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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/10/2019 12:12 pm

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Go write on a REAL website... With a REAL blog... Fucker! ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

It was two in the morning. He was still up, watching sports highlights and charging the phone. The e. mail emoji chimed. He tapped his cell open... and raised his eyebrows... as he read, what she wrote.

"You are so full of shit ! You think you're so smart and glib! You think you're so witty and funny! Well you're not! You're just an asshole, who plays with words and manipulates people's feelings!

You think you can write? You think you're better than everyone?
You can't write worth shit! You're just a conceited dick, with an ego the size of your head! Get a grip and look around. Do you have a life, outside the fantasy you've created, on THAT site? You're a sociopath. Get some mental help!

You want to write? Go write on a REAL website, with a REAL blog, fucker! See how far you get! And stop harassing me! "


He looked at her words and blinked. He was confused... to say the least. "Hey... stuff happens, right?" he mumbled to himself. What had he done, to deserve THAT e.m.ail, from her? It's not like they were an exclusive couple or anything. He thought they were getting along... really well.

He was still in shock and slowly... very slowly, began composing his response ; when his phone... chimed again.

"So sorry! SO, SO SORRY! My bad! That e.m.ail, wasn't for YOU. It was for somebody else. I messed up! Disregard and DELETE. Please!
Hugs...
โค๏ธ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’‹"

"Somebody else? Who... was her intended recipient?" he sat befuddled. He did as she suggested and deleted the e.m.ail. Then... pausing... he quicky recovered 'it' from the 'Trash' and saved 'it' - just in case. He wondered if she really had , made a mistake ; or was her note, a drunken - 'truth serum' - misstep. Perhaps... that's how she really felt about him?

He wasn't sure.

Her suggestion that he look into alternative blog sites - was a good one. Her other suggestion - get some mental help? Well... he Googled ; 'Am I a narcissist or a sociopath?'.

He wasn't sure about that either. .

.........................................
So...
Ever pressed 'Enter' ... and then regretted it?
๐Ÿค”
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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/10/2019 12:12 pm

Sure... I've made those mistakes and I've regretted... some of them. OMG! Now, I double and tripple check, all emails and texts - even blog comments. Especially late at night.
Every once in a while... something, slips through the cracks.
The next day, I'm like - "Really... did I say that?"
Ugh... ya think I'd mature up? ๐Ÿค” I'm working on it.

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Paulxx001 64M  
22498 posts
10/10/2019 12:13 pm

Many times I'd like to say something to someone - here or in the 'real world' and I hold back. What's the point, right?
If you have nothing positive to say... don't say anything. Good advice that I try to follow... mostly.
Once in a while I get burned, by my own temper!
Ughhh... ๐Ÿ˜ถ

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HermanG67 54M
8463 posts
10/10/2019 12:25 pm

I received a selfie once from a work colleague that I was VERY glad was not intended for me!!!! it did make our next meeting kind of awkward... but we got past it like two adult men... no a word said about it


1seeking1 56F
3767 posts
10/10/2019 12:34 pm

Very easy to make mistakes, especially here where site eat words. 8 try my best and still things get changed by my auto correct which I swear has a mi d of it's own. 8 am sure you will get to the bottom of it.


EnigmaInitiative 53F
5804 posts
10/10/2019 12:35 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Many times I'd like to say something to someone - here or in the 'real world' and I hold back. What's the point, right?
    If you have nothing positive to say... don't say anything. Good advice that I try to follow... mostly.
    Once in a while I get burned, by my own temper!
    Ughhh... ๐Ÿ˜ถ
I've done it, sent a text or email to the wrong person. ๐Ÿคฃ

I've also gotten texts that were for a different recipient, shit happens.

Happy Thursday Paul

Friday Farm Day is up on the others side. Just wait till you see what's happening!


Justmovinalong19 59M

10/10/2019 1:01 pm

I try to always double check what I have written before sending. Isnโ€™t auto correct great! NOT!


Naughtypursuit 54F  
2761 posts
10/10/2019 1:29 pm

I dont know that I have sent to the wrong person however I have had reacted quickly and emailed snarky comments. I have since learned to wait. A 24 hour cooling off period seems to work best. I also dont deal with issues of emails, blogs etc. Nothing beats a good old fashioned conversation.

