Valuable Lesson Learned  

EroticMusings2 57F  
1621 posts
7/28/2021 9:16 pm
Valuable Lesson Learned

Today I learned a valuable lesson about life and how you allow others to treat you.

A person who really cares about you, and is actually a true friend will never say cruel cold things to you. Such as basically you do not matter, you are not worth the trouble. That they are too busy to even have common courtesy.

I found myself very upset, actually sobbing when told this today. Then I thought, wait a minute. I have friends who love the way I am, who love that I care about them. That I ask if they are okay, and yes I worry. Because we all know how fragile life is, and it can be gone in a instant. A real man does not make you feel like you are beneath them, or you are just a toy.

So I let go, I rid myself of that person, and all others who are equally as damaging to me. I am a emotional woman, alway<b> shave </font></b>been. I do not pretend to not be. You can tell on how I touch you, react to you, care about you. Friend or more. I am the nurturer, always have been all of my life. Always will be. My friends, and my love - all love the way I am. They make time for me, they do not make me feel like I am not worth their time.

Be wary of those who wish to play head games with you. They are not your friends at all, they are just out here trying to make themselves feel powerful - when they are not. Do not waste your time, breath, or caring on them.

I still had a good day. It was my off day from working out, but kind of crazy. I did get to talk with my love for over an hour on his crazy work day. I didn't ask him too, he just makes that time because he misses me too. I love that feeling he gives me and the way he talks to me.

Stand up for yourself, you are worth it. WE all are my friends.

Ann


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godehnatty 58M  
61 posts
7/28/2021 11:10 pm

Daaamn right ! The fact that this is a sex site does not mean that you can "do people any kind of way" on here. Lots of good things can happen on here despite the obvious so one should ALWAYS treat other people right, regardless. Anyone can hide behind a screen and spew utter garbage but sooner or later who and what they are comes filtering through ... pure ~^~ ...


agelesssexylegs 78F  
1142 posts
7/29/2021 12:12 am

Oh yes making time for each other is important and helps with our health and well being,at my stage of life i wish i had more true friends than those that seem happy to tag along with me on this journey of life,i agree with rm_godehnatty there are a few decent people on here not many


EroticMusings2 57F  
661 posts
7/29/2021 12:51 am

    Quoting godehnatty:
    Daaamn right ! The fact that this is a sex site does not mean that you can "do people any kind of way" on here. Lots of good things can happen on here despite the obvious so one should ALWAYS treat other people right, regardless. Anyone can hide behind a screen and spew utter garbage but sooner or later who and what they are comes filtering through ... pure ~^~ ...
Thank you, I should have trusted my gut instinct. But lesson learned and that person wasnt really a friend. Wolf in sheeps clothing.

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EroticMusings2 57F  
661 posts
7/29/2021 12:52 am

    Quoting agelesssexylegs:
    Oh yes making time for each other is important and helps with our health and well being,at my stage of life i wish i had more true friends than those that seem happy to tag along with me on this journey of life,i agree with rm_godehnatty there are a few decent people on here not many
Seems to get harder and harder to find genuine people who arent playing a game and actually care. I think we are becoming a society that sadly mainly only cares about themselves. I prefer to have a mutual caring and friendship.

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riri40001 62M

7/29/2021 3:10 am

thats rigth !


funone131313 56M
15 posts
7/29/2021 10:11 am

Great stry to read!


EroticMusings2 57F  
661 posts
7/29/2021 10:20 pm

    Quoting  :

Never let anyone treat you less than. A real man doesnt need to do that.

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EroticMusings2 57F  
661 posts
7/29/2021 10:21 pm

Thank you

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