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As Porky Pig Says
Posted:Jul 6, 2019 1:53 pm
Last Updated:Jun 30, 2022 10:39 am

That's all, folks. Not gonna for premium anymore; just not worth it.
Dirty 30s
Posted:Jun 30, 2019 7:19 am
Last Updated:Jun 30, 2022 10:39 am

If you've ever heard the phrase, "dirty 30s", I think it's very apt. Most (white, middle class, straight, American) people spend a lot of time in their teens and 20s thinking about sex and having as much fun as they can, but it's often mediated by alcohol and dulled by confusion over relationships, identity, and social acceptance. Then you hit a point in your 30s where you no longer give a fuck (so to speak), you know the difference between sex and love, and you understand and embrace your own sexuality much more.

Of course, by the time you really hit your stride, you've begun to noticeably age, sag, lose tone, slow down, and generally get fat. So yeah, get it while you can.
Posted:Jun 22, 2019 7:01 pm
Last Updated:Jun 30, 2022 10:39 am

So, after a month or so on here, it's pretty clear that my "discreet sex partner" search is a bust because I've grown old and women in their right minds do not want flings with 50-something men past their prime. Fair enough! But it turns there are women online , enjoy hooking up with guys like me for an hour or at a time, so long as we have venmo or PayPal and know how use them. So, since I'm sliding down the ski ramp of depravity into dirty old man territory anyway, should I consider professional providers of companionship? It has never seemed like a good idea before, because pathetic, but I have a long track record of being wrong about what is or is not a good idea. Besides, isn't being pathetic and not thinking about it too much what life is all about? Sure it is. Anyway, affairs are expensive, too - especially if the lawyers get involved - and it may be less costly in the long run if I meet up with "Classy Katie" or whomever once in a while to get my freak on rather than find an unhappy wife who may be as unstable as I am but isn't as good at operational security. (Get a VPN & use incognito mode, Mindy!)

tl; dr - they've got the time if I have the .
[Generic FirstName][Generic LastName]
Posted:Jun 7, 2019 1:55 pm
Last Updated:Jun 9, 2019 7:44 pm

I understand there is a business model that needs to be fed here, but a whole bunch of new women popped up at the same time with exactly the same username format: "BethRichards", "SusanHoffman". No picture, generic stats, obviously fake. What's worse, that someone does this expecting men to send messages to obviously fake profiles, or that it works?

Apparently, in the online dating industry there is a common practice of seeding the database with profiles of women who don't exist, just so it doesn't look like the place is dead and the Lonely Men with Credit Cards (LMCC) don't give up. It's the same principle as playing loud music in a bar. Ever been in a bar when the sound system isn't working? It's just sad.

In a way, the seeded profiles are doing something of a psychological service to the LMCC because it gives them hope. Maybe they'll write to these women and one of them will check them out! Maybe get a date! Maybe even have sex! Then he falls asleep on his couch watching Game of Thrones. The membership renews for another month.
"Central and Western Hong Kong"
Posted:Jun 5, 2019 6:42 am
Last Updated:Jun 30, 2022 10:39 am

This site is so funny. Foreign cam girls troll for customers by looking at your profile hoping you will write to them. They usually don't have a coherent profile because of the language barrier. Sometimes, it's so oddly specific it makes me laugh. Today one of their profiles said they are located in "Central and Western Hong Kong." I thought, oh yeah, much better than those eastern Hong Kong girls. They nasty.
Posted:Jun 4, 2019 9:21 am
Last Updated:Jun 4, 2019 5:31 pm

It's difficult to describe yourself in a profile in a way makes you seem interesting without being arrogant. One my instant "no" words people use is classy. "I'm classy." What's mean?? You're well-dressed, well-educated, use proper English when communicating? If so, say . If by "classy" you mean, "I like expensive things", then you're not classy, you're materialistic.
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No one reads anything
Posted:Jun 3, 2019 2:42 pm
Last Updated:Jun 30, 2022 10:39 am

I wonder if the long profile form Heated Affairs actually helps at all. I am told men don't read women's profiles before messaging them anyway, which may explain why so many women have virtually no profile at all. That, or they're fake accounts.

For me, if you know the difference between "discrete" & "discreet", you are like freakin' adult dating Einstein.
Pretty useless
Posted:Jun 2, 2019 8:17 am
Last Updated:Jun 3, 2019 2:35 pm

Fake accounts, cam girls, scammers. I'll probably cancel here & try Ashley Madison. Which will be fake accounts, cam girls, and scammers. But you know, everybody needs a hobby.
Catfishing - a foreign scammer
Posted:May 25, 2019 5:11 pm
Last Updated:Jun 30, 2022 10:39 am

Hello its me from Heated Affairs site 🙂

Hi me. So are you a couple?

Hey there how are you? so how long youve been on there in Heated Affairs site, and what do you think of it? hmm well, i bet youre a horny man for being on the Heated Affairs site right?

I've been on Heated Affairs for years, and met a few good people. Yep, and I bet you're a woman who enjoys meeting horny men who know what's up.

I'm new to this site too, so what are you looking for on the Heated Affairs site babe?

Someone discreet who wants to meet and like being appreciated. What's your name?

Okay cool, I am here in the Heated Affairs site, coz im just looking for somenew friends, and hoping to have someone to have alot of fun and see where it goes right?

Are you a camgirl?

By the way, I'm Kylie miles 24 single as well and you?

Craig 53 married. Do you like married guys?

Nice to meet you Craig , can i see a picture of yourself right now babe okay? 🙂

You look good 🙂

I'm from Australia but now i am here in Glen Mills, PA for my vacation how about you?

Thanks, you too. So are you around to meet or just chatting?

Well i am here in Hampton Inn & Suites Chadds Ford to visit my aunt and of course my relatives there, are you familiar babe?

Yeah, I pass by there all the time.

I'm stay here in 40 State Farm Dr, for 2 or 3 weeks, so do you want to meet up sometimes?

Sure, sounds,great. Are you free during the day?

So what time you will be able to meet? I'm free today how about you?

No, I'm going to be busy until Tuesday. How about then?

Yeah that would be the great, but i just want to get to know you more 1st before we meet ok? log out your Heated Affairs account and i just want you only , i don't want you to talk to anygirl on there.. so i really hope you will not going to log in your Heated Affairs anymore okay babe?

I'm going to delete my Heated Affairs account right now,

Sounds good to me, so what else you do for fun like in bed?

Can I send you a gift?

Well, me i loved alot of oral and wild sex babe,and i love to suck a hard dick and pushes it hard into my sweet pussy and pumped it hard like a wild cow girl 🙂 How about you?

I love it when scammers use pics of porn stars that can found easily. Better luck next time. Blocking and reporting you on Heated Affairs.
Online dating is weird
Posted:May 25, 2019 8:31 am
Last Updated:Jun 30, 2022 10:39 am

Women who post a profile get spammed with hundreds of messages and dick pics from guys who clearly don't meet their criteria. The women often pay nothing but it takes them a lot of time and a strong stomach to power their way through all the emails.

Men who post a profile get a half-dozen requests from women working as cam girls or . When they find someone who looks interesting, they message them and usually hear nothing back. Is the person real? Uninterested? Overwhelmed? There's no way to know.

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