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My guide to anal sex
Posted:Apr 19, 2021 4:00 am
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2021 11:47 pm
Anal sex is hot. I love it, but the whole idea can put some people off.

So here is my guide take you from beginner complete anal queen size slut of which I am.

Message me if you'd love ANAL SEX

I know that some people worry it may hurt, or it can be messy with poo. If you do everything right I promise you'll be screaming anal orgasms and skills that'll make the average person in the streets eyes water. You just need approach great anal sex like a project.

So let's take you from novice anal size queen expert in 3 easy levels.

Level 1 - Start your Anal sex training.
Things start by getting you ready. Anal training or sex is best if you prepare in advance. Don’t suddenly decide you want do it in the middle of sex for the first time. enjoy it you need plan and train first.

Be body confident

A little preparation just before Anal sex or training goes a long way. Get yourself into the bathroom and have a shit. Clean yourself nicely with a wet wipe or go through the shower. Make sure you're as fresh as a daisy and ready go and take a little bit of fear of this being a messy process.
If you want a little extra cleaning, think about an anal douche. It’s a like a giant turkey baster. Just fill it with warm (body temperature water), sit over the toilet and pop it your bum and squeeze it and let it give you an internal spring clean.

Ninja level anal cleansing

If you have the time and inclination or just determined make this a mega clean experience you may want a total internal flush, consider an enema.
This is a little bit of overkill for me, but for some of you kinksters, this alone is a massive fetish. Just hook the device your shower or faucet for the ultimate internal super clean.

IF YOU ARE NEW ANAL SEX STOP HERE - Don’t just ram something in your ass. Even if you are horny you still need to know a few more things.
Lubrication, Lubrication, then more lubrication.

You have to understand your basic biology. Unlike your vagina, your ass does not self lubricate regardless of how horny you get. So you are going to need to add a sex lubricant.

This is important. It is unlikely to hurt and you avoid unnecessarily injuring yourself. Don’t forget that your ass is not designed to be fucked in the same way as your vagina. Take care and use lube internally, on the sex toys or cock t and add more lubrication during energetic anal action or if you want to make sure everything keeps fucking you seamlessly.

Anal plugs and toys - Start small and build it .

An anal slut like will always tell you start small. There is plenty of time build- the “mega large ass breaking tentacle style torpedo” you saw in that pornhub video. Perhaps start with a small toy as long as it has a flared base. The flared base stops you losing it your bum and then panicking and going A & E get help.

A safe option is your finger. It’s hard lose your finger your bum. you have do is gently push past the tight ring of sphincter muscles that holds everything inside.

As you get used the whole sensation of having something your bum or how your finger feels moving in your ass you’ll soon feel ready take a cock sized dildo or even a real cock with a very eager guy attached it.
Now you know the basics. Get ready for larger anal toys, anal plugs, anal masturbation or good old fashioned anal sex.

Level 2 Time to reach for bigger and bigger anal toys
Get ready for some serious anal training. It’s time to get bigger and bigger toys and have amazing anal sex

Choosing bigger anal sex toys

Even now you need to move your hands away from the “mega large ass breaking tentacle style torpedo”. You may be comfortable with a small to medium diameter ass plug or toy (approx 1 ½”) or an average-sized cock, but if you still want to stretch your ass further you are going to need bigger toys. All slowly getting bigger in a series of small increases.

Even a very modest increase in the diameter of an ass sex toy can make you feel like you want to burst the first time you use it. So, make sure you check out and measure new toys you intend to use. A modest increase of ¼ inch diameter can feel enormous once it’s in your ass. Just take your time and get used to your new toy until you feel comfortable to move larger again.

Training your Ass to take that “mega large ass breaking tentacle style torpedo” which you loved watching disappear inside an ass on Pornhub is a slow process and the reward of being able to perform that particular party trick is worth waiting for.

You might not be able to insert a larger toy that you’ve been lusting after, or you may only be able to do it for a little at a time. That’s okay. Anal training requires time and patience, so be easy on yourself. You can always insert a smaller toy today or go bigger next time.

