Is there really love at first sight?  

CarpeJamie 51M  
90 posts
9/1/2021 1:49 am
Is there really love at first sight?

You across a crowded room and lock eyes with the most beautiful person you have ever seen. You smile, and your potential love smiles bac You're drawn one another, the others in the room disappear. The murmur of chatter dims and all you hear is your heart beating faster and faster. You are being beckoned you see in his eyes a softness that beckons and welcomes you his embrace. You try away but are compelled be drawn this wonderful person. Can be love at first sight. Hello he says. you feel as though you have known him forever. in a past life. You seem be inexplicably connected yet you have said hello. Is this your intuition cutting through all the BS and you have found the love of your life? Is this even possible? Can 2 souls be connected without saying but a word. .....

I've been told this is not possible. You have to get to know someone for 2, 3 or 4 dates at least to build a connection.

What do you think?

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pollly_anna 58F  
697 posts
9/1/2021 4:02 pm

Love at first sight is not easy to explain. Some people even deny that it is possible, claiming it is merely sexual attraction. Indeed, how can we fall profoundly in love after one quick glance? How can such a glance make us believe that we want to spend the rest of our life in the arms of a stranger we have just seen for the first time?

pollly_anna 58F  
697 posts
9/1/2021 4:18 pm

love at first sight probably isn't real — sorry.

It turns out it's probably nothing to do with true love at all, but "lust at first sight," or an instant sexual connection or attraction to another person. While we may convince ourselves love at first sight happened with our significant other, it's more likely just us projecting our current feelings to past memories.

lyavu 48F
1537 posts
9/1/2021 10:13 pm

Yes it is there . I believe in it

CarpeJamie replies on 9/2/2021 8:41 am:
Yay! A believer ... I know you're not the only one.

author51 59F  
129274 posts
9/1/2021 11:56 pm

Being drawn to someone with just a glance can eventually lead to love once they get to know one another a little more,I think. Mutual attraction and that first pull of chemistry is a heady experience indeed......xoxo

You can never have enough JOY in your life.xoxo


CarpeJamie replies on 9/2/2021 8:39 am:
Definitely once you get to know someone a bit more it can deepen and intensify those initial feelings of "Love". I do believe you can fall deeper and deeper in love (and out of) with someone with time. I'm still wondering if we are more perceptive than we give credit to ourselves with our initial gut instincts. My gut is always looking for a little more Joy in my life.

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