Yep. it's what it is, isn't it? Thanks for popping in. 👍


Heathen_G 63M
7963 posts
10/7/2019 2:04 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I think lines could get blurred, with alcohol and other outside influences.
    You might be asking yourself; When was the last time I had sex? Or had someone touch me ? Or had someone pay attention to me ?

    Those thoughts, might sway someone. And then.... THOSE lines get blurred. But in the end... they can all lead to the bedroom. ðŸĪ”

    Men are probably more shallow than women. Just guessing here. 😊
Men are probably more shallow than women. Just guessing here..... No.
Women just, more often, let men know he is shallow.
Men just don't care enough to bother telling a woman she is shallow.

But what is "Shallow" anyway? "Shallow" is only some persons weak complaint about someones standards . The offended doesn't pass the others criteria check list, so they get upset and insist that person with the stringent check list is "Shallow".

People do have general standards. To claim they are shallow because of these standards, is just being upset with oneself for not being good enough to be able to get with that person.

Or the other reason women might say someone is shallow, is because she is too lazy to make herself 'better', and just for lazy reasons takes offense to some mans standards of what he thinks is attractive to him [and what is NOT].


Paulxx001 64M  
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10/7/2019 2:08 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Men are probably more shallow than women. Just guessing here..... No.
    Women just, more often, let men know he is shallow.
    Men just don't care enough to bother telling a woman she is shallow.

    But what is "Shallow" anyway? "Shallow" is only some persons weak complaint about someones standards . The offended doesn't pass the others criteria check list, so they get upset and insist that person with the stringent check list is "Shallow".

    People do have general standards. To claim they are shallow because of these standards, is just being upset with oneself for not being good enough to be able to get with that person.

    Or the other reason women might say someone is shallow, is because she is too lazy to make herself 'better', and just for lazy reasons takes offense to some mans standards of what he thinks is attractive to him [and what is NOT].
Yep... I think you nailed that whole 'shallow' thing down pat! It's all about personal standards and being honest with yourself about them! 👍


Heathen_G 63M
7963 posts
10/7/2019 2:11 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Interesting theory about 'boxes'. I like the smaller, quieter more intimate ones myself. The wild crazy ones.. just get outta control.
    I think the guy's motives are ambiguous at best. He may be dazzled by the woman and think he likes her. The woman... seems to be out for a good time.
    And the Q... well... I gotta fill up the space with something that'll scratch heads, no? ðŸĪ”
    Yep. it's what it is, isn't it? Thanks for popping in. 👍
He may be dazzled by the woman and think he likes her. The woman... seems to be out for a good time. ...."Dazzling" men is what many women count on. A risky endeavor.
The woman, is out for a good time....but what is that to her? To see if she can get laid? To see how many suckers buy her drinks? Or: To have good time with her friends and enjoy the music, and see how many suckers will buy her , and her friends , drinks.


Paulxx001 64M  
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10/7/2019 2:11 pm

    Quoting  :

lol... ðŸ”Ĩ😂 From the look? Or you're imagining your knee... grinding into... umm... me? ðŸ˜ķ
I'll package that sideways look and save it.


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
10/7/2019 2:15 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    He may be dazzled by the woman and think he likes her. The woman... seems to be out for a good time. ...."Dazzling" men is what many women count on. A risky endeavor.
    The woman, is out for a good time....but what is that to her? To see if she can get laid? To see how many suckers buy her drinks? Or: To have good time with her friends and enjoy the music, and see how many suckers will buy her , and her friends , drinks.
I'm presuming he's got bucks, if it's a club in this city. 😊
I'll also presume that he didn't care how many drinks he bought her... as long as he gets laid.
But yeah... don't go into a club if you're poor! 👍


japaneseass 54F
50214 posts
10/7/2019 3:13 pm

ohhh...that was cute!!! you know...it's a start...and it's a good start...i just feel like, ,sometime, we are soooo serious...but them??? oh i love the way they are...


Heathen_G 63M
7963 posts
10/7/2019 3:15 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I'm presuming he's got bucks, if it's a club in this city. 😊
    I'll also presume that he didn't care how many drinks he bought her... as long as he gets laid.
    But yeah... don't go into a club if you're poor! 👍
Your presumption is often the correct one, in that case.

But for men, money is power. Men shouldn't spend wastefully his power.