I tend to hold my tongue quite a bit more then I would when I was younger, there comes a point when you realize 1. its not really that big a deal in the grand scheme of things in life and 2. Most people are set in their ways and you arent going to enlighten them with an email/blog/text.


Naughtypursuit 54F  
2761 posts
10/10/2019 1:32 pm

In addition if I had received a text like that, regardless if it was sent in error or not to me that person would be moving down the totem pole as that type of reaction/outburst is not the type of person I would want to associate with regularly.


Paulxx001 64M  
22498 posts
10/10/2019 2:40 pm

    Quoting HermanG67:
    I received a selfie once from a work colleague that I was VERY glad was not intended for me!!!! it did make our next meeting kind of awkward... but we got past it like two adult men... no a word said about it
Ok... That would be uncomfortable. lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
You're such a pro. If I had known that guy, I woulda been ranging on him forever ; with double entendres... all over the place. Sounds like a classic.

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Tmptrzz 59F  
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10/10/2019 2:41 pm

No its not you it's her she should have never done that. People need to make sure they are sending things to the right person. I hope you have a great evening..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Paulxx001 64M  
22498 posts
10/10/2019 2:44 pm

    Quoting 1seeking1:
    Very easy to make mistakes, especially here where site eat words. 8 try my best and still things get changed by my auto correct which I swear has a mi d of it's own. 8 am sure you will get to the bottom of it.
Auto Correct.... don't get me started. Omg... The crap that feature has produced, is epic. Silly me. I just continue typing - be because I trust it.
Then I read it after it's on its way. ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
Yep... you must have some doozies as well

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/10/2019 2:45 pm

    Quoting EnigmaInitiative:
    I've done it, sent a text or email to the wrong person. ๐Ÿคฃ

    I've also gotten texts that were for a different recipient, shit happens.

    Happy Thursday Paul
It certainly does.
Happy trails. Say hello to everyone in Boston for me! ๐Ÿ‘

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/10/2019 2:46 pm

    Quoting Justmovinalong19:
    I try to always double check what I have written before sending. Isnโ€™t auto correct great! NOT!
I'm so trusting... I believe it... over.... and over... and over again. Not good!
Yeah...! ๐Ÿ‘
Thanks for popping in and drop in any time.

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/10/2019 2:49 pm

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    I dont know that I have sent to the wrong person however I have had reacted quickly and emailed snarky comments. I have since learned to wait. A 24 hour cooling off period seems to work best. I also dont deal with issues of emails, blogs etc. Nothing beats a good old fashioned conversation.

    I tend to hold my tongue quite a bit more then I would when I was younger, there comes a point when you realize 1. its not really that big a deal in the grand scheme of things in life and 2. Most people are set in their ways and you arent going to enlighten them with an email/blog/text.
True... isn't it? The more experience you have in life, the less troubled you are about the small stuff.
I'm still reading the memo.
YOU hold your tongue? Or HE does? ๐Ÿค”

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/10/2019 2:52 pm

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    In addition if I had received a text like that, regardless if it was sent in error or not to me that person would be moving down the totem pole as that type of reaction/outburst is not the type of person I would want to associate with regularly.
Well... at the very least, you'll have figured out what they really thought of you.
Honesty is fine if you want something to work... no? ๐Ÿค”
If you really care... THAT type of honesty and build and strengthen a relationship.
I demand honesty from people, especially those close to me.
Don't you?

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Paulxx001 64M  
22498 posts
10/10/2019 2:55 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    No its not you it's her she should have never done that. People need to make sure they are sending things to the right person. I hope you have a great evening..
I just said hello to you over THERE and now you're over HERE. Wow... you're fast!
I don't know. What if... what a person says hits a nerve and makes you think. Let's say that you care about that person. I'd prefer an honest friend, than one filling me with stuff. You?

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tkoreo13 34M
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10/10/2019 3:49 pm

lol...


Paulxx001 64M  
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10/10/2019 3:50 pm

Laughs are good. ๐Ÿ‘

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sexyldy1000 61F  
9575 posts
10/10/2019 4:28 pm

In this electronic world, it's so easy for people to resort to texting or emailing, rather than picking up the phone and having a real conversation. Of course, nothing beats face-to-face so you can see body language and all the other nuances.
I don't recall ever sending a text to the 'wrong' person, but have received a few. Am guilty of having sent a few messages 'in the heat of the moment' so I do my best to try to avoid it.


