Travelers delight.  

Daytimer09B 53M
519 posts
8/30/2021 2:37 pm
Travelers delight.

Recently I have done a lot of traveling but it has been rather boring as there are still a lot of places closed. I enjoy adult themed activities such as nudist beaches, clubs and people watching. I have met a few really nice people while I have traveled but it seems most people are too afraid to even look you in the eye because you may strike up a conversation. I am a very social type person and have no problems striking up a conversation with a stranger. On my previous trip I met a guy at a bar who was also there on business and we talked for two hours and had a great time just talking and eating sorry overpriced bar food. Both of us are totally straight so it was just like a couple of old friends reminiscing about old times.

I would like to hear where someone should go in your area if they were visiting and looking to have an adult evening. I have several more trips coming up and really enjoy people watching if nothing else.

For my poll, I will leave different adult options for you to choose from. Just pick the one that best matches your personality or leave one in the comments.
Female: I enjoy going to bars and meeting guys.
Female: I do NOT enjoy going to adult type establishments.
Female: I wish more men would talk to me when I am out.
Female: I just want to be left alone when I am at an adult establishment.
Female: I give guys signals to approach but they never act.
Male: I enjoy going to adult establishments to people watch.
Male: I would like to meet women but most are too stand-offish.
Male: I have given up on women because they think all guys are bad.
Male: I would like to find a different kind of atmosphere to meet women.
Male: I have a hard time reaching out and wish she would make the first move.


Daytimer09B 53M
889 posts
8/30/2021 2:41 pm

The resort I stayed at last had several pools including an adult only pool. The adult pool was boring so I spent most of my time at the main pool where people seemed to be enjoying themselves much more.


1seeking1 56F
3748 posts
8/30/2021 3:51 pm

Not sure where you live, still in global pandemic where I am. Hopefully when it is over the Meet and Greets will start up again. I also like to find different venue for meeting, not into the bar scene.


Daytimer09B replies on 8/31/2021 6:36 am:
The bar scene is just to stale and old for me as well. I think in today's environment with the pandemic and all it would be nice to have an outdoor gathering place that was spread out and not over crowded and maybe some sort of activities that allowed for people to meet but in a lessor obligated way. Like maybe a random game of scavenger hunt. Less people together but still getting to meet others and in a non threatening way.

author51 58F  
126104 posts
8/30/2021 11:19 pm

    Quoting 1seeking1:
    Not sure where you live, still in global pandemic where I am. Hopefully when it is over the Meet and Greets will start up again. I also like to find different venue for meeting, not into the bar scene.
I have not traveled to even see my kids in almost two years now as the pandemic and the Delta variant are starting to once again shut things down. Prior that I like going down to the bar here with friends and parties as my source of entertainment..xoxo


Daytimer09B replies on 8/31/2021 6:38 am:
I guess that means you have not been able to do any performances then. That must be a hard thing for you to miss out on. I have traveled with work and vacation and there are ways of staying safe, you just have to be proactive and avoid certain types of areas.

TicklePlease 53F  
13675 posts
8/31/2021 3:53 am

There's two difference scenarios presented.... being out while traveling and being out while local. If I'm local, I'm out with friends and it's not really a time to meet people. I don't like to have a stranger approach me and try to make conversation when it's obvious I'm already involved in a group conversation. If I'm traveling and alone however, I strike up conversations right and left with people in bars and restaurants.

If Philly is on your travel list, the Penns Landing area is perfect for people watching and casual conversations!


Daytimer09B replies on 9/1/2021 5:36 am:
That is true about the two different scenarios. I have not been to Philly in a while but I will put that one on my to do list the next time I am in that area. Thanks!

SouthGeorgiaCoug 64F
146 posts
9/2/2021 6:10 am

We do not go out as often as we did pre covid but I always enjoyed going to a local bar that was close to the local college. A few of the guys would get up the courage to come over and chat but most would not. The few that would often got an invite to go home with us.

A Cougar searching for cubs!


Daytimer09B replies on 9/2/2021 12:53 pm:
Some guys talk a bigger game than they really have. lol

Their loss as I am sure you could have taught them many things they do not know.

Is that Haulover Beach in Florida in your picture?

v4veronica 36F

9/3/2021 9:20 pm

I used to travel a lot for work and would go to city after city. What I found was stay close to your hotel like bars, restaurants, even the hotel bar. Those always worked for me. I also use to use Craigslist back in the day.


Daytimer09B replies on 9/5/2021 10:08 am:
Craigslist is just one scary place for sure. I don't think anything good ever come from that site. lol Thanks for commenting!

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