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New here but not impressed. Offering a lot on here is wasted on fake accounts, games or unnoticed  

TallHandsomeM4U2 47M  
14 posts
10/8/2021 2:30 am
New here but not impressed. Offering a lot on here is wasted on fake accounts, games or unnoticed


Well I thought I would try a different type of dating site. Bad mistake. Most of this site when it comes anyone my type is fake or other.

It's my birthday today but coming is frustrating and depressing. I'm at a crossroads in my life and ready start a new adventure but there are no roads here visible!

I am way taller than average, athletic, accomplished, educated, eclectic and never had a hard time meeting women in the past...but after a long relationship and CHOOSING be single for 1.5 years, I thought I'd try because possibly sex would also be something a wonderful lady might also value part of something real.

I was open minded as what I could find . I am not really a swinger, but I'm open fun until I find Mrs. Right. But I have standards. I'm not looking for people my age or less that look like they've been smoking cigarettes and drinking since birth, or eating at Burger King every day. There are people who look great younger and older than I am...but everyone here who I've found attractive is either a fake profile or overloaded with replies.

So far here's my experience....
a) pretty women who are cam girls looking for money
b) pretty women who are fishing for your contact information for spam
c) pretty women accounts who are actually men or an unattractive woman
d) women who are much older or don't take care of themselves
e) women who are unattractive or a body type I'm not interested in
f) women who just want talk about nothing 2 replies a day, going nowhere
g) women who are overwhelmed with guys and there's no way get them

Couples I'm open until I find my Mrs. Right, just for fun but with that, 's what I've experienced
a) a husband pretending be the wife, getting off and disappearing
b) couples who are overloaded with attention and don't notice
c) couples who are way too far away
d) couples who want make the sacrifices, no shared effort
e) couples who are creepy or unnatractive
f) couples who are not safe be with in my opinion
g) couples who just like talk with no intent

I thought I coudl find a woman who also valued sex top of the rest of the things we look for in a real relationship. I give that about a 1% chance on this site. So I think this 2-3 month experiment will be it for me .

Plus I've looked at so many gross pictures that it's almost turning off of sex altogether...and the sexy ones are fake or a waste of time.

Prove me wrong please!

Otherwise peace out!

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
10/8/2021 3:51 am

hopefully you signed for the shortest period possible.

also be aware of unwanted renewals by this site on your credit card - regardless of what your auto-renewal settings might be - it just happened to a friend of mine here


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
10/8/2021 4:37 am

Like online will be different. Offline there is no fakes? Everyone is honest? Everyone is your type? Why do people think online is different I don't know.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


ltrskr 75M

10/8/2021 4:56 am

It's a struggle to meet real people on here!


Gphile 52M

10/8/2021 5:03 am

Happy birthday brother,

Yeah I've had a similar experience. I may try TG Personals again at least it doesn't cost to make contact. Hope you find what you're looking for.


countryqueen1 74F

10/8/2021 7:30 am

Happy birthday, I hope you have a wonderful one. With regards to your dilemma, since your post says your on this site to try a different one hoping to find what you seek. This implies you've been on other sites with no luck. Yes there are fakes here however I suspect they are on other sites as well. I wish you luck in your search but in the meantime just make friends and have fun. Then the pressure is off everyone.


TallHandsomeM4U2 replies on 10/10/2021 11:16 pm:
I tried Tinder...it was all scams. I tried POF and it was all old profiles, and no one i was attracted to...plus Id like to meet a partner who loves sex as well, even if a real relationship. Thanks for the advise

positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
10/8/2021 2:01 pm

You look like you would have no problem attracting women in real life. You have the look and if you have charisma to match, I wonder why you are here. The women in your faves, most look like fake instsagram pics and may be stolen pics.


TallHandsomeM4U2 replies on 10/10/2021 11:21 pm:
because I want to find a woman who is sexually compatible as well. I wastned a lot of time on a girl who was amazing, but sexually it was tough and over time it tore us apart as well as a couple other things...so I want to meet someone we can be open about everything up front. I thought this would be the perfect site for it.

jajo696 113F
4287 posts
10/8/2021 3:30 pm

oh yeah.....and Happy Birthday🎉🎂


TallHandsomeM4U2 47M  
9 posts
10/10/2021 11:49 pm

I wrote many of you back on a bad browser I guess.. I dont see them showing up here. frustrating


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