Ever Been... Wrapped Up In Your Thoughts... And Sat There... Naked ๐Ÿค”  

Paulxx001 64M  
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7/26/2019 8:31 am

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Ever Been... Wrapped Up In Your Thoughts... And Sat There... Naked ๐Ÿค”

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Have you ever been, wrapped up in your thoughts? Have you ever sat there (perhaps naked, like I was), in a favorite chair or one that's comfortable... and wondered; What if, things would be different, today?

I'm not talking about your regrets or about, second guessing yourself. I'm not talking about, beating yourself up, over some decision you made. I'm just talking about, different . Today!

Different house. Different car. Different friends. A different city or town and maybe even, different country? Perhaps a different or cat or... can I say - ? A different lover, wife or husband. I don't know. I'm not sure... exactly. You know what I mean?

I'm just talking, about different . Like asking her , if she'd... untie these ropes.


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So....
Ever have one of those days where... you just THINK too much?
๐Ÿค” ๐Ÿ˜€
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Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
7/26/2019 8:32 am

I'd say today... was one of those days, for me. I spent a LOT of time thinking... about a bunch of random stuff.

I was thinking about the fact that July, is almost over. I can't believe, where summer is going, right? I mean it's... flying by. The other night I was driving from the marina and it was just past nine, in the evening. It was already dark. A couple of weeks ago, that little road was still lit up, by the sun. I've got a bunch of things I've gotta do, before the summer is over.

Then I drifted completely off the tracks... to thinking about ; what if things, would be different, today?

And now folks... we're back, where we started.
๐Ÿ˜Š
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Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
7/26/2019 8:32 am

Yep... I think, I followed all of that...
I think so... ๐Ÿค”


Dutch071122 33M
16 posts
7/26/2019 8:59 am

Yeah


superbjversion2 66F
24122 posts
7/26/2019 9:28 am

(I followed it)

Yep...I do some 'what if'ing myself.
But in the last year, I quit my job and moved to the other side of my state so 'different' hasn't been that long ago.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


jd428776 55M
67 posts
7/26/2019 9:30 am

Been thinking that myself... for the past year. As a result, I just began divorce proceedings, moved into my own place, am seeking a new vocation (after 24 years as an executive with the same company), and am now building something new. We are never guaranteed tomorrow so I won't procrastinate any longer.
Currently I am in a new home, new marital status, new way of thinking and boundary setting. It feels scary but also liberating! Good timing of your post!


ltrskr 73M  
5132 posts
7/26/2019 10:03 am

Sometimes I sits and thinks, Sometimes I just sits! LOL!

Yep We're all done that at one time or another!

Have a great w/e!


sexyldy1000 61F  
9549 posts
7/26/2019 11:48 am

I believe everything happens for a reason. Although I have had my share of challenges, I do not look back and think 'what if'?
Today, would have been my Mother's 91st birthday. She's been gone 16 yrs and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about her. Fond memories are filling my head. I also find myself, stopping, catching my breath and doing a double-take when I see her image in the mirror...until I realize it's me, not her.


Livin_my_Life14 51F

7/26/2019 11:52 am

Yea, I use to think different was good but itโ€™s not. Different can Be harder or difficult. The unknown is scary.


japaneseass 54F
50214 posts
7/26/2019 11:58 am

yah...i think of that what-if scenario a lot...but then, it meant to happened in the way it did...it's got to be...as if it was divine intervention...i like where i am now...in my life...and i am very lucky though my life...


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
7/26/2019 12:33 pm

Have a great weekend! ๐Ÿ‘


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
7/26/2019 12:38 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    (I followed it)

    Yep...I do some 'what if'ing myself.
    But in the last year, I quit my job and moved to the other side of my state so 'different' hasn't been that long ago.
Good for you! ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ˜Š And you sound happy for it!
I have a low set of standards... Different for me?
I'm thinking; different pair of boxer briefs... that fit, the way that fricken picture on that package - shows how it's supposed ta fit! ๐Ÿ˜Š๐ŸŒ


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
7/26/2019 12:45 pm

    Quoting jd428776:
    Been thinking that myself... for the past year. As a result, I just began divorce proceedings, moved into my own place, am seeking a new vocation (after 24 years as an executive with the same company), and am now building something new. We are never guaranteed tomorrow so I won't procrastinate any longer.
    Currently I am in a new home, new marital status, new way of thinking and boundary setting. It feels scary but also liberating! Good timing of your post!
Wow! That's different all right! ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
Yep... you're making headway.
You sound well balanced , intelligent and your profile shows that you work out AND you have a healthy dick...
What the fuck are you doing, here on A F F?
Hey... I'm happy to provide the irony. Drop by any time... ๐Ÿ‘


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
7/26/2019 12:47 pm

    Quoting ltrskr:
    Sometimes I sits and thinks, Sometimes I just sits! LOL!

    Yep We're all done that at one time or another!

