I Want to Be Special!!!  

New2Midlo 52M  
723 posts
9/14/2014 8:42 am

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I Want to Be Special!!!

Lately, I've been seeing more and more ladies' profiles with comments that leave me a bit amused / baffled / pick your own adjective. The thread they have in common is the desire to not encounter any evidence of men's previous partners. They spell out that they won't be interested in a guy who has pictures of him with another woman on his profile or if he has any testimonials.

Uh, last I checked, this is a sex site. Yes, there are many of us (men and women) on this site with considerable depth but again, see previous sentence. Even if the terms of usage permitted it, one could be expected to be turned off by a photo of a guy with is johnsonrod balls deep in another woman's mouth on e harmony. But we tailor our marketing content (which is what a dating profile is, really) to the audience at hand.

Perhaps it's insecurity. 'I don't want to think of this guy's man meat in some other bitch's bodily orifice.' I'd love to hear the rationale from one of these women.

All I know is I tend to think a different way and many women do as well. For example, one of my on again, off again, FWB's was over for dinner one night. It came up in conversation that I had taken a few pictures with a couple of partners. Her immediate response was 'I wanna see!'

Horny_Holly 41F
2767 posts
9/14/2014 8:58 am

It's insecurity

Everyone has a past, to think otherwise is pretty stupid.

Take it as a warning that those particular women will no doubt be pretty flaky, jealous, petty, possessive, etc, and, if I were you, avoid.

"I'm always disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually catch on fire..."

itzchic824 35F
2811 posts
9/14/2014 9:58 am

I don't mind the pics as long as they're not the only ones on a guy's profile. I expect the guy to have experience which means he's been with other people.

I sent an Angel to watch over you last night, it returned in a hurry. I asked why, it said "Angels can't watch porn." Thanks for fucking traumatizing my fucking Angel!

Don't bother trying to figure me out. Not even the little voices in my head understand me. It's pointless!

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