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Wait! You Can Do What?
Posted:Dec 20, 2021 8:44 am
Last Updated:Jan 11, 2022 7:12 pm

One does not just casually drop incredible off the wall statements into conversation and then just keep on going like you never said it!

Perhaps an example will help. Many years ago and in a far away land at someone else military base several friend of mine and I were enjoying dinner at the bar. While sitting at the bar eating and drinking and talking with the rather attractive bartender the topic of what strange thing can you do that others can not do came up. After several of us told our strange thing my friend sitting to my right dropped this atomic bomb: "I can suck my own dick."

BOOM! There is was right in the middle of I can do all this rather normal strange stuff that bomb went off. My head quickly swiveled right. As it did I surveyed the female bartenders face of stunned horror on the edge of Oh I want to see that. "Wait! You Can Do What?" was all I could say. Before anything else could be said events stared to slide side ways quickly. A woman sitting to my friends right loudly proclaims "I want to see you suck your own dick, in fact I'd pay to see it!" Next thing I know woman from all over the bar are handing the bartender 20 Pound notes and they are starting to chant "Suck It."

The bartender holding two hands of money was like well I guess you need to do it. So my friend climbed up on the bar, dropped trowel, and gave a show of putting half his dick into his mouth and sucking it.

With that a group of Para's started one hell of fight as all there wives and girlfriends cheered my friend on. It did not take long for the Royal Military Police to show up and start to try and break things up. The bartender shoves all the money she is holding at me and tells us this way, out the back before you get arrested.

So please be careful when casually drop incredible off the wall statements into conversations. You truly never know what might happen.
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Chairman of the Bored
Posted:Dec 20, 2021 8:41 am
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2022 8:14 pm

Thank you Iggy Pop, I do not think I could have said it better:
"I'm bored"
"I'm the chairman of the bored"
"I'm a lengthy monologue"

-- "I'm Bored"

Though I'm not sick of all my kicks, shifts, and dips, I am bored. I use to hate hearing my parents chide me and grill me when I would say I'm bored as a . I am bored. I need to find adventure once again. I'm bored self rope playing. There are only so many times one can tie ones self up as it has diminishing returns My backpack filled with fun that would make Dora blush or beg to be played with sits unused. Filled with rope, vibrators, plugs, floggers, hand cuffs, and more, all gone unused. My magic wand has not seen the spark of electricity in oh so long.
Well There You Go..
Posted:Dec 20, 2021 8:37 am
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2022 8:14 pm

"I've given up trying to assimilate. I've got to get back to my own kind!"

-- Howard T. Duck
In Search Of
Posted:Dec 2, 2021 4:26 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2021 5:45 am

No not the TV show, but a barn use in
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Always Do Your Research!
Posted:Nov 30, 2021 12:51 pm
Last Updated:Dec 12, 2021 5:44 am
I love to travel for work! I get to go to places, see and do new things, and get someone else to for it! Sometimes it's like getting a free mini vacation.

I have learned to do research on all the places I travel because you just never know what you might find. While doing research for my last trip I found out about UFO Beach.

It turns out that UFO Beach is the local unofficial Nude Beach in the area. So I just had to go to see for myself.

On my first visit I found the UFO in question and stretched out on the sand. While I was enjoying the sun and waves a couple came over and asked me if there was a reason I came all the way up the beach to enjoy this part of the beach. I told them why yes, that I had heard this was a nude beach. They told me that was why they were here and that they are regulars and I was more then welcome to join them behind their SUV to enjoy the sun and sights.

So I gathered up my stuff and joined them. By the time I got behind their SUV they were already naked and enjoying the sun. So I set my blanket up and dropped my swim shorts, applied ample sun screen to the bits that never see the sun, and enjoyed the sun and sights. The couple I joined were both in their 50's and looked amazing. We spent the rest of the afternoon naked and talking. As the tide came up and it was time to head off the beach they offered me a ride back to where I had parked.