Paulxx001 64M  
22498 posts
10/10/2019 4:38 pm

    Quoting  :

Well... I guess everyone is entitled to their opinion. But she didn't mention THIS site. Must be other sites out there with blogs, no?
Did you ever send an email or text my mistake? ๐Ÿค”

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/10/2019 4:40 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    In this electronic world, it's so easy for people to resort to texting or emailing, rather than picking up the phone and having a real conversation. Of course, nothing beats face-to-face so you can see body language and all the other nuances.
    I don't recall ever sending a text to the 'wrong' person, but have received a few. Am guilty of having sent a few messages 'in the heat of the moment' so I do my best to try to avoid it.
You? In the heat ๐Ÿ”ฅ of the moment? Reeeelee? hmmm...
What did you do? ๐Ÿค”

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smartasswoman 64F  
35758 posts
10/10/2019 4:55 pm

Interesting thought, going to a different site to blog. I can think of a few people here, over the years, who became very popular and thought they could become even more popular putting their blog on a mainstream site. Guess what? Hardly anyone followed them there. You know, when you have to actually navigate to a different site...as opposed to having their new posts conveniently pop up in yellow, here....interest tends to wane pretty fast.

So that's why I stay here, even though my blog isn't usually about sex and I'm not trying to meet people on the site any more. It's my own cozy corner where I can count on at least 10-15 people to read and comment.


Paulxx001 64M  
22498 posts
10/10/2019 5:30 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    Interesting thought, going to a different site to blog. I can think of a few people here, over the years, who became very popular and thought they could become even more popular putting their blog on a mainstream site. Guess what? Hardly anyone followed them there. You know, when you have to actually navigate to a different site...as opposed to having their new posts conveniently pop up in yellow, here....interest tends to wane pretty fast.

    So that's why I stay here, even though my blog isn't usually about sex and I'm not trying to meet people on the site any more. It's my own cozy corner where I can count on at least 10-15 people to read and comment.
That's.. a pretty well thought out comment with some interesting perspectives.
Cozy is good! I like cozy. ๐Ÿ˜Š
Blogs are either diary based, thought or pov based or theme based. It's a tough market to crack, unless you have a well thought out niche.
Ten to fifteen is a nice party, isn't it? ๐Ÿ‘๐ŸŽƒ

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Naughtypursuit 54F  
2761 posts
10/10/2019 5:40 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Well... at the very least, you'll have figured out what they really thought of you.
    Honesty is fine if you want something to work... no? ๐Ÿค”
    If you really care... THAT type of honesty and build and strengthen a relationship.
    I demand honesty from people, especially those close to me.
    Don't you?
Honesty is fantastic. Brutal, rude honesty is not requirement. It's a blog what do I care what or how you write that I feel the need to call you a conceited dick, a sociopath, asshole etc. If I felt the need to intercede in your fantasy blog writing I am sure I could come with a more hospitable way to tell you, although I cant think of any reason why I would worry about what you were writing.


superbjversion2 66F
24166 posts
10/10/2019 6:14 pm

I have never regretted any email that I've sent....even the not-so-nice ones.
I have mixed up conversations on instant messengers. I try not to multichat any more.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


SeaGirlFL 57F
9220 posts
10/10/2019 6:43 pm

Well, sure. Emotions get the better of everyone once in awhile.

And, I've been the recipient of a text message sent to the wrong person. From my ex while we were still married. On Christmas Eve, to his girlfriend, telling her how much he wished he was spending the holiday with her. And, I know it was to her, because her first name was in it. At one point, he was messaging multiple women (apparently, he didn't think I was reviewing the cell phone bill), and he always put the first name of the woman he was texting.

Ha. I just thought of something. Wouldn't it be funny if he was your neighbor, lmao. (He lives in Montreal...)

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/10/2019 7:09 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    I have never regretted any email that I've sent....even the not-so-nice ones.
    I have mixed up conversations on instant messengers. I try not to multichat any more.
You're better than me.
I realized that I had an inner voice that said _"You shouldn't have sent THAT. "
And that other voice, that said - it's what you wanted to say.
Now... about... this 'Multichat'... thingy. Tell me about THAT! ๐Ÿ˜—

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/10/2019 7:24 pm

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    Well, sure. Emotions get the better of everyone once in awhile.

