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Gold 👑 vs Standard Membership... The Difference... Will Shock You ðŸ˜ē  

Paulxx001 67M
8732 posts
10/11/2019 12:29 pm

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10/22/2019 12:23 pm

Gold 👑 vs Standard Membership... The Difference... Will Shock You ðŸ˜ē

I've been both a Gold👑... and a Standard member - here on A F F . I enjoy each , for different reasons. However there are differences. What are they? I asked members, their opinions and thoughts. I then massaged all those points of view and gently compressed them for you, in a succinct review.

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Gold Membership ; is like being, a really fast dolphin , swimming across the expansive seas and oceans of the world, frolicking freely in the deepest fathoms, through all shades... of blue. You go and come... when you want and you feed... at your leisure .

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Standard Membership ; is like being, a goldfish, in an aquarium. It's nice and colorful... and full of bubbles. But you're grateful, very soon, that your goldfish memory , only lasts - seven and a half seconds. Since it only lasts that long, you're oblivious as you wait - forever - by the surface for those flakes of food... periodically dropped your way.


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Other than THAT ; Gold👑 and Standard Memberships are identical .
Sort of... ðŸ˜ķ


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Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 12:30 pm

I become Gold 👑 for a while and then I drop it. I change it up, depending on my mood... and the time of the year or month.
There's a heck of a lot more fun with Gold. I don't know if it's any better than Standard, but it's busier and so much easier... to perv people! 😊


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 12:30 pm

I think it's easier to hook up if you have Gold. Although I've had success without it as well.
Perhaps... it's a personal thing. Are you persistent and have a voice? 😊 Are there a lot of people in your area? ðŸĪ”


MonsterCacti 39M

10/11/2019 12:35 pm

I agree not much difference between the two. I got more action as a standard member than a gold to be honest


pollly_anna 60F  
697 posts
10/11/2019 12:37 pm

I've always and only had Gold...........with how the system has changed over the yrs, I know that standards have no freedom at all to do anything without earning or buying points.or asking for points from women.


benard69 66M/66F  

10/11/2019 1:08 pm

With the bullshit folks by us you'd need to be Triple Platinum...


HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
10/11/2019 1:33 pm

only thing I miss with a standard now is not being able to add a picture to a comment


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
10/11/2019 2:21 pm

Your analogy is valid. Gold does provide freedom and advantages that 'standard' members miss out on. I don't take the crown for granted, although it does lose its luster occasionally.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 2:29 pm

    Quoting MonsterCacti:
    I agree not much difference between the two. I got more action as a standard member than a gold to be honest
I miss direct emails, IM and perving some of those wild videos and pics on profiles.
I agree with you... for the most part.
my action has come from both sides of the fence.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 2:32 pm

    Quoting pollly_anna:
    I've always and only had Gold...........with how the system has changed over the yrs, I know that standards have no freedom at all to do anything without earning or buying points.or asking for points from women.
Well Standards have the freedom to be interesting enough.. that a woman may look twice.
Like on a blog... or their profile? No?
But... it is a different world out there without the crown 👑.


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
10/11/2019 2:33 pm

I've been around so long that I remember the days when they had an intermediate "Silver" membership. I don't remember exactly what was different - probably there was a limit on the number of emails you could send in a month, which was not a problem for me. The main reason I popped for it was for the convenience of being able to see "Where I'm Quoted" (that was only available to Gold and Silver in those days). Not long after that they introduced Icebreaker and I've taken advantage of that since then.

Back when the chat rooms were more active, I think a lot of standard members got to know people there. And we would occasionally organize in person meet and greets at a bar, where you could have a chance to chat up the folks you'd been chatting with online. The site did not like that we had figured out that workaround - not.one.bit. If someone got caught announcing meet and greet details too often in the chat room, they'd get suspended.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 2:33 pm

    Quoting benard69:
    With the bullshit folks by us you'd need to be Triple Platinum...
Oooo.. platinum... Now THERE'S an idea.
Ya think it would matter? ðŸĪ”
Hey.. thanks for popping in. Drop by any time! 👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 2:37 pm

    Quoting HermanG67:
    only thing I miss with a standard now is not being able to add a picture to a comment
Oh yeah... I like that one as well.
I do miss the raunchy video and pic perving though. ðŸ˜ķ
And it's nice to be able to send messages whenever I feel like it . I think.. that's the biggest one for me.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 2:39 pm

    Quoting  :

lol... funny... and true. Nemo? ðŸĪ”
Glad ya got the joke.
Thanks for popping in and drop by any time. 👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 2:42 pm

    Quoting  :

... plying you.. Eeee... That sounds like fun. Can I get in on some of that? ðŸĪ” ðŸ”Ĩ
Just for fun... imagine STANDARD... It's different and tough... for some.
And others... thrive 🍀🍏🎃
Would you still be here if you were Standard?


