Couples... Have Conversations... And Make Plans... And Have Sex... ๐Ÿ˜Š ๐Ÿ”ฅ  

Paulxx001 64M  
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10/24/2019 12:03 pm

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Couples... Have Conversations... And Make Plans... And Have Sex... ๐Ÿ˜Š ๐Ÿ”ฅ

I was part of a couple ... once. We'd have sex from time to time. I also remember (when we weren't 'doing it' ), the reassuring warmth I'd feel, as we'd playfully snuggle up next to each other and discuss new plans and adventures. As I think back now, many 'great ideas' - went south. I recall one day...

She finally found the tennis rackets, that were lost in the closet. She looked at me gleefully and smiled. "We should see if Greg and Andrea wanna play doubles."

"That's a great idea," I replied. "It will be..."

"... fucking STUPID ...! " she shouted angrily at me (drenched in sweat), hours later. We'd lost seven straight sets.

Then there was the time, I'd dug up the picnic basket. I had always boasted how much fun, picnics in the forest were. I carefully packed it up with wine and cheese and all sorts of goodies... and proudly announced to her ; "Now I'll show you exactly why ..."

"... I HATE... fucking mosquitoes," she yelled at me (that afternoon), while smacking another one off her thigh." Did you even bring, the fucking spray? Why do I have to do everything for you?"

Or the moment I pulled out our tent, from under some clutter in the garage. "Are you thinking what I'm thinking ?" I looked at her.

She giggled back at me and excitedly replied; "Camping is sooo much..."

"... fucking BULLSHIT !" I bellowed at her, as we drove out of that monsoon flooded camp site.

On another occasion, I had a well intentioned notion - to take her fishing. She was eager to try it out. I prepared her for the experience ; "Wait ... till we get out on that beautiful, long pier."

"I know," she laughed back at me, while hurriedly packing up the car. "I've got a feeling, that this is gonna be..."

"... shittier than I thought... it EVER could be," she whined to me after many fishless hours, in the blazing summer sun.

And of course, I'll always think back fondly, to the year we decided to host - Christmas dinner - at our home. I looked at her, as I helped set the beautiful table. Carols played in the background, as I spoke ; "You know? I'm happy we're having everyone, over here. "

She lovingly leaned over and kissed me and replied ; "Me too. I am genuinely excited about getting everyone ..."

"... to fucking leave , as SOON as possible," she hissed to me, later that evening. The turkey, hadn't been served yet.

That's the way, a lot of our adventures worked out. Couples have dialogues and make plans. Single people have monologues and just - do it. I don't mind the monologues. At least I'm not hearing the words - ' Go fuck yourself' - as often.


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You must have your own favorite conversations, adventures and some good ideas - that went bad... right? ๐Ÿค”
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Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
10/24/2019 12:03 pm

Well... Those were just some of the ones, I had. There were tons of others. But ya know what? Eventually we'd sit back and laugh about it. What else could we do? ๐Ÿค” ๐Ÿ˜Š


Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
10/24/2019 12:03 pm

Although... there was this one time. Ugh... Never mind. THAT'S, a story for another time. ๐Ÿ˜ถ๐Ÿ˜ฎ


positively4you 72F  
4569 posts
10/24/2019 12:20 pm

Oh so funny. My fave from married days was when he said invite friends over, and โ€œheโ€ would do the cooking. I can relax. But...his cooking was sitting by the grill while the meat cooked, drinking beer, talking sports with the guys, while โ€œIโ€ set the table, made and put together the appetizers and side dishes, made sure everyone is served and then, cleaning it all up while he slept it off on the couch. Yep, marital bliss.


rickshot5 36M

10/24/2019 12:47 pm

Couple conversation with other courses or with other single girl or boy both can be enjoyale


EnigmaInitiative 53F
5689 posts
10/24/2019 1:47 pm

You're so funny. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Heathen_G 63M
7963 posts
10/24/2019 3:25 pm

People always , and I mean always, over romanticize being a committed couple. So much life time is wasted pursuing that, and doing that "Together" crap.


japaneseass 54F
50214 posts
10/24/2019 3:34 pm

um...yah...and this is why we don't do anything together anymore...and that's why we are still together, maybe??? lol...


