Courtship  

80sbaby71 50F
7758 posts
6/2/2012 8:03 am
Courtship




So, I am honest and upfront.

I say so in my profile. I am not in this for a quickie. Been there, done that. Not really looking for a FWB option. Although, there are a few that I could see. My jock... And of course curl. Aramis? Yeah, totally.

But all in all, I am looking for love. I am a true romantic. No matter how many times I have been hurt....I lick my wounds, whine and get back out there!

I have my profile on here. I am on a vanilla dating site. I am trying to find that special someone. Someone who wants me. For more than just sex.

Could it happen? I think so. There have been potential guys, that I could see myself getting serious with. But at the same time, they don't. Has to be a two way street. Been there, done that...for the one-sided.

So along comes the "Foreigner" guy. The guy who inticed me to go on a first date with him to a Foreigner concert. Yeah...

So we have been talking. And going out. And hanging out. He is courting me. And guess what? He is a gentleman. He opens doors. He holds my hand. He kisses the top of my head...just because.

Well, mini me informed me the other day that it was about time that she met this courter.... Her words also included something along the lines of texting a friend who is in law enforcement and asking him to run a background check! She said no more stalkers!!!

It is nice to know that someone wants me. And isn't all about sex.

Where is this going? I don't know. But it is nice knowing that there is someone who wants me.





celizbeth 36F

6/2/2012 8:47 am

Good for you. I like reading stories like this, it gives me hope.


toliveagain 59M
47 posts
6/2/2012 8:51 am

Good luck, it is nice to be appreciated and have someone to appreciate. Will keep my fingers crossed that things progress in a good way.


mflater1 71M  
50414 posts
6/2/2012 9:36 am

Yes good luck. I have found out it is great to open doors for women.

At least you get a smile and a Thank-You. I don't like quickies either.

This is not meant to offend any one in any way.








CampoGirl 55F
43434 posts
6/2/2012 10:25 am

You can always look ok "Oklahoma court dockets" in a search engine. Its got pretty current records. Better safe than sorry, but Im not the trusting type. Best of luck with the head kisser, that's very sweet!

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Banderson12 41M

6/2/2012 10:35 am

Always hope


rm_Squidley1958 63M
326 posts
6/2/2012 6:03 pm

www1 DOT odcr DOT com
Oklahoma courtr records... assuming the name you have is real...


80sbaby71 50F
5516 posts
6/2/2012 7:46 pm

    Quoting celizbeth:
    Good for you. I like reading stories like this, it gives me hope.
Yes it is something that is good. And where it will lead, who knows but might as well enjoy the ride.


80sbaby71 50F
5516 posts
6/2/2012 7:46 pm

    Quoting toliveagain:
    Good luck, it is nice to be appreciated and have someone to appreciate. Will keep my fingers crossed that things progress in a good way.
Yes it is nice to be appreciated. And i'm gonna enjoy whatever life brings at this point.


80sbaby71 50F
5516 posts
6/2/2012 7:47 pm

    Quoting  :

Actually found him here. And he has since deleted his account. Not becuase of me, but because he was tired of the b.s.


80sbaby71 50F
5516 posts
6/2/2012 7:48 pm

    Quoting mflater1:
    Yes good luck. I have found out it is great to open doors for women.

    At least you get a smile and a Thank-You. I don't like quickies either.
Quickies aren't much fun! I like the endless love making....oh wait we weren't talking about that were we, lol!


80sbaby71 50F
5516 posts
6/2/2012 7:50 pm

    Quoting CampoGirl:
    You can always look ok "Oklahoma court dockets" in a search engine. Its got pretty current records. Better safe than sorry, but Im not the trusting type. Best of luck with the head kisser, that's very sweet!
Lol, mini was being a smarta**! She has watched me get hurt by the idiots out there. But she has also gotten attached and fallen in love with some of the men that have come into my life. Package deal in this case....so I am very careful!


80sbaby71 50F
5516 posts
6/3/2012 12:32 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks sweety! Love ya...


80sbaby71 50F
5516 posts
6/3/2012 12:34 pm

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Now to find a little ray of sunshine for you....


80sbaby71 50F
5516 posts
6/4/2012 9:28 am

    Quoting  :

STOP! Your kids (like mine and some others I know) are important.... But you are important too!!!!!

Love you, and we will get through this hun!


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