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I want to dance for you
Posted:Feb 13, 2020 4:56 am
Last Updated:Mar 17, 2020 1:05 pm
I have an exhibitionist side. Well not really exhibitionist so much as I dont think the human body needs to be hidden and treated as taboo. We're all essentially the underneath our turtle necks.

I have always had a desire to go to a club and get up on stage and dance somewhat naked. I don't see myself as a stripper per se because I dont think I could do that as seductively as I have seen others do. However I would still like to dance naked and put on a show using some props. I have obviously done this for men I have been with, in the privacy of my home. Nothing like greeting him when he gets home with a little show.

I can't very well go to a club and do a show now, unless I went way of town, maybe a different country, it would be career limiting. I have just under 4 years to retire and well I hope to stay in shape, 4 years more on my body, is well 4 years more.

I am told I am a good dancer, but you know men they will say anything for a blowjob. I do love to dance and enjoy when I do get to go to part take.

I have been toying with the idea of recording a video and posting on here, of course body only. I just cant seem to narrow it down to what song.

What song would you recommend?
How to treat Hysterical Women
Posted:Jan 31, 2020 6:32 am
Last Updated:Dec 3, 2020 9:13 am
.The term hysteria — from the Greeks word for uterus - Hysterus— originated some twenty five hundred years ago and described symptoms experienced by women: fatigue, nervousness and depression. Hippocrates believed that these symptoms were caused by a “wandering uterus,”.

Anatomy aside, dildos apparently appeared as an answer to this set of problems, having been found in places dating back to this period. In Ancient Egypt, legend has it that Cleopatra filled a hollowed out gourd with bees and used it for clitoral stimulation. It’s likely just an urban legend, though: she probably just used dildos, like every other woman of her time.

From Medieval times throughout the Renaissance, village doctors viewed hysteria as a sign of sexual deprivation, and thus encouraged married hysteria sufferers to engage in rigorous sex to cure their ails.

In fact, for much of history, the pursuit of the female orgasm was more important than we’ve been led to believe: even in the Victorian era, sex guides touted the female orgasm as essential to pregnancy.

The Victorians did coin a term for the orgasm: hysterical paroxysm. The clinical definition added a degree of scientific legitimacy to the experience, but went along with a belief that masturbation was sinful and even harmful (although a few doctors conceded that it might have been okay for women on their periods).
If a “hysterical” woman was unmarried and didn’t have the option or interest in “rigorous sexual intercourse,” she still had to achieve that curative hysterical paroxysm somehow.

At first, midwives and medical doctors — predominantly men at the time — manually massaged a woman’s vulva and clitoral region in order for the woman to experience a “hysterical paroxysm.” The intended effect did wear off, meaning that women would come back for more treatment — and after a while, physicians ran into a significant challenge: their hands and wrists were getting tired and thus the first cases of carpal tunnel syndrome.

Thus the necessity for the first automated massager - a rather large, steam-powered one that practically took up an entire room and was known as “The Manipulator.”
Perhaps the most well-known iteration, in part because of the movie that dramatized the story, is Dr. Joseph Mortimer Granville’s 1880 invention of the first electric vibrator.

Granville never meant to treat “hysterics” with his device; rather, he meant for it to treat muscle pain in men. Nevertheless, these devices reduced the time it took for women to achieve her paroxysm — helpful as at the time many doctors feared a “hysteria” epidemic — and soon became smaller and more portable, opening up the door for new innovations.

By eighteen ninety nine, five dollar battery-powered vibrators appeared in Sears catalogs as household appliances.

By the early twentieth century, women had the ability to treat their “hysteria” independently and at home, eliminating the need for office visits and saving the wrists of their grumbling doctors. The advertisements in Sears catalogs at the time called vibrators “aids that every woman appreciates.”

