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Greeting to all who enjoy reading blogs and the ideas and thoughts shared. I like to keep things positive and ask all be polite and cordial to each other. And of course enjoy, Please share your thought's It also gives myself and others stuff to think about.
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Hey, I'm Paige
Posted:Dec 11, 2021 9:34 am
Last Updated:Dec 11, 2021 3:18 pm
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I'm Paige,
a bi guy, living in SE Michigan whose goal is to live a Laid back and easy going life as I can these days.

First thing; Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramification.

OK, On with the show...

I'm clean, well groomed,d/d free, and discreet. I'm a really understanding guy to let any partners be themselves, trough I also maintain my own genuine self.

Upon meeting people at first I may appear up beat easy to smile and polite. As I warm up quickly with good company a relaxed environment I maintain all the previous attributes; Will find as I'm warm, that I'm a fun guy who likes to laugh and help other people laugh using a sarcasm and at times, mild mischievous of suggestive word/ physical humor that conveys but a meaning but doesn't give it away. I a style reminiscent of Alan Alda.. ..OK, Google television shows...M*A*S*H?...Hopefully directed to lift people up. I would like to meet new friends hopefully with benefits, but also happy with FB's or one time hook ups to see how we want another? The main idea is to relax and enjoy the the sexual excitement,

I will respect everyone's limits and boundaries, I'm open to new things, with someone who knows and has come to enjoy an activity so long as it's not a hard stop (Verbal abuse, not into mean emotions, even when simulated; life's too short)
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What I'm looking for.
Posted:Dec 11, 2021 3:18 pm
Last Updated:Dec 18, 2021 10:50 am
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Extra info.

I'm As you have read I'm open to meeting Couples, M/W, MM, FF single / female curious about Trans (?); that are for anything from NSA, fuck buddy, friend with benefits. If I and any combination turns into a long time thing great.

Let's face it, you can't find everything you're into, want to try, or just flat out enjoy in just one person or in one profile on this site.
So I'm when I meet with a single or a couple Male or female that are open to engaging in what kinks we both enjoy and I don't worry if I don't get my other needs met, I believe other aspects I'm interested in will get addressed with someone else.

Just as I have friends who like to turn a wrench and weld, while others who don't care for the industrial arts, but do enjoy sci-fi, movies and books. By having well rounded friends, I accept what it is they bring to the table and I find enjoyment in what we do share.

I'm lucky enough to have a wife who also shares in this philosophy and has given me her blessing to peruse my sexually. My wife's also my "Wing woman". Just as I make sure there is time for her hobbies, she also makes sure I have time as well for "my hobby".
As we Are members of the "sandwich generation" balancing work, and our aging parents. So I can't address thought, "Looking for now" requests. However with a little heads up it works out well, I get, "Time to go play", and she gets to time for her art activities without horny husband. My wife prefers not to know the details, as long as she knows I'm safe, where I am, that if needed she can get a hold of me in an emergency.

I find its best to meet couples and individuals sexual wants where they are and go from there.

I've noticed is that the fetish category on this site pretty generalized and lumps a lot of varying degrees together without the ability to expound upon them. Things like; would they rather do the fetish of have them done to them, Its important to know what side of a fetish someones interested in.

Take care, stay safe, Paige
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Sexual ideas, day dreams& fantasy
Posted:Dec 25, 2021 4:49 pm
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2024 8:44 am
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I've noticed is that the fetish category on this site pretty generalized and lumps a lot of varying degrees together without the ability to expound upon them. Things like; would they rather do the fetish of have them done to them, Its important to know what side of a fetish someones interested in.

So I entitled this one, " ideas, day dreams& fantasy", because as some are completely do able others require time to get to know some one while others may require positions and gymnastics I never have possessed but they are fun to think of anyways.

What I would enjoy finding;
In a woman: Someone open to taking anal, pegging anally, open to trying or enjoys breast bondage. open to playing with nipple champs, lite bondage

In men: for guys who enjoy topping, being sucked and enjoy giving anal.

