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So You’re Interested In Someone On Here  

chitowndonger 61M  
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11/20/2020 11:03 am
So You’re Interested In Someone On Here


Their picture catches your eye and before you even think you off a generic message asking if they are interested in you.

Seriously?? Is that how selfish we’ve become as humans? Wow, this person is HOT. I’m going to completely disregard and ignore who they are as a human being and message them to see if they want to date me and/or my partner.

People will respond with “well I’m here just for sex so I really don’t care about that person or dynamics”. That makes you a shithead. It’s basic respect. If someone says don’t message without permission, then don’t fucking message them. Oh boo hoo you don’t like their dynamics. Well guess what, pumpkin, if you’re going to want to fuck them then you’re going to want to make them happy. Ignoring boundaries anyone has in place will not make them happy.

READ THEIR PROFILES. Even if you’re just wanting to fuck. Trust me when I say, respecting someone enough to actually want to know them upon meeting them will get you way further. Unless you’re asked or consent was given, you’re not that persons dom/sub so stop acting like it.

An exhibitionist doesn’t equal a slut.
A sub doesn’t equal weak that anyone can boss around.
A slut doesn’t mean they are easy and they will fuck every person.
They are still human beings and you’ll get a lot further with them if you first see them as human beings and not just pieces of<b> meat.

</font></b>Oooooh this is Heated Affairs, it’s supposed to be all about sex. No, the fuck it isn’t. It isn’t just sex. Holy shit, shocker right? This website gives us an outlet but doesn’t turn us into slabs of<b> meat. </font></b>The kink world is filled with all kinds of fetishes but that doesn’t mean everyone here should be reduced to nothing but their skin bags.

If you cannot muster enough energy to try to understand and respect someone before messaging them, don’t bother. It’s obvious you don’t want them that badly.

For the guys who copy and paste a long ass message pretending to read the profile, it becomes very obvious when you haven’t once a conversation has been started. Don’t do it. Just actually read their profile before making yourself look like an idiot.

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