Once vibrators became widely available, the scope of their intended use broadened.
In the early nineteen twenties, they started popping up in brothels and later, porn films. By 1952, the American Medical Association dropped the term hysteria. Once it was apparent that vibrators had an explicitly sexual connotation, they disappeared from the consumer market almost as quickly as they’d appeared.

The seventies sexual revolution ushered in a more open approach to the vibrator, most notably with the famous Hitachi Magic Wand, which hit the scene in 1973. .Now they were coming to the forefront, so to speak

Today, vibrators exist in just about every iteration you could possibly imagine, varying in shape, size, color and intensity.

One study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that over half of women they surveyed had used a vibrator — and hearkening back to its medical origins, linked the usage of sex toys to health-conscious behaviors such as regular gynecological exams
You've been blocked
Posted:Jan 28, 2020 6:53 pm
Last Updated:Mar 20, 2021 7:52 am
Don't sweat the petty things and dont pet the sweaty things.

Etiquette in online sex/dating sites
Posted:Jan 26, 2020 7:59 am
Last Updated:Feb 5, 2020 11:14 am


-Your word is your worth - Avoid appeasing and making empty commitments, don't lie. Its better to be disappoint at the get-go then to build up deception over time

-Don't piss on the seedlings, they become Trees - assuming someone is a weed because you are not familiar with them or they seem unequal to you will only get you into trouble

-All Trees can be felled - no one is too tall, too strong, too powerful or impervious. Even a mighty tree can be felled by a tiny bug

-Any plant can heal or harm - depending on how you interact with it. Its better to understand nuances then to decree everything is absolute. Just because someone disagree with you does not make them evil

-Don't poison the pot (blogville) - if you pour poison into the well you drink from you will eventually feel the effects

-Whats good for the goose is good for the goose - just because someone does something their own way, they are saying what works for them. Its normal to compare and contrast but there is no need to set up competition or drama over it. -We have all walked in different shoes in our lives

-Follow the intent - rather then jumping to defensive/offensive/being triggered take a minute to reflect, better yet take 24 hours to reflect.

-Follow the rule of threefold - read everything three times, read your response three times.

-Remember you can catch more flies with honey then you can with sour milk

-Know yourself, dont mistake your dogs admiration as evidence that you are wonderful. Don't use knowing yourself as an excuse to excuse your bad behaviour.

When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete everybody will respect you - Tzu
PSA Where reality and fantasy collide - staying anonymous on the site
Posted:Jan 9, 2020 2:35 pm
Last Updated:Feb 24, 2020 4:15 am

If you are worried about the real world finding out you are on here , here are a few hints.

1. Dont post a picture of your face
2. Dont provide your - first or last
3. Dont talk about where you live
4. Be careful you do trust with your personal information

I know it shouldnt have to be said but apparently some people arent aware of these simple basic rules. Perhaps if I had shared this earlier they wouldnt have been blackmailed hereby a friend of their 's last summer saw their pictures and perhaps their activity would not show up on facey place.

Providing those few details can allow someone find you on facey place and find a whole slew of information about you. I wont even get into what happens on facey when you have not secured your profile.
Leaving on a jet plane
Posted:Dec 30, 2019 12:30 pm
Last Updated:Jan 29, 2020 4:22 am

There is often the discussion of how far will you go to meet someone from the site. I have travelled within my fair province, and generally I can make it work with my work easily.

Now I am leaving on a jet plane to meet someone in the next province over. This trip is under my own finances (thank you points) and with other considerations someone would make when meeting someone off line.

My preference has been to find someone for ongoing and local however the invitation and opportunity presented itself, along with the fact that further opportunities are easily achieved in this instance.

How far will you go?
Twelve Days of Sexmas Reboot
Posted:Dec 4, 2019 5:02 am
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2020 1:50 pm

Remember that Christmas isn’t just about shopping and stuffing your face, it’s also about cheesy seasonal treatments

On the first day of Christmas, my true love gave : A spanking over his knee.
Who doesn’t like a nice little spanking every now and then?

