Boobs in or Out?  

Daytimer09B 53M
465 posts
6/4/2019 1:09 pm
Boobs in or Out?


One observation I had while in Barcelona was how few women go topless anymore. Are women more modest these days? or have men driven them to the point they don't feel comfortable being topless anymore? I fear women European countries may make it so rare in public the beaches will be sanctioned by government to no longer allow toplessness because others might get offended.

Why is there such a hang-up about female breasts being exposed? I see many men on the beach should not go topless because they have more boobs than the women. Why is it women can't show the same thing men show? I really think here in america if women would go topless in large groups they (beach security) would let it go. I think when it is the norm there would be less random guys perving. Maybe I am just to trusting or use to much common sense but I really don't get it.

Would love to hear the women on here give their feed back and I would like to know... if you were allowed, would you go topless? or would make you uncomfortabe in public?

Daytimer09B 53M
901 posts
6/4/2019 1:10 pm

I am guessing maybe 5% of the women I saw while there went topless.


FMAOPLS 68F  
27112 posts
6/4/2019 7:23 pm

It surprises me that is less common now, on Spanish beaches, than it had been in the past.

I don't think I'd go topless on a beach where no other women were doing it, though.

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Daytimer09B replies on 6/5/2019 5:51 am:
I'm surprised as well. I actually read an article about that before I left so I was not surprised when I saw so few doing it. I can definitely understand reason, nobody wants to be that one who looks like they did not get the memo.

Heathen_G 63M
7974 posts
6/4/2019 7:37 pm

Were you in Barcelona all summer? Probably not. You may have only witnessed two or three beach days. That's not enough time to declare European women are getting more modest. [Which I seriously doubt].

But certainly, if there really is a lack of women going topless at the beaches in Barcelona, this could be due to everyone having a camera in their pocket phone.

I fear women European countries may make it so rare in public the beaches will be sanctioned by government to no longer allow toplessness ... Ha.. no. That would never happen in Europe.

because others might get offended. .... Passing legislation because some are "Offended" is the most ridiculous reason to pass a law. Being "Offended" means absolutely nothing.

Why is there such a hang-up about female breasts being exposed? ..I have no good answer to that. Some people just need to be sense-smacked.

I see many men on the beach should not go topless because they have more boobs than the women. ...Well sure... and likewise there are some women , you'd throw them a towel and order them to cover up.

I really think here in america if women would go topless in large groups they (beach security) would let it go. ... That might work. Surely make the News, though.

I think when it is the norm there would be less random guys perving. .... Probably but that would take a half century or a little more, for that to happen. And even when everyone was conditioned to see nothing unusual when a woman took off her shirt, there will always be that one woman, with the most exceptional pair of breasts that will cause men to stare in absolute wonderment.

You can see examples of that today....once upon a time a woman couldn't even show her ankles in public, now some walk around in short-shorts or just bikini bottoms with a shirt..... although some really shouldn't because they don't have the legs for it......but the point is most bare legs we don't look twice at, but every now and then, there's a woman in shorts with the most phenomenal set of legs you've rarely ever seen. ....So it will be , with bare breasts, one day.

Maybe I am just to trusting or use to much common sense but I really don't get it..... I don't either. But I like your idea of a public revolt. If all women went topless at the American beaches.... the law enforcement would just say fuck it.... or arrest the women who really shouldn't be going topless.


Daytimer09B replies on 6/5/2019 5:57 am:
Thanks for your input on the subject. I did read an article before going over that mentioned less go topless now then in the past. I was only there for a little over a week so my own personal window is limited. Add in a few partial sunny days as well. Just hard to believe we are in the 2,000's and there was more naturalism in the world back in the Roman rule days.

author51 59F  
130010 posts
6/5/2019 12:52 am

I have always wanted to go to a Nude beach instead where it is the norm.. I do not believe they should on public beaches where there are little kids.. Just my thoughts there..


Daytimer09B replies on 6/5/2019 6:02 am:
I think that may be part of the problem if you think about it. I for one do not think you should be totally nude on public beaches that are not adult only beaches. But I think when we tell children that girls should cover up their chest but boys don't have to then we are sending a message that is received differently by both sexes. Yes there is a difference in the purpose of that body part but they should not be viewed as something bad that needs covered up. Or making it the thing guys will start desiring to "pop the strap" on because they are being hidden. I think we build up things to be viewed the way they are and not as the natural beauty they are.

positively4you 72F  
4605 posts
6/5/2019 8:01 am

I just don’t want to see it. I think we have become desensitized to the naked body with all of the exposure. The allure has lost it’s magic.


Daytimer09B replies on 6/5/2019 10:47 am:
With so much of the clothing styles... ie thongs, etc. out there I think something more basic seems a little more natural and less provocative.

Heathen_G 63M
7974 posts
6/5/2019 2:16 pm


Daytimer09B replies on 6/5/2019 5:57 am:
Thanks for your input on the subject.... Just hard to believe we are in the 2,000's and there was more naturalism in the world back in the Roman rule days.


Sure... but you don't have to go that far back. In the 1960's, there was plenty of naturalism. But somewhere along the time line , to now, feminism, pc-culture, and the increasing lack of personal privacy, seems to attribute to the end of carefree topless-ness. Also to mention the horrendous "Fat" problem that seems to have plagued Western Culture... don't want to see fat topless women..HA.. nor in bikini's. Just isn't attractive. But perhaps in Europe the "Fat" problem is not as rampant.


Daytimer09B replies on 6/6/2019 5:39 am:
We have to much added to our food over here. The food in Europe I ate was fresh and not as spiced or juiced up. I can see why we are a fat society. We put sugar in about everything in order to make us like it better. Their mouthwash tasted bad and it was because they have no sugars in theirs. PC culture will be the death of our society.

author51 59F  
130010 posts
6/6/2019 1:19 am

    Quoting author51:
    I have always wanted to go to a Nude beach instead where it is the norm.. I do not believe they should on public beaches where there are little kids.. Just my thoughts there..
I see your point so for me it would have to be TIT for Tat.. I find a man's shaft as a thing of beauty so if women showed their breasts in public it would only be fair for the man to go bottomless...


Daytimer09B replies on 6/6/2019 5:37 am:
I know you deny it but you are truly a unicorn. lol

Wish all women felt that way. Of course, I really don't want to see a bunch of other guys junk. I really think I could live naked as I enjoy working around the house in the buff.

author51 59F  
130010 posts
6/6/2019 5:53 am

    Quoting author51:
    I see your point so for me it would have to be TIT for Tat.. I find a man's shaft as a thing of beauty so if women showed their breasts in public it would only be fair for the man to go bottomless...
I am a Capricorn actually.............LMFAO!!!!!! My point though is you do not like looking at other men's junk and I do not like looking at other women's breasts..lol. I find male bodies a work of art, you females... No one else can think like me nor I them.. That would be a truly boring world my friend...Keeps us all unique from one another eh!


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