Guitar Blues... 😎 Or Hunting Down... A Sexual Craving...πŸ€”  

Paulxx001 64M  
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8/1/2019 12:34 pm

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Guitar Blues... 😎 Or Hunting Down... A Sexual Craving...πŸ€”

I met that famous 'Chicago blues' - singer and guitarist - Muddy Waters , once... (in a tiny bar), in 'old town' , Montreal. It was nineteen eighty two... on a really chilly, November night.

That bar, was a dark, grundgy... beaten down place. Thick, grey stone walls, supported wide, wooden beams, while a black painted ceiling - tried to hide the cracks. Smoke filled the room and lay thick, above our heads. It hovered, in billowing waves, through the white, spot lights. About fifty people, sat, around small, wobbly wooden tables and listened, to a guitarist and his three piece band - blow the blues ... right off, the planet.

I was surprised to find myself, sitting at a spot, right in front of the stage. I watched sweat, form beads, on the forehead of that guitarist, as he sang. I thought, he might have looked at me, a couple of times, and smiled. It was a sad smile... as he played, in front of, that half empty, room. None the less - it was an epic set! A bunch, of special minutes - etched forever, into my brain. I left, after that first set.

Many years later, I found out who he was. I realized, I'd missed out, on a world icon, of music. But, I was and ... and definitely, impatient. And... there were no women, in that club... where he played.

There were no women, anywhere I went... on that night. None I met, at least. Well... there was one ; but she was, waaay... outta my league! Yeah... I just bounced, from place, to place and club to club... aimlessly looking. When I think about it now... I know. I should have stayed, at that tiny grundgy bar, in 'Old Montreal' and enjoyed, that second set. McKinley Morganfield ( Muddy Waters), never played in this city, again. He died in April, nineteen eighty three.

Sometimes, ya gotta take what life gives you. more patient these days... You?

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Paulxx001 64M  
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8/1/2019 12:34 pm

I'm more patient when it comes to taking advantage of where I am, as opposed to - always trying to find something better. A better seat or a quicker road? This place or that one?
Or is it that I'm better, at figuring out, when I should just sit... and chill? πŸ€”

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Paulxx001 64M  
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8/1/2019 12:35 pm

It's like those times, you look for the quickest check out lane. The one you were in first - usually turns out to be the best choice. Mostly...
We're always trying to do better and sometimes... every once in a while... we succeed - by moving on. Sometimes... it's best - just to enjoy, whatcha got!πŸ€—

I'm still totally impatient... when it comes to traffic. I guess, I'll never learn. 😊

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author51 59F  
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8/1/2019 12:40 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    It's like those times, you look for the quickest check out lane. The one you were in first - usually turns out to be the best choice. Mostly...
    We're always trying to do better and sometimes... every once in a while... we succeed - by moving on. Sometimes... it's best - just to enjoy, whatcha got!πŸ€—

    I'm still totally impatient... when it comes to traffic. I guess, I'll never learn. 😊
Oh man. Being the drummer you were and are, Boy did you miss an opportunity of something that only comes once in a lifetime my coffee mate.


Tmptrzz 59F  
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8/1/2019 12:47 pm

Too bad you didn't stick around, who knows what could of happened that night in that bluesy night club. It's a good thing you got to see and hear Muddy Water's play as he was one of the Blues Greats.

Thanks for sharing that balmy steamy night with us, and I hope you continue to enjoy this day..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


talktome939 61M
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8/1/2019 1:02 pm

Be patient look around - be easy on yourself - each day one learns something new. best of luck.


KoolBlkDom 36M
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8/1/2019 1:07 pm

Those nights when we don't expect anything special to happen are usually when great opportunities pass by, but yeah, we do need to keep our eyes open to watch them coming.


sexyldy1000 61F  
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8/1/2019 1:41 pm

No doubt, that as a musician, you did appreciate what you were hearing at the time but were distracted by other desires. Later, as maturity, often colours our past perceptions. you thought of it differently and as a 'missed opportunity' . In general, I find I am less patient now, then when I was younger.


1seeking1 56F
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8/1/2019 1:43 pm

You will always have that wonderful memory. As I am getting g a little more patient, sometimes you end up where you are supposed to be. Thanks for sharing.


superbjversion2 66F
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8/1/2019 2:52 pm

"If only" are some sad words.

I'm patient in most things.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Paulxx001 64M  
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8/1/2019 3:32 pm

    Quoting author51:
    Oh man. Being the drummer you were and are, Boy did you miss an opportunity of something that only comes once in a lifetime my coffee mate.
Yes. I know. I blew it. I was with friends who were bored. Can you believe it? They dragged me outta there.
Ever been with friends that you just wanted to ditch? πŸ€”
Yeah.. At least I heard one set. How's it going? 😊

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Paulxx001 64M  
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8/1/2019 3:34 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Too bad you didn't stick around, who knows what could of happened that night in that bluesy night club. It's a good thing you got to see and hear Muddy Water's play as he was one of the Blues Greats.