Myself, If you enjoy giving anal, nipple play, clamps etc. oral. I enjoy the perception of sex in public areas out doors a back deck, a fenced yard. I also enjoy sex in different locations. Beds are great don't get me wrong; I find it fun to create a experience where no one would expect. such as the front entry, the stairs, dinning room.

As always personal boundaries respect comes first.
Will have to continue this later.
Take care, stay safe, Paige
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Finding common ground, creating the ability for spouses to have the amount of sex they want
Posted:Nov 20, 2021 2:39 pm
Last Updated:Nov 20, 2021 2:45 pm
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Finding common ground, creating the ability for a husband who wants to have sex and a wife's ability to chose not to concern herself with sex...Unless she wants too. A win/ win scenario well worth the time and work.

This is about how my wife and I worked through our different levels of sexual desire and discovered that by recognizing each others needs involving sex. From a desire to obtain it to a wish to obtain from it, and then letting each other have what we need without guilt. This was the revaluation that we had to come by by long and short discussions with large breaks in between to let our minds settle, as our first knee jerk reactions always seemed to be based on the old monogamous thought process. We had to let out brains wrap around I getting time to have sex with others and she didn’t have too. We made plans, we had plans, a false start. Finally we had a realization. That we had to recognize about the other and then in ourselves; and both of us had to realize about each other that ,“You’re not broken. But, neither am I.” This blew my mind and I could see the pressure fall away from her. currently the last discussion about sex we have required on our many long walks over the years.

Over this year I had opened up to my wife about my ideas on having sex with men as a bottom just for sexual sake. I believe all the cool are calling it hetero-flexible so I explained that I Still wanted to have sex with women as well. She would latter share with me her secret worries that I might become emotionally evolved with one of the guys and what it that relationship would look like and the anxiety for the security of our marriage.

For my part, this was like me running away with a person I went bowling with? Not on my to do list. But, this was a real concern for my wife and needed to be addressed. I believe this is the number one reason that this discussion terrifies significant others that aren’t as sexually active as the partner who wants to have more sex. But differently for men and women. It’s my believe it affects women more on the basis of family security, loss of emotional support, erosion of family ties of the marriage, and drifting apart. as Men do have a way of short sighted thinking with their dick and have messed up some great things.

For men, knowing the way men think there is this fear and keeping the
and wondered why she didn’t enjoy sex any more, was she broken? At this time I as well had been concerned that all the stress of , multiple organizations she was apart of that had benefited our communities families as well as our own. However, the concerns was that she was burning herself out as there was no others to help with the load. We had figured there was some kind of blockage standing between us and regular happy sex.

The first thing we did was decided not to got it alone, We had counseling that didn’t focus on sex, for quite a bit. I had already started and had my own counselor I was familiar with. And she wanted her own, as my person mine might take a lean toward me. In the evenings when we took our walk we would share that weeks sessions with each other. Finally, I had the deep realization that there wasn’t anything coming between us; our drive had just shifted, mine had remained high, while hers had drifted into different interests. I didn’t have to worry that I was not enough for her, but the concern about what had changed and my sexual drive was what was chaffing both of us.

As the nightly discussion began with its, “We how do we fix it...” momentarily I stopped the conversation and said, “We don’t have to fix anything you’re not broken.” To which she replied, “You’re right I’m not.” We discussed very opening about were she was at in life and how much sex she felt was just right for her, “I don’t know two or three times a year?” This came to me as a gut punch, Not at the lack of sex going forward; but the years I had asked, and asked, and hinted, and had “Rationally” discussed my needs for sex. I was dumb founded for 2 -3 weeks my wife was now relieved, I not so much.