Always remember your ass was not designed for vigorous anal stretching and fucking. It can get damaged and if you rush and go too fast you can injure yourself. Just like a sports injury, hurting yourself can put your anal training back months. You’ll have to wait to heal and then build back again.
Should you used numbing products

I guess this is a little like athletes that take banned substances enhance their performance. It might work for some, but there are risks and side effects.

For me, a little pain or discomfort is part of the pleasure, but too much pain is a clear signal that you could be hurting yourself. Pain is your bodies telling you to slow down, get more lubrication or change the angle your fucking your ass. Pain is something I think you should listen to, not ignore or block out.

Don’t cheat your anal training and introduce added risk. Take your time. You’ll get the results that come from the time and effort you put into training your ass.

SENSIBLE HEALTH ADVICE - Rough anal could lead anal prolapse and incontinence. If you use a toy that’s too big, you could cause trauma to your colon. Not only is that pain more long-term, but the visit to the doctor is also going to be uncomfortable.

Level 3 - Talk to your partner about being fucked in the ass.
You do not need a partner to train your ass. You can be perfectly happy training your ass to take bigger and bigger butt plus and use any number of sex toys to masturbate while stimulating your ass at the same time.

If you have a partner, it is good to talk about this stuff. Here are the two things you need to get out in the open:

💖 Tell them the size of the toy you like - Make sure you do not let someone else's ambitions overrule what your body is telling you

💖 Control the pace they fuck you or use your anal toys - Remember if you cross the boundary between pain and pleasure let them know and remember you can never have too much lube in anal .

I hope that you are now excited train your ass or have some amazing anal sex. Like good anal sluts you’ll inevitably reach a point where you can't go any larger, rougher or longer, and that’s okay. Anal sex done right is amazing and if you follow this little guide you will be trained anal size queen before you know it.
Be nice x
Posted:Apr 19, 2021 3:56 am
Last Updated:Apr 22, 2021 10:36 am
I read some real good things here, but there is lot's of negativity also. I really do not like it when people verbally attack others. I had delete a friend from my profile because of her verbal attacks another female. We live in a democratic society, Or we are supposed , and people are allowed a voice, their own voice. You cannot attack someone just because their view is different yours a certain subject. I watched in horror Sunday as this female got a gang of people attack this female over a subject that could easily have gathered into an interesting discussion.
Just because one person's view is different to another's, does that give that person the right to attack? Absolutely not!! It was nothing more than severe bullying and I let the person know, only to be told that it was none of my business. Well it is actually. You made another human being question themselves, made them sad, and you do not have the right to do that at all.
Some people have to put with this day in, day out. Could be over their sexuality, religion, other beliefs. Some people are murdered, some are maimed, some harm themselves. STOP IT, you do not have the right to do it. If you know your comments are going to be harmful, then keep them to yourself.
Fucking is betting than arguing in my eyes
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My fuck toy
Posted:Jul 26, 2020 11:37 pm
Last Updated:Mar 23, 2021 6:36 am
Meet me at room 6 on the sixth floor of the Amba hotel near Marble arch at 3pm , don't be late .

Send ✅

There's a knock at the I open the door immediately we are kissing ,as we back into the room, he closes the door with a slam.

I have been wanting to have you for so long .

Yes mistress I feel the same way.

I press him up against the wall, his strong body and height is such a turn on, even with my heels on he still towers over me.

Kissing his lips and neck, my hands push up his white T shirt. My fingertips squeeze at his erect nipples , his hands are moving down my body until he hits my hips and stops...

Mistress do you have your cock on?.

Yes , I know you want it , don't you ?.

Oh fuck yes please... it's been too long.

I push him hard to the wall , my mouth sucks and bites at his nipples

Oh my God Mistress I'm so hard for you.

I know .