    Thanks for sharing that balmy steamy night with us, and I hope you continue to enjoy this day..
Well... I heard one set at least, but yes. I messed up.
Friends dragged me out. Ever been with friends who've done that to you? πŸ€”

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Paulxx001 64M  
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8/1/2019 3:35 pm

    Quoting talktome939:
    Be patient look around - be easy on yourself - each day one learns something new. best of luck.
That's great advise... that I follow more and more.
That's what happens when you get older? Right?
Hey... thanks for sharing. Drop by any time. πŸ‘

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Paulxx001 64M  
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8/1/2019 3:38 pm

    Quoting KoolBlkDom:
    Those nights when we don't expect anything special to happen are usually when great opportunities pass by, but yeah, we do need to keep our eyes open to watch them coming.
You're absolutely RIGHT about that. Totally!
I was in a club here, watching a band, playing covers of the Police and Sting... when STING, went up on stage with them and played a fucking set.
Talk about.. off the charts crazy!
But you know exactly what's what. You must have seen things as well.
Hey.. thanks for sharing. Pop in any time. πŸ‘

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Paulxx001 64M  
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8/1/2019 4:02 pm

    Quoting DJEH1000:
    Same experience with me, except with John Lee Hooker. Young and stupid, I was. Now when I pick up my guitar I remember to pay a little homage to people who played it before I was born. Check out the documentary called I Am The Blues. Amazing how so many of the people from another era are still playing amazing stuff now in their late 80s or 90s. As for the out of your league girl, that describes the entirety of the world's female population when I was young. Boom Boom Boom Boom, Gonna sit ya right down.
Wow. John Lee.. 😊
Yeah... that's a classic! Great story.
I watched Sting get up on stage with a band I was watching... and play a set of with the guys.
Funny how the smallest clubs, yielded the wildest results

Love that boom, boom reference.
Thanks for sharing. Drop in any time.
Now I'm watching John Lee vids on, you tube. Thanks for the reminder!
Ever see anyone else, up close? πŸ€”

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Paulxx001 64M  
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8/1/2019 4:06 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    No doubt, that as a musician, you did appreciate what you were hearing at the time but were distracted by other desires. Later, as maturity, often colours our past perceptions. you thought of it differently and as a 'missed opportunity' . In general, I find I am less patient now, then when I was younger.
You're less patient now? That's not good.
What are you less patient about? πŸ€”
How about kissing? Are you patient with a bad kisser?

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Paulxx001 64M  
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8/1/2019 4:17 pm

    Quoting 1seeking1:
    You will always have that wonderful memory. As I am getting g a little more patient, sometimes you end up where you are supposed to be. Thanks for sharing.
I did enjoy that first set. It was great! I was with friends who were bored.
They dragged me away... against my will... lol... 😊
Ever happen to you where your friends, make decisions for you? And pull you away from somewhere? πŸ€”

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Paulxx001 64M  
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8/1/2019 4:20 pm

    Quoting  :

You're patient? πŸ€” Kool..

In my case, I was dragged away by bored friends... against my will. But I was part of a crew.
Ever wanted to stay somewhere.

but been shuffled off? πŸ€”

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Hed121409 40M

8/1/2019 4:44 pm

Same for me


Paulxx001 64M  
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8/1/2019 4:59 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    "If only" are some sad words.

    I'm patient in most things.
Well... I DID hear that first set.
I'm kinda repeating myself... but..
I was dragged away by friends, who wanted to go elsewhere. I knew what THAT moment was about.
I couldn't convince them to stay. The place was a dive.
Ever have friends pull you away? πŸ€”

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Paulxx001 64M  
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8/1/2019 5:02 pm

Good to hear.
Drop on by, any time. πŸ‘

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Livin_my_Life14 51F

8/1/2019 9:40 pm

I’m not the same person as I was when I was young. The old me would tell the young me- don’t be stupid and be patient! I have it now but I am older and slower in life.


Paulxx001 64M  
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8/1/2019 10:13 pm

    Quoting Livin_my_Life14:
    I’m not the same person as I was when I was young. The old me would tell the young me- don’t be stupid and be patient! I have it now but I am older and slower in life.
I get what you mean... by the way...
... You're still pretty young. 😊
How much speed, do you think you've lost? πŸ€”
What type of speed?

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sexyldy1000 61F  
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8/2/2019 3:29 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    You're less patient now? That's not good.
    What are you less patient about? πŸ€”
    How about kissing? Are you patient with a bad kisser?
I am less patient about a lot of things...grocery store lineups, people who are indecisive, subway and bus platform lineups, others who cannot state their opinion clearly and concisely, bad kissers.


mc_justmc 61M  
6928 posts
8/2/2019 6:16 am

We saw Stevie Ray Vaughn at a rather small outdoor concert in the mid eighties, but we knew who he was and stayed for the entire show.