I now after weeks of walks discussion PTO and the gossip from her other organizations I shifted the topic back to where I left off. I explained that I had felt like sh*t for that passed several weeks all the years spend trying to get to the bottom of “our problem” and that I had figured for all the years of pushing to have sex in a year, only two or three where real and that she wanted to engage in. That meant the other several occasions in a year she had simply relented, to get it me off her back. She cheerfully agreed, and was happy at my realization. I then explained that this realization had cut me deeply. One, the idea that I was forcing something on someone that wasn’t wanted was revolting
The second, was that I had believed I had wooed her into bed with my charms and turned her on, I had brought out desire, nope just ignorant of the changes that had occurred over years of working, baby care and just enough sleep to do it all over again. Then I remembered the rest of what I was going to discuss with my wife.
“I fully believed you last time we talked on this, and I don’t want sex to make me feel better, I want it to be genuine.” The two weeks of thinking had also brought me closer to understanding myself. And I stated, “I’m not broken either, I have a very high Libido and I really enjoy sex for Adult fun and enjoyment... I personally would like to have sex several times a week. She looked at me with her eye’s wide and her eye brows even wider, “That much!” I responded , “Yes, I’m respecting where you’re at I’m asking you to do the same with my needs.” She shook her head and blinked her eyes back into their normal form before continuing, “Well, at least you’re only having sex with other guys.” How ever this time I added an addendum, “Well Hun, considering our timing, I’m also going to add women to the choices, Guys are great but I’m going to need some female interaction.”

My wife wasn’t against it, her big worry was, “With women there is always drama if there is any emotional attachment. That could be messy in so many ways.” We agreed on me starting off with guys, couples or other marriage women who have someone already and just want sex.

Safety, most swingers are horny, really cool, open minded people who are also looking to have a great time... While also avoiding and trouble or weirdness in their or their families life's. Many people aren’t in a relationship where they could explain their needs and position to a spouse to under stand that, Neither of them are broken either; or people here attempting to get what they need are fearful of what would happen in their extended families and communities if it was ever to get out. It’s why so many meetings are clandestine and for the most part end up with being ghosted. Anxiety that someone on this or other site with nothing to loose are going to complicate their lives or risk all that they have spent their life up to this point protecting. I’d like to say that’s not so. But, every social event will have a minute group of detractors that requires the rest of us to check were we step.

I admit I never thought I would even have a wing man when trying to meet others. Now, I have a wing woman in my wife; I’ll double check to make sure our calendars are in alignment and what date are open and she will keep that as “protected time,” so I and who I’m meeting with don’t have to feel rushed.
On first visits, I let her know when I get there. She knows roughly how long I’m staying, I let her know if it might be a bit later or getting a bite to eat. After I and the new person have had our fun. I let her know I’m in the car and on the road. This way, yeah I have someone watching out for me and knows where I’m at. And that’s great. I don’t have to worry about her finding out or me being on my own. Also knowing my wife has my back takes a lot of stress off from me, so I can enjoy my time out. All this makes our life's much calmer.

So far it seems to have allowed us to open up to each other as there is no need to worry some secret might slip out.
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Cummming of the machine age?
Posted:Apr 16, 2021 9:30 pm
Last Updated:Aug 11, 2021 7:22 pm
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Hi all,

After years of seeing pron on the web of people using sex machines and this Pandemic running along at it's own little pace. I figured, well not the real thing but, I'm adventurous, let's try.
Today a rather large heavy box arrived at our front door, My wife knew what was in it, and to keep it from other curious eyes's she had to perform some strange slight of hand with slap stick humor like you would see in a Threes Company's rerun. (The craziness my wife endorses being married to a bi highly sexually active guy, with snoopy ) Needless to say she had a good laugh about it, when she told me to get her "stand in" out into the garage/ work shop, which I did.

Growing up bi, sexually driven and in an a family who would have been "Less than understanding." I had learned how to break down my "Toys," that I had fashioned into something that looked less then the sum of their parts? of which most could hide in plan sight, with only the more intimate of it's parts tucked away.