How much is a drink these days? I don't know, but we'll say, it's $5 . Okay. And he offers to buy the woman a drink, which may become , say, 3 drinks.

Why did he do this? To get her guard down? To make her have more fun so she can be more entertaining and loose with him? To get her into bed/the backseat?

So really, the woman knows what she is trying to accomplish. He knows what he's trying to accomplish. And as long as the woman is getting free stuff, she doesn't care what he is trying to accomplish. Not yet anyway.

What if he just didn't buy her drinks? Instead, said, "Here's $15 , entertain me and come have sex with me. ....LOL... That might be a good pick up line, if the woman is already attracted to him somehow.

Okay, so we'll start over,
What if he merely goes up to the woman, sits down and visits with her. No buying her drinks, no offering her $15.

This way he saves his money, he finds out if the woman is really interested in him, or only what she can take from him.

More men , with money , or not... .should not spend his money on women in these social boxes. She's there for a reason, so is he...... go from there.


Paulxx001 replies on 10/7/2019 3:49 pm:
The drinks in Montreal clubs are fricken expensive in clubs - $10 at least... $7 for a beer. The whole thing with the drinks is they are - a time filler. Ya can't just go from A directly to Z. Ya gotta fill some time with banter, double entendres, teasing.. blah blah blah.
In this city... the women will pay for the men's drinks. No shit! But we all invest the time to see if there's a fit.
I won't sleep with a woman who doesn't get my sense of humour, is a vegetarian, owns 39 cats and lives with her parents... except of course.. if it's a one night stand at my place.
Yeah.. that whole drink thing is just to find out if she's a crazy psycho or a reasonable lady.
Now.. if she'd just fill out that damn questionnaire I usually give them... I'd be up for THAT! 😗

Paulxx001 replies on 10/7/2019 3:55 pm:
Hey.. I'm surprised ya had nothing to offer, on that video Conf call I had with the two Bobs from A F F, last week.
I thought it would be right up your alley, in terms of letting it all hang out, lol 😂 Take care.

Paulxx001 64M  
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10/7/2019 3:38 pm

    Quoting japaneseass:
    ohhh...that was cute!!! you know...it's a start...and it's a good start...i just feel like, ,sometime, we are soooo serious...but them??? oh i love the way they are...
Yeah.. that's so true. Just relax and have fun with it and see where it goes. No need to get serious right off the bat. Good point.
I think the younger kids are like that. At least.. that's the vibe I'm getting from my kids and their friends. Maybe I'm wrong. ðŸĪ”
Yep.. have fun! 👍 😊


Heathen_G 63M
7963 posts
10/7/2019 6:49 pm

Paulxx001 replies on 10/7/2019 3:55 pm:
Hey.. I'm surprised ya had nothing to offer, on that video Conf call I had with the two Bobs from A F F, last week.
I thought it would be right up your alley, in terms of letting it all hang out, lol 😂 Take care.


Yes, read that when you first published it. Nothing to add. Seems about right for what anyone might expect within an Heated Affairs upper echelon work office.


Paulxx001 replies on 10/7/2019 6:53 pm:
Yep... Cheers! 👍

Paulxx001 64M  
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10/7/2019 7:48 pm

    Quoting  :

They do... don't they?
If we're lucky! 🍀ðŸĪ”
Get lucky! 👍


author51 59F  
128877 posts
10/8/2019 12:24 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    True... if you can squeeze love in there.. you're flying at full power.
    Although... I have had GREAT sex with some someone I've liked. Haven't you?
I would not have sex with someone I did not like my coffee mate..but all of my lovers in my past started off as friends first well before there was any sex..

You can never have enough JOY in your life..xoxo

TEASE YOU TUESDAY SEXUAL SIREN


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
10/8/2019 4:47 am

    Quoting author51:
    I would not have sex with someone I did not like my coffee mate..but all of my lovers in my past started off as friends first well before there was any sex..
True.... 😊 👍


TicklePlease 54F  
13813 posts
10/8/2019 5:14 am

"hot paws breast covers"

Where on earth can I get me some of those?

I think there's room for all three in the bedroom.... The best times are when all three are there at once!


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
10/8/2019 5:53 am

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    "hot paws breast covers"

    Where on earth can I get me some of those?

