A Fly On The Wall... Watching - Instant Karma... 😉  

Paulxx001 64M  
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7/18/2019 12:26 pm

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A Fly On The Wall... Watching - Instant Karma... 😉

A fly on the wall... or... a 'Paul' on the curb? They both... see... and hear things. The fly, has wings. Paul (that's me)... waited... for the valet, to deliver his car.

Standing next to me, was a handsome, well dressed, young man. He nodded and smiled. We both waited, for our cars. I'd just stepped out of that 'Thai' restaurant, behind me. The meal was fabulously authentic, if you know what I mean. It was... salty and sweet... and sour and spicy. Really spicy! But I liked it like that.

An attractive young woman, draped in a fitted black dress, sauntered closer and joined our queue. She flashed a radiant smile and gave another valet, her ticket. He... scurried off.

That, young man (the one next to me), turned and spoke to that, young woman.

"Great meal, wasn't it? This place deserves its reputation... no?" he remarked.

She nodded her head. "I thought it was fantastic. I wish my boyfriend had felt the same. He didn't like it. I blew a wad of cash here - its his birthday. And he's in the bathroom, throwing up... half the bill," she replied while laughing. "He lied to me, about liking spicy food," she'd stopped laughing. A tear... propped itself, into a corner of one of her dark, smokey eyes.

Taken aback... by her honesty and vulnerability, the young man spoke again; "Don't feel bad. My girlfriend, is doing the EXACT, same thing. She's in the lady's room. She couldn't stand , this place. She never stopped complaining."

The young woman, wiped the tear from her eye and laughed nervously. "Really? I loved the meal. I made reservations, months ago. I had to save a few weeks. He told me, he wants to try different foods. No matter where we go... he fucking hates it."

"He sounds exactly , like my girlfriend. I can't take her anywhere," the young man replied. "Maybe... we should hook up... your guy and my girl ," he continued while laughing. "You should have heard what she told me, when I asked her to go sky diving with me..." and he laughed again.

The young woman perked up and spoke. "Sky diving? Are you serious? I'd love to go sky diving. I've been asking my boyfriend when WE can go. He told me; 'When Hell freezes over', " she shrugged her shoulders and smiled sadly.

And with that tiny shrug, the conversation ended. There were no 'goodbyes'. The valets had arrived. Their dates, stepped out of the restaurant and into, their respective cars.

I stood there and then watched something, completely unexpected.

That handsome young man -bumped - the car, of THAT beautiful young woman. It was a nudge, that was hardly worth noticing - but I did. So did, both drivers. He immediately, opened his door and began apologizing profusely. She, was already walking toward her rear bumper. The young man, promised to pay for any damage he had caused. There was none , to see.

I watched, as he scribbled his name and number on a piece of paper and gave it to her. She touched his hand and took it from his fingers... and folded it, into her purse. I watched, as they smiled at each other. And then... they drove away.

I stood at the curb and realized what I'd just witnessed. Damn...! I'm not sure, if I would've had the imagination (or balls), to try THAT.

The valet spoke. "Sir. Sir...? Your car..."

I wondered... what it would be like, to be that fly on the wall... next time, those two meet.


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So...
How did YOU meet your ; wife, husband, lover, girlfriend, boyfriend, dentist... or dance instructor?


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Paulxx001 64M  
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7/18/2019 12:27 pm

My wife and I met in the office. I had just gotten a new job and she was my administrative assistant. ☕
We used to work hours and hours together on a variety of projects and stuff. Many late nights. I would drive her home... and that's where it started.
One night after work, I didn't drive her home. We drove to a restaurant. 🍴
Blah blah blah... you know the rest. 😊

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Paulxx001 64M  
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7/18/2019 12:28 pm

I did once meet this woman on a dating site. We started out by emailing, then texting, then talking on the phone, for hours and hours. Yep... That's how it started... 🤗

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Paulxx001 64M  
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7/18/2019 12:29 pm

My dentist? What a dumb fuck question. 😮
I had a tooth ache and I went to his office. He looked at it, took x-rays. Filled the fucking thing, then charged me an arm and a leg. Ever since then... I've been supporting his kids through private schools. Yep... 😊

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sexyldy1000 61F  
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7/18/2019 1:03 pm

As an observer (not a voyeur) and student of human behaviour, many times, I have felt like that 'fly on the wall'. Sometimes, there were things I wish I hadn't seen but they were far out-numbered by the positive ones. I often was left wondering....how things turned out....my imagination, filled in the gaps.


Tmptrzz 59F  
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7/18/2019 1:06 pm

That's a great story, and I am seeing a date real soon in their future. What a unique way of inspiring a hook up. I met my hubby while I was bartending, he used to come in with his sister and her bestie ( an ex fuck thing for him ). She was so pissed to find out he was interested in me. This is a man I would of never thought about dating ever. It just goes to show that opposites really do attract.