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 2:43 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Your analogy is valid. Gold does provide freedom and advantages that 'standard' members miss out on. I don't take the crown for granted, although it does lose its luster occasionally.
You're funny and probably cute! 👍
Would you still be here if you were Standard? ðŸĪ”


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 2:51 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    I've been around so long that I remember the days when they had an intermediate "Silver" membership. I don't remember exactly what was different - probably there was a limit on the number of emails you could send in a month, which was not a problem for me. The main reason I popped for it was for the convenience of being able to see "Where I'm Quoted" (that was only available to Gold and Silver in those days). Not long after that they introduced Icebreaker and I've taken advantage of that since then.

    Back when the chat rooms were more active, I think a lot of standard members got to know people there. And we would occasionally organize in person meet and greets at a bar, where you could have a chance to chat up the folks you'd been chatting with online. The site did not like that we had figured out that workaround - not.one.bit. If someone got caught announcing meet and greet details too often in the chat room, they'd get suspended.
Wow...
Ever thought of putting out ;"A F F It's Roots and How It's Evolved"
I'd read it... 😊
I think the site is making a mistake by being so tight. People would still hang around here, in spite of those meet ups. No?
This place is a portal... in my eyes 👀. They're not selling it right..
So...about that book /article /blog post /podcast...
Ya up to it?
"Without memory, there is no culture. Without memory, there would be no civilization, no society, no future."
ðŸ˜Ū😊😂


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
10/11/2019 3:40 pm

I can remember not so long ago that we had an option to be silver fish in here (gold, silver or standard membership).
Silver was the better option for me at the time.


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
10/11/2019 3:43 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    I've been around so long that I remember the days when they had an intermediate "Silver" membership. I don't remember exactly what was different - probably there was a limit on the number of emails you could send in a month, which was not a problem for me. The main reason I popped for it was for the convenience of being able to see "Where I'm Quoted" (that was only available to Gold and Silver in those days). Not long after that they introduced Icebreaker and I've taken advantage of that since then.

    Back when the chat rooms were more active, I think a lot of standard members got to know people there. And we would occasionally organize in person meet and greets at a bar, where you could have a chance to chat up the folks you'd been chatting with online. The site did not like that we had figured out that workaround - not.one.bit. If someone got caught announcing meet and greet details too often in the chat room, they'd get suspended.
Ah! I've just made a comment regarding silver membership. I should have read this post first


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
10/11/2019 3:55 pm

Good description of Gold and Standard memberships the only difference with gold is you get all the perks. I could never be standard here, the day that happens that's the day I am gone. I hope you enjoy your weekend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 4:05 pm

    Quoting  :

Glad to oblige. Who doesn't like fish food?
Right? lol... 😂
Hey.. Have a good one! 👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 4:08 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Good description of Gold and Standard memberships the only difference with gold is you get all the perks. I could never be standard here, the day that happens that's the day I am gone. I hope you enjoy your weekend..
You could be. You could be. Don't say that! Take my hand and... I'll show you how.
It's actually easy. 😊
But don't worry about THAT!
ðŸ˜Ū It's never going to happen.
It's the messaging that's the best thing, right? And reading profiles.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
10/11/2019 5:21 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    You're funny and probably cute! 👍
    Would you still be here if you were Standard? ðŸĪ”
Yes, if I lost the crown, I would still be here. You have proven time and again, how to be successful without it. (I was taking notes 😊.)


boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
10/11/2019 6:14 pm

Has any men on here even been given Gold status for free??