    I think there's room for all three in the bedroom.... The best times are when all three are there at once!
Oooo... I like that one! True! 👍
All three is a rarity though... isn't it? ðŸĪ”
It's special when they all meet! ðŸ”ĨðŸ’Ķ


sexyldy1000 61F  
9549 posts
10/8/2019 11:34 am

At minimum, I have to 'like' and be attracted to someone on multiple levels before the clothes come off.
People can be swayed by dimmed lights, alcohol, a body pressed up against them and loneliness to let the lines be blurred between 'Like', 'Lust' and 'Love' and wake up the next day with regrets. I choose not to be one of them.


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
10/8/2019 2:44 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    At minimum, I have to 'like' and be attracted to someone on multiple levels before the clothes come off.
    People can be swayed by dimmed lights, alcohol, a body pressed up against them and loneliness to let the lines be blurred between 'Like', 'Lust' and 'Love' and wake up the next day with regrets. I choose not to be one of them.
Ahhh... regrets... yes. Well 'like' is good, at the very least. 😊 👍
I'd be fine with that.
People have regrets? ðŸĪ”


Heathen_G 63M
7963 posts
10/8/2019 3:43 pm

LOL... Oh soooo not true.

"Friends"? As in platonic? No way.

Every woman's lover [sexer] either got her goodies in the very few hours, or later . And "Later" only because she was either shy, or had her doubts about him and herself.
But either way, she had a sexual attraction for the man from the instant she met, to about the first 10 to 15 minutes.

Sex does not spring from platonic. You are friendzoned because there is no sexual attraction. She doesn't want to see the guy naked, but will take his attention.


Paulxx001 replies on 10/8/2019 4:58 pm:
Nope... disagree.
I've met women who) at my first glance) were not specially attractive to me. Initial impression - 'This is gonna be platonic. THEN... they opened their mouths and tripped me out with their wicked sense of humour and wit.
Ooops... I changer my mind and all of a sudden... the little guy was seriously interested.
It's a transition... and there's no formula. Generalities are fine for arguments sake. But... not a reflection of MY reality.. at least. I'm positive that I'm not the only one.

Heathen_G 63M
7963 posts
10/8/2019 3:50 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Ahhh... regrets... yes. Well 'like' is good, at the very least. 😊 👍
    I'd be fine with that.
    People have regrets? ðŸĪ”
"Regrets" are born more from what /who we did not do, than from what/WHO we did do.

Also really hot sex can be had with those we despise, or just don't like.

This is why women always say her ex was an asshole. ..ha.. she bent over for him, and she thought it was hot.


Paulxx001 replies on 10/8/2019 4:51 pm:
Sex with someone we despise? Nah... Maybe in YOUR world. Do they owe them a favor?
Sex with someone we dislike... hmm
How drunk or desparate am I? ðŸĪ”

Heathen_G 63M
7963 posts
10/8/2019 7:15 pm

Paulxx001 replies on 10/8/2019 4:58 pm:
Nope... disagree.
I've met women who) at my first glance) were not specially attractive to me. Initial impression - 'This is gonna be platonic. THEN... they opened their mouths and tripped me out with their wicked sense of humour and wit.
Ooops... I changer my mind and all of a sudden... the little guy was seriously interested.
It's a transition... and there's no formula. Generalities are fine for arguments sake. But... not a reflection of MY reality.. at least. I'm positive that I'm not the only one.


I've met women who) at my first glance) were not specially attractive to me..... Yes, from your perspective, but I'm speaking from the perspective when women friendzone the male. Nothing sexual is ever going to happen after she does that.

We males are are totally different.

Initial impression - 'This is gonna be platonic. THEN... they opened their mouths and tripped me out with their wicked sense of humour and wit...... Well they opened their mouths, probably to offer you a blowjob. You're a male, you won't say no to a woman you've let into your circle, usually [not always typically] when you're not currently seeing anyone.

A woman's humor and wit doesn't make her someone you want to simulate procreation with.

But... not a reflection of MY reality.. at least. I'm positive that I'm not the only one.... The mind is very difficult to understand sometimes, but when it comes to attraction and sex, humor and wit is a secondary notice [if that], and really doesn't affect whether she gets a rise out of you. Something more primal and visceral was there, about her, you noticed first...... otherwise you wouldn't have reacted sexually when she said some words. Maybe it was the sound of her tone.


