Over/done with Erectile Dysfunction  

Mantoinette78217 50F  
85 posts
11/15/2021 8:54 am
Over/done with Erectile Dysfunction


I am through with dealing with erectile dysfunction.If I have ti stick with 30 year olds, I will. One more man better not lie to me about erectile dysfunction. I will kick his ass. Also the stolen/fake cock pics that I've reverse looked up, smh.
The men that never give oral.
The games. I don't want to play hardball, dodgeball, or any other game with you so grow the hell up !

hardandread81000 43M  
1915 posts
11/15/2021 12:27 pm

games on both sides, I have been looking for a fwb for a while and got nothing but websites and woman who want money.


Mantoinette78217 replies on 11/16/2021 4:53 am:
I think the men finding fakes who want money is as common as the men lying to get sex. Both are bull.

Fun4u3276 58M
112 posts
11/15/2021 1:17 pm

A man not getting aroused may not be erectile dysfunction. He simply might be turned off! Do women get wet on demand? I didn't think so!!
Men are generally proud creatures. As such, I know of no men that would deliberately put themselves in a situation if they knew they had any dysfunctions sexually. What would be the point. There are some women that believe a man should get hard at the mere sight of a naked female.
Statistically, women are twice as likely to have sexual dysfunction as a man, and there are virtually no "pills" to help them! We run across this a lot--although typically "masked" by "not in the mood" scenarios.


Mantoinette78217 replies on 11/16/2021 4:50 am:
The men I have been with have prescriptions and medical issues that cause erectile dysfunction. I agree that it's ridiculous that men put themselves on Heated Affairs and don't expect to piss women off. They do completely lie about it. How many men do you think admit it?

Allhard4u50 60M
1716 posts
11/15/2021 1:44 pm

Maybe your a bad fuck…


Mantoinette78217 replies on 11/16/2021 4:50 am:
Maybe your an asshole with no insight into mens denial.

Unzipmeslowly51 51M

11/15/2021 2:43 pm

Thats life on Heated Affairs these days. Lies fakes frauds...used to be s lot of fun back in the day...dont give up you never know😊


peninsula_ 51M
181 posts
11/15/2021 6:34 pm

Some probably lied, no Viagra as a backup? I have been in situations where I wasn't attracted and it didn't go well. But they just happened, I was not pursuing.

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Fun4u3276 58M
112 posts
11/16/2021 8:12 am

Mantoinette78217 replies on 11/16/2021 7:50 am:
The men I have been with have prescriptions and medical issues that cause erectile dysfunction. I agree that it's ridiculous that men put themselves on Heated Affairs and don't expect to piss women off. They do completely lie about it. How many men do you think admit it?
Sorry, I had to copy and paste as the "RESPOND" option doesn't seem to work, and the QUOTE option only picked up my own reply to you.

Anyway, I don't think men are likely to tell a woman about any issues. But, as another mentioned, men sometimes have second thoughts (or guilt, if married) and nerves can interfere. It seems odd that the prescriptions don't work since the commercials tout a 75% success rate. It seems strange that you are hitting all those in that 25% group where the prescriptions don't work. Naturally, I can't really explain why for those men. But, I can tell you that many woman (not saying you) don't understand men's psyche. I have actually been with one woman that although quite attractive, turned me off by things she said at the wrong time. She was actually disappointed I wasn't hard when my pants came off! Her "what's wrong" comment aggravated me and took me right out of the moment! An 18 year old might be hard at the mere sight of a woman, but after seeing dozens (combination of movies and real life LO naked, it takes a bit more than just that!
I am thinking these men had nerves and anxiety playing into the picture. You women aren't under the same pressures and expectations that men are put under. Your every "performance" isn't being measured. Many women don't get fully aroused or orgasm in spite of the best efforts of their partners. Yet, you seldom see men comment on that!


BiggLala 49F  
30157 posts
11/20/2021 6:20 pm

    Quoting Fun4u3276:
    A man not getting aroused may not be erectile dysfunction. He simply might be turned off! Do women get wet on demand? I didn't think so!!
    Men are generally proud creatures. As such, I know of no men that would deliberately put themselves in a situation if they knew they had any dysfunctions sexually. What would be the point. There are some women that believe a man should get hard at the mere sight of a naked female.
    Statistically, women are twice as likely to have sexual dysfunction as a man, and there are virtually no "pills" to help them! We run across this a lot--although typically "masked" by "not in the mood" scenarios.
I know of no men that would deliberately put themselves in a situation if they knew they had any dysfunctions sexually.
-I see you're back under yet another profile to spout your bitterness. What is this...your fourth profile or so? Anyway...

How many men have you met with the intention of having sex with?

I bet if you poll the women here (or even women you know offline), how many would tell you that they've met men who lied to them about their ED versus the number of men you actually know who lie about it.

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BiggLala 49F  
30157 posts
11/20/2021 6:25 pm

    Quoting Fun4u3276:
    Mantoinette78217 replies on 11/16/2021 7:50 am:
    The men I have been with have prescriptions and medical issues that cause erectile dysfunction. I agree that it's ridiculous that men put themselves on Heated Affairs and don't expect to piss women off. They do completely lie about it. How many men do you think admit it?
    Sorry, I had to copy and paste as the "RESPOND" option doesn't seem to work, and the QUOTE option only picked up my own reply to you.

    Anyway, I don't think men are likely to tell a woman about any issues. But, as another mentioned, men sometimes have second thoughts (or guilt, if married) and nerves can interfere. It seems odd that the prescriptions don't work since the commercials tout a 75% success rate. It seems strange that you are hitting all those in that 25% group where the prescriptions don't work. Naturally, I can't really explain why for those men. But, I can tell you that many woman (not saying you) don't understand men's psyche. I have actually been with one woman that although quite attractive, turned me off by things she said at the wrong time. She was actually disappointed I wasn't hard when my pants came off! Her "what's wrong" comment aggravated me and took me right out of the moment! An 18 year old might be hard at the mere sight of a woman, but after seeing dozens (combination of movies and real life LO naked, it takes a bit more than just that!
    I am thinking these men had nerves and anxiety playing into the picture. You women aren't under the same pressures and expectations that men are put under. Your every "performance" isn't being measured. Many women don't get fully aroused or orgasm in spite of the best efforts of their partners. Yet, you seldom see men comment on that!
You women aren't under the same pressures and expectations that men are put under,
-We're not, really?

Your every "performance" isn't being measured.
-It isn't? You don't read many men's blog posts do you?

Many women don't get fully aroused or orgasm in spite of the best efforts of their partners. Yet, you seldom see men comment on that!
-Again, you don't read many men's blog posts or comment, or even live your everyday life as a woman, do you? Men comment about it ALL THE TIME!!!

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