I learned that day that I am a nudist and just didn't know it. I have never cared who sees me naked, that part is true. But I had never ventured out and took part in the nudist lifestyle. But I am happy to say that after this experience I will be looking for more opportunities to set my self free and let all my parts enjoy the sun and breeze!

I made two more trips back to the nude beach and ran into the couple I met the first time, but that adventure is for another writing.

So remember, always do your research as you never know what adventure a waits you out there.

Reduce, Reuse and Recycle
Posted:Nov 30, 2021 12:48 pm
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2022 8:14 pm
While traveling for work recently I had the opportunity to play with and amazing Domme, not on FetLife. Like me, she is incredibly creative and innovative. One of our play sessions involved restraining me spread eagle in her front entry way, sorry no pictures of the actual play, I'm a little bummed on that too. Moving on, it was the R3 of the how she restrained me that really caught my eye. As se is renting and when she entertains can not have any thing that would be permanent or attention to the fact that it is Bondage related. So enter stage left Velcro!

Four sets wrapped around the columns made for a quick and removable tie down points.

For the lower restraint points to work required to reach in to my BDSM back pack to come up with adjustable straps and as an added bonus it made adjusting how close I could bring my feet while standing easy.

To make it easy to find all of the hardware for this adventure here are the links (All on Amazon):

VELCRO Brand VEL-30688-USA Easy Hang Heavy Duty Straps Garage Storage and Organization, Extension Cord Holder, Pool Hoses, Tools, Shed, 2pk Large Holds 300lbs, Black

Premium Cinch Straps with Stainless Steel Metal Ring (Buckle), Reusable Durable Hook and Loop, Multipurpose Securing Straps 6 Pack Plus 2 Bonus Original Cinch Straps - 2" x 30"

BÐṢM Mattress Sêx Adults Lêgs Hãnds Cõuples Böñdäge Kit Sëx Töyš for Couples Set BSDM Kits for Couples Sêx Women Beginners Prime Men Sêxual sėx adûít Rēstråints ṢM Gáme for Yoga Tshirt

Mighty Paw Safety Belt, Seat Belt, Heavy Duty Hardware Including Tangle-Free Swivel Attachment, Carabiner, and Latch Bar Attachment.
Vastar 2 Packs Adjustable Pet Cat Car Seat Belt Safety Leads Vehicle Seatbelt Harness

Favofit Locking Carabiner Clips, 4 Pack, 12KN (2697 lbs Each) Heavy Duty Caribeaners for Camping, Hiking, Outdoor & Gym etc, Small Carabiners for Dog
Leash & Harness

What is nice about this it is a great starter set that will not break the bank. Plus it's kind of like Legos, you can use bits and pieces or all at once. Want to take the show on the road you can use the pieces to restrain your playmate in the back seat of the SUV or car. Want to take it to any room in the house or garage your good to go. Want to go outside it will work there too.

Ropes are really cool and look so beautiful when ties. and that is the really cool thing about basic Lego bondage set is it will work with rope as well. Here are a couple of things to add on:

Rocaris 6 Pack M32 Lifting Single Pulley Roller Loading 551Ibs, 304 Stainless Steel Heavy Duty Single Wheel Swivel Lifting Rope Pulley Block
Master Series Bondage Suspension Ring

So go out there and be creative and have fun and always, Reduce, Reuse and Recycle

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Most of the Times People Aren’t Boring
Posted:Oct 19, 2021 12:08 pm
Last Updated:Nov 30, 2021 12:43 pm
They Just Lack a Sense of Humor

I get it humor is hard sometimes. Plus when you boil it all down anything that is funny means someone is getting hurt. I challenge you to prove me wrong on that.

I can laugh at just about anything, one, or myself, at any time. Even the inappropriate times, like at a funeral.

It's just humor, it's not rocket science. Perhaps we should all just slow down and think a bit and realize it's OK to laugh at things. We are human beings and we all to some pretty weird stuff, sometimes it's even disgusting, but it's all funny.

