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If Music Be the Food of Love
Posted:Jan 22, 2022 3:16 pm
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2022 9:32 am
Elena got all dolled up and ready to have fun for the first time in several weeks today. Some of the pictures I took accompany this post..

Its quite hard to explain what a buzz the whole experience is. Getting the lingerie, clothes and shoes out and selecting from them. Putting on a few skimpy things before doing your make-up. I literally skip and dance about with glee!

The thing is, though, its not even solely or even particularly a feeling, certainly at the getting ready stage. Certainly you feel feminine and enjoy the feeling you look sexy and desirable (in your own eyes, anyway). But its much more like the adrenaline thrill or high of a theme-park ride, combined with a deep feeling of contentment and fulfilment and anticipation of whats to come.

That dancing about bit is quite important, as Ill generally have mood music on the background. What this is can vary, sometimes just what is on the radio. But I do have a couple or three favourite Playlists that I go back to again and again, enough that their songs can themselves trigger that euphoric feeling! Playlist One is especially good for getting dressed and ready, its a mix of upbeat, happy pop songs plus some more girly romantic ones. Playlist Two is slushy, romantic stuff, which I sometimes enjoy. Playlist Three is the raunchier, jiggy-jiggy stuff (at least in my imagination).

I would probably hesitate a before sharing these Playlists on any old site, as they might not chime with a perhaps younger audience, but Heated Affairs has less , more (ahem) middle aged fol Perhaps people may still not like them, we all have different taste - but then probably nobody reads this have having ascertained its not straight into descriptions of f*cking!

Anyway, for anyone who is interested in sharing the tunes in Elena Malena's head, and for my own satisfaction, here goes..


Breathless, The Corrs (Sweet and Sexy girls: perfect)
Eternal Flame, The Bangles (Soppy time)
In Your Room, The Bangles (Heading towards the sexy times now..)
Torn, Natalie Imburglia (Lot of yearning in this song, very sexy to me somehow)
Love Me, Love Me, The Cardigans (Sweet as Pie)


I Gotta Feeling, The Black Eyed Peas (Cos tonights gonna be a good, good night!...)
Skinny Jeans, Eliza Doolittle (Happy nonsense with added jaunty whistling)
Love Story, Taylor Swift (Poptastic)
Domino, Jessie J (Loving the Dominatrix haircut, Jessie Babe!)
Call Me Maybe, Carly Rae Jepsen (Loving the hair, Carly!)
Hung Up, Madonna (Lets up the tempo again)

All Night, Icona Pop (Self-explanatory really)
I Love It, Icona Pop (Ditto)
Something Kinda Ooooh, Girls Aloud (Something kinda ooooh, Jumpin on my tutu, Something side of me, Wants some part of you-oo-ooh!)
Ooh La la, Goldfrapp ( Another sexy Oooh! Song, back to back)
Heart of Glass, Blondie (Debbie Harry could sing a hymn and make it sound sultry)
ET, Katy Perry (Hello Crazy, Pretty Lady! )
Teenage Dream, Katy Perry (See above)
Cant Get You Out of My Head, Kylie Minogue (The Pocket Sex-Rocket at her best. Have you seen her Agent Provocateur Cinema Ad with the Rodeo Machine? Google it.. )

Blurred Lines, Robin Thicke (Disgusting objectivisation of Women in the video!I hear you cry. Or maybe not, on Heated Affairs)
Love Game, Lady Gaga
Never Be The Same, Camila Cabello (Smoking Hot Latino Babe Seeks Horny Guy. OK, that is not the actual song lyric, but its what she is thinking, Im pretty sure)
Push The Button, Sugababes (Good when youre indulging in, cough, battery operated fun)
Freak Like Me, Sugagabes (Cos were all Freaks on here, really eh?)
Ready For It , Taylor Swift (I like the Slow-Fast in this. Could be a useful pace-setter maybe?)
Round, Round - Sugababes (Like their previous two, just a sexy rhythm to move to)
Bad Liar, Selena Gomez (Slows it down, but still Hot! )
Hands to Myself, Selena Gomez (Cant keep my hands to myself - No matter how hard Im trying to - I want you all to myself- Your metaphorical gin and juice)
Good for You, Selena Gomez (Gonna wear that dress you like, skin-tight - Do my hair up real, real nice. -And syncopate my skin to your heart beating)

Strict Machine, Goldfrapp (Im in love with a Strict Machine. Yep, weve all seen THOSE kind of machines in videos online)
Gimme More, Britney Spears (The title speaks for itself)
Toxic, Yael Naim (A slow version of this hit. Why rush things, Baby, we've ot all night?)
Aint Nobody, Jasmine Thompson (Another slow cover. Such a sweet voice & face..)
We Cant Stop, Miley Cyrus
Wrecking Ball, Miley Cyrus
I Feel Love, Donna Summer ( The Extended Version. Prepare Rocket for Launch!)

If you are reading this and have your own Banging Tunes, to coin a phrase, I am always interested in new additions to my Playlists. The longer the better, after all...

Happy Listening whatever your taste in Music!