    Have a great w/e!
Yep... You're right about that. ๐Ÿ˜Š
Sometimes it just depends on whether there's a half empty glass in front you... or one of those, half full ones.
Drop by any time. ๐Ÿ‘


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
7/26/2019 12:51 pm

    Quoting  :

Sounds like you're blessed. ๐Ÿ˜Š It helps that you're a fighter - a positive person. ๐Ÿ‘
Aren't we all, in some ways?
Yeah... I wouldn't change the big stuff. ๐Ÿ˜Š
But I would like to find a different way to work. The route I'm taking, sucks!


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
7/26/2019 12:57 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    I believe everything happens for a reason. Although I have had my share of challenges, I do not look back and think 'what if'?
    Today, would have been my Mother's 91st birthday. She's been gone 16 yrs and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about her. Fond memories are filling my head. I also find myself, stopping, catching my breath and doing a double-take when I see her image in the mirror...until I realize it's me, not her.
Wow... I understand. That's a coincidence... it's my father's birthday today as well.
Thanks for sharing.
I was looking for a simple 'different'. How about we extend today to 48 hours? It's such a nice day here and I haven't taken advantage of it yet. You? ๐Ÿค”


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
7/26/2019 12:59 pm

    Quoting Livin_my_Life14:
    Yea, I use to think different was good but itโ€™s not. Different can Be harder or difficult. The unknown is scary.
Yep... I hear you. I'm like that too sometimes.
I'm always hesitant, whenever I see a new detour in this fricken city. I never REALLY know, where I'm going to wind up. You know? ๐Ÿค”


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
7/26/2019 1:04 pm

    Quoting japaneseass:
    yah...i think of that what-if scenario a lot...but then, it meant to happened in the way it did...it's got to be...as if it was divine intervention...i like where i am now...in my life...and i am very lucky though my life...
You... are in a great place... when you can think like that. Good for you! ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ˜Š
Like I might have mentioned before... I'm rather shallow. So just give me a set of rules to live by....
You know the ones where it says it's ok to go 100 miles per hour, on the highway... when it's late at night and you're the ONLY ONE on the road? You know.. THAT rule? ๐Ÿค”


sexyldy1000 61F  
9549 posts
7/26/2019 2:56 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Wow... I understand. That's a coincidence... it's my father's birthday today as well.
    Thanks for sharing.
    I was looking for a simple 'different'. How about we extend today to 48 hours? It's such a nice day here and I haven't taken advantage of it yet. You? ๐Ÿค”
Oh like a โ€˜do overโ€™ ?
Itโ€™s been a hot and sunny day here too. Havenโ€™t taken advantage of it either. I will bring the wine ๐Ÿฅ‚


Tmptrzz 59F  
106083 posts
7/26/2019 4:07 pm

Yes unfortunately I have like my day today, but I am not going to bore you with all of that. I hope you have a great weekend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
7/26/2019 4:25 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Oh like a โ€˜do overโ€™ ?
    Itโ€™s been a hot and sunny day here too. Havenโ€™t taken advantage of it either. I will bring the wine ๐Ÿฅ‚
You know where to find me... ๐Ÿ˜Š Right?


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
7/26/2019 4:27 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Yes unfortunately I have like my day today, but I am not going to bore you with all of that. I hope you have a great weekend..
Yeah.. I didn't wanna make it one of THOSE blogs... I was thinking smaller stuff... like.. give me another 24 hours today?
It's so nice outside and summer is flying by. Ya know what I mean? ๐Ÿค”


RyuFujin 54F  
1440 posts
7/26/2019 5:02 pm

Somewhere in a parallel universe, I'm a Rich Bitch.

Somewhere in that universe, I've made my fortune creating something that no one has before. Or written a best-selling novel, perhaps so good that it has been made into a movie or series on the tele, and has won many prestigious awards. I live a most fantabulous life, but I share my wealth with organizations that are near and dear to my heart.

Well, that last one I do anyway, when I can.

This is one reason why I loved the series "Sliders" so much while it was on
.

"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.


sexyldy1000 61F  
9549 posts
7/26/2019 6:39 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    You know where to find me... ๐Ÿ˜Š Right?
Itโ€™s all good ๐Ÿ‘


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
7/26/2019 6:49 pm

    Quoting RyuFujin:
    Somewhere in a parallel universe, I'm a Rich Bitch.

    Somewhere in that universe, I've made my fortune creating something that no one has before. Or written a best-selling novel, perhaps so good that it has been made into a movie or series on the tele, and has won many prestigious awards. I live a most fantabulous life, but I share my wealth with organizations that are near and dear to my heart.

    Well, that last one I do anyway, when I can.

    This is one reason why I loved the series "Sliders" so much while it was on.
True on all accounts...
Isn't it fun.. to think about stuff like that...
Best seller... right?
Would you still talk to me if you were famous? ๐Ÿค” ๐Ÿ”ฅ


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
7/26/2019 6:51 pm

oki doki... ๐Ÿ˜Š


mc_justmc 61M  
6926 posts
7/26/2019 6:52 pm

I wish, I rarely get time to do any deep thinking, too many demands on my time.


