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So...You wanna sleep with me do you?  

WantonPrincess4U 39F
8 posts
1/29/2021 3:16 pm
So...You wanna sleep with me do you?


So this is somewhat plagiarized from a post I read a while ago but reworked it for myself.

I let me help you a little bit, a few helpful tidbits that can help guide you along the way to your ultimate goal: staring down at as you pump your cock in and of my mouth, with my big eyes staring back up you!

#1: First you gotta get past him...
You have to understand that although I reads the messages daily, I rarely get around to responding personally to messages. Which means that 99% of the messages are read and screened my BF. I find messaging and vetting men on-line to be tedious and discouraging. So I leave a lot of that to him. You will probably never meet him but if he doesn't deem you worthy then sorry to say you probably aren't. If you can’t jump through that hoop then you’re not worth my time anyway.

I love being with other men, that does not mean that I’m any kind of a , slut, or object deserving of derogatory or demeaning messages. Maybe they aren’t meant that way, but I see a lot of messages that start off with, “would you want to suck my cock, slut?” Any messages that comes off as disrespectful (in my eyes) immediately gets ignored. And if you think that being called a “” or a “slut” is the way to start off introductions, you haven’t been paying attention to real women much at all. I loves , but do not enjoy being disrespected.

#2: Pretend that you’re meeting me in person...
If you were to on a , do you really walk up to her in a bar and lead with, “I want to take you home, stick my tongue in your pussy, and make you until you can’t stand.”? I’m betting almost no one does that (at least well-adjusted people). I love dirty talk, but that’s after I get to know you and decide to be intimate. Even in overt sexual settings, like swingers clubs, people don’t interact this way and when they do they are asked to leave. No women really appreciates that sort of approach. It’s the sort of thing people say when they have that false sense of courage provided the anonymity of the internet. I mean sometimes logging in while drinking my morning coffee, I don’t want random cock pics showing up in my inbox. Haha. Imagine if you were at Starbucks and some guy walked up to you and was like, “ my dick!” Not... the... way... to meet... people....

Instead, send us a message getting to know me. If you want meet me, the most important thing is that we’d have fun together (I don’t mean just ). I have to want to spend time with you and although we may end up in the sack, a good of our time together will be spent talking and chatting. So actually try and get to know me.

#3: Actually read the profile...
It’s easy to tell when people don’t read profiles. I mean, I guess it’s not that big of a deal... but it helps with #2 if we know that you’re actually following along and interested in something other than just any random piece of ass. Because if you’re randomly messaging me, that means you’re randomly messaging a lot of other people as well. And that does not seem safe in the slightest let alone make me feel special. Your fastest way to the front of the line is to write me something that proves you have read my profile and relate it back to how we would work well together.

#4: Be Brave!
My BF and I share a lot... We are working professionals however and are not going to answer unsolicited questions about where we work or where exactly we live. That may sound cheesy or unnecessary, but we both work in environments where this would not be acceptable. So I ignore all questions about where specifically in Vancouver I live and what I do for a living... I don’t do it to be rude, but rather to guard our own privacy (not to mention protect myself from the numerous crazies out there. This is the internet after all.)

On the flip side, I won’t ask anyone detailed personal, or identifying information. If I were to start chatting with someone, and felt I’m actually interested in meeting, I will be more open to sharing more. But to get to that point, I would want to know what you like and be fairly certain we are going to meet. I’m still surprised sometimes people that ask for tons of pictures and details but are unwilling to send a single body picture (I’m going to need a picture if we are going to meet). So if you’re unwilling to least reciprocate with that, I really don’t see it working .

#5: Be Patient...
I never realized how many messages and such I’d receive through this profile. I find it flattering and the best of compliments that people are so interested in what I am seeking. Truly -- it’s an awesome honor. But please remember that I work a full time jobs (sometimes 50-60 hours in a week) and I just don’t have the time sometimes. Or, I do have the time and I am just wiped . So never think I’m are ignoring someone... or, actually, I take that back... sometimes I’ll ignore you if you break rules #1-4 above, hahah, but I will always try and get back to people. I’ve had people flip on over messaging because no one responded within a few hours of their message. Sometimes it takes me two weeks to respond, so please<b> bear </font></b>with me!

justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
1/29/2021 6:49 pm

Bravo for sharing articulate and well-reasoned criteria.

With the torrent of (mixed) messages women in this community receive, it is understandable that they become jaded and dulled to relentless entreaties and promises, many of which are exaggerated and insincere.

Your discussion of preferences and expectations is unlikely to impact the flow of messages into your inbox. But it will inform those of us with serious intentions and improve the quality of what you learn from admirers who are worth spending time with.

As you point out, establishing and nurturing connections on the internet requires patience and attention to how you present yourself. Those unable or unwilling embrace those necessities have no place in your busy life. For those willing to invest time, energy and creativity in building friendship and trust, I am sure awesome rewards await.


WantonPrincess4U 39F

1/30/2021 11:03 am

Thank you very much!

Very well said! I am so glad you understand and agree. Gives me hope. Haha


MrJonny907 52M
2 posts
3/5/2021 9:42 am

Well spoken. You thought this through. I look forward to reading and seeing how it works. Or maybe it has/is working. Whatever the case, i wish more women thought and acted with as focused and clear mind as you.


84hotwife 50M
2 posts
3/24/2021 12:21 pm

First off, well said and put together. It makes alot of sense being a beautiful woman on this site. Too bad a few bad apples can spoil the bunch, but don't give up hope I'm an eternal optimist and believe everything we want is within our capabilities to achieve.


Funk0063 61M
39 posts
5/28/2021 1:33 am

Wanted to comment that your profile/blog intrigues me having read it. Hope we can chat/connect sometime and see where that leads.

Take care, stay healthy and save!

Funk


Happyfitsexy2 51M/36F
1 post
10/14/2021 12:02 pm

You 2 have a great relationship, and also an intriguing relationship
We only live once, so live your life tge way you want to.
Congrats.


Evan_E_Best 23M
1 post
10/20/2021 6:14 pm

Very interesting read and fair demands


Moms_Love_Me_Yes 34M
1 post
1/31/2022 7:41 am

Well said. Even if semi plagiarized, the main points are pretty clear.

Thanks for sharing! Just messaged you, take ur time.

If it didn't work for whatever reason, I guess here's a good spot to lmk!

Take care!


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