    And, I've been the recipient of a text message sent to the wrong person. From my ex while we were still married. On Christmas Eve, to his girlfriend, telling her how much he wished he was spending the holiday with her. And, I know it was to her, because her first name was in it. At one point, he was messaging multiple women (apparently, he didn't think I was reviewing the cell phone bill), and he always put the first name of the woman he was texting.

    Ha. I just thought of something. Wouldn't it be funny if he was your neighbor, lmao. (He lives in Montreal...)
Wow!
What a story! I'm kinda in shock. THAT... is a slice of life, that remain branded in someone's memory.
And that last part, about him being my neighbour? Well...
What's his address? ๐Ÿค”
That's... a pretty heavy, misplaced text. I, would have been freaked out Or... were you expecting it? I apologize, if I'm prying.
No worries...
Beats any wrong note, I've received. ๐Ÿค”

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RyuFujin 54F  
1442 posts
10/10/2019 7:54 pm

For a moment there, I though I was going to have to come to your rescue and smack a beech. How dare someone rip into poor, sweet, funny Paul...

Well, glad I won't have to now.

I've done that in a chat room, way back in the day. I meant a snarky response to be send in a PM, but ended up sending it to the whole room instead. Whoops!

There was a good 30 or so seconds of no online convo, and I can only gather the room was wondering just who that was for and how to respond. Finally, someone chimes in with "Do you need chocolate this evening?"

"Yes, please. Sorry. PMSing. *Pay no attention to the (wo)man behind that curtain*."
Quote from Wizard of Oz. Laughter ensued. Good save on my part
.

"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.


superbjversion2 66F
24166 posts
10/10/2019 8:19 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    You're better than me.
    I realized that I had an inner voice that said _"You shouldn't have sent THAT. "
    And that other voice, that said - it's what you wanted to say.
    Now... about... this 'Multichat'... thingy. Tell me about THAT! ๐Ÿ˜—
Multichat? There's nothing really to tell - I don't do well chatting with more than 2 people at the same time. I've tried juggling 3 or 4 conversations simultaneously and the sexy, flirty remark ends up going to the person I'm talking politics with or the one I'm trying to get rid of.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Paulxx001 64M  
22498 posts
10/10/2019 9:15 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    Multichat? There's nothing really to tell - I don't do well chatting with more than 2 people at the same time. I've tried juggling 3 or 4 conversations simultaneously and the sexy, flirty remark ends up going to the person I'm talking politics with or the one I'm trying to get rid of.
THAT... is so funny and so true.
It's happened to me a few times in the chat rooms.
In text where I feel angry... I wait 24 hours before I'll send something out. In business... it's best to maintain a stance... but WAIT before, you take one.
Politics...? Get rid of? Irony or pun? lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
Or... how DO YOU get rid of them?

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pollly_anna 58F  
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10/10/2019 9:19 pm

Never those types of e-mails...............If It happens its just sending to one son when it suppose to go to another son..........or to a son when its suppose to be send to a grandson.


Paulxx001 64M  
22498 posts
10/10/2019 10:18 pm

    Quoting pollly_anna:
    Never those types of e-mails...............If It happens its just sending to one son when it suppose to go to another son..........or to a son when its suppose to be send to a grandson.
That happens to me as well... Mixing up daughters. Many times I find friends with the same first name, so I've got to make sure I'm careful. ๐Ÿ‘
You don't send out angry emails or messages to other people, that you kinda regret?

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Paulxx001 64M  
22498 posts
10/10/2019 10:34 pm

    Quoting RyuFujin:
    For a moment there, I though I was going to have to come to your rescue and smack a beech. How dare someone rip into poor, sweet, funny Paul...

    Well, glad I won't have to now.

    I've done that in a chat room, way back in the day. I meant a snarky response to be send in a PM, but ended up sending it to the whole room instead. Whoops!

    There was a good 30 or so seconds of no online convo, and I can only gather the room was wondering just who that was for and how to respond. Finally, someone chimes in with "Do you need chocolate this evening?"

