Life in the Nursery~

Welcome to my little corner of the world. Please feel free to come on in, slip off your clothes and stay for awhile.

What you will read here are just random thoughts, dreams, and fantasys......whatever I choose to write. This is my life.

I tend to write whatever is on my mind, so don't take anything on here personally. I am just being me. I don't write about anyone if you read something and it hits home, I seriously doubt it was about you. If it hurts your feelings I am sorry. Being open and honest is the way I am.

So come in and join me...., I have something special to show in the baby's nursery

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Would you rather…..?
Posted:Sep 15, 2021 5:48 pm
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2021 1:01 pm
Yes, I am going there! 😈 I mean we are on a sexual site. So…tell me your answers! 🤔

1. Missionary or cowgirl? Well…nothing wrong with either, but I’m going with COWGIRL

2. Lights on or lights off? Definitely lights OFF! 😳 sorry, I’ve got self esteem issues with my body.

3. Dildo or a vibrator? Well, since I’m still kinda figuring out what I like…. BOTH 😃

4. Exhibition or voyeurism? Definitely VOYEURISM….🤤 I love watching!

5. Be submissive or be dominant? SUBMISSIVE…

6. Spit or swallow? I’ve done both. Let’s just say I have NEVER had a complaint 😉

7. Sex in public or keep it in the bedroom? If nobody was around PUBLIC, but realistically BEDROOM😊☺️

8. Watch porn or make porn together? IDK honestly. 🤨

9. Tease with hot wax or tease with ice cubes? ICE 🧊 CUBES

10. Play teacher’s pet or naughty nurse? WHATEVER HE WANTS 😊

11. Lap dance in lace or lap dance in leather? LACE 😇

12. Sex in the shower or sex on the kitchen table? SHOWER 🧼

Ok…now it’s your turn….if you’re brave enough!
Touch me….please
Posted:Sep 14, 2021 7:43 pm
Last Updated:Sep 15, 2021 5:48 pm

Do you ever say this? Does your lover? What do you do?

Do you touch her/him? Slowly caressing their body? What do you use? Your fingers…your mouth/tongue…something naughty?

Is this something verbal? Maybe something in the eyes? That hunger you’ve come to know? I

I know that I’ve said it verbally. I’ve given the look. Sometimes I’ve said the words, even begged, and was basically blown off. But, sometimes there is that person. The person who reads between the lines. They hear the pleadings. They want to be the one to touch you.

As his mouth nibbles at your lips. His warm breath caressing your neck. The shock of his fingers touching your nipples. Then as your wetness begins….your arousal heightened. Then the feel of his fingers parting your wet lips. And you explode!

Dammit!!!! Someone needs to get over here and help me finish….remind me tomorrow to change the sheets….again. ☺️
Living life to it’s fullest!
Posted:Sep 13, 2021 6:03 pm
Last Updated:Dec 5, 2021 8:36 am
Hey playmates! I missed you yesterday. My fault…I was not in a good state of mind and since I decided that I’m going to be more positive, I didn’t crawl out of the playpen.

BUT….I’m here now!

Live life to its fullest. What does that mean? I mean don’t we all think that’s what we are doing? Some, yes. Most, probably not. I mean honestly, I wasn’t. I love hard. When I fall in love, I do it to the fullest. Which means that when my heart gets broken….it really shatters. But, life keeps going around me and so must I.

I was introduced to a friend back in January. He and I were both in need of some friendship. He was going through a hard time and so was I. We emailed back and forth, then we texted and finally we met. I was petrified! Just being honest. I love talking to him. But face to face is hard. I have issues. Well, all we are is friends. We gone to eat, chat etc. My friend is finally dating! I am so happy for him. He needs this in his life. He is trying to live his life to the fullest!

My baby girl. Man, she has truly lived a shitty life. The life she was dealt….not fair at all!!! But…she has kept her head up. She met a male when she was in h.s. He lived in another state. They met on a gaming site. They talked and unbeknownst to me, her grandparents planned a vacation so my could meet him in New Orleans. Well, she graduated h.s. and moved out of state to be with him. They lived together for several years. He finally proposed. She and I started planning. My ex mother in law took over of course. But the day finally came…and my beautiful got her happily ever after. Three days later I got a call from my baby. She was now a widow. After planning a wedding she & I were now planning a funeral. Told you she got a shitty hand!!! We moved her back to Oklahoma. It’s been a couple of years now. She graduated with a associates in psychology a few months ago. She is taking coding classes. She is dating. My is continuing to live life to its fullest!

Now, for me. I am newly divorced. It sucks! I have my first apartment. It’s scary being on my own for the first time. I’m a pretty simple girl. I’m comfortable in jeans & a t-shirt. I’m not a big makeup person. So today, I started my day off with a new smile. I put on makeup! I did my hair (ok, so it’s short but dammit I made it cute 😝). I made dinner. I tried something different. It was good. I have been thinking about dating. I don’t know about that quite yet.

I’m living my life to its fullest. And I hope you are too!!!!
Posted:Sep 11, 2021 7:24 pm
Last Updated:Sep 13, 2021 6:05 pm
I am human. I make mistakes. I’ve made quite a few in my life. But haven’t we ?

Today seems to be the day to reflect that. Let tell you about mistakes for .

I am a proud season ticket holder for my college team! GO POKES!!! Well, today I the snooze button, so I was scrambling. I didn’t eat breakfast so I didn’t take my meds. I forgot to get a drink when everyone else got a drink on the way. I wore the wrong shoes to walk in. I made mistakes. But….I survived! And it wasn’t that big of a deal.

