Bumping into someone  

I_willoralu 47M
97 posts
9/11/2019 9:54 am
Bumping into someone


Who on here has seen a profile on here and then one day saw that person out in the real world? What did you do or would you do if it happened to you?

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I_willoralu 47M
1682 posts
9/11/2019 9:56 am

I personally have never had it happen but awhile but I think I would start a conversation with them if I liked them.

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mrquiet88 33M

9/11/2019 10:15 am

I don't think I'd recognize someone if I've only seen their picture on here.


seems6666 51F
4805 posts
9/11/2019 10:34 am

As most men have dick pics, unless they dropped their trousers, I would have no idea


willingpair44 53M/30F

9/11/2019 10:36 am

If and when, (yes I have met more then one, small town) I met someone from Heated Affairs in public, I great them as a friend or acquaintance depending on how well I know them. Like everyone else, we have lives outside of sex and need other goods. If the mall talk turns to sex then engage it, but really with wife's, kids, parents ect it has yet to happen. If by chance we chat again on Heated Affairs then we can chat about the meeting.


I_willoralu 47M
1682 posts
9/11/2019 10:40 am

    Quoting seems6666:
    As most men have dick pics, unless they dropped their trousers, I would have no idea
I understand what you are saying. I used to have a face pic on but due to the work I was doing I had to remove it. Now I just send one when if I contact someone.

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I_willoralu 47M
1682 posts
9/11/2019 10:44 am

    Quoting willingpair44:
    If and when, (yes I have met more then one, small town) I met someone from Heated Affairs in public, I great them as a friend or acquaintance depending on how well I know them. Like everyone else, we have lives outside of sex and need other goods. If the mall talk turns to sex then engage it, but really with wife's, kids, parents ect it has yet to happen. If by chance we chat again on Heated Affairs then we can chat about the meeting.
Back when I had a face pic on here I did have someone tell other people about it, people I didn't want knowing, but I personally never ran into them in public. If they would have came up to me I would have gladly chatted with them and seen where it went.

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l00king4arealman 35F
1 post
9/11/2019 12:02 pm

It would be awkward but we are all here looking for similar experiences.


ltrskr 73M  
5132 posts
9/11/2019 12:06 pm

If someone recognized ur cock in public , how would they explain that to anyone...


AnewWoman 63F
271 posts
9/11/2019 1:04 pm

Years ago I was at a conference with my now ex when some guy comes up to me and says "I saw your profile on Heated Affairs, I mean I SAW your profile on Heated Affairs." I replied "Oh" and continued what I was doing. He looked stunned. I'm not sure what he was expecting me to say.


I_willoralu 47M
1682 posts
9/11/2019 1:37 pm

    Quoting l00king4arealman:
    It would be awkward but we are all here looking for similar experiences.
It would be a little awkward but it would also be kind of hot

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I_willoralu 47M
1682 posts
9/11/2019 1:40 pm

    Quoting AnewWoman:
    Years ago I was at a conference with my now ex when some guy comes up to me and says "I saw your profile on Heated Affairs, I mean I SAW your profile on Heated Affairs." I replied "Oh" and continued what I was doing. He looked stunned. I'm not sure what he was expecting me to say.
I think it's pretty obvious what he was expecting. I have a feel a lot of people figure that your on a sex site and I'm on a sex site and we see each other so we are going to have sex

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BiggLala 49F  
30157 posts
9/11/2019 7:07 pm

This is one of the problems with sexuality in America. Why is it such a big issue that you see someone you might recognize from online, on 'this site' ? If people don't have the maturity and sense of decorum to act appropriately, they shouldn't be on here.

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Heathen_G 63M
7963 posts
9/11/2019 8:09 pm

    Quoting seems6666:
    As most men have dick pics, unless they dropped their trousers, I would have no idea
I'm thinking all women still wouldn't know.

Body section photos are useless for recognizing a specific woman, from here.


Yours_4A_knight 56M
1502 posts
9/11/2019 9:40 pm

Honestly I don't think that has ever happened to me . . .I don't think that I have met any women from here in the real world without establishing the meeting from here first, but like people have said extreme close ups of often covered body part are pretty much useless for recognizing someone in public.

and my face and general appearance is so generic odds are that I sink back into the crowd.

But if I were to recognize someone who might have a profile on here . . .unless it was at a place where they are looking to meet new people and be social I would probably assume that they are not ready to be approached and so I wouldn't.

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I_willoralu 47M
1682 posts
9/11/2019 9:59 pm

    Quoting BiggLala:
    This is one of the problems with sexuality in America. Why is it such a big issue that you see someone you might recognize from online, on 'this site' ? If people don't have the maturity and sense of decorum to act appropriately, they shouldn't be on here.
I agree. I dont have a problem with it. Just curious in what everyone else would do. I actually think it would be kind of hot

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BiggLala 49F  
30157 posts
9/12/2019 6:31 pm

    Quoting I_willoralu:
    I agree. I dont have a problem with it. Just curious in what everyone else would do. I actually think it would be kind of hot
I don't understand what would make it hot. 🤔

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Joshlooking4you 44M

2/10/2020 5:37 am

I’m always looking for little details in the pics or videos to see if I know anyone or to see if I recognize something later on as I’m out and about. I also wonder if I’ve been around someone and neither of us know. I’d love to bump into someone from here personally.


Joshlooking4you 44M

2/18/2020 4:07 am

It hasn’t happened, but I do look at things in pictures to see if I could recognize someone while out. I wouldn’t approach them on it in person like that though. I’d try to contact them through this first. Personally I’d like someone (as long as it’s not someone I know) recognize me. I’m a bit of an exhibitionist and love to be seen naked by someone who is game for it. So if you recognize me and say something to me you may get a show.


pollly_anna 58F  
696 posts
9/21/2021 3:39 pm

NEVER HAVE.


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