    "Yes, please. Sorry. PMSing. *Pay no attention to the (wo)man behind that curtain*."
    Quote from Wizard of Oz. Laughter ensued. Good save on my part.
Oh... her comments were for someone else, but thanks for the offer of the sword! ๐Ÿ‘
lol... Chat rooms can be rough... ๐Ÿ˜Š I've dttollrf) tripped up in there a few times. Yep... ๐Ÿ˜Š ๐Ÿ‘

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Paulxx001 64M  
22498 posts
10/10/2019 10:41 pm

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    Honesty is fantastic. Brutal, rude honesty is not requirement. It's a blog what do I care what or how you write that I feel the need to call you a conceited dick, a sociopath, asshole etc. If I felt the need to intercede in your fantasy blog writing I am sure I could come with a more hospitable way to tell you, although I cant think of any reason why I would worry about what you were writing.
Then again she did say it was an accident and not intended for him.
I agree though... if it was intentional, then it was too harsh.

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author51 59F  
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10/10/2019 11:41 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Many times I'd like to say something to someone - here or in the 'real world' and I hold back. What's the point, right?
    If you have nothing positive to say... don't say anything. Good advice that I try to follow... mostly.
    Once in a while I get burned, by my own temper!
    Ughhh... ๐Ÿ˜ถ
I agree my coffee mate..I tend to get my back up as you know when others do or say something nasty or negative as it is needless..All they have t do if they do not like something is to walk away, scroll on past and or ignore it..I wish I could ignore everything yet that does not always work for me..
I have definitely written either a message or the odd post and come back in the morning and shudder at what I wrote.That is why I tend to delete some posts...


Heathen_G 63M
7968 posts
10/11/2019 1:59 am

ha.. wow, would have loved to have read what the other person wrote to get that response from her.

Ever sent an email, that I shouldn't have? No.

But the character in your story...he should have just deleted her from his phone and his life, at that moment. She evidently is not stable.

Why would he even wonder if he's a narcissist or a sociopath , after reading her note?


smartasswoman 64F  
35758 posts
10/11/2019 8:10 am

>>โ€œItโ€™s a tough market to crack, unless you have a well thought out nicheโ€

I very much agree. Mine tends to be mostly diary and I know my life isnโ€™t interesting enough on a day to day basis to keep a big readership! And havenโ€™t podcasts kind of replaced blogs, anyway?


Paulxx001 64M  
22498 posts
10/11/2019 8:34 am

    Quoting author51:
    I agree my coffee mate..I tend to get my back up as you know when others do or say something nasty or negative as it is needless..All they have t do if they do not like something is to walk away, scroll on past and or ignore it..I wish I could ignore everything yet that does not always work for me..
    I have definitely written either a message or the odd post and come back in the morning and shudder at what I wrote.That is why I tend to delete some posts...
Yep... We've both got nerves that are easily pressed.
I'm working on it... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ I'm working on it! ๐Ÿ‘
I count to ten. Dja think that'll help? ๐Ÿค”

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/11/2019 8:39 am

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    ha.. wow, would have loved to have read what the other person wrote to get that response from her.

    Ever sent an email, that I shouldn't have? No.

    But the character in your story...he should have just deleted her from his phone and his life, at that moment. She evidently is not stable.

    Why would he even wonder if he's a narcissist or a sociopath , after reading her note?
Here's the irony about this little story.
Everything she says in her note to him, may or may not be applicable. He's a blogger, who's full of himself. If not of her advice were applicable, he'd have deleted it and ignored her. Yet...
He pauses right at the end... and wonders - is he a narcissist or a sociopath? He'll have to pick ONE in order to get treatment.
That email COULD have been for him... ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/11/2019 8:42 am

    Quoting  :

Well... at least you apologized! Oh my...
On to the next one... ๐Ÿ˜Š I imagine you're more careful these days?
I'm still counting to ten and tripple checking... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/11/2019 8:51 am

    Quoting  :

Wow... That sounds like a classic.
Ya never thought of starting him on a series of lessons? lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
Perhaps he KNEW... how bad he was.
I know my strengths and weaknesses. You must as well.
Such a fine line between enter and delete.
Do you ever try to teach your partner how to do it... or was he just a lost cause? ๐Ÿค”
Thanks for sharing THAT one. Worthy! ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ˜ฎ

