Standing Up For Yourself  

EroticMusings2 57F  
1622 posts
8/31/2021 10:12 am
Standing Up For Yourself

Sometimes in life, you get caught in a relationship with someone that turns sour. All the sudden there is nothing about you that they like. Nothing that you do is good enough. You find yourself afraid to be yourself. Afraid to be the person you thought they found wonderful.

Red flags,
Red flags big time.
Red flags already been down that road of being controlled.

Then you have to gather all the strength from your boot straps and stand up for yourself.

Now I know there is always a lot of room for improvement in myself. We all can always improve, no one is perfect. But at 57 years old, I am who I am. I fought long and damn hard to get to where I even liked myself. I have overcome so much, and still am overcoming even more.

I am standing up for the woman I am now. I couldnt as a , but I do now. I even told my self that nothing that happened to her was her fault. I realized that inner pain.

But I do like the woman I am. I am kind, loving, caring and will have your back. But I am not going to be told how to be. My husband finally understands that I do have needs that he hasnt been able to and now cant meet. He wishes he could, but knows that I will occasionally have a lover that I see to fulfill that part of my life.

No one is a bad person. Just sometimes you find that your lifestyles and the people you are is too different. I am not going to morph into someone else's idea of who I should be. But you do always learn and take away something positive.

Everything and everyone is a<b> lesson </font></b>or a blessing.

Ann


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smallballs555 66M
141 posts
8/31/2021 6:15 pm

Very well said


69ereatwetpussy 59M  
6783 posts
8/31/2021 6:31 pm

You are an adult, can make your own mind up what will make you happy. for all the work you do for yourself and other. Your not the only one here in your boots. We all are here for one or many reasons. Yet we are here for each other too.have a wonderful night and a better day tomorrow XOXO.


scoupe42 58M  

8/31/2021 6:34 pm

You speak the truth.


WyoCowboy7751 68M  
2537 posts
9/1/2021 5:12 am

" My husband finally understands that I do have needs that he hasnt been able to and now cant meet." I find it Very Interesting that Women get Full support for this sort of thing !! BUT; If I'm or Other Men are doing doing the Same Thing with Support of Our Wife or Other ; We GET CHASTISED FOR IT by Some Females On Here !!!! Just My Humble Opinion !!!! 🤠


EroticMusings2 57F  
661 posts
9/1/2021 10:57 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you so much, you probably were wondering why I was changing so fast. I feel so much better.

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EroticMusings2 57F  
661 posts
9/1/2021 10:57 am

Thank you so much for your comment.

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EroticMusings2 57F  
661 posts
9/1/2021 10:58 am

    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    You are an adult, can make your own mind up what will make you happy. for all the work you do for yourself and other. Your not the only one here in your boots. We all are here for one or many reasons. Yet we are here for each other too.have a wonderful night and a better day tomorrow XOXO.
Thank you so much, and it is friends like you that I have come to trust and care so much about.

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EroticMusings2 57F  
661 posts
9/1/2021 10:59 am

/thank you so much

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EroticMusings2 57F  
661 posts
9/1/2021 11:02 am

    Quoting WyoCowboy7751:
    " My husband finally understands that I do have needs that he hasnt been able to and now cant meet." I find it Very Interesting that Women get Full support for this sort of thing !! BUT; If I'm or Other Men are doing doing the Same Thing with Support of Our Wife or Other ; We GET CHASTISED FOR IT by Some Females On Here !!!! Just My Humble Opinion !!!! 🤠
I agree, some women do chastise for the same. I'm not one of them, I think being very honest with your spouse, and with anyone you would be with sexually is so important. My husband knows what I am going to be doing, what motel etc. He wants no details, and no names ever are given. I love your [profile picture by the way, especially since I am originally born and raised from Wyoming for the first 50 years.

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Fish8610 35M

9/6/2021 6:06 am

Nice post.


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