"Sweet Dreams Are Made of These..."  

ElenaMalena2 52T
7 posts
11/29/2021 10:49 pm
"Sweet Dreams Are Made of These..."

Well, my first fascinating fortnight of Heated Affairs has brought some song lyrics to mind. First the majestic Annie Lennox of the Eurhythmics:

Sweet dreams are made of this
Who am I to disagree
I travel the world and the seven seas
Everybody is looking for something
Some of them want to use you
Some of them want to get used by you
Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abused

And also the words to the Blur song Girls and Boys:

Girls who want boys
Who like boys to be girls
Who do boys like they re girls
Who do girls like they re boys
Always should be someone you really love

No prizes (or points) for guessing the relevance of those two here!

But it has been eye-opening to innocent little me to see the sheer variety of desires that are on display here. I expected it a bit of course, but not so much. Perhaps the reason is that some of us somehow unconsciously assume that our exact kinks will be shared by a fair quite a lot of people.

So I was expecting there to be more TS/TVs whose fantasy is to have sex with a straight(ish)-seeming guy while they play the CIS woman role throughout. But not a bit of it: chicks with dicks are all the rage it seems, as are TS/TV girls who like the same (so Girls who want boys, Who like boys to be girls) Also a lot of straight men who want fairly seriously abusing, including by the aforementioned chicks. The extent to which oral both ways and rimming are the hot buttons for some was also eye-opening (or is it eye-watering). A nice starter sometimes for me, but not the main course..

Though more power to you, if one of those is your thing - they are just not for me (I think) personally, in just a couple of weeks I have had some intriguing and sometimes quite startling offers (and do not worry if one of these is you, I will never-ever divulge names). Several submissive Men who want me to be their Doms is the fairly normal one, though it surprised me a bit to be asked, as it is not one of my Profile kinks, though I might fancy giving it a go if asked nicely and it was as a light roleplay only. One wanted to play with my pee-pee (which is out), including me peeing on him. Another actually wants me to come and trash their home as part of this: unfortunately Elena is quite tidy in real life, so that one is definitely too much and a No from me!

It has been nice, though, that so many guys do like my dressing up and role-playing fantasies (stranded girl, estate agent, maid, bride etc.): bits of my Profile on this have got some very excited, which feels delicious. Fortunately too there have also been some very promising contacts from a range of pleasant-seeming gentlemen who actually fit what I said I was looking for! (Older, straight-ish acting Daddy who want to do it with a girly TS/TV who looks and dresses like me


And thankfully they are not all totally vanilla, of course: one nice ex-military man shares some of the aforementioned fantasies almost exactly. Now to put some of that into action. Currently reviewing CVs and pics and making plans. Way-hay!!

xx

Leegs2012 49M  
96125 posts
12/8/2021 8:24 am

I love Kink sprinkled on my vanilla sex!! Great tune too!!


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