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/11/2019 8:56 am

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    >>โ€œItโ€™s a tough market to crack, unless you have a well thought out nicheโ€

    I very much agree. Mine tends to be mostly diary and I know my life isnโ€™t interesting enough on a day to day basis to keep a big readership! And havenโ€™t podcasts kind of replaced blogs, anyway?
Blog? Podcast? ๐Ÿค”
Ya still need a captivating story to tell. And tell a new exciting fresh one... over and over again. ๐Ÿ˜Š
I haven't mastered this blog thingy yet.
I don't think erotic anecdotes and quasi fiction have much of a lifespan, outside these walls.
I'm stuck... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ For now!
Yep... I'm thinking about 'cozy'. That's... a nice word.

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pollly_anna 58F  
696 posts
10/11/2019 12:34 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    That happens to me as well... Mixing up daughters. Many times I find friends with the same first name, so I've got to make sure I'm careful. ๐Ÿ‘
    You don't send out angry emails or messages to other people, that you kinda regret?
NO SO FAR that's never happened.


Paulxx001 replies on 10/11/2019 12:53 pm:
Hmmm... Well I guess you're pretty lucky ๐Ÿ€ that you don't have a temper.

SeaGirlFL 57F
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10/11/2019 2:26 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Wow!
    What a story! I'm kinda in shock. THAT... is a slice of life, that remain branded in someone's memory.
    And that last part, about him being my neighbour? Well...
    What's his address? ๐Ÿค”
    That's... a pretty heavy, misplaced text. I, would have been freaked out Or... were you expecting it? I apologize, if I'm prying.
    No worries...
    Beats any wrong note, I've received. ๐Ÿค”
Well, let's put it this way, if he was your neighbor, you'd know already...asshole American who is insecure and regularly will make himself feel important by putting down others.

Oh, we're going to have to have a bottle of wine or two for all the stories I could tell you. Some of them would curl your hair.

They'd also explain why I'm gun-shy when it comes to men. He burned the tips of every finger, and I let him, because I trust too easily.

Hey. Did you slip a vodka slushie into my tea when I wasn't looking?! I don't usually let all that out without alcohol...lol.

You just seem to ask the right questions to get me talking...

(Oh, and I knew about the other woman, and I knew her name, but, no, I wasn't expecting that kind of a text. We were celebrating with his family, I was already there, and he was headed over. I confronted him, quietly when he arrived, and he spent the rest of the evening trying to get my forgiveness. I couldn't stand the sight of him, and tried to hide it. Likely, unsuccessfully. I've never discussed it with family.)

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/11/2019 3:47 pm

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    Well, let's put it this way, if he was your neighbor, you'd know already...asshole American who is insecure and regularly will make himself feel important by putting down others.

    Oh, we're going to have to have a bottle of wine or two for all the stories I could tell you. Some of them would curl your hair.

    They'd also explain why I'm gun-shy when it comes to men. He burned the tips of every finger, and I let him, because I trust too easily.

    Hey. Did you slip a vodka slushie into my tea when I wasn't looking?! I don't usually let all that out without alcohol...lol.

    You just seem to ask the right questions to get me talking...

    (Oh, and I knew about the other woman, and I knew her name, but, no, I wasn't expecting that kind of a text. We were celebrating with his family, I was already there, and he was headed over. I confronted him, quietly when he arrived, and he spent the rest of the evening trying to get my forgiveness. I couldn't stand the sight of him, and tried to hide it. Likely, unsuccessfully. I've never discussed it with family.)
Thanks for sharing something so personal.
I imagine we ALL have 'stories' to share. I like to refer them... as 'layers', to a novel that's not yet over.
Ya know... I have a Private Mail Box?
That chapter you described is something that I can relate to!
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Heathen_G 63M
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10/11/2019 4:26 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Here's the irony about this little story.
    Everything she says in her note to him, may or may not be applicable. He's a blogger, who's full of himself. If not of her advice were applicable, he'd have deleted it and ignored her. Yet...
    He pauses right at the end... and wonders - is he a narcissist or a sociopath? He'll have to pick ONE in order to get treatment.
    That email COULD have been for him... ๐Ÿ˜Š
LOL... not necessarily. Many women, since the #metoo belch, try to put men in the sociopath or narcissist category, by claiming , "He's full of himself", if he shows the slightest hint of still having his patriarchal balls intact. For these women, this comment, "He's full of himself", is her go-to defensive measure when she feels at loss for words to make a cogent debate.
In reality, he is likely neither.


