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New stuff for my 6th psychology book, in time for the final edit!  

SgtBash63 60M
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1/11/2021 1:22 pm
New stuff for my 6th psychology book, in time for the final edit!


So, I am cruising around the site, checking things out. I see a profile of what I perceived as a good looking lady and look at her profile. She is married and not seeking single men, like me. But, as I often do in such a situation, I drop a note her, thanking her for the pictures, making my style of compliment, which some people seem confused by and then drop a joke as I do when I am on stage and have a few a bunch of people in trance. Laughter is the BEST medicine!

I didn't really expect an answer be honest, but, I have made a few friends over the years this way. Friends are a good thing, if there is anything else, that's just a bonus, you know? But I did get a response! Boy did I!

The response kind of surprised and angered . She demanded know why I thought she should be interested in ! I was like WTF? I never asked her be interested in ! I am single, she ruled that out in her profile, I live thousands of miles away and her profile specifies she is not interested in people she is interested in, if they are not local her. I never really expected an answer! My intent was give a compliment and walk away leaving her with a smile.

Then she attacks me for not reading her profile! At this point I am intrigued because I am detecting the kinds of things I work with professionally and write about in my psychology books and I was seeing the potential for new material. I am just finishing my 6th book focused abnormal psychology traits and treatments. I read the rest of it and it was about how<b> creepy </font></b>I am and how I am a sick pervert and then closes out by calling Epstein! LOL I had some good material.

I dropped a phony write her recommendation page knowing nobody but her would ever see it and hoped she would realize she had WAY over reacted an innocent compliment and joke. Most people would step back and simply learn from it and move . Not this one! She went on the attack and it was GLORIOUS!

Of course by now I realized she was in fact not good looking, because true beauty is on the inside and beautiful people are at least compassionate and don't attack people for trying start a conversation, even if their lifestyles do not mesh, they say thanks but no thanks and move on. Were it not for the GOLD MINE in that , I would have been feeling bad about then for triggering her deeper issues.

She had some interesting things say about my profile too! yes, apparently there is a whole lot of stuff in my profile I was not aware of and it is totally offensive to the human race! I won't out her and drop her account name, that is not my style, but I am fairly sure she will be naming me! LOL People suffering from these types of issues cannot help themselves. It is sad actually, as I likely could have made a referral for her there the north. Of course as happens, she blocked after sending her Email calling a bunch of names.

the right side of my screen right now, I have the top visitors as her. Apparently a very needy gal. With the thousands of women I have helped over the years, I have a good idea what is going with this one. A truly sad case, as her internal problems simply overpower any positive physical attributes she may have, the instant she opens her mouth.

Sometimes trying throw a little light and humor in peoples lives becomes a problem. When this happens, I always go back the things my mother told as I was growing . In this case, several things came mind in this order.

1) Have compassion and remember, you have no idea what they are going through.

2) Remember, you have no power and therefore no responsibility.

3) Consider the source.

This is going into my chapter on dissociative identity and psychosis. So remember, whatever the issue, there is help. And also, bear in mind, you cannot help someone who does not want help.

I guess I will just hope she finds peace.

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