If Someone Were To Ask... How Would You Describe Yourselves... 🤔  

Paulxx001 64M  
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1/20/2020 12:41 pm

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If Someone Were To Ask... How Would You Describe Yourselves... 🤔

He wondered, if someone were to ask him about her - and seek a description or a noun - he wouldn't know what to say.

Were they lovers or did they simply benefit from friendship? Was it possible they were more? He was almost convinced ; or was that simply lust, pretending to be something else? He was confused, about which words to use.

Especially... since they'd never met.

Sometimes, you can try too hard to make things fit. For many it would still be nice, to have to answer a question like that... once in a while.

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Paulxx001 64M  
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1/20/2020 12:41 pm

That question has come up.
But not often enough. 😶

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Paulxx001 64M  
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1/20/2020 12:43 pm

How often is there a connection, but you just don't meet? 🤔

I'd say it probably happens more often than people are willing to admit.

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superbjversion2 66F
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1/20/2020 12:50 pm

Whenever I feel that connection (and I do feel them) I try and plan a vacation to make the meet possible.

Admittedly though, I often end up singing with the Temptations, "But it was just my imagination runnin' away with me-once again",

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


scoupe42 58M  
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1/20/2020 1:45 pm

I went on a million 1st dates, never got the second. I had a few second and third, and connected with a few. But there are many who just want to chat.


lust4life59 63F
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1/20/2020 2:13 pm

I believe sometimes the connection online happens quicker and more deeply than it does in real life. If we are truly honest and open, we allow ourselves to be vulnerable quicker than we would with someone we met at say, the produce section in the grocery store. I define them as friends, perhaps even intimate friends, never lovers until we do meet.


Paulxx001 64M  
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1/20/2020 3:04 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    Whenever I feel that connection (and I do feel them) I try and plan a vacation to make the meet possible.

    Admittedly though, I often end up singing with the Temptations, "But it was just my imagination runnin' away with me-once again",
Nice song. It's a challenge to measure the pros and cons of voyage with THAT as the ONLY goal.
Well... ya got to visit a something interesting (hopefully) and take a pic... or two, share a laugh or three.

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Paulxx001 64M  
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1/20/2020 3:11 pm

    Quoting scoupe42:
    I went on a million 1st dates, never got the second. I had a few second and third, and connected with a few. But there are many who just want to chat.
There are quite a few who DO want to simply chat.
Nothing wrong with THAT, unless you're looking for more.
I understand what you mean.

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Paulxx001 64M  
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1/20/2020 3:22 pm

    Quoting lust4life59:
    I believe sometimes the connection online happens quicker and more deeply than it does in real life. If we are truly honest and open, we allow ourselves to be vulnerable quicker than we would with someone we met at say, the produce section in the grocery store. I define them as friends, perhaps even intimate friends, never lovers until we do meet.
It's true. It's as if there was a password that was already given. Although.. sometimes people fake it easier, behind a screen and a keyboard.
I've been fooled more often - in person. They said and DID, all the right things... until they didn't.
Or is my heart too cold?

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Paulxx001 64M  
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1/20/2020 3:32 pm

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It doesn't? Hmmm... I often wonder (even if I'm miles away) , what it would be like, to be closer. I fool myself into thinking that, if I was nearer - the trek to familiarity and something more, would be an interesting one.
Even 'here' that term 'friendship' simply accords (the other), access to one's 'private pics and videos'. If that's all it is - what is it?

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Tmptrzz 59F  
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1/20/2020 3:56 pm

I would describe myself as a "PEOPLE PERSON" as that's how many describe me. It was a great question to ask, Although I agree with everyone else it doesn't come up often. I hope you have a great evening..

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Paulxx001 64M  
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1/20/2020 4:02 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    I would describe myself as a "PEOPLE PERSON" as that's how many describe me. It was a great question to ask, Although I agree with everyone else it doesn't come up often. I hope you have a great evening..
Yep.. you too.