Paulxx001 replies on 10/11/2019 5:18 pm:
In this case (although your argument is a valid one), it's likely he's 'one' or the 'other'. Why else would he search Google? ๐Ÿค”
That other stuff you mentioned... is a route that's interesting to follow but one...I prefer to analyze.
That ONE is a "lose, lose situation," isn't it? ๐Ÿฆƒ

Livin_my_Life14 51F

10/11/2019 6:44 pm

Not any more. I donโ€™t multichat or I donโ€™t email very many at 1 times. I try to talk to 1 person. Even if someone is nasty to me- be gone before a house falls on you! I donโ€™t keep engaging. I donโ€™t have time for haters!!

Not all women are into the Me Too movement! That crazyford lady who came after Brett K was a nut job!! Any normal person could see she was lying. The vagina hats are stupid. Donโ€™t get me started ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚


Paulxx001 64M  
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10/11/2019 8:17 pm

    Quoting Livin_my_Life14:
    Not any more. I donโ€™t multichat or I donโ€™t email very many at 1 times. I try to talk to 1 person. Even if someone is nasty to me- be gone before a house falls on you! I donโ€™t keep engaging. I donโ€™t have time for haters!!

    Not all women are into the Me Too movement! That crazyford lady who came after Brett K was a nut job!! Any normal person could see she was lying. The vagina hats are stupid. Donโ€™t get me started ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
Wow... You're so level headed.
Don't get you started...? Go for it!
"Vaginal hats"... lol. Good one.
So.. whatcha gonna do now? I'm watching a movie... chilling and flipping channels.
And of course... perusing this 'Abyss'. ๐Ÿ˜Š

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flannel_light 59F  
4492 posts
10/12/2019 2:02 pm

I know how she feels. I am going to start making a list of all the ass holes stat stand me up and post it on here.

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Paulxx001 64M  
22498 posts
10/12/2019 2:28 pm

    Quoting flannel_light:
    I know how she feels. I am going to start making a list of all the ass holes stat stand me up and post it on here.
You? Stood up? ๐Ÿค” No! ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
I imagine they were never serious, right?
Well... I'll be looking for it.
Besides that... what's up with you? Any plans today? Drop by any time. ๐Ÿ‘

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pocogato12 69F  
37204 posts
10/13/2019 11:44 am

Holy Shit. That person needs to be ashamed both by sending it and by the weak apology. No manners and certainly no compunction about rupturing at the seams. They would be on my very cooled off list immediately.. Wonder how she discovered she sent it to the wrong person???? No slushies for her

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Paulxx001 64M  
22498 posts
10/13/2019 12:12 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    Holy Shit. That person needs to be ashamed both by sending it and by the weak apology. No manners and certainly no compunction about rupturing at the seams. They would be on my very cooled off list immediately.. Wonder how she discovered she sent it to the wrong person???? No slushies for her
Then again... She hit some nerves with him.
He did Google narcissist vs sociopath, so she was partially right? lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
Yep... I've never made THAT big a mistake.
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Heathen_G 63M
7968 posts
10/13/2019 2:41 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Then again... She hit some nerves with him.
    He did Google narcissist vs sociopath, so she was partially right? lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
    Yep... I've never made THAT big a mistake.
    ๐Ÿ‘โ˜•๐Ÿฆƒ๐Ÿ˜Š
ha... no.. if she told him he had to work on his integument , he would have looked that word up , too. And that's not "Hitting a nerve", that's wanting to know what she means.


Paulxx001 64M  
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10/13/2019 3:59 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    ha... no.. if she told him he had to work on his integument , he would have looked that word up , too. And that's not "Hitting a nerve", that's wanting to know what she means.
lol... Ok.. So I had to look up that word.
Well... I learned something new!
Thanks for that one! Yep. Worthy...
Now how to find a place for it in a conversation? ๐Ÿค”

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Paulxx001 64M  
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10/21/2019 11:06 am

    Quoting  :

Sounds like a touch and go situation! lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
Glad to hear that you survived it. Or did you? ๐Ÿค”

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