Thanks for the great read, and I hope you enjoy the rest of your day..

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superbjversion2 66F
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7/18/2019 3:14 pm

I enjoy your story telling very much. If I had been the 'Paul on the curb' I would have been secretly laughing at the whole situation.

I met my dance instructor at a renaissance festival when I got conscripted for audience participation.
My husband I met on a blind date. Through mutual friends. Ah...the good ol' days.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


pocogato12 69F  
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7/18/2019 4:04 pm

My last sweetie I met after receiving two very sincere letters via a web site. Those led to a sort-of blind date in front of the Custom House which turned into a gastronomic repast at a famous restaurant oddly named Fore Street ( makes ya wonder doesn't it?? )
I was a practice manager for a group of maxillofacial surgeons so you could say I "knew" every dentist in town. [ funny this site can take words out of our blogs but then goes ape when it cant recognize something added- it doesnt like maxilo]

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Paulxx001 64M  
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7/18/2019 9:14 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    As an observer (not a voyeur) and student of human behaviour, many times, I have felt like that 'fly on the wall'. Sometimes, there were things I wish I hadn't seen but they were far out-numbered by the positive ones. I often was left wondering....how things turned out....my imagination, filled in the gaps.
True... it's always interesting to think about how things turn out. 😮❤️

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Paulxx001 64M  
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7/18/2019 9:16 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    That's a great story, and I am seeing a date real soon in their future. What a unique way of inspiring a hook up. I met my hubby while I was bartending, he used to come in with his sister and her bestie ( an ex fuck thing for him ). She was so pissed to find out he was interested in me. This is a man I would of never thought about dating ever. It just goes to show that opposites really do attract.

    Thanks for the great read, and I hope you enjoy the rest of your day..
Wow... That's a great story. I can only imagine how interesting THAT must have been.
Thanks for sharing. 😘

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Paulxx001 64M  
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7/18/2019 9:19 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    I enjoy your story telling very much. If I had been the 'Paul on the curb' I would have been secretly laughing at the whole situation.

    I met my dance instructor at a renaissance festival when I got conscripted for audience participation.
    My husband I met on a blind date. Through mutual friends. Ah...the good ol' days.
Secretly laughing? 🤔 Nope.
I was trying to pay attention, without paying attention. Ya know what I mean?

Dance instructor? That's a good one!
I love that blind date concept. And it worked out for you!
THAT is a romance novel in the works, no? 🤔
Thanks for sharing. 😘

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Paulxx001 64M  
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7/18/2019 9:27 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    My last sweetie I met after receiving two very sincere letters via a web site. Those led to a sort-of blind date in front of the Custom House which turned into a gastronomic repast at a famous restaurant oddly named Fore Street ( makes ya wonder doesn't it?? )
    I was a practice manager for a group of maxillofacial surgeons so you could say I "knew" every dentist in town. [ funny this site can take words out of our blogs but then goes ape when it cant recognize something added- it doesnt like maxilo]
Well... That's a cute story.
"... maxillofacial..." you're so funny. The fact that I had to google THAT... is that proof of my illiteracy or proof that I never needed THAT type of dental work... or both. omg 😂
Thanks.
Not sure how I'll work that new word into a random convo... 😊
Famous restaurants are great places to meet people. Is there anything better than eating a wonderful meal with someone you don't know.... in order to get to know them? 🤔

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Paulxx001 64M  
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7/18/2019 9:38 pm

    Quoting  :

THAT
... is such a cute and devious... story... lol 😂
Ya did what? Hmmm... I can just imagine it. Sounds like there is a prologue there. In fact... there is MUCH more to say.
Thanks for sharing. I can visualize what you're talking about.
Sounds.. like a classic! Yep?
Will I hear the rest? 🤔 🔥

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Livin_my_Life14 51F

7/18/2019 9:58 pm

Salsa baby!! I love to dance. I was pumpin and grinding on the dance floor. Doing some dirty dancing and this guy was watching me all night. Finally at the water fountain he followed me. Asked me if I could teach him how to swivel his hips- of course I did💕💋💕


Paulxx001 64M  
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7/18/2019 11:16 pm

    Quoting Livin_my_Life14:
    Salsa baby!! I love to dance. I was pumpin and grinding on the dance floor. Doing some dirty dancing and this guy was watching me all night. Finally at the water fountain he followed me. Asked me if I could teach him how to swivel his hips- of course I did💕💋💕
Salsa! Sure... Merengue ? Oh yeah!
Ya swivel your hips? 🤔 Kool... 🔥🔥🔥
And then ya married him? 🤔
Or is that your dance instructor story? 😊😘
Dancing is great, isn't it? 👍