On the second day of Christmas, my true love gave : love gloves.
Wrap up those presents

On the third day of Christmas, my true love gave : French men.
Oooh lala - bien sur.

On the fourth day of Christmas, my true love gave : Four dirty words

On the fifth day of Christmas, my true love gave : Five sex swings.
Sing loud like this, “se-eeee-x swings.” ( the crescendo)

On the sixth day of Christmas, my true love gave : Six porns a-playing.
Watching porn at Christmas? tsk tsk

On the seventh day of Christmas, my true love gave : Seven sperm a-swimming. So one sperm says the other “When do we get the ovaries?” The other replies, “Ovaries! We’re not even past the throat yet!” ( an oldie but goodie)

On the eighth day of Christmas, my true love gave : Eight toys a vibing.

On the ninth day of Christmas, my true love gave to : guys stripping..
You pick the guys

On the tenth day of Christmas, my true love gave : Ten peepers peeping.
For all you Cam voyeurs

On the eleventh day of Christmas, my true love gave : Eleven perverts kiiiking.
Cybersex anyone?

On the twelfth day of Christmas, my true love gave : Twelve Sexy Bloggers
You know who you are

Twelve Sexy Bloggers
Eleven Perverts Kiiking
Ten Peepers Peeping
guys Undressing
Eight toys a vibing
Seven sperm a swimming
Six Porns a playing
Five sexxxeeee swings
Four Dirty words
French Men
Love Gloves
First a spanking over Santa's knee
Threesomes and Moresomes
Posted:Oct 28, 2019 5:26 pm
Last Updated:Jan 28, 2020 4:07 pm
Feminist pornographer Erika Lust and a slew of surveys say threesomes are the most popular sexual fantasies for both men and women.

A famed feminist porn director claims she knows the most common kink that men and women share.

Erika Lust says both sexes want threesomes and sex which are their most common fantasies.

Lust said moresomes are increasingly popular in the fantasy roster.
“(It’s) Threesomes or sex in general,” Lust told News.. “Not everybody wants to do it, but everybody is thinking about it or almost everybody would like to experience least a video situation.”

The sultry Swede, who has been making sexxx-rated cinema since 2007, said her claims are backed up by solid research — not just anecdotal evidence.

A 2018 study from Ball State University tried to get to the bottom of people’s sex fantasies. The study found that multiple-partner sex was top of the bawdy bucket list.

Study leader, Dr. Justin Lehmiller, said his team interviewed 4,5 people to determine what made men and women tick in the sack.
An eye-popping 89% admitted they’d fantasized about having threesomes. Interestingly, for women, it often includes their partner and not merely a of faceless strangers.

Straight males were more likely to lust over two women, while gender didn’t matter as much for female participants.

Recent findings in the American Sex Survey echoed that sentiment/
The poll showed that % of adults have had a threesome before while another 21% fantasized about hormone-charged hijinks with more than one person the same time.

Threesomes and sex were followed by BDSM and infidelity as other popular fantasies.

Lust, 42, now lives in Barcelona and says she’s on a mission to give women a voice in the multi-billion dollar porn industry.
She wants to create a generation of “informed masturbators” and Lust is hoping these women will change the frequently misogynistic porn industry. The result will be “saved sex lives” and relationships.
“We are all so afraid that other people will not accept our kinks,” Lust said. “That we are strange. That we are perverse, that we are different from everyone else and the funny thing is that we are not.


I myself have had mfm which were fantastic experiences. I have met couples but there was always something off in my meets, probably not enough experience and screening on my part to find the right couple.

