That one item that gives you over the top confidence.  

Daytimer09B 53M
526 posts
5/13/2019 6:41 am
That one item that gives you over the top confidence.


I am currently packing for a long trip and will be going out dancing and other outings where there will be lots of other people. Normally I can think of several clothing items that make me feel very confident and desirable. However, I seem to be drawing a blank and only have a few days to get something new.

So here are my questions for you:

1) What item gives you that positive vibe and makes you feel great? It could be a pair of shoes, a watch, a particular shirt, etc.

2) What is the look you like seeing on a guy? What gets your attention?

Daytimer09B 53M
901 posts
5/13/2019 6:41 am

Thanks in advance.


eagnas234 54M

5/13/2019 7:00 am

A nice pair of shorts and good lucky underwear.


Daytimer09B replies on 5/13/2019 7:06 am:
I have all my lucky underwear packed, if only these were underwear attire events.

author51 59F  
129142 posts
5/13/2019 7:12 am

My sundresses do. I only wear heels with them for either formal occasions or in the bedroom but without the sundress....lol. For a man, I like a great fitting pair of jeans, a polo or golf shirt or a dress shirt unbuttoned to show some chest hair....lol.

I also love jeans and a tee shirt, a cool pair of shades and a baseball cap..

You can never have enough JOY in your life.....xoxo

YOU TOOK THE WORDS RIGHT OUT OF MY MOUTH HOT SUMMER NIGHT


Daytimer09B replies on 5/15/2019 6:14 am:
You sound like you are describing me on a normal day. Now that it is warmer I substitute the jeans with a nice pair of shorts.

I do like seeing sun dresses on women, especially the ones that show a little cleavage.

pocogato12 69F  
37204 posts
5/13/2019 3:55 pm

Dockers or chinos ( jean if it's really casual) that have a crease in them accompanied by a colored shirt that he likes and most of all: a smile and clean fingernails. Clothes do not make the person.

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Daytimer09B replies on 5/15/2019 6:16 am:
I have heard others talk about dirty fingernails. Because my job is more of a desk and sales job I rarely have dirty fingernails. Of course mine do grow very fast and I have to keep them trimmed. I have several features that most women would love to have... fast growing hair, fingernails (both strong and thick) and long eye lashes.

author51 59F  
129142 posts
5/15/2019 7:14 am

    Quoting author51:
    My sundresses do. I only wear heels with them for either formal occasions or in the bedroom but without the sundress....lol. For a man, I like a great fitting pair of jeans, a polo or golf shirt or a dress shirt unbuttoned to show some chest hair....lol.

    I also love jeans and a tee shirt, a cool pair of shades and a baseball cap..
Mine show more leg than cleavage.. My tops on the other hand show more cleavage....lol

You can never have enough JOY in your life.....xoxo

YOU TOOK THE WORDS RIGHT OUT OF MY MOUTH HOT SUMMER NIGHT


Daytimer09B replies on 5/30/2019 6:51 am:
Thanks for your input Joy!

SeaGirlFL 57F
9220 posts
5/26/2019 8:54 am

I have a couple of comfortable tops that I'll usually wear with capri pants.

Men always look good dressed up...but, for a casual going out...I guess I'm partial to a button-down shirt and jeans, or a golf shirt and shorts. What ever he is comfortable in, works for me, as long as it's clean and tidy.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


Daytimer09B replies on 5/30/2019 6:52 am:
Clean for sure. Hate seeing people look like slouches. Thanks!

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