Zitu69 26M
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10/24/2019 3:44 pm

Jackob University er naam ba chinta to mathatei aanar kono karon nai


hereforthefun242 30M

10/24/2019 4:22 pm

very nice very nice.


SeaGirlFL 57F
9220 posts
10/24/2019 5:24 pm

Well at least you could laugh about it together. That is the important part.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." โ€“ Mark Black


bbuckwwheat 63M
6234 posts
10/24/2019 6:32 pm

The best of plans...

Paul, you have a great way of telling a story. This is just another of your great stories.

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Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
10/24/2019 7:23 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    Oh so funny. My fave from married days was when he said invite friends over, and โ€œheโ€ would do the cooking. I can relax. But...his cooking was sitting by the grill while the meat cooked, drinking beer, talking sports with the guys, while โ€œIโ€ set the table, made and put together the appetizers and side dishes, made sure everyone is served and then, cleaning it all up while he slept it off on the couch. Yep, marital bliss.
Glad to hear your laugh.
I've done THAT, but I took care of everything. I think. lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
Yep... I know what you mean.
Dja ever have your girlfriends over and he served the chips? ๐Ÿค”
Yes... us guys are bad.


Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
10/24/2019 7:23 pm

    Quoting rickshot5:
    Couple conversation with other courses or with other single girl or boy both can be enjoyale
I would agree.
Thanks for popping in. ๐Ÿ‘


Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
10/24/2019 7:25 pm

    Quoting  :

I guess I didn't want to turn this into THAT type of post.
Sorry about that. I thought people might have funny stories to share. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ™


Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
10/24/2019 7:26 pm

... and so are you... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚


smartasswoman 64F  
35705 posts
10/24/2019 7:26 pm

Oh yeah, Thanksgiving.

I remember hosting a group of my friends with my newish boyfriend. I cooked my first turkey which was quite the stressful experience. As we were sitting around relaxing after the meal, he ended up giving a massage to one of my female friends (to show off the massage skills he had learned in the massage class we were taking together).


Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
10/24/2019 7:28 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    People always , and I mean always, over romanticize being a committed couple. So much life time is wasted pursuing that, and doing that "Together" crap.
Romance is good. It's what movies are made of and it's what's powered several generations of dreamers and movie buffs.
But yeah...
Even YOU must have a story to share?
Don't give me your curmudgeon stuff. ๐Ÿ˜Š


Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
10/24/2019 7:30 pm

    Quoting japaneseass:
    um...yah...and this is why we don't do anything together anymore...and that's why we are still together, maybe??? lol...
That's funny. But I totally understand. I really do!
I can only imagine some of your attempts. We're they like mine? ๐Ÿค” ๐Ÿ˜Š


Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
10/24/2019 7:31 pm

    Quoting Zitu69:
    Jackob University er naam ba chinta to mathatei aanar kono karon nai
Okie dokie... ๐Ÿ˜Š ๐Ÿ‘


Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
10/24/2019 7:32 pm

I'm thinking points? ๐Ÿค”
Hey.. pop in sometime! ๐Ÿ‘


Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
10/24/2019 7:37 pm

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    Well at least you could laugh about it together. That is the important part.
Laughing about it is good.
But the fights during? Lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
It wasn't ALL failure.. but you know what I mean?
You've got a story or two to share, I'm sure.
Or is it just... that people want to forget about stuff from yesterday?
I laughed.. eventually... You? ๐Ÿค”


Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
10/24/2019 7:51 pm

    Quoting bbuckwwheat:
    The best of plans...

    Paul, you have a great way of telling a story. This is just another of your great stories.
'The best of plans ...' - and then reality. Laughter always won... in the end... after a while. At least for me. You?
I'm glad some here, got it.
I'm just amusing myself.
Happy to oblige. Thanks again. ๐Ÿ‘


Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
10/24/2019 7:59 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    Oh yeah, Thanksgiving.

