Welp, at least he was honest…  

EarthAngel512 99F
259 posts
11/1/2021 12:10 pm
Welp, at least he was honest…

One of the things I find rather annoying is when someone asks me right out the gate, “what turns you on?” or something very similar… as you can tell, I have no problem talking about sex or what I want, but i feel it’s more of a boundary thing. Why in the world do some people feel entitled to know intimate details about you without setting up any rapport?

Generally, I don’t respond to asshats like that, but for some reason, I was feeling rather cheeky, so when this one person reached out, asking, “name one thing that turns you on…”

I responded, “Keanu Reeves.”

To which, he said, “Yeah, me too.”

LOL I could not stop laughing.

Touché.


forgotforgetting 55M  
8134 posts
11/4/2021 8:35 am

I bet you're adorable when blushing.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


forgotforgetting 55M  
8134 posts
11/3/2021 7:48 am

Genuinely, I don't think I give you enough credit. It take a lot of my focus to keep my brain from going to mush around you.

I'm sure Garth appreciates that...I would.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


EarthAngel512 replies on 11/3/2021 8:06 pm:
LOL you're sweet... i'm blushing...

seems6666 51F  
4838 posts
11/2/2021 11:37 am

Mainly I ignore the "fancy a fuck" brigade, but if I'm feeling antsy I reply.." would you go up to a lady in a bar and come right out with that"?
usually the answer is no.. and sometimes an apology ... and "this is a sex site" shit,
I think the interwebs has given people the feeling that they can say and do what they want behind a keyboard.. basic manners and respect have gone out the window.


EarthAngel512 replies on 11/2/2021 6:07 pm:
sometimes when i get an unsolicited dick pic, i'll reply, "oh, i didn't ask for that ..." and generally most guys would apologize, but there's always a few that double down, then complain that they didn't get a response or women on this site are fake/stuck up... it's like, "gee, i wonder why..."

it's always refreshing when you meet someone who seems super chill and has something interesting to say...

CedarsPrince 42M  
1608 posts
11/2/2021 11:10 am

I responded, “Keanu Reeves.”

To which, he said, “Yeah, me too.”


smooth operator lol

Why in the world do some people feel entitled to know intimate details about you without setting up any rapport?
Communication is still difficult for some in person or through technology and some don't know that not everyone is an open book from the get go.

Thankfully, this convo went well for you with a good laugh


EarthAngel512 replies on 11/2/2021 6:02 pm:
you have a good point about people lacking good communication skills in general... and yes, technology/texting/etc has a way of giving people a sort of "liquid"/technology(?) courage to act and say things they wouldn't say/do to a person's face...

i'm actually painfully shy and probably a little awkward in person at times... so i'm willing to give most people the benefit of the doubt...

forgotforgetting 55M  
8134 posts
11/2/2021 7:22 am

So...um...ah...what turns you on?

Angel, there are so many fascinating layers to you, it's shameful to be so one deminsional in getting to know you. What I'm saying is there are better starting points. Then again, and not to defend the inarticulate, there a certain shwing about you that can stun mental process. ( Tip of the hat to SNL for the shwing reference. )

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


EarthAngel512 replies on 11/2/2021 5:58 pm:
LOL i think you give me way to much credit for turning guys brains into mush... but i am flattered nonetheless because it came from you...

yes, i remember that skit from SNL... i really liked Dana Carvey's character more than Mike Meyers... but i digress...

MrWrong4RghtNow 55M  
2439 posts
11/2/2021 1:12 am

Keanu is a great choice. Mine is Kate Beckinsale... although like the other responder I have used both Betty White and Bea Arthur as choices.
I'm not above being a horny toad on here but I use the simple approach of talking to people as if we are talking in person and I'm not the shy introvert I truly am. Lol
Personally I enjoy learning about someone as we along in conversation. Yeah I'm a weirdo.

My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment


EarthAngel512 replies on 11/2/2021 4:49 am:
Oooh, Kate Beckinsdale is a good choice. I also like Selma Hayek.

Tbh, I also like Bea’s character. Well, all of the golden girls really—even Blanche! But I guess that’s the TV tropes for you. It would be too hard to have one complex character that was all of them combined.

