The I Love You Orgasm  

New2Midlo 52M  
765 posts
11/6/2021 1:12 pm

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The I Love You Orgasm

Once upon a time, I was madly in love with a woman. She was my once in a lifetime, but that's another story, one I keep for myself. Anyway, once I realized she was the one, I didn't hesitate to share how I felt about her. Strange that I can't remember what we were doing when I told her I loved her; I remember fucking every other minute of our relationship. Anyway, later that evening, we were enjoying our usual amazing sex, which could best be described as an all out brawl of desire, pleasure, and lust. I wanted to express my feelings again, while in that most intimate of settings, but wanted the moment to be right. After all, one does not just drop that sentiment in while they have a woman bent over the bed, pulling her hair, leaving hand prints on her ass, and telling her how much of a dirty slut she is. So, once we transitioned to the missionary position, I pushed myself up so we could make eye contact. While maintaining a slow, steady rhythm of movement, looked into those amazing blue eyes, and said, "I love you, Schartzmugel." (I keep her real name for myself, as well.) Just as I finished those words, an orgasm ripped through her body. By this point, I knew that body extremely well and knew exactly how to bring her to orgasm, which I did frequently. What I was doing physically wouldn't have made that happen, which surprised us both a bit. Without changing tempo, I said the words again and she had another orgasm. This happened every time I repeated the sequence, which I did frequently, because I meant it. It was the most intimate and fulfilling experience I've ever had.

Her physical response to those words weren't confined to the bedroom. Outside of it, saying those words would often be met with a sharp intake of her breath. This was confined to when we were physically touching, though. Not as though she'd swerve her car off the road if I said it while we were on the phone.

Of course, my curious mind wonders whether she's an anomaly, but I literally have no other similar experiences or data points. Not as though I've told a ton of women I loved them; an emu wouldn't run out of fingers making that count.

This brings me to the purpose of this post - to ask my women readers whether they experience a physical reaction when their partner shares intimate sentiments toward them. Or if any men have experienced something similar with a partner. There are no right or wrong answers.

What say you?

New2Midlo 52M  
1065 posts
11/6/2021 1:12 pm

Emu's only have three fingers.

author51 59F  
129393 posts
11/7/2021 12:36 am

What a beautiful story and experience to share as lust and love go hand in hand when with that special someone. As for myself though, even when my ex's have said it during missionary in the past,while looking into each others eyes, I have never orgasmed from it. I have never had an orgasm from PIV at all..

You can never have enough JOY in your life.xoxo


New2Midlo replies on 11/7/2021 3:41 pm:
Thanks for commenting. Is it wrong I feel bad you've never orgasmed via penetration? No comment beyond that, because it's not as though I know what it feels like lol

pagancountrygirl 64F
6406 posts
11/7/2021 6:51 am

Emus don't have fingers. They have toes.

Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!

New2Midlo replies on 11/7/2021 9:45 am:
For the purposes of this entry, they're fingers. Will ya cut me some slack?
I've already been called a cocksucker three times, this morning, by the right wing loonies.

pagancountrygirl 64F
6406 posts
11/7/2021 12:56 pm

Lol OK
Since that middle "finger" is larger, it's sort of like they're giving you the "finger"!
Why am I not surprised that others have stooped to calling you names? Could it be some of the blogs you post on controversial subjects? Ones that are sore spots with others? Please, tell me you don't enjoy poking the bear!

Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!

New2Midlo replies on 11/7/2021 3:53 pm:
Me, post on controversial subjects? Surely, you must be joking.
Today was fairly subdued, because I didn't have the energy to engage the crazy. However, I did come dangerously close to destroying a Christian fundamentalist on the abortion thread for lacking empathy, being judgmental, and acting like a general ass hat. Their incorrect assertions of my proclivities were centered around the same diary thread.
To deal with that, I just kept posting the same NIH study, where the conclusion is Homophobia is apparently associated with homosexual arousal that the homophobic individual is either unaware of or denies.
Some were rather unpleasant over that one.

I'm sure additional epithets await me when I log in. They were spewing hatred toward the Republicans who voted for the infrastructure bill, branding them as traitors. I couldn't resist suggesting their anger was misplaced, because the previous president wanted to get infrastructure done. Too bad he couldn't and this one got it done.

And yes, I'm ashamed to admit I enjoy it. They're such easy targets and their pitiful attempts to rile me just make me laugh. Really, who doesn't deserve some laughter in their lives?

Jules1590 53F
8121 posts
11/10/2021 6:42 pm

This is an awesome post, thank you for sharing it.

This was a really special connection you shared. Her feelings for you were so intense that when you uttered those profound words they had a visceral effect on her. I can't say as I ever had an orgasm from someone sharing they loved me during an intimate moment. But a sharp intake of breath or a clenching in the pit of my loins from those magic words, an emphatic YES.

I also count myself as one of the lucky ones that I do cum from penetration...

Yes, Schartzmugel was quite a gem alright.

New2Midlo replies on 11/11/2021 3:03 pm:
No comments on her feelings for me needed, considering we're no longer together. She may have been a gem, but I'd characterize her in the cubic zirconia variety.

I wouldn't consider your physical response to be materially different from hers, under the circumstances. Words elicit a response beyond feelings. Although, I sort of recall how hearing the words boost serotonin or melatonin or one of the tonins, but I may be mistaken.

On the whole orgasm through intercourse subject, perhaps my sample is skewed, but 75% of the women I've been with have been able to orgasm via intercourse. Four of those indicated I was the only man with whom that had happened.

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