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yesmamallthetime 54F  
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7/19/2019 12:06 am

I have only met guys on dating websites for the past couple of years. I don't know the last time I met anyone in real life or passing. My ex fiance in the 1990s I met at work. We were engaged on Valentine's Day less than two weeks later. We lived together for 2 and half years and then I broke it off. Just could not see myself happy with him for the rest of my life. Ha. I had a part time job once at a convenience store. I worked there for about 3 months. I flirted with a lot of the customers. Well I guess I made an impression on him. A few years ago I get a FB friend request from some guy who had a few friends in common including some relatives. He said I looked familiar. I had no clue. Then a week later he asked me if I had worked at that convenience store 20 years ago. Yeah. He remembered me from 20 years ago. My how time changed the both of us. LOL He had long blonde hair back in the 1990s now a days he is bald as he shaves his head. I have gained weight. We hooked up for a little while but then he met someone else and broke off seeing me. He married someone last year on his birthday(I guess he won't forget his anniversary eh?). But he still contacts me and wants to hook up. Yup just this week he was texting me as he was off a few days. I declined the offer. I did ask him why he still wants me and he said a few flattering things about how I am enthusiastic etc. I said well I fondly remember how he gave me oral sex with his big tongue. If only I could lose my morals for a day...again. LOL

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yesmamallthetime 54F  
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7/19/2019 12:08 am

I did like your story very much Paul. Kind of romantic.

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Paulxx001 64M  
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7/19/2019 7:50 am

    Quoting yesmamallthetime:
    I have only met guys on dating websites for the past couple of years. I don't know the last time I met anyone in real life or passing. My ex fiance in the 1990s I met at work. We were engaged on Valentine's Day less than two weeks later. We lived together for 2 and half years and then I broke it off. Just could not see myself happy with him for the rest of my life. Ha. I had a part time job once at a convenience store. I worked there for about 3 months. I flirted with a lot of the customers. Well I guess I made an impression on him. A few years ago I get a FB friend request from some guy who had a few friends in common including some relatives. He said I looked familiar. I had no clue. Then a week later he asked me if I had worked at that convenience store 20 years ago. Yeah. He remembered me from 20 years ago. My how time changed the both of us. LOL He had long blonde hair back in the 1990s now a days he is bald as he shaves his head. I have gained weight. We hooked up for a little while but then he met someone else and broke off seeing me. He married someone last year on his birthday(I guess he won't forget his anniversary eh?). But he still contacts me and wants to hook up. Yup just this week he was texting me as he was off a few days. I declined the offer. I did ask him why he still wants me and he said a few flattering things about how I am enthusiastic etc. I said well I fondly remember how he gave me oral sex with his big tongue. If only I could lose my morals for a day...again. LOL
Twenty years... wow... That's a long time to keep a memory.... although... I'd recall good oral sex as well. 😘 ❤️ 💦 🔥
I recall reading one of your poems about him contacting you.
Lose your morals for a day.... hmmm... ok. If you insist! 👍 😊 🔥

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Paulxx001 64M  
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7/19/2019 7:52 am

    Quoting yesmamallthetime:
    I did like your story very much Paul. Kind of romantic.
Thanks... for stopping by! 😊
What's not romantic... about creating a car accident with a person who intrigues you? lol... 😮🤔 😉

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Paulxx001 64M  
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7/19/2019 8:06 am

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Meeting people is all about confidence and... practise. Practise being yourself, I mean. I'm sure you could succeed if you took all the pressure off yourself and just were YOU. 👍
Yep... a fly on the wall... It's fun, once in a while. 😊
Thanks for popping in and sharing.

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scoupe42 58M  
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7/19/2019 10:46 am

You always have good topics, which make great blogs! Good job.


author51 59F  
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7/19/2019 11:00 am

Smooth move indeed by the young man just to get her phone number.Opposites may attract but it is those we hav common interests. with that make for the better relationship.


Paulxx001 64M  
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7/19/2019 11:18 am

    Quoting scoupe42:
    You always have good topics, which make great blogs! Good job.
Happy to oblige... 😊
It's tough to find topics that interest everyone, no? 🤔
And I sometimes wonder if what interests me, will interest someone else. Ya know what I mean?