I undo his belt and unbutton his jeans and push them down . I squat in front of him and take his hard cock in my mouth. He runs his hands through his hair and moans at the moment. He is deep in my throat, my hands pull hard against his ass taking him in further. I release and spit on him and suck him again .

Mistress I'm so fucking hard. I want you so much.

Standing up I kiss him my hands in his hair, he pushes himself against my cock. I pull his T shirt off, kissing along his chest to his bicep , trailing back to his neck. I remove my dress and watch him take in the view , my breasts are full, my nipples hard , my cock is harder.... pushing him down to his knees he looks up....

Suck my cock .

you like that big fucking cock, don't you ?.

Yeah just like that.

I tilt his head up,

Come here .

We move over the sofa , as I lay down he begins suck my cock again.

Good ....put it all the way into the back of your throat.... just like that... good .....yeah just like that...good .

I watch him as I push his head with my hand, gagging and drooling fuck he is so hot.

I sit up and pull his face mine , we kiss then I stop and pause , a few brief moments we stare at each other. My hand runs through his hair...

What is everything ok Mistress?

Yes ...everything is ok.

You are so fucking beautiful .

I kiss him and push him onto the other sofa, spread his legs and start to rim him, he frantically pulls off his jeans as my hands push against the back of his knees , spitting and rimming his beautiful hole.

My God you have the most perfect fucking hole...jesus!!.

Sucking and wetting my fingers I slide them inside him..

Open up that hole for me... Good .

Mistress use me , fuck me...

Turn around and get on your hands and knees.

Yes Mistress, I want you so bad.

God your ass is amazing... good .

I spit on my hand and wet my cock and slap him on the ass with it. Then I push it inside him..

Open up your ass for me ... yeah just like that... good .

I've been waiting for this so long Mistress.

Yeah !!... you want my big fucking cock ?..

Yes , Yes Mistress.

Good ... Good .

My hands move his shoulders as I pull him back , his back arches and I'm deeper. He moans and moans his cock dripping precum, his g spot heightened.

Your cock is so fucking big Mistress... so deep inside me fucckkkk.

I slow the pressure of my thrusts, pulling his head back I whisper in his ear

I'm going take such fucking care of you .

He continues moan as I fuck him with tenderness and sensuality. His eyes rolling as we kiss and enjoy the intimacy of the moment.

Are you ready for my cock again ?.

Yes Mistress I'm all yours.

I pull out and take him the bed , he lays on his front his ass up , I spread his cheeks open and begin wet his hole, get him ready take me again. I slide inside him, sliding my hands over his ass cheeks the small of his back.

you are so fucking sexy... open that ass up for me... thats right ...push back against and into me ...good ...fucking yes that's right...push back .

I slow the rhythm down again, my hands spread and feel every inch of his back. Pulling out I tell him get on his back. As he turns and sits he leans down and sucks my cock. I tilt his head up and relish the beauty that befalls me. He lays back , Opening his legs I lean in and kiss him..

you are so fucking beautiful.

He blushes and as I smile..

Please fuck me Mistress.

Pushing his legs back I rim and wet his hole again, spitting onto my cock I slide inside him and begin my thrusts. He moans...

Yeah take it like that .

I'm not going stop until you cum .

Omg Mistress use me, own me, I'm all yours.

Good .

After a few minutes he had cum , he had been used, he was mine. Back in my arms my gorgeous sexy ....
Myself and my current BDSM perspective
Posted:Jul 26, 2020 1:34 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2021 12:40 am
Right firstly, if I'm going meet someone I would prefer be in the dominant role start with, just so trust can be established and for my safety. I am not into inflicting pain, I would class myself as a sensual and sexual dominant. So I like my body being worshipped, and I like sex the way I like it. And yes obviously sex would be part of it. and I absolutely love being in control, and I absolutely adore face sitting.
I do possess a few strap-on toys, but it's not a prerequisite, if it's not your thing, then it's not your thing, that is fine with . I have just had added a video of a strap- that I have.
I hope that helps you somewhat
and people keep asking what I do for work, I think the picture attached this blog might help lol
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