Love and Kisses to You All

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"Sweet Dreams Are Made of These..."
Posted:Nov 29, 2021 10:49 pm
Last Updated:Dec 10, 2021 3:45 pm
Well, my first fascinating fortnight of Heated Affairs has brought some song lyrics to mind. First the majestic Annie Lennox of the Eurhythmics:

Sweet dreams are made of this
Who am I to disagree
I travel the world and the seven seas
Everybody is looking for something
Some of them want to use you
Some of them want to get used by you
Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abused

And also the words to the Blur song Girls and Boys:

Girls who want boys
Who like boys to be girls
Who do boys like they re girls
Who do girls like they re boys
Always should be someone you really love

No prizes (or points) for guessing the relevance of those two here!

But it has been eye-opening to innocent little me to see the sheer variety of desires that are on display here. I expected it a bit of course, but not so much. Perhaps the reason is that some of us somehow unconsciously assume that our exact kinks will be shared by a fair quite a lot of people.

So I was expecting there to be more TS/TVs whose fantasy is to have sex with a straight(ish)-seeming guy while they play the CIS woman role throughout. But not a bit of it: chicks with dicks are all the rage it seems, as are TS/TV girls who like the same (so Girls who want boys, Who like boys to be girls) Also a lot of straight men who want fairly seriously abusing, including by the aforementioned chicks. The extent to which oral both ways and rimming are the hot buttons for some was also eye-opening (or is it eye-watering). A nice starter sometimes for me, but not the main course..

Though more power to you, if one of those is your thing - they are just not for me (I think) personally, in just a couple of weeks I have had some intriguing and sometimes quite startling offers (and do not worry if one of these is you, I will never-ever divulge names). Several submissive Men who want me to be their Doms is the fairly normal one, though it surprised me a bit to be asked, as it is not one of my Profile kinks, though I might fancy giving it a go if asked nicely and it was as a light roleplay only. One wanted to play with my pee-pee (which is out), including me peeing on him. Another actually wants me to come and trash their home as part of this: unfortunately Elena is quite tidy in real life, so that one is definitely too much and a No from me!

It has been nice, though, that so many guys do like my dressing up and role-playing fantasies (stranded girl, estate agent, maid, bride etc.): bits of my Profile on this have got some very excited, which feels delicious. Fortunately too there have also been some very promising contacts from a range of pleasant-seeming gentlemen who actually fit what I said I was looking for! (Older, straight-ish acting Daddy who want to do it with a girly TS/TV who looks and dresses like me

And thankfully they are not all totally vanilla, of course: one nice ex-military man shares some of the aforementioned fantasies almost exactly. Now to put some of that into action. Currently reviewing CVs and pics and making plans. Way-hay!!

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Posted:Nov 22, 2021 4:12 pm
Last Updated:Jan 5, 2022 8:11 pm

I have been dreaming pleasantly about this particular fantasy, as I am chatting here with a gentleman about role-playing it out some time soon! It is a bit like of those Fake Taxi/Stranded Motorist Porn videos. with a shyer (me) is a bit more shocked and reluctant, initially. It would also be better acted than those, obviously (should not be hard)

So I am a slightly ditzy/naive dolled up for a night out (with a nice dress as per my pictures, well some of them.) My taxi or bus fails turn up and a guy pulls over and offers a lift. Oh Yes please! she innocently cries, i am running late, I will be ever so grateful. She gets in but the guy soon pulls over into a quiet car-park area and says he will need payment, she has got no cash, suggests they go to a machine, he says no, something else in mind, in lieu.

She does not quite get it or believe it, but basically he starts off with things and reels her in. He is perfectly polite, almost bantering, but firm when she demurs. It could start with Why dont you take your coat off, its in the car. She gets out do so and he tells her walk about a bit just so he can get a proper at her. Reluctantly she does. Now straighten your skirt, now twirl up a bit. Next this is repeated with her top then her skirt removed. She demurs, but then treats it as a bit of a joke: What you going to do, take pictures next?! And can we go then, please? Yes, he says. So she strips down to her nice lacey lingerie with black stocking and heels. Good, now get back in the car please, bring your things to put back on [NOT!]

Then, naturally, it is time for the First course.Put your hand on my knee. Move it further up please. Rubbing through trousers. Undo zip and get it out. Holding it, Caressing it, Rubbing, Kissing, Licking, Putting just the in her mouth etc.

Then the Main Course. he will make her walk around some more admire her. he will take some pictures at this stage. This could be against the car or kneeling on the back seat. Or up against a tree on over a picnic bench. But improvisation and creativity will of course be welcome - and if you any ideas or notes pass on how you think should go, do shout - I will take them under consideration.

I must also get round setting down some more fantasies here. Another current one that has sprung from somewhere recently is Red Riding Hood more grown up and off in the Woods pick mushrooms. But something very ugly is lurking and has monstrous appetites.. I also something say on fantasy (as yet) Gangbangs, but one far more sensual than the sordid affairs you see in videos.

Posted:Nov 21, 2021 2:38 am
Last Updated:Nov 21, 2021 1:18 pm

Sorry the formatting of my first blog post went all doollally, Darlings - very annoying, but it is corrected now, I think! xx E

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