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LadyLuck2 65F  
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1/20/2020 4:36 pm

I was in a very long line at LA International Airport waiting to have my luggage checked by TSA. The man behind me and I started chatting mostly about why the line was so long and what could possibly be holding things up. When I got to the agent, he looked past me to the man standing behind me and asked if we were traveling together. I was so annoyed I looked at the agent and said, "we were total strangers this afternoon but after being in this line so long, now we're engaged to be married." The TSA agent informed me that my sarcasm was going to get me arrested. So much for making a connection or the pretense of one.

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Paulxx001 64M  
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1/20/2020 5:31 pm

    Quoting LadyLuck2:
    I was in a very long line at LA International Airport waiting to have my luggage checked by TSA. The man behind me and I started chatting mostly about why the line was so long and what could possibly be holding things up. When I got to the agent, he looked past me to the man standing behind me and asked if we were traveling together. I was so annoyed I looked at the agent and said, "we were total strangers this afternoon but after being in this line so long, now we're engaged to be married." The TSA agent informed me that my sarcasm was going to get me arrested. So much for making a connection or the pretense of one.
Wow... I would have laughed.
So movies are full of shit, are they?
Too bad. Sounded like a great intro to something.

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sexyldy1000 61F  
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1/21/2020 11:20 am

Technology makes it easy to interact with others virtually anywhere in the world. Sometimes, people lose sight of the fact that the person they feel 'connected' to is making others feel the same way. They mistake the friendly banter for something more than it is. Unless the communication is taken beyond the boundaries of the internet, they are just sharing space.


Paulxx001 64M  
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1/21/2020 6:57 pm

    Quoting  :

I think this will be, the last time I touch on THIS topic. 😶

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Paulxx001 64M  
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1/21/2020 7:07 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Technology makes it easy to interact with others virtually anywhere in the world. Sometimes, people lose sight of the fact that the person they feel 'connected' to is making others feel the same way. They mistake the friendly banter for something more than it is. Unless the communication is taken beyond the boundaries of the internet, they are just sharing space.
They're making others feel WHAT way? 🤔
Sharing space, huh? Well... as long as they're having fun. I guess...
What's the alternative? 😶

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Paulxx001 64M  
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1/21/2020 7:10 pm

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Difficult? 🤔
I think people are afraid to step outside their comfort zone. They're afraid to take chances. They're waiting for perfection. Perfect is a movie script - not real life.
I understand what you mean though. Pausing to smell the roses once in a while, is a nice way to slow things down.
Thanks for popping in. 👍

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author51 59F  
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1/22/2020 7:27 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    How often is there a connection, but you just don't meet? 🤔

    I'd say it probably happens more often than people are willing to admit.
Connections happen a lot on here, but my deepest connection came with the one who is for a fact my lover..I travel when it went from online only here first, to offline phone calls, then cards and letters.. Trip # 4 coming up soon..I am one of the lucky ones...

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Paulxx001 64M  
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1/22/2020 9:27 am

    Quoting author51:
    Connections happen a lot on here, but my deepest connection came with the one who is for a fact my lover..I travel when it went from online only here first, to offline phone calls, then cards and letters.. Trip # 4 coming up soon..I am one of the lucky ones...
I'd say that you are. 😊👍

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pocogato12 69F  
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1/22/2020 4:44 pm

I am definitely a People Person I mean with the positions ( yep you can speculate on those- get yourself ready for a restless night) I've had - well necessary to be that type of person. I love a good dirty joke and love ribald reparte. What else did you want to inquire about

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Paulxx001 64M  
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1/22/2020 6:08 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    I am definitely a People Person I mean with the positions ( yep you can speculate on those- get yourself ready for a restless night) I've had - well necessary to be that type of person. I love a good dirty joke and love ribald reparte. What else did you want to inquire about
... me? ... know?
i know the answers before I ask them.... sometimes...
... it would be fun to... Ahh... never mind.
Ribald - i'll take THAT and see if I can work it into a sentence.
You pick tough ones! 👍

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