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fitguy734 56M
6 posts
11/17/2019 7:00 am
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1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
11/17/2019 7:21 am

I agree with Layla, we programmed to be selective to ensure health off springs , and a Male that will help with raising , protecting and providing for the child.


RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
11/17/2019 7:25 am

I disagree, too. Whilst men are sexually opportunistic and many of us would be "up" for MMF, that number is going to fall like a stone if the woman is hoping to get "seeded". Swinging is not about "spreading your seed" as your post would imply, but rather about mutual respect and mutual fun. Any guy with the attitude that suggests a sexual partner just wants "seeding" is not going to get very far with most women - on this site, or off it.


bitchkitty2017 71F

11/17/2019 8:06 am

I agree because some women will share herself with others taking your hat off to her only makes you look like an opportunist ....its nothing to do with social conditioning its got all to do with preferences and making sure she makes the right decisions...its the age old story of men and women ..some men fly and some women are keeping grounded ..and as far as the seeding thing ..lol do you know how idiotic that sounds? knuckle dragger comes to mind!


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
11/17/2019 9:08 am

There are a lot of Women and Men swingers out there. I think it is more up to the individual to how they feel about being a swinger. I see Men that don't and do like the lifestyle, and I have seen Women who don't and do like the lifestyle. Welcome to Blog Land!


Bettibenobo 68F
423 posts
11/17/2019 10:21 am

You need to get your initials right - it can make a difference in the point you're trying to make.

You spoke of welcoming women who welcomes MMF or has multiple sex partners at once.

Welcoming MMF Male/Male/Female - She's having sex with 2 men who are bi-sexual. The men interact with each other primarily and then the woman. She's more like a 3rd wheel.

You probably meant MFM. Male/Female/Male - the woman is the center of attention and the men don't interact with each other.


Alwayshrd4u2lck 60M

11/20/2019 1:52 pm

Times are changi g and more women are finding a desire to broaden their experiences and or feel comfoetable with a more sexually open and or assertive role. Society is slowly shifting its Paradiagm on acceptability of women and sex. And specifically women out seeking to fill sexual.desires such as multiple partners /3play of all types etc are pioneers of sort slightly ahead of the times and leading/pulling the rest up behind them by widening the acceptance and making it less intimidating for filling their sexual desires


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