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 6:20 pm

    Quoting boobwhisperer69:
    Has any men on here even been given Gold status for free??
I tried once. I tried for that 'ice breaker' thingy. I eventually got an email from the Director of Customer service who advised me that it was for women only.
I had fun trying. I did get 50% off Recently they've only offered me 20%.
Looks like things are tightening up here.
What do you think? ðŸĪ”
Thanks for popping in. 👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 6:30 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Yes, if I lost the crown, I would still be here. You have proven time and again, how to be successful without it. (I was taking notes 😊.)
Oh baby... 😂ðŸ˜Ū I've imprinted an image ?
I'll show you how it works. Do you think it would interest others? Or are they, on their own path?
I lose phone contact, as soon as I pass the second pillar in my garage. And then I'm like ; "Are you there? Hello."
Ever lose contact with someone in the middle of something interesting? It's recoverable, isn't it?


Livin_my_Life14 53F

10/11/2019 6:32 pm

Use to be a silver- long time ago. I could get that pretty easy by cramming. I did the ice breaker before they stopped it. I wish they would give me points to give to men that I want to email who are standard.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 6:55 pm

    Quoting Livin_my_Life14:
    Use to be a silver- long time ago. I could get that pretty easy by cramming. I did the ice breaker before they stopped it. I wish they would give me points to give to men that I want to email who are standard.
Wow! You want to give points? ðŸĪ” ðŸ”Ĩ
Do you feed homeless squirrels and take in stray cats? lol 😂
OK... WHAT would a man HAVE to do... in order to earn them? ðŸĪ”
Let's presume you HAD those points.. to give away.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 8:25 pm

    Quoting  :

Eeee... That's not good! Why would one, carry such a long line? Wouldn't it be a good idea to... shorten it up, perhaps?
I'm not much of a, fisher person. Although I have memories of me trying. I imagine most do. Fish... are a right of passage... aren't they?
Did you fish? Or are you strictly a cattle girl? That would be a Cowgirl right? lol 😂


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/12/2019 7:07 am

    Quoting  :

"... the right bait..." and THAT... is so true. If you don't, you won't and you DO!
Yep... I like Gold but Standard is fine as well.
I like that line about bait. I used the word - having the right voice.
So...? Are you having Turkey this weekend? ðŸĪ”


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/12/2019 7:09 am

    Quoting  :

True... it IS an art form. One that occasionally seems to be fading!
Practise away! Keep on bussing! lol 😂


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/12/2019 8:07 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks. Hey... weren't you here 7 1/2 seconds ago? ðŸĪ”
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Thanks. Hey... weren't you here 7 1/2 seconds ago? ðŸĪ”
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Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/12/2019 8:13 am

    Quoting  :

Ahhh... the blogs. Yes... they are addictive, aren't they? ðŸĪ” 👍
Blog on and have a great Saturday! 😊


scoupe42 60M

10/12/2019 9:43 am

Believe or not, you have some good points!


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/12/2019 9:54 am

    Quoting scoupe42:
    Believe or not, you have some good points!
It's tongue in cheek and a joke but there's some truth to the picture that I painted. 😊
Thanks for popping in. 👍


mc_justmc 63M

10/12/2019 11:56 am

I like my gold and it didn't cost me shit!


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/12/2019 2:23 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I like my gold and it didn't cost me shit!
Yep. I agree. Gold ðŸĨ‡ is good. They offered me 50% off and THAT'S a good deal. 👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/13/2019 6:26 am

    Quoting  :

Happy Thanksgiving Sunday. It'll be turkey ðŸĶƒ time ⌚ for me today with family 👊.
Enjoy your day and watch... small step stools! 😊


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/13/2019 6:30 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks for the info. I guess things have changed... 😊
Oh well... Have a great Sunday! 👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/13/2019 11:43 am

    Quoting  :

Based on conversations with others, I understood that it was STILL available, but with basic conditions. No? ðŸĪ”
I have friends who were renewed Gold ðŸĨ‡.


BeccaLuvs 61F
20895 posts
10/13/2019 1:53 pm

And that's summing it up in a nutshell Paul!

..... And always 'hold onto all those sexy thoughts'!
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Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/13/2019 3:38 pm

    Quoting BeccaLuvs:
    And that's summing it up in a nutshell Paul!
Up... is good? Isn't it? ðŸĪ”
Happy Sunday! First leaves have changed here. How's your spring? 😊


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/13/2019 7:05 pm

    Quoting  :

That makes a LOT of sense. So.. what's everyone going to do?
Leave? Go on strike?
Ya read my conf video call with the Bobs? Ya wanna be a union Rep for your region? lol 😂


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