I was ready when my ride got . We stopped at the drive-thru for food. I filled my water bottle and took my meds at the stadium. And I kicked off those shoes soon I walked in my apartment!

My new outlook is positivity. I’m not perfect, never will be. But, I’m me.
Funny Fridays
Posted:Sep 10, 2021 5:26 pm
Last Updated:Sep 13, 2021 6:05 pm

It's finally Friday!!!!

For being a "short" week, this seemed like the longest darn week! Maybe it was just me. But I literally came home everyday and took a 30 minute (sometimes longer) nap. Hopefully your week was good.

So, I decided that on Fridays....I am going to share some "funnies". Hope you enjoy... Don't mind the wetness.....I got excited

What's the height of conceit? Having an orgasm and calling your own .

Do you know how New Zealanders practice safe sex? They paint an X the backs of the sheep that !

What is a Yankee? a quickie but a guy can do it alone.

What do Christmas decorations and priests have in common? Their balls are just for decoration.
Let’s go!
Posted:Sep 8, 2021 6:47 pm
Last Updated:Sep 10, 2021 4:50 pm
Yeah…I couldn’t come up with a title. So spank me! 😜

I have several blogs running through my head. So picking one is a little tricky. But one thing I do know, I’m starting fresh. I’m trying to learn from a friend to start looking at the positive in my life and stop griping!

Ok….so let’s go!

I’m a lucky girl. I first got on Heated Affairs after my first marriage was ending. Actually a person put me on a different site and a guy contacted me and told me that I didn’t belong on THAT site. 😳 So…I was introduced to Heated Affairs.

I was shy. I was very naive to the sexual world. Hell, I’m still shy! And I’m still naive about this sexual world! I’m lucky because I met some AMAZING people! I found friends. I found some lovers…..🥰 Damn….I found some very hot lovers! I told you I’m a lucky girl. And funny thing is….I still have some of these people in my life. And yes, some of them were my lovers. And I still love them.

So, I found love on Heated Affairs. I found my husband. I love him. Yes, I said love. Yes, I am now divorced from him. Like, it was final last week. Yes, I still love him. But, we are not a couple. We have parted. And I’m lucky. I am a new person because of him. I’m a lucky girl, no matter how much it hurt. Now….I’m back on Heated Affairs.

I’m a lucky girl. I’m ok. I’m not looking for love. I have that. I have friends. I have family. I’m a lucky girl! So, this wasn’t the blog I was going to make, lol. But I think maybe it’s the one I was supposed to make.

I am a lucky girl. I love you. I love my friends. I love my lovers…don’t have any right now. That’s another blog 🤭 I don’t think I would change anything! I’m a lucky girl. And you know what? I know I’m a lucky girl because of Pony …..😘🤩
Posted:Sep 6, 2021 3:51 pm
Last Updated:Sep 8, 2021 7:05 pm
Snuggles. Isn’t that a fun word? I mean it just warms you. Your heart & your soul.

As a mom, I did this quite often. Mostly with my minime. Not that I didn’t snuggle with my oldest, it was just a different situation. But minime was my snuggler. In a chair, on the couch and in bed.

Snuggles kept away the scary. Snuggles made the hurt go away. Snuggles warmed the heart. Not just for mini, but for me as well. Warmed my soul without me having to bare it.

Snuggles were not a regular part of either my marriages. I’m a romantic at heart. I just didn’t find the right one husband. I have had people in my life who were great. Great men. Great lovers. But, sex is not the only part of a relationship.

I’m all about the snuggles. I love the feeling of a mans arms around me. The feeling of my head on his chest. The warmth of a person who cares. I love snuggling up with someone on the couch. Watching a movie or just talking about life. I love snuggling in bed. The snuggles can be a sweet way to initiate sex. Snuggling in the afterglow…..

I know it’s corny. But, that’s what I want. I want that guy. The guy who doesn’t look at me the way I do. The way the men in my life made me feel about myself. I really want to snuggle. Never know when that could happen. He can come sit on my couch. Pull me into his arms. My head on his chest listening to his heartbeat. The smell of him. My hands running through his chest hair.

I love snuggles…
Seasons change
Posted:Sep 5, 2021 4:58 pm
Last Updated:Sep 6, 2021 3:51 pm
Been awhile since I’ve peeked in. Life has a way of doing that us. Between our normal hectic lives, Covid and the world in general.

And as the seasons change, so do our lives. Simple things….graduations! Engagements! Weddings! New babies…. And death. We grow and as we age, we gain wisdom.

Our lives are just like the seasons. The newness of birth just like the blooms of spring.
The heat of new love just like summer. Our lives change as do the leaves of fall. And hearts grow cold just like the winters ice.

I’m there. I’m in the fall. I had my wonderful spring when I met my love. My summer of love and heat. Now my fall as my marriage ends.

Im not sure what will happen for winter. I know my heart won’t grow cold. I will always love my ex. I really hoped it was my happily ever after. Others saw, I couldn’t. I saw my love. But neither my love or myself was strong enough be enough.

I’m ok. I’m not bitter. I’m thankful. Im thankful for this divorce. I’m ok. I’m on my own for the first time in my life. I have be the one make myself happy. I need love me!

I’m glad crawl back into my crib. I’m ok. I’m thankful that I have my blanket of family and friends to keep me warm.

Sending lots of love…warm hugs…and why not, some big wet 😘!

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