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Just an observation  

Necocksub 64F
18 posts
8/22/2019 1:31 am
Just an observation


Over the years I have found so many men that love to fuck us BBWs yet few of them would date us, are all men that shallow or am I mixing with the wrong ones?! Lol

BazookaBenz 43M

8/22/2019 1:36 am

Ahah, u r right dear ! Only BBW r able to take the Demolition Man as it should be, that's yyyyy ! Top Models, they r only good for doing picts and teasing xD Much luvvzzz from Paris

"Mais je resterai fidèle à Montélimar, je deviendrai vraiment le Loup Solitaire de Sirius..."


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
8/22/2019 1:52 am

I agree, i have said , " you like the idea of me, but not the real me"...and so i dont fall for it.

There are some real ones around though.....hold out for them....and hold on when they arrive. ~~


Orgasmaphone 44M

8/22/2019 2:00 am

mixing with the wrong ones...date and fuck...win win....


RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
8/22/2019 2:26 am

Here's an idea - why not insist on a date or two before you let these guys have their way with you? You are far from powerless in this situation!


562guy_inthe671 57M
51 posts
8/22/2019 2:41 am

Well, not really, it's in men's nature to just be assholes... Really, especially if sex is involved...
Myself, It's not my nature to do such a thing. I was married young and I only was with one other girl/woman than my wife.
My wife passed 10 years ago and five years after, I discovered Heated Affairs.
I've met a few women on Heated Affairs (which is a miracle, i suspect any woman under 40 on Heated Affairs are bots) and well, it's quite a experience but, women can be shallow too.
I met a woman last year we had two dates, and we had a great time. We had sex and it was fantastic! During the 'afterglow.' She said " I was pleasantly surprised you can get me off with your cock." Just like that, matter of fact.. Then she went on about her expectations of a man and well, she said I was lucky that she 'decided' to contact me. Wow...
I'm not small or am I huge, I would say I am 'abovish' (i made that word up) average.. But I learned how to please a woman from my wife... I paid attention.
I didn't dwell on it and when I answered a phone call from her a couple days later, she wanted to schedule a date etc. I just declined and I told her why...
That's it. So, no, you aren't dating the wrong men, especially if you meet them here on Heated Affairs...
Be more selective and well, have fun. If your fun isn't what you expect, changed it up and find other avenues... I know in my beach side city, there is a club where BBWs meet men who like their physical types etc and it's been around for at least 12 years.
Take care.


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/22/2019 2:53 am

well no offence but your profile says it most " sub looking for regular use by doms? " why would the men think any different ?


Necocksub replies on 9/5/2019 9:26 am:
None taken, my profile is for my slutty sub persona, I wasn't aware people dated on here. My observation comes from my vanilla real life where no one wants to chat up the fat bird lol

Mikemike107015 53M  
136 posts
8/22/2019 3:35 am

Personally I don't like dating at all. It just sucks up my time and money and needless to say I have very little of both. I find that as long as I'm honest about this up front there are not expectations of dates. As far as the size of a woman, well, it really doesn't matter to me as long as the person is clean.


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
8/22/2019 3:53 am

Have a few dates before the deed , is your profile clear about what you are looking for? Do not think there are many here to date , most seem to want instant hook ups. Best of luck


HDMike1961 63M
67 posts
8/22/2019 3:54 am

id love a meet a bbw, one I could take places we both like going to, engoying our time together ! Then back home for a all night party for 2


Enygma2007 43M
123 posts
8/22/2019 5:58 am

Wrong ones


mtguy2019 69M
185 posts
8/22/2019 6:33 am

whatever one wants is good.


redhard69691959 63M

8/22/2019 6:49 am

I think it depends on the relationship between the two. If it is an instant hot hookup then it is just that. Otherwise, there can be a relationship where dating is the center of the situation.


Hummel 61M
2 posts
8/23/2019 11:10 pm

definitely the wrong ones


Teacher4OralUK 46M

9/4/2019 1:17 pm

would love you to ride my cock x


Necocksub 64F

9/5/2019 9:30 am

I don't put out on the 1st date or the 2nd even (meets are different ) but it's so long since I've had a real date I'd probably jump on him now! Loo


dansch2009 52M
145 posts
9/16/2019 12:30 pm

I'd be proud to go on a date with you!


XHamburgDave 80M
10466 posts
10/17/2019 5:42 am

Probably the wrong ones, but sadly I am too far away from you

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