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
10/8/2019 7:27 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Paulxx001 replies on 10/8/2019 4:58 pm:
    Nope... disagree.
    I've met women who) at my first glance) were not specially attractive to me. Initial impression - 'This is gonna be platonic. THEN... they opened their mouths and tripped me out with their wicked sense of humour and wit.
    Ooops... I changer my mind and all of a sudden... the little guy was seriously interested.
    It's a transition... and there's no formula. Generalities are fine for arguments sake. But... not a reflection of MY reality.. at least. I'm positive that I'm not the only one.


    I've met women who) at my first glance) were not specially attractive to me..... Yes, from your perspective, but I'm speaking from the perspective when women friendzone the male. Nothing sexual is ever going to happen after she does that.

    We males are are totally different.

    Initial impression - 'This is gonna be platonic. THEN... they opened their mouths and tripped me out with their wicked sense of humour and wit...... Well they opened their mouths, probably to offer you a blowjob. You're a male, you won't say no to a woman you've let into your circle, usually [not always typically] when you're not currently seeing anyone.

    A woman's humor and wit doesn't make her someone you want to simulate procreation with.

    But... not a reflection of MY reality.. at least. I'm positive that I'm not the only one.... The mind is very difficult to understand sometimes, but when it comes to attraction and sex, humor and wit is a secondary notice [if that], and really doesn't affect whether she gets a rise out of you. Something more primal and visceral was there, about her, you noticed first...... otherwise you wouldn't have reacted sexually when she said some words. Maybe it was the sound of her tone.
Actually... you're expressing YOUR point of view. Which is ok.
But...
"A woman's humor and wit doesn't make her someone you want to simulate procreation with."

In YOUR opinion. It doesn't make YOU.. want to be with her.
In my world .. it trips me out.
Brain waves are fucking sexy! There's more to having sex than just purely physical attraction.
Otherwise... how long will THAT last? Until you get ugly and she gets fat?
Hmmm. maybe you're right. But in the interim... I'd fuck her mind.. for a while. Better than no sex at all.. and somewhat stimulating.
Try it?
Or at our age.. is it too late? ðŸĪ”


Heathen_G 63M
7963 posts
10/8/2019 7:29 pm

Paulxx001 replies on 10/8/2019 4:51 pm:
Sex with someone we despise? Nah... Maybe in YOUR world. Do they owe them a favor?
Sex with someone we dislike... hmm
How drunk or desparate am I?


Sex with someone we despise?.... Again, not from a male point of view. From the woman's. Women continuously have sex with men she despises, time and time again.

But men do have sex with some very bitchy women, whom he wouldn't normally be with. But she's hot, and she's made herself available to fuck. So you dive in.

Sex with someone we dislike... hmm How drunk or desparate am I? ....You don't have to be drunk or desperate. Just horny. But men , like us, in our 60's , for a bitch of a woman to get you horny , she'd have to be one hot tomato .

But as I said... "You don't have to be drunk or desperate"..... but since you asked... you don't have to be all that drunk , nor all that desperate....the right looking woman , bitchy attitude and all, could get you into bed. This is more true when men are in their teens, twenties and thirties... so I don't discount the women we despise.


Heathen_G 63M
7963 posts
10/8/2019 7:56 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Actually... you're expressing YOUR point of view. Which is ok.
    But...
    "A woman's humor and wit doesn't make her someone you want to simulate procreation with."

    In YOUR opinion. It doesn't make YOU.. want to be with her.
    In my world .. it trips me out.
    Brain waves are fucking sexy! There's more to having sex than just purely physical attraction.
    Otherwise... how long will THAT last? Until you get ugly and she gets fat?
    Hmmm. maybe you're right. But in the interim... I'd fuck her mind.. for a while. Better than no sex at all.. and somewhat stimulating.
    Try it?
    Or at our age.. is it too late? ðŸĪ”
"A woman's humor and wit doesn't make her someone you want to simulate procreation with."

In YOUR opinion. It doesn't make YOU.. want to be with her.
In my world .. it trips me out.
.... Okay. But I guarantee you there is first something physical [visceral] about her , that you chose to consciously ignore because you needed a cerebral contact , too.