Plus we need to laugh to feel better and to heal. So enjoy some W.A.P.:
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Oh John Denver!
Posted:Oct 19, 2021 11:42 am
Last Updated:Oct 20, 2021 10:11 am
Cause I'm leavin' on a jet plane
Don't know when I'll be back again

Traveling for work again. This time for twenty two days

All my bags are packed
I'm ready to go

Somehow I do not find it surprising that just over 1/3 of what I packed is play toys and play clothes.

So kiss me and smile for me
Tell me that you'll wait for me

I promise to write and share pictures of all the adventures
The Trail To Find You
Posted:Oct 19, 2021 7:19 am
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2022 8:14 pm
I'll to park and take the trail to find you.

To walk the winding hilled path to where I will find you. I take my place on the wooden bench and spread my arms across it's back. Sitting eager with anticipation as you bind my wrists to the bench where I found you.

I can see your day pack sitting next to the tree and I know it's filled with more then water and trail snacks. The crop you will use to tease with is there I'm sure is but one of many things waiting for on the bench where I found you.

You slide your hand up my bound arm and take my chin in hand. Tipping my head back you place your sweat lips on mine. I can feel your heat and passion flow into there on the bench where I found you.

You other hand slips down my chest, across my stomach, to rest on my already hard cock. You squeeze and tease through my pants. You already know I'm wearing your panties underneath on the bench where I found you.

The sun shone down as you played and teased. You freed and used with a gleeful grin. And in the end you feed my my own reward on the bench where I found you.
Binary Solution Set
Posted:Aug 8, 2021 10:41 am
Last Updated:Nov 30, 2021 12:43 pm

Sharing with friends and others that you are into some kinky shit usually goes one of two ways as most of you know.

This past week went this way with a twist. I went out with several coworkers to a local brewery. While enjoying several beers and good food I noticed two buckle shaped bruises on the inside of her upper arm. I waited until it was just her an I at the table to ask about them. She told me that she was moving boxes and got her arm pinched. I politely told that we both know that is not true as they are oddly buckle shaped. Her eye's widened with surprise and asked me if I was also in to BDSM. I told her yes and that I have been since high school. We didn't have long to talk as our other two coworkers returned to the table with another round of beers.

The four of us talked for a while and eventually my other male coworker who I have known since 2002 asked me about the end of my marriage five years ago. Shared quite a bit about it with all my coworkers. I truest them and feel secure with them. I came to the part where I talked about my cheating, how I took BDSM back out of the box I had placed it in when I go married and started playing again. How "Mommy Porn" of Outlander and Fifty Shades of Grey helped open the conversation that would lead to one or two nigh play times while on the road. About how I had a backpack of assorted ropes, restraints, and toy that would make Dora blush and beg to be played with. My male coworker was wide eyed for a moment and they thought about it. He quickly came to the conclusion he was OK with it all and with me. It was not for him but he could understand. I was happy he adapted to a new reality and shared truth.

The twist came from my fourth coworker, a mid thirties, attractive young woman. The next day at the office she found me alone in the conference room and asked if her and I could go to lunch, just the two of us. I told her sure. As soon as we were in the car and off the dam broke and she asked a million questions about BDSM. I answered them all and more. I told her I normally do not play with coworkers as it can lead to bad outcomes. But I would tie her up with out sex being involved. She jumped at the opportunity.

After work I stopped and got my backpack and headed to her apartment. We emptied my backpack and she explored all of it's contents. The ropes and flogger held her attention the most. I suggested we give them a go. She slipped off to her bedroom and changed in to a long white sleep shirt.. I stayed dressed and took the rope in hand and began to wrap and tie. I was surprised to find she did not have panties on as I slid my hand and rope between her legs. I was not surprised to find out how wet she was. I did not linger or finger as I had made a promise. I finished the tie and stepped back to admire the work of art and beauty before me. I asked her how she felt. She said amazing and almost like she could orgasm at any minute. I assured her we were not done yet and picked up the leather flogger. I positioned her just right and started in at work with the flogger. I focused mostly on her breast and nipples. As she reacted and moved with each strike the knot I had placed over her clit started to do it's wor After about five minutes her nipples were hard erect pushing against the fabric of her sleep shirt, I knew she we close to orgasm and I pressed on harder with the flogger. It was not more then a minute or two that her knees buckled, I caught her and lowered her to the floor. I watched as three or four waves of orgasm washed over her.

