Take The Time To Make Memories  

EroticMusings2 57F
1553 posts
12/5/2021 2:49 am
Take The Time To Make Memories

In a perfect world, one person could give you everything you need. And vice versa, but I don't believe that is really possible. Now it is up to each of us to determine what is lacking and how important it is. Perhaps it is something like them not being tidy. Or something big, at least to me - which is the lack of affection and sex.

I admit it, I am one of those women who like sex is very important to a happy marriage. When it is lacking or not at all, there is something wrong. Now we all know there are medical reasons that one would not have any desire. Or at least able to perform. But still the snuggling, cuddling, kissing, touching is all still possible. Unless your spouse slams that door closed without a thought to you, your needs.

That is what has happened to me for years. I even offered to let him seek another woman, why not? But he did not wish to, which is his right. What is not his right is to make me have a sexless, affectionless sterile type of marriage. not acceptable to me at all because I am a woman, and I do matter.

Imagine my surprise when I got on here and there were alot of men who were and are interested in me. Yes for sex, but also for friendship. That means so much, to engage and have a man be interested in what I have to say. Who walks up to me and lays the most passionate kiss on me and that my head swoons. To me non of that ever has to end.

I am a very outspoken person and honest. Now I will not spew my opinion unles sit is asked. I dont to one of those loud mouth people.

So I tell you that if you have someone that you are wanting to get to know, do that. Take the time to do that We all only get one trip around and we never know what tomorrow will bring. make those memories and don't be afraid to show emotions, caring, and friendship. You never know what might be around the corner.

I am taking chances, safe ones but still.

xoxoxox Ann


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Needsomekisses60 61M
54 posts
12/5/2021 7:02 am

Great advice. I know the feeling and frustration. Your blog is a great tonic.


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
40659 posts
12/5/2021 7:11 am

A sexless marriage wouldn't work for me!


SilverFoxMark66 67M  
252 posts
12/5/2021 8:53 am

Well said, I know the feeling & have experienced that a few times & occasionally the opposite when she only seemed t interested in sex, (which was very good btw) 'tho had so little conversation between times that it soon became frustrating, sadly; I trust your new beaux tkaes cae of both sides of you relationship, big warm horny hugs Mark


boobwhisperer69 59M  
8171 posts
12/5/2021 11:10 am

Good post!!!


Paulxx001 64M  
22486 posts
12/5/2021 1:16 pm

Sounds like you have a plan. Go for it! 👍 😊

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justskin1 70M
13086 posts
12/6/2021 12:11 am

My first wife after a while no longer wanted to have sex nor did want any sort of physical affection. She also got angry if she thought I masturbated. It is so wrong for one spouse to impose no sex or affection on their partner. If they cannot give it to them for physical reasons then they should let them get it from others. When my depression was so bad I got therapy and in a joint session I said she needed to change some she told me she would divorce me. Best that could have happened. I only regret I did not decide to leave earlier not stayed "for the kids". It might have saved my relatonships with my kids. Or not. A deeply depressed person makes a poor parent.

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EroticMusings2 57F
646 posts
12/7/2021 1:01 am

    Quoting Needsomekisses60:
    Great advice. I know the feeling and frustration. Your blog is a great tonic.
So glad you are enjoying my blog.

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EroticMusings2 57F
646 posts
12/7/2021 1:02 am

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    A sexless marriage wouldn't work for me!
Doesnt work for me either, hence why I am on here with his knowledge even before we separated

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EroticMusings2 57F
646 posts
12/7/2021 1:03 am

    Quoting SilverFoxMark66:
    Well said, I know the feeling & have experienced that a few times & occasionally the opposite when she only seemed t interested in sex, (which was very good btw) 'tho had so little conversation between times that it soon became frustrating, sadly; I trust your new beaux tkaes cae of both sides of you relationship, big warm horny hugs Mark
eh, not really on the both sides. But not rushing off to judge too fast yet.

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EroticMusings2 57F
646 posts
12/7/2021 1:04 am

Thank you for commenting

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EroticMusings2 57F
646 posts
12/7/2021 1:05 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Sounds like you have a plan. Go for it! 👍 😊
Now seeing it to fruition is another thing though.

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EroticMusings2 57F
646 posts
12/7/2021 1:06 am

    Quoting justskin1:
    My first wife after a while no longer wanted to have sex nor did want any sort of physical affection. She also got angry if she thought I masturbated. It is so wrong for one spouse to impose no sex or affection on their partner. If they cannot give it to them for physical reasons then they should let them get it from others. When my depression was so bad I got therapy and in a joint session I said she needed to change some she told me she would divorce me. Best that could have happened. I only regret I did not decide to leave earlier not stayed "for the kids". It might have saved my relatonships with my kids. Or not. A deeply depressed person makes a poor parent.
Yes I stayed for the kids too, and basically the same thing happened to me as well. Big naked hugs.

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