What I want  

EroticMusings2 57F  
1618 posts
1/11/2022 2:22 am
What I want


I was sitting here tonight thinking about my sexuality, sensuality, and vibrancy. What my desires and wishes are,, and if they are realistically attainable. I do think sincerely they are, withe the right friend/lover. I crave all the affection, caring, a small even level of love. Nothing that is going to change anyone's overall life, but enhance it.

Once you feel that you have that delicious combination of a thriving friendship and add in the cherry on the top of a dynamic sexual chemistry I think you have hit gold. Whether it lasts days sadly or years.

I have slowed down, I am not nearly as fast to meet anyone. I want to be cared about as a overall person, a friend, confidant. I want to know that you care about me and dont see me as just a piece. Let;s face it, we have all been hurt in our lives, felt used, discarded etc. It is my sincere wish to never make anyone feel that way or feel that way again.

So until there is a real connection, a two-way street of caring, friendship, lustfulness. That intense natural chemistry, I will stick to my toys and fingers. I would rather take my time and make some lasting friendship

*Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*


spunkycumfun 61M/67F  
41166 posts
1/11/2022 2:42 am

Chemistry is always the gateway to the physics and biology of a relationship!


JDMurray123 57M
3580 posts
1/11/2022 4:35 am

Be gentle and kind to yourself. These are tough times for many, many people. You will find what you are looking for, in time. xoxo


Paulxx001 65M  
22616 posts
1/11/2022 4:37 am

Happy hunting. 😊❗


G000dbuddy 34M  
1676 posts
1/11/2022 4:45 am

Caring and lust are 2 different words

goodbuddy781


notsure1949 73M  
10657 posts
1/11/2022 4:47 am

well written, take it slow


justskin1 70M  
13175 posts
1/11/2022 5:07 am

Finding the right balance of chemistry is difficult. I tend to think there are three types of chemistry. Physical/sexual, Intellectual and Emotional. The mix of them between you can vary a lot. Sometimes you get very lucky and all three are very high. Sometimes one is out of this world high and if it is the Sexual it can mask the lack in the other two for a while. Sometimes the other two are very high but the physical chemistry is just not there. In that case balancing not wanting to lose the awesome feel of such a relationship vs wanting or needing the heat of sexual chemistry is difficult.
I hope you find that balance and soon.
Sending you big naked hugs and caresses.
Jim

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


Blueyedguy823 55M  
1077 posts
1/11/2022 5:38 am

Good luck! (I mean that sincerely)


jajo696 67F  
4287 posts
1/11/2022 6:04 am

Completely agree~


WyoCowboy7751 69M  
2537 posts
1/11/2022 6:22 am

HERE, HERE !!! I FULLY agree with that Assessment even for myself !!!! Under My Circumstances ; I just Need, Want and/or Desire that Male / Female Sexual Contact !!!! 🤠


EnigmaInitiative 54F  
6054 posts
1/11/2022 6:47 am

I'm with you. I've had the one off quickies, they are rarely ever good or satisfying.

This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.


Pleasures4You123 66M  
25 posts
1/11/2022 8:34 am

Chemistry and genuine friendships can make for great times ... you'll find that someday !!! Hugs and more


SilverFoxMark66 67M  
286 posts
1/11/2022 9:49 am

Amen to that, Ann, keep the faith


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