There's more to having sex than just purely physical attraction.... No. Not really. Just that something cerebral [on your level or above] about a woman can be a bonus. Especially if you wanted to keep her around.

Otherwise... how long will THAT last? .... Doesn't matter, unless you are specifically looking for a woman for something long term. Then a cerebral connection might be important.

Until you get ugly and she gets fat?.... In terms of how long, oh so much sooner. Maybe a week. Maybe less.

Hmmm. maybe you're right. But in the interim... I'd fuck her mind.. for a while...... Of course , but you'd fuck her pussy first.

Better than no sex at all..... What, fucking her mind? ... That really doesn't satisfy if you have a strong libido.

and somewhat stimulating..... No. Sitting there listening to her talk on a subject isn't stimulating you physically. While you brain is being stimulated on a topic you enjoy, you are subconsciously being stimulated by the way she smells, moves, wiggles, sounds, looks. That is what is arousing.

Try it? Or at our age.. is it too late? ðŸĪ”... As long as the libido is alive, you'll want to fuck her pussy first.


Paulxx001 replies on 10/8/2019 10:11 pm:
I think you were saying... fucking is good.. regardless of how you get there? Right?
That's about what I understood... at this time of night.
Should I get deeper into it?
Nah... I think I get your point.
So... what else is new? ðŸĪ”

Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
10/8/2019 9:40 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Paulxx001 replies on 10/8/2019 4:51 pm:
    Sex with someone we despise? Nah... Maybe in YOUR world. Do they owe them a favor?
    Sex with someone we dislike... hmm
    How drunk or desparate am I?


    Sex with someone we despise?.... Again, not from a male point of view. From the woman's. Women continuously have sex with men she despises, time and time again.

    But men do have sex with some very bitchy women, whom he wouldn't normally be with. But she's hot, and she's made herself available to fuck. So you dive in.

    Sex with someone we dislike... hmm How drunk or desparate am I? ....You don't have to be drunk or desperate. Just horny. But men , like us, in our 60's , for a bitch of a woman to get you horny , she'd have to be one hot tomato .

    But as I said... "You don't have to be drunk or desperate"..... but since you asked... you don't have to be all that drunk , nor all that desperate....the right looking woman , bitchy attitude and all, could get you into bed. This is more true when men are in their teens, twenties and thirties... so I don't discount the women we despise.
Hey.. Do me a favor... Don't put the blue font color on... I'm fucking blind enough as it is.
Ok... Yeah.. as it relates to teens? Sure. I agree.
But I've been with bitches and ya know what? If I'm not laughing and having a good time... I don't need it. It's me and the way I roll. Done that. Been there.
But I see your pov.


pocogato12 69F  
37175 posts
10/9/2019 7:26 am

Whew I am worn out with perusing all of HG's take on this blog post. My comment will only generate more BS

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Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
10/9/2019 9:23 am

    Quoting pocogato12:
    Whew I am worn out with perusing all of HG's take on this blog post. My comment will only generate more BS
Hmmm... I'm a very patient and polite person. And pretty tolerant. I guess he had stuff to share.
Go for it. Your opinion is always welcome. I'm sure he has covered it all... right? 😗


Heathen_G 63M
7963 posts
10/9/2019 12:27 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Hey.. Do me a favor... Don't put the blue font color on... I'm fucking blind enough as it is.
    Ok... Yeah.. as it relates to teens? Sure. I agree.
    But I've been with bitches and ya know what? If I'm not laughing and having a good time... I don't need it. It's me and the way I roll. Done that. Been there.
    But I see your pov.
Yes, I totally understand your point of view , too.....

And , sorry, won't use that light blue font again when communicating with you.


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
10/9/2019 1:18 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Yes, I totally understand your point of view , too.....

    And , sorry, won't use that light blue font again when communicating with you.
No worries...
So... I guess we can wait around until I come up with something else... ðŸĪ”


scoupe42 58M  
13019 posts
10/9/2019 5:07 pm

Hi Paul, this could be a story of "lifetime". a good story.


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
10/9/2019 5:51 pm

    Quoting scoupe42:
    Hi Paul, this could be a story of "lifetime". a good story.
lol... I'm pretty sure... THIS sort of thing happens all the time... no? ðŸĪ”
I used to go to clubs. Hated the bright lights when they'd flip on.
You know what I mean... Right? 😗


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