    I remember hosting a group of my friends with my newish boyfriend. I cooked my first turkey which was quite the stressful experience. As we were sitting around relaxing after the meal, he ended up giving a massage to one of my female friends (to show off the massage skills he had learned in the massage class we were taking together).
Oooops.... Was that funny? After a while?
Hey... And I'm sure there are a dozen other anecdotes. Right? Blog worthy? ๐Ÿค”
So... then what happened... ?


author51 59F  
128815 posts
10/24/2019 11:55 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Well... Those were just some of the ones, I had. There were tons of others. But ya know what? Eventually we'd sit back and laugh about it. What else could we do? ๐Ÿค” ๐Ÿ˜Š
LMAO!! Love this post my coffee mate about what happens when you are a couple and plans go awry.. I have a fishing one I still laugh about..We went out in our canoe on a beautiful day and all of a sudden the sky darkened and the wind picked up.. We got drenched and finally made it back to shore. There were change rooms luckily as it was a park we paddled back to.. We went into the change room, took off our clothes and had sex...Unfortunately we had to put our wet clothes back on and drive home which was two hours away...lol.Good times they were..


Heathen_G 63M
7963 posts
10/25/2019 3:41 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Romance is good. It's what movies are made of and it's what's powered several generations of dreamers and movie buffs.
    But yeah...
    Even YOU must have a story to share?
    Don't give me your curmudgeon stuff. ๐Ÿ˜Š
Don't give me your curmudgeon stuff. What you tempermentally think of as being a curmudgeon-reply, is more factually a reply of wisdom.

So you want to choose one woman and spend some of your life time with her? That's fine. Go do your thing.

Romance is good. .... Not when you use it to put on a show, or beg, for sex. The woman/women you choose, should want to have you without the Hollywood concept of romance tied to the deal to get some pussy.

When you're established with a woman, fine....then romance is good. But to use the concept to coax a woman into bending over, makes you look weak.

It's what movies are made of .... Yes, fiction.

and it's what's powered several generations of dreamers and movie buffs..... No... more like "Brainwashed", not "Powered".


Paulxx001 replies on 10/25/2019 8:33 am:
I guess love stories are not your favorite brand of movie. lol ๐Ÿ˜‚

Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
10/25/2019 8:27 am

    Quoting author51:
    LMAO!! Love this post my coffee mate about what happens when you are a couple and plans go awry.. I have a fishing one I still laugh about..We went out in our canoe on a beautiful day and all of a sudden the sky darkened and the wind picked up.. We got drenched and finally made it back to shore. There were change rooms luckily as it was a park we paddled back to.. We went into the change room, took off our clothes and had sex...Unfortunately we had to put our wet clothes back on and drive home which was two hours away...lol.Good times they were..
Glad you laughed. In the end, that's all you can do. Your fishing story sounds like it CAME out all right. lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
Yep... the mishaps people have are all worthy. I'm sure you've got a ton of other adventures you had! ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ˜Š


Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
10/25/2019 8:35 am

    Quoting  :

They sure are!
I didn't even touch on the number of times we got lost... even though we had a map.
Omg... the fights! lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
I'm sure most people have THOSE horror stories! Yep... couples. Who knew? ๐Ÿค”


smartasswoman 64F  
35705 posts
10/25/2019 11:44 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Oooops.... Was that funny? After a while?
    Hey... And I'm sure there are a dozen other anecdotes. Right? Blog worthy? ๐Ÿค”
    So... then what happened... ?
Ummm no, it was mortifying to me throughout.

These days - if it were with the right group of friends - I don't think it would bother me so much or at all.

I posted a series of blogs about this relationship when I was new blogger back in 2006. I think hardly anyone found it interesting, but at the time, it was cathartic for me I probably wouldn't have remembered this Thanksgiving incident except for the fact that I've recently been saving off old blog posts.


Paulxx001 replies on 10/25/2019 12:53 pm:
2006? Wow! THOSE, were the days... or so I hear. ๐Ÿค”

scoupe42 58M  
13018 posts
10/26/2019 5:47 am

Bravo, bravo, good blog! Thx for sharing


Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
10/26/2019 9:48 am

    Quoting scoupe42:
    Bravo, bravo, good blog! Thx for sharing
Thanks for popping in. ๐Ÿ‘


Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
10/26/2019 9:52 am

    Quoting  :

True... everyone, has plans that went sideways. I have a few of my own, that still make me smile. ๐Ÿ˜Š