What about you had a threesome or more, still on the bucket list?
Phone sex voice assistant.
Posted:Oct 15, 2019 5:04 am
Last Updated:Jan 3, 2020 7:00 am
dated a man in the air force here for quite a while. He was regularly posted in far off locations for a month or two. Thats a long time to go without sex, but we made the most of it and had some great phone sex. Phone sex can be great if you and your partner have a connection and you understand each other likes and wants. I can't imagine it would be a turn on to be having phone sex with a stranger and they come out with something in left field and send your mood crashing to the ground. I have to admit I was pretty selfish in that he would be doing most of the talking, telling me all the thing he would do to me when he got back, or telling me some fantasy story while I had my toy in hand.

He had a sexy voice and he would get down to a whisper when he was close to climax. A voice can be very appealing to me, think Sam Elliot.

I have been frustrated in the availability of voice assistants on my phones and in my vehicles. They are always women and I find the voices to be a little annoying, especially when I am using a GPS system.

My current personal vehicle and work vehicle have no option to change the voice of the assistant. However I have recently found out that I can change the voice on my apple products. My one phone is currently a British male and the other phone is an Aussie male. Its funny the pleasure I get from hearing their voice as opposed to the standard one. I can understand though how it may be way too distracting to have Sam Elliot giving me driving directions but if he could be my assistant and I could train him to give me phone sex... ooolala, a girl can dream.

I did look into why the standard voices are they way there are and I found the reasoning a little annoying. I will just have to stick with my British male Siri telling me the weather.

What about you, had good phone sex?

It's Sex O'Clock somewhere
Posted:Sep 20, 2019 4:10 am
Last Updated:Oct 25, 2019 5:43 pm
In love and sex, it’s all about timing — and it could make a difference to your health.
Having sex at different times of day could affect everything from your fertility to your intelligence, according to a report in the U.K. Sun.

— Seven thirty am,. is the top time for fertility with testosterone levels highest before 8 a.m. Men also have more stamina first thing in the morning.

— Eight thirty a.m. is the best for sex when you want to give your immune system a boost. Masturbation has the effect. Morning sex also helps fight infections.

— Noon. stress reliever. Want to calm your nerves at work? Go for a nooner. It reduces your blood pressure and chills you . But it has to be intercourse, experts say.

— Three pm. About this time men’s and women’s hormone levels are in sync. According to the UK. Sun, both participants in hormone-charged hijinks release the post-coital hormone oxytocin. It helps increase affection and is wonderful for your health. It also lowers the level of heart killer cortisol.

— Eight p.m. After 40, don’t get too sleepy. Abstaining from sex could impact your brain. A University of Maryland study found that regular sex generates more cells in some parts of the brain — including where we retain information.

— Ten p.m. Goodnight. But before you embrace the Sandman, have an orgasm. It raises hormone levels and brings sleepiness and calm. Endorphins are a natural sleeping pill.

According the article just about any time is great for sex, although no mention about the benefits of that middle of the night romp.

Right now in my life I do prefer the 3:00pm orgasm as well as an OOOOOO before bed does help me sleep so much better. When is your favourite time of day for sex and why?

Provocative Bare Shoulders
Posted:Jun 27, 2019 5:55 am
Last Updated:Dec 30, 2019 7:22 am
I read an article where a former US Navy Chaplain was requesting women cover their shoulders in church to prevent mens minds from straying.

I never have considered bare shoulders to be enticing. I never considered it to be an erotic zone on my body. Personally I have big shoulders and I tend to do what I can to camouflage them.

Remember when shoulder pads were in fashion. Should we all go back to wearing them for the sake of maintaining chaste minds.

When I attend church I always figured the guy behind me had a good view of my butt, I never though he would be considering my shoulders as part of his sexual fantasy. I have heard of many types of fetishes but a shoulder fetish is new to me.

What say you do bare shoulders float your boat?

Only in Canada eh!
Posted:Jun 26, 2019 5:12 am
Last Updated:Jan 1, 2020 6:03 am
Our birthday is fast approaching and I thought I would share why I am proud to live here.