I got it unpacked while my sweetie put up a smoke screen. the Frame and welding look good, the motor seems like it it will do the trick. What I had thought was a fly wheel seems Turned out to be a sheet metal guard to an adjustable arm. So I had a "Wonk, wonk" it's But, then again...I don't want to wait for a aluminum wheel to coast to a stop. I have the main part in with my table saw parts, Drive shaft unscrews to tuck it away.

It came with a anal probe, and a 7 inch long dildo with some girth to it. I know I was horny as I also ordered a 8 and 9 inch dildo, as I figured I'd have some time to work up to them as my ass wasn't going to give in and open up that fast...Upon opening the packages I realized these dildos looked a little bigger and thicker then the picture a week or so ago. I made a mental note to pace myself as it all come with time, sexual pleasure,patience and plenty of lube.

I have find an evening with some time alone assemble it and then test it, I'll try for pic's when I get it working.

Though, will look forward the real thing. Take care all.
Paige
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Quickie Door dash?
Posted:Mar 13, 2021 4:27 am
Last Updated:Mar 29, 2024 8:44 am
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So as our time in lock down continues, (I know so of you are out visiting already). For many that's not something we're feeling ready sure about yet. Through I think we agree toys can only take you so far. before you really want someone else's drive to take charge.
I started thinking, for the voyeur and exhibitionist in all of us. What about hooking in the hosts door way. I have admit, as it gets warmer the out doors nature of this fantasy turns me . The idea of walking someones back door, and knocking and asking though the storm door, "Hi, Are you Blank? I'm Paige and I'm here to loan you my ass." and then sticking my bottom between the storm door and the door frame. Wilder still, setting a signal, The though of walking someones poach and seeing a clothes hanger on the door or some other sign denote the correct place. So I would ring door bell, pull down my pants once again put my hips between the storm door and door frame with my ass touching the inner door, while holding an open box of condoms and a full container of KY for the person about to appear at the door to use, and me there waiting for it. It makes me smile the idea to be looking out at someones back yard, or front yard if low enough traffic. While some guy with a years worth of built sexual drive finally rump pumps his satisfaction.
Perhaps make a portable glory hole take the door that would fit in the door way service someone through. The down side that is if they are into "titty " I would miss out it. Finally when he finished his final push and grown and I feel him pull out and lays the full condom on my back and shuts the door. I walk back my car with KY (and nothing else) covering my ass and soaking my underwear with the wet fresh sex completion feel in my ass. I'm sure there are some logistics that would need be worked out, but one of those kinky thoughts that keep going.

Take care stay safe.
Paige
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diffrent strokes
Posted:Feb 18, 2021 4:41 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2021 2:38 am
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At one point in all of our lives we discovered new things about sex and well, we LIKED IT. Face it if you're on this site you not only liked it you wanted more of it! For myself when I was camping with my neirborhood friend, guy up the street. We found ourselves in a tent no devices to distract us and just a deck of cards. Eventually, the idea of strip poker cam up, followed by dares. before long we were both orally engaged in the 69 position.
After that the idea of more sex with him was center in my brain. I also knew it was on my friends brain too, as some times her would come over just to, "play cards" which happened for about a half of a year ,before it just became the code word. We discovered anal sex, he hated to receiving (only tried it once) but was very much into giving. I on the other hand liked it, it was enjoyable. So when the subject of playing cards came up, for him was, "I want to fuck your but!" and for me it was, "I need a deep dicking." I would have been so much more fun if we hadn't lived in a smaller town at a time when were any bi or gay activity was though of a "wrong"

I started to ask "Am I bi ? I liked women but I also liked what I had been doing? I checked out the one book in our town library on sexuality with it's one chapter on gay and bisexuality. As I read through I kind of checked of the boxes , "Yep, yep, Wow I hadn't thought of that! I'll bring it up at the next card night."

Unfortunately, where I lived that could...cause some real problems. The funny thing was, just how many other guys in that town also liked to "play cards."

So what was your first realization of different ideas in sexuality? Did you have to hide it? Did you have a code word?

Look forward to hearing from you, Stay safe out in the craziness, stay healthy.

Paige
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