Salutations From Me to You  

EroticMusings2 57F
1553 posts
12/4/2021 2:16 am
Salutations From Me to You


Well Hello there. Yes I know I just kind of ghosted myself. Truth be told, I needed a few days away from all of this here teh site. It was a good time recenter myself and decide what I want and what I need.

So thinking of what I want is what I call "The boyfriend experience". Now hear out. I want have that kind of feeling and actions like if we were out on a date. Just for while we are together, then we separate and go back to our respective lives. But when we are together, lots of hand holding, cuddling, kissing and very very hot sex.

To that is what I am seeking. The attention and affection I do not get in my daily life. And be honest, if love were ever find , I would not shut the door the possibility, if done very slowly. I think you can even be in love with someone and not have live with them. You can love a person, yet keep your own identity.

Lets face it, we that are in our late 40's on, are at the stage in our life that we finally are catching our breath and ready look at what we might want. We have already invested so many years in our families, and friendships. We might for the first time want have things our way. I think it is a beautiful thing when you learn that someone is romantically involved but keep the relationship where they are both free be themselves. But when they come together, it is all about the other person themselves and a lot of affection.

I want to experience certain things in my life yet. A few days ago my FWB came into town. It had been over 2 months since we had sex, so we were both very eager. As usual a very good time, and even more affection. The conversations too were really amazing. We managed to work through my asthma flaring and having a very severe pain flair with my shoulders. So kind and understanding. Such a wonderful man, friend, and lover for that time we carve out of our schedules to do so.

I do hope you all are doing well.

Big hugs to you all,

Ann

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spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
40662 posts
12/4/2021 8:05 am

I'm pleased your FWB paid you a visit.


Paulxx001 64M  
22486 posts
12/4/2021 8:22 am

It sounds like you have things coming together"; good for you! 👍 😊 ❗ ❗ ❗

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SilverFoxMark66 67M  
252 posts
12/4/2021 11:38 am

Glad you seem to have found that ideal balance, & like you that would be a bonus for me if I could indeed find something or someone like that on Heated Affairs, still, I've has mre replies qwthis week which is always a good start, so congratulations & big warm horny hugs across the ocean for you & yours, Mark


EroticMusings2 57F
646 posts
12/5/2021 2:32 am

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    I'm pleased your FWB paid you a visit.
Yes after some time but life gets in the way sometime. Hoping to find a fwb that is closer, which would be ideal.

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EroticMusings2 57F
646 posts
12/5/2021 2:35 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    It sounds like you have things coming together"; good for you! 👍 😊 ❗ ❗ ❗
Those stolen moments that you manage to connect with someone who cares are like a lifeline. That is my respite.

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EroticMusings2 57F
646 posts
12/5/2021 2:36 am

    Quoting SilverFoxMark66:
    Glad you seem to have found that ideal balance, & like you that would be a bonus for me if I could indeed find something or someone like that on Heated Affairs, still, I've has mre replies qwthis week which is always a good start, so congratulations & big warm horny hugs across the ocean for you & yours, Mark
That is so very kind of you to say. Thank you.

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Erogedyne 69M
1036 posts
12/5/2021 5:57 am

Stepping back to take a breath and re-evaluate one's life is a good thing! Knowing what you want is a huge step toward getting it!. Good Luck!


justskin1 70M
13086 posts
12/6/2021 12:01 am

I am happy you and your FWB got together and you had both the sex and affection. May you two get together more often and may you find an affectionate caring lover and friend nearby who can give you a lot more time together. Also one who is willing to share you with other lovers. Too many people suffer from a spouse who is unable or unwilling to have sex or affection but who demand the partner not go outside the marriage for their needs.
I think that the affection, cuddling etc. and the glorious conversations Diane and I share are what are most important to us.

Sending big naked hugs and warm thoughts to you Anne.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


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