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
7/26/2019 9:15 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I wish, I rarely get time to do any deep thinking, too many demands on my time.
I know where you're coming from.
One of the disadvantages of traffic, is that you burn a lot of time....
.... and ya got a lotta time, ta think. ๐Ÿ‘
Thinking isn't bad. Just can't let it get outta hand... if you know what I mean? ๐Ÿค”


scoupe42 58M  
13019 posts
7/27/2019 11:00 am

The "What if" just kind of make a person feel more like a failure. I just try make the best of "Now"!


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
7/27/2019 7:54 pm

    Quoting scoupe42:
    The "What if" just kind of make a person feel more like a failure. I just try make the best of "Now"!
Yep... I agree.
The "difference" I was looking for was trivial and attainable... like a day without traffic...
Or... if I could ever figure out what that stupid tiny rattle is... under my hood...
lol. .. Yep I hear ya! ๐Ÿ‘


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
7/27/2019 8:45 pm

    Quoting  :

Really? hmmm ๐Ÿค” Lucky you ๐Ÿ€
Most of the time, that works for me.
Sometimes... not so much...
Tonight it might... The more active one is, the more likely thoughts don't have the time to take up excess space, right? ๐Ÿ‘


author51 59F  
128877 posts
7/28/2019 7:19 am

I have definitely had a lot of "What If " moments in my life and often think about them both when naked and dressed .Especially when on holidays here.๐Ÿ˜Š

You can never have enough JOY in your life..xoxo

TEASE YOU TUESDAY SEXUAL SIREN


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
7/28/2019 9:05 pm

    Quoting author51:
    I have definitely had a lot of "What If " moments in my life and often think about them both when naked and dressed .Especially when on holidays here.๐Ÿ˜Š
I can imagine... ๐Ÿ˜Š
Hope you're having a great time. Someone watering your plants, while you're away? ๐Ÿค” lol ๐Ÿ˜‚


RyuFujin 54F  
1440 posts
7/29/2019 10:33 pm

Would you still talk to me if you were famous?

Sure I would. If I became famous, I wouldn't forget the people who supported me and my crazy-ass ideas.

I might become a bit more reclusive and selective in whom I let into my life, but down to my core... fame and/or a lot of $$$ wouldn't change me.


"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
7/30/2019 12:27 am

    Quoting RyuFujin:
    Would you still talk to me if you were famous?

    Sure I would. If I became famous, I wouldn't forget the people who supported me and my crazy-ass ideas.

    I might become a bit more reclusive and selective in whom I let into my life, but down to my core... fame and/or a lot of $$$ wouldn't change me.
Good for you! That's the way to do it! ๐Ÿ‘
Hey.... before you get famous... better make your A F F account... private... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
Or would you even be HERE? ๐Ÿค”


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
7/30/2019 5:27 am

    Quoting  :

Yep... I hear you. ๐Ÿค”
Maybe... that's why people drink, and do other things. They numb their brains so they won't think so much.


RyuFujin 54F  
1440 posts
7/30/2019 4:02 pm

Good for you! That's the way to do it! ๐Ÿ‘
Hey.... before you get famous... better make your A F F account... private... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
Or would you even be HERE?

=================================
Would I even be here? I'm going to quote Master Yoda on this one:
"Hard to say. Always in motion, the future is..."



"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
7/30/2019 6:58 pm

    Quoting RyuFujin:
    Good for you! That's the way to do it! ๐Ÿ‘
    Hey.... before you get famous... better make your A F F account... private... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
    Or would you even be HERE?

    =================================
    Would I even be here? I'm going to quote Master Yoda on this one:
    "Hard to say. Always in motion, the future is..."

Motion is good. ๐Ÿ‘
Hard... ye knows... might be good, as well.
Hey.... Who knows, right?
I'm sitting down by the lake as I read this.
You know me... I always have a chair ready, for a guest.
It's peaceful here tonight? Sprite? Coke? Evan water? It's chilling.... and ice cold.
So.. How's by you? ๐Ÿค” ๐Ÿ˜Ž
Anything interesting going on? ๐Ÿ˜ถ


SeaGirlFL 57F
9220 posts
8/10/2019 12:27 pm

Ha, I always think too much, lol.

Sometime, I think about what it would be like to live a different kind of a life, in a different kind of place, to have a different history of experiences that have made me who I am. Then, my brain hurts and I think about something else.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." โ€“ Mark Black


Paulxx001 64M  
22467 posts
8/10/2019 4:13 pm

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    Ha, I always think too much, lol.

    Sometime, I think about what it would be like to live a different kind of a life, in a different kind of place, to have a different history of experiences that have made me who I am. Then, my brain hurts and I think about something else.
lol... THAT pretty much... describes me.
Especially when it comes to the coinsidence of meeting my wife and having my kids. Then I realize... I wouldn't have wanted it to be any other way... ๐Ÿ˜Š


SeaGirlFL 57F
9220 posts
8/11/2019 9:47 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    lol... THAT pretty much... describes me.
    Especially when it comes to the coinsidence of meeting my wife and having my kids. Then I realize... I wouldn't have wanted it to be any other way... ๐Ÿ˜Š
Yes, exactly.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." โ€“ Mark Black


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