Tmptrzz 59F  
106043 posts
10/26/2019 5:45 pm

Sounds like some very memorable times you both had together. Some of them reminded me of the way hubby and I talk to each other sometimes. I hope you have a great evening..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
10/26/2019 6:37 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Sounds like some very memorable times you both had together. Some of them reminded me of the way hubby and I talk to each other sometimes. I hope you have a great evening..
I'm pretty sure, everyone has had similar types of conversations. I can only imagine and smile as I imagine yours. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜ฎ


Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
10/28/2019 9:51 am

    Quoting  :

Isn't this possible with any couple? ๐Ÿค”
I'm sure you have had your own plans that went, sideways, no? lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
I can only imagine how some of your adventures evolved! ๐Ÿ˜‚๐ŸŽƒ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ‘ฝ๐Ÿ‘ป
Blog idea? ๐Ÿค”


pocogato12 69F  
37175 posts
10/28/2019 11:34 am

I think my most memorable "discussion" was the time we got trapped in a cove in a no'r easter in a 17 foot lapstrak yes I spelled it correctly) ALL night. Seaside sex is not all it's cracked up to be

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Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
10/28/2019 11:51 am

    Quoting pocogato12:
    I think my most memorable "discussion" was the time we got trapped in a cove in a no'r easter in a 17 foot lapstrak yes I spelled it correctly) ALL night. Seaside sex is not all it's cracked up to be
Trapped? ๐Ÿค” Eeeee... spooky!
And ya had sex in the middle of a storm? Alrighty then! You go girl! ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’ฆ
So dja ever make it home? lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
Boats are not stable, are they. Neither are buses or motorcycles. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ‘ฝ๐Ÿ’€๐ŸŽƒ๐Ÿ‘ป


BeccaLuvs 59F
20734 posts
10/28/2019 2:03 pm

Perhaps Paul, not planning anything, just "doing" on impulse?! One thing for sure, doing different, and keeping your relationship exciting - hopefully that could be possible?! Even after say, twenty plus years?! Would be great!

..... And always 'hold onto all those sexy thoughts'!
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Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
10/28/2019 3:03 pm

    Quoting BeccaLuvs:
    Perhaps Paul, not planning anything, just "doing" on impulse?! One thing for sure, doing different, and keeping your relationship exciting - hopefully that could be possible?! Even after say, twenty plus years?! Would be great!
No complaints from me. We had as many and more - good times, than we had bad. And even the bad ones were funny... after a while. Ya know what I mean? ๐Ÿค”
Yep... I agree. When I do something on impulse, chances of a great time are good.
Sounds like you know the secret. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ˜Š


sweet_VM 63F
81650 posts
11/3/2019 7:23 am

Too funny ty hugs V. Your a great writer by the way.

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
11/3/2019 9:49 am

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Too funny ty hugs V. Your a great writer by the way.
Happy to share a smile with you.โ˜•๐Ÿ™‚
Hope your day is a peaceful one. ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ˜Š


sexyldy1000 61F  
9546 posts
11/14/2019 2:17 pm

When I was planning my wedding, it was common to invite immediate family, eg. a brother or sister to be in the wedding party. Since I didn't have a sister, I asked my sister-in-law to be, to be a bridesmaid. A few months later, she announced she was pregnant with a due date of 2 months after the wedding. I had visions of all kinds of problems, i.e. getting a dresses, her discomfort, etc. I 'uninvited' her to be in the wedding party. Amongst other issues, the wedding day was less than a joyous occasion with a very perceptible divide amongst the guests!


Paulxx001 64M  
22457 posts
11/14/2019 6:02 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    When I was planning my wedding, it was common to invite immediate family, eg. a brother or sister to be in the wedding party. Since I didn't have a sister, I asked my sister-in-law to be, to be a bridesmaid. A few months later, she announced she was pregnant with a due date of 2 months after the wedding. I had visions of all kinds of problems, i.e. getting a dresses, her discomfort, etc. I 'uninvited' her to be in the wedding party. Amongst other issues, the wedding day was less than a joyous occasion with a very perceptible divide amongst the guests!
Hmmm... Interesting.
I'm sure there are a plethora of things, that went into THAT decision.
It would be interesting to find out more.
So... How's things in TO? ๐Ÿค”


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