As I was un tie her she thanked me and promised not to tell any one at wor She went on to tell me that was the best and most intense orgasm she had ever experienced.

I will not see her this coming week as I am once again on the rode traveling for wor But I'm curious to see what comes.
Time & Want
Posted:Aug 1, 2021 6:43 am
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2022 8:14 pm

Have not written in a bit. The last month has had me pushed hard with work consuming the bulk of my time. Hoping that is changing soon and I'll have more free time. I did meet up with a FetLife'er while traveling for work and we shared a wonderful meal and some play time. But alas that will be a one time thing.

Would like to find someone I can regularly connect with. Spend time with ropes and restraints. Find a nice secluded spot in the woods and play a bit. I have hope I will find this.
Posted:Jun 22, 2021 6:07 am
Last Updated:Oct 15, 2021 2:18 pm

“A foole and his money be soone at debate: which after with sorow repents him too late.”
-- Thomas Tusser

I love the thought of control. It is an interesting duality to watch as it plays out in real life. Perhaps one of my favorite places to watch this is at a Strip Club.

I am under no illusion as to who is in control, it is clearly the striper and if you believe other wise you and your money will be at debate. What is interesting is how the stripper gives their customer the illusion that they are in control. That by spending their money they have the power over the stripper when in fact they are the ones being controlled to spend more and more.

While traveling last week I visited a strip club in Northern Kentucky where you could touch in the VIP room where 20 minute blocks of time would cost you $0. After watching for a bit and observing that even here the rule remained unbroken, the stripper was still in control.

But having time, a few dollars, and with the ability to touch I felt the playing feel was at least level as far as the control factor went. I took my time and observed my opponents as I could. I was looking for ones that were sexually excited as they exited the VIP room, a flushness in the face, erect nipples, and a tone in there voice. I narrowed my search of opponents to two. I made my selection to the one that I felt was prettier and started my adventure and quest. She passed behind me and made my move. I turned to bum into her. I made my apology and she stayed to chat. It didn't take long for her to invite me back to the VIP room. I could see in her eye she was aroused. I drug out going to the VIP room for as long as I could and made her work to get me back to the VIP room. I let her take me by the hand and lead the way. She arranged the chairs and motioned for me to sit. Our contest for control started. It was back and forth for a while. It was time for my one advantage, I could touch. When she rolled into her chair to play with herself for me I made my move. I slid one finger inside her already wet pussy and and worked it in and out. She made her fatal flaw of the dance next. She told me if I keep it up I would make her squirt. I took the high ground and continued to pound into her pussy. It only took a few minutes and her legs trembled and she squirted all over my hand. Her wetness smelled so sweet. Her face went flush and a slight moan escaped her lips. When se recovered she told me that she would return the favor. She gave me another twenty minutes for free and made sure I cam by rubbing me off through my pants.

I would consider this one a draw in the contest for control.
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Suburban Dreams
Posted:Jun 22, 2021 6:01 am
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2021 5:42 pm

I don't mine living the suburban dream. I don't mind mowing the yard, talking to the neighbors, as they tend to look out for me when I travel, or any other of the myriad mundane things.

I don't mind attending the neighborhood party, even when half drunk wives come on to me. I know better then to proverbially shit in my back yard. But there are times I want to just be an asshole, just like Mr. Leary sang about and just take them back to my place. Let them live out all there Mommy porn fantasies. Send them home happy with red print of my hand on their ass. But I'm not a complete asshole and I would like my place and stuff to go unmolested while I'm away.

But seriously what the hell is wrong with suburban marriages these days? Are men to trapped in sports or porn to just pay just a little bit of attention to their wives? To trapped in religion or what others will think?
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