Paulxx001 64M  
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8/2/2019 8:53 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    I am less patient about a lot of things...grocery store lineups, people who are indecisive, subway and bus platform lineups, others who cannot state their opinion clearly and concisely, bad kissers.
People who are indecisive and can't express an opinion? Hmmm...
But that bad kisser thingy... So you wouldn't take the time to teach or help them get better at kissing? πŸ€”
Isn't kissing about style?
What about bad spellers.....? 😢

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Paulxx001 64M  
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8/2/2019 8:58 am

    Quoting  :

Me and Traffic and lineups... Working on it.
It was an epic night.
My friends were the ones who dragged me away that night ... I learned to trust myself, instead of being dragged around by buddies who had another agenda..
Ya know what I mean? πŸ€” lol... sheesh.. 😊

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Paulxx001 64M  
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8/2/2019 8:59 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    We saw Stevie Ray Vaughn at a rather small outdoor concert in the mid eighties, but we knew who he was and stayed for the entire show.
It's always great to see a super star in a smaller venue. Yep... That must have been a show! πŸ‘

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pollly_anna 58F  
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8/2/2019 10:09 pm

I was born patient...........and still am...................my extremely high level of patience has never changed!


Paulxx001 64M  
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8/2/2019 10:58 pm

    Quoting pollly_anna:
    I was born patient...........and still am...................my extremely high level of patience has never changed!
Yes. True! πŸ€”
I have noticed that. Yes... I have!

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scoupe42 58M  
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8/3/2019 7:19 am

We all have regrets in life! But if we live long enough, more opportunities with come our way!


Paulxx001 64M  
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8/3/2019 4:26 pm

    Quoting scoupe42:
    We all have regrets in life! But if we live long enough, more opportunities with come our way!
Yeah. I'm not regretting the whole... night.
I did see, the first set... 😢
I'm sorry I was I was with friends, who dragged me away
It was one of THOSE nights.
No regrets... just missed opportunity, ya know what I mean? Too busy chasing pussy
. Yep.. I'll take the blame for that... lol πŸ˜‚

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sexyldy1000 61F  
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8/3/2019 4:53 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    People who are indecisive and can't express an opinion? Hmmm...
    But that bad kisser thingy... So you wouldn't take the time to teach or help them get better at kissing? πŸ€”
    Isn't kissing about style?
    What about bad spellers.....? 😢
Bad spellers and those who don’t use grammar correctly are annoying.
At this point in my life, I would rather learn than teach.


Paulxx001 64M  
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8/4/2019 2:45 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Bad spellers and those who don’t use grammar correctly are annoying.
    At this point in my life, I would rather learn than teach.
Ahhh... 😊 πŸ‘
Teaching ain't so bad. πŸ€”If ya got a willing student.

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Paulxx001 64M  
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8/5/2019 2:34 am

    Quoting  :

Oooo... I have to check THAT one out.
Who knows? Maybe I'm in it?
Did you notice anyone who looks like me.... in the crowd? πŸ€”

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sweet_VM 63F
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8/5/2019 9:06 am

Lovely hugs V

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Paulxx001 64M  
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8/5/2019 9:52 am

Hey V.... 😊
Whatcha up to? πŸ€” Anything interesting going on? ☺️

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BeccaLuvs 59F
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8/5/2019 1:50 pm

Guess I'm more "patient" in some things now Paul, but I'm also impulsive, active and as you say being caught up in traffic jams - not good that! More about wasting precious time I think? When I was very young, I was completely impulsive, and ..... daring! I do think again before doing something I would have done without any thought back then!

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Paulxx001 64M  
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8/5/2019 6:47 pm

    Quoting BeccaLuvs:
    Guess I'm more "patient" in some things now Paul, but I'm also impulsive, active and as you say being caught up in traffic jams - not good that! More about wasting precious time I think? When I was very young, I was completely impulsive, and ..... daring! I do think again before doing something I would have done without any thought back then!
Impulsive.... daring? πŸ€” Oooo... sounds intriguing. So... whadja do? 😯
I'd love to hear... those stories.
So now... you've maturer?
I'll betcha all it would take... is the 'wrong' guy... to get you back... on the 'right'... track! lol πŸ˜‚
So...?

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Paulxx001 64M  
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8/6/2019 6:01 am

    Quoting  :

Five? I'd say so... lol πŸ˜‚
As we all get older, that age concern disappears... But back then... I didn't have a chance. I hadn't perfected my mojo yet... 😊
Ya know... it takes practise to get it down. I'm sure you know what I mean.
It's about perseptions, right? If you think someone is outta your league - then they will be.
You're IN my league... but playing in the West Central Division... 😊 πŸ‘ Oh well... πŸ€”
Enjoying the summer?

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SeaGirlFL 57F
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8/10/2019 12:23 pm

What a lovely experience you had...that moment watching him play...

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


Paulxx001 64M  
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8/10/2019 3:58 pm

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    What a lovely experience you had...that moment watching him play...
It was... Didn't last long enough. Bored friends with raging hormones and no clue who he was... dragged me away... lol.
But I got to see him for a set! πŸ‘ 😊

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