1) We’re Very Polite
It’s a pretty well-known fact that Canadians are famous for being polite. If we’re not holding a door open for someone or sharing a friendly smile, we’re probably apologizing several times for something that wasn’t even our fault. Better polite than rude, eh?

2) We Have Beautiful Landscapes
Canada is an expansive piece of land, and it therefore has a wide range of diverse landscapes. The scenery across the country is pretty impressive, and it’s well-known for housing a lot of beauty. From the awe-inspiring majesty of the Rocky Mountains to the wide open skies of the Prairies to the lush greenery of the coast, there’s a lot to love about our country’s terrain. My favourite place is smack in the middle - Algonquin Park.

3) We Are Diverse
Canada is home to people from all over the world of different ethnicities and heritages, and that’s something to be proud of!

4) We Have Cool Wildlife
We have grizzly bears, polar bears, caribou, moose, beavers, wolves, bison, whales and cougars. Chances are good you will see this wildlife in action!

5) We Are Really Good at Hockey - need I say more

6) We Gave the World Ryan Gosling, Ryan Reynolds, Keanu Reaves and Jim Carrey
Canada is home to some very talented people, the above mentioned being just a few of many. But let’s be honest: what would the world do without The Notebook or Dumb and Dumber? Not to mention Joni Mitchell, Neil Young and Lenoard Cohen.

Honourable mentions to BACON, Poutine and Maple Syrup.

Canada continually ranks at the top of the scale for quality of life, humanitarian outreach and overall the best ranked countries in the world.

Did I mention we are sexy as hell tooooo,,,,

Manic Masturbator
Posted:Jun 16, 2019 5:55 am
Last Updated:Dec 30, 2019 7:23 am

Wow another blog about masturbation - do you sense a theme here?

So I read this article about a recent arbitration hearing in Canada about someone being fired for masturbating at work.

Mr. AB decided to relieve himself in the washroom stall at work.
And he got fired for it.

A Nova Scotia company was justified in firing a unionized worker for masturbating in a washroom at his workplace, a labour arbitrator has ruled.

According to the arbitrator, the frisky employee’s hormone-charged hijinks could be heard by his fellow employees who claimed it caused them “embarrassment and distress.”

The employee’s union, Unifor, claimed the man suffered from sex addiction and couldn’t help himself.

And while the man — whose name was not released — had been warned about similar antics two years previous, the union claimed he hadn’t been warned.
Unifor said instead company officials spoke to him about “unusual noises” emanating from the toilet stall.

The ruling was released last week and posted on a legal database. This is not something labour boards typically deal with.

“Neither (the company) nor the union’s representative had been able to find any case dealing with masturbation in the workplace,” the ruling states.
The crux was whether masturbating in a stall warranted termination.

“On this point I accept that there is nothing illegal about masturbation,” the adjudicator wrote but added his fellow workers were violated.

“He instead conducted an activity that he knew (and certainly ought to have known) would and did cause embarrassment and distress to his co-workers once they became aware that he was doing it in close proximity to them.”

The employee testified when the urge to masturbate overwhelmed him he made sure there was no one in the stall next to him.

He also denied moaning and groaning and added he kept his phone on mute if he was watching X-rated videos.

“Obviously if that were true no one would have known that he was doing it,” the arbitrator said. “But people did know. They could only have known about it because they could hear it.”

At first, two of the man’s co-workers went to the union. But when the union allegedly blew the matter off they confronted management.

After being warned, complaints began again two years later with one worker saying the masturbation sessions were “more frequent and brazen.”
At that point, the manic masturbator was fired.

I will admit I myself have done this but in the privacy of my vehicle. I have taken naughty photo's in the office lavatory and done some teasing but full out masturbation and orgasm at work - not I. I know I cant control my reactions. How about you, Have you ever?

Would you complain to management saying it caused you distress and embarrassment?

Its such a harmless pursuit of pleasure, I would not be put off. I get more offended by they food people bring in then I would be by someone masturbating.

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