Finding the right person for ongoing NSA without catching feelings  

Ghetto_cowgirl74 48F
40 posts
9/12/2021 4:41 pm
Finding the right person for ongoing NSA without catching feelings

It sounds simple but can be so complicated.
Tips, tricks, opinions and suggestions, experiences welcomed

Ghetto_cowgirl74 48F

9/12/2021 4:46 pm


moha440 51M
273 posts
9/12/2021 6:04 pm

Very cool and very sexy !!! My hard cock will explode and shoot you a lot of hot cum all over you😍😍
I like you so much I want to suck the whole bod

Ghetto_cowgirl74 replies on 9/13/2021 1:18 am:
Lol is it not rather interesting how visual images stimulate our minds

mufdiver69er2 61M  
1951 posts
9/12/2021 7:02 pm

for what its worth..i think anyone i had an extensive series of hookups and didnt end up feeling even a little something..would make me both sad and scared..only sociopaths have no true feelings..

woop woop

Ghetto_cowgirl74 replies on 9/13/2021 1:24 am:
Yes that is indeed the gray area is'nt it!

OldStandardDudeX 69M  
125 posts
9/12/2021 8:37 pm

I think the whole NSA /FWB is only short term.....we all really want that "One" that provides all that we need. So, the NSA /FWB situation, if it is really good, makes us want the whole thing, all the time.....and if both partners are in sync, and openly discuss their feelings, wants and needs, it's all cool.

But usually, those partners are not in sync, and don't openly express their longer term wants and needs......

But hey, what do I know?....

Ghetto_cowgirl74 replies on 9/13/2021 1:27 am:
It can do that to us yes!

Heathen_G 63M
7974 posts
9/12/2021 8:57 pm

Not possible. Eventually one or both of either of you gets "Feelings" for the other. Especially if the sex is really good.

The only way something like this might work, is if you find a man who is doing a lot of dating. In other words, "Not dependent on you for sex". He has his own, "Little Black Book" , to draw from.

Ghetto_cowgirl74 replies on 9/13/2021 1:28 am:
So true how many people make the error in judgement of catching feelings if the sex is really good instead of thinking logically and not lustfully!

Little black books really exist?

Ghetto_cowgirl74 48F

9/13/2021 1:18 am

Some great thoughts there thanks guys and girls!

WyoCowboy7751 68M  
2537 posts
9/13/2021 5:57 am

F : Friend, in regard to male & female, a person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual relations: WB ( with benefits), is adding the sexual relations as a benefit to being more than just friends !! NSA, No Strings Attached, relates to not looking for long term or marriage, when it's over it's over !! Just My Thought on it!🤠

Ghetto_cowgirl74 replies on 9/14/2021 4:29 am:
Interesting thanks!

New2Midlo 52M  
1075 posts
9/13/2021 5:57 pm

Ideally, you'd find someone who possesses a 'cardinal flaw', from a relationship perspective. A trait that would be a hard stop. For example, one of my FWB's was seemingly humorless, another admitted to being an emotional mess. Unfortunately, both developed feelings for me, partially because I'm a halfway decent catch but also due to my affinity for seduction.

The love of my life, Lala, has an excellent point about cuddle avoidance as a tool for keeping feelings at bay. But do you really want a stunt cock who doesn't perform after care?

Ooh Ooh, another tool for avoiding the feeling thing! Keep the sex completely vanilla. No matter how much you may want to be tied up, spanked, and used, don't do it with a FWB. Engaging in those activities and being pushed by a partner tends to lead to you trusting them and trust almost inevitably leads to icky feelings.

Ghetto_cowgirl74 replies on 9/14/2021 1:59 pm:
So very interesting thanks and some great tips. One of my FWB in the past thought it was ok to call me his Queen, tell me things like I am the best thing that ever happened to him. I asked him to stop saying things like that because it started to confuse me. On one hand he does not want commitment and on the other hand he wants to love me like a wide no way!

Ghetto_cowgirl74 replies on 9/14/2021 2:04 pm:
On one hand he does not want any commitment to me other than casual sex. On the other hand he wants to love me like a a wife. Can't have your cake and eat it too.

Ghetto_cowgirl74 48F

9/14/2021 4:36 am

So very interesting thanks!

Heathen_G 63M
7974 posts
12/16/2021 2:15 am

Ghetto_cowgirl74 replies on 9/13/2021 1:28 am:
Little black books really exist?

Yes they do. At least the smart men [or women] still have a "Book" with names in it. Much better than on the phone, or laptop/desktop.

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