Don’t get me wrong, I love it when a guy can talk dirty to me and be unabashed about sex, but that’s only after a certain level of trust and respect has been established. Otherwise, it just makes me feel gross and disrespected. I think you’re style of approaching others on this site the same way you would normally is the way to go.

jajo696 67F  
4287 posts
11/1/2021 10:10 pm

lol...i just got asked that 1 minute into an IM. Oy Vey!! My standard response is...those things are to be determined by/with my partner. In other words....wtf...who are you to ask. lol
Yup....they think just cuz this is a supposed ' sex site', we are all walking around sans panties with the labia hanging out....just waiting /wanting their touch.

Such neanderthals.....thinking with the wrong head.

Keanu...such a cool style. A low key philanthropist who rides the subway~


EarthAngel512 replies on 11/2/2021 4:43 am:
LOL that part where your talked about men thinking we our labias hanging out just aching to be touched…

Yeah, I love how Keanu doesn’t seem like he has to flex all the time to prove himself, and yes, being a DL philanthropist and all around cool guy is sexy AF.

G000dbuddy 34M  
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11/1/2021 8:08 pm

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luciegirl2 53F  
508 posts
11/1/2021 5:43 pm

I get that all the time. and when I let them know their go to line is " well youre on a sex site" no shit sherlock but i have some standards! geez Or go to open my mail and all that is there is his dick, like really does that ever work?? I instantly block or send a one sentence reply " unsolicited dick pics not wanted"


EarthAngel512 replies on 11/1/2021 9:22 pm:
Omg, yes! I hate it when guys say, “well, you’re on a sex site…” meaning it’s okay for them to act like a hyper-sexualized man child and send unsolicited dick pics… what’s actually worse than that is when you try to send some kind of boundary and they retort with some BS response like I’m missing out on “something special”… it’s definitely not sexy nor winning anyone over. I do think it’s sexy when people are able to bow out gracefully.

technical_ 33M
4 posts
11/1/2021 3:50 pm

I find statements like these to be anecdotal of male beings in general right? This almost universal idea that once sex is a topic, all modesty is thrown out the window.
Being open about your sexuality versus shouting out that you are horny are two very different things.
I hope that your inbox had at least one decent response buried in the litter?


EarthAngel512 replies on 11/1/2021 4:27 pm:
I agree that talking about sex VS your sex are two completely different things… it’s like just because you go to a titty bar doesn’t mean you get carte blanche to start grabbing at people… Don’t get me wrong, I’ve met some really interesting and cool people on here, but just like life in “the real” world, cool people in general are few and far in between.

Thanks for popping by with such an interesting comment!

peladodel56 65M  
10340 posts
11/1/2021 3:21 pm

Se te ve muy bien para tu edad... cuál es la fórmula???


EarthAngel512 replies on 11/1/2021 4:23 pm:
LOL muchas gracias… Es la verdad que las asiáticas no pasan (pero es mejor en ingles—Jajaja)!

staci_19702 51T  
3767 posts
11/1/2021 3:21 pm

😅
Interesting response.
I said Taco Bell’s Mexican pizza when asked that once. “You get me that and I’m yours”.

Have a great day! 💋
Staci


EarthAngel512 replies on 11/1/2021 4:18 pm:
LOL those are good!

dwz5234 69M  
2404 posts
11/1/2021 3:17 pm

Beautiful Photo's You Have !!!!!!!!!!!!!!


EarthAngel512 replies on 11/1/2021 4:27 pm:
Thank you! 🤗

crosstraining 69T  
8367 posts
11/1/2021 3:07 pm

Cute , after looking at your pics my eyes have expanded , there lovely , XOXO


EarthAngel512 replies on 11/1/2021 4:17 pm:
How kind of you to say! I'm a flattered! 🥰

NG879190 43M  
73 posts
11/1/2021 1:14 pm

Feeling out boundaries is always a good idea before any encounter. Holding Keanu up as a measuring stick is a good way let people know what they are up against. I personally have retorted with Betty White.


EarthAngel512 replies on 11/1/2021 3:41 pm:
Keanu seriously does it for me. That scene in ‘always be my maybe’ where he’s like, “no, I don’t need eyeglasses. My eyesight’s perfect.” I’m like, “yes, you are…”

Are you telling me you like ‘em experienced and sassy? Low key, I’m feeling Betty White, too.

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