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Paulxx001 64M  
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7/19/2019 11:22 am

    Quoting author51:
    Smooth move indeed by the young man just to get her phone number.Opposites may attract but it is those we hav common interests. with that make for the better relationship.
Yeah.. really smooth move. I don't know if I'd have the balls to do that... lol 😂
True about similarities drawing people together... 😊 Yep I hear you on THAT!
So... how's it going? Been arrested yet? 🤔
Or done anything naughty? lol 😂
Things over here are hot and sticky... I meant the weather... lol 😮🍉🍒

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pollly_anna 58F  
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7/19/2019 8:06 pm

Well my story is a well known story for all off my friends. I was a huge bowler bowled ever Friday night Sunday afternoon....any how it's new yrs eve the alley is closed so the league can have a new yrs eve party.......he is visiting his Mom for the holidays he lives in three rivers... she is a member of the league he comes with her to the new yrs eve party..........From there I'm having an after party .party at my place and a doz. or so people show up he is one of them......the next morning he calls to say that he can't find his keys and maybe if he came over he could look around and find them..... the rest is history..........we married 6 weeks later on Valentines day......and stayed married for 30 yrs.....


Paulxx001 64M  
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7/19/2019 10:49 pm

So... I guess he found his keys? 🤔 lol👍
Great story. Thanks for sharing. 😊

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pollly_anna 58F  
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7/20/2019 1:43 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    So... I guess he found his keys? 🤔 lol👍
    Great story. Thanks for sharing. 😊
yes our love story. he has since passed away Jan. 2018.


smartasswoman 64F  
35758 posts
7/20/2019 2:27 pm

I met my ex at a triathlon. I saw him before the start, putting on his shoes in the transition area, and thought he was really attractive. After the race I looked for him in the refreshments area and maneuvered myself into position to chat with him.

One year later - at the same race - I saw him again and talked with him again. He had become single during the intervening year, we exchanged phone numbers, and the rest was history.


Paulxx001 64M  
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7/20/2019 3:00 pm

    Quoting pollly_anna:
    yes our love story. he has since passed away Jan. 2018.
Well... that's sad. Sorry for your loss. 😔

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Paulxx001 64M  
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7/20/2019 3:09 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    I met my ex at a triathlon. I saw him before the start, putting on his shoes in the transition area, and thought he was really attractive. After the race I looked for him in the refreshments area and maneuvered myself into position to chat with him.

    One year later - at the same race - I saw him again and talked with him again. He had become single during the intervening year, we exchanged phone numbers, and the rest was history.
Wow... That's a great story of chance AND perseverance. And to luck into him one year later... 😊 hmmm
Thanks for sharing.

Can I serve you a beverage? 🤔
A meatball on a toothpick... perhaps?
Now... I'm confused...

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Paulxx001 64M  
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7/23/2019 7:49 am

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He staged it? Wow... lol...
That's ambitious... 😊
I guess he thought you were worth the risk... ❤️ Was he worth getting off the horse 🐴 for? 🤔
Your horse knew.. They always do...

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SeaGirlFL 57F
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8/10/2019 12:33 pm

That was a smart young man. If I man went to those lengths for my attention, I'd certainly take notice, lol.

I met my ex in college, as we waited outside our advisor's office. Later, we were lab partners in a class. As I was the only female, he rescued me from a creepy guy who wanted to be partners by saying we'd already agreed to be partners.

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Paulxx001 64M  
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8/10/2019 4:18 pm

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    That was a smart young man. If I man went to those lengths for my attention, I'd certainly take notice, lol.

    I met my ex in college, as we waited outside our advisor's office. Later, we were lab partners in a class. As I was the only female, he rescued me from a creepy guy who wanted to be partners by saying we'd already agreed to be partners.
Wow... Well... that, was a cute thing to do. 😊
And it worked out... mostly.... right? 😗
Hmmm. movie material? 🤔

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SeaGirlFL 57F
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8/11/2019 9:45 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Wow... Well... that, was a cute thing to do. 😊
    And it worked out... mostly.... right? 😗
    Hmmm. movie material? 🤔
Yes, it was a cute thing. We were both dating other people at the time...it was several months before we actually started dating.

I wouldn't change it...otherwise I wouldn't have my kids.

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Paulxx001 64M  
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8/11/2019 6:28 pm

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    Yes, it was a cute thing. We were both dating other people at the time...it was several months before we actually started dating.

    I wouldn't change it...otherwise I wouldn't have my kids.
If I were NEVER to know.... then... I wouldn't know. Right?
But... I DO, know. No way I'd redo my kids.
I'd be shit in "time travel". You've seen those movies, right? 😮
Yep.... I'd need w memory wipe, in order for THAT to even, vaguely interest me. 😊

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Paulxx001 64M  
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11/22/2019 2:21 pm

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Wow... That's quite an effort to meet a tooth MD. Was it worth the effort? 🤔 lol 😂
Thanks for sharing. Safety tip noted.
Drop by any time. 👍

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Paulxx001 64M  
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11/26/2019 6:04 pm

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Family introduced you? Wow... Throwback... THAT still happens? Good for you! Blasé sounds like it might surprise one. 😲
Everyone... has a story to share. 😊👍
Have you noticed that? I always like to hear there's. 😊

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