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Delusions of Grandeur  

SmileBiSexy 54T
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4/18/2021 11:05 am
Delusions of Grandeur


I have some free time while getting my Sunday morning pedicure so as a writer must write; todays topic is delusions.

Delusions are defined as fixed, false beliefs that conflict with reality. Despite contrary evidence, a person in a delusional state can't let go of these convictions and will argue them with every fiber of their being as being absolutely real. These false beliefs which conflict with reality; are often self serving benefitting the believer. Typically based on a self-entitlement of what they believe they deserve in whichever manner they choose.

Ringing any bells here? No? Then perhaps you're one of the many lost souls that are neck deep in your own delusions whilst<b> cruising </font></b>hook up sites.

Let's break down delusion by definition. First up - a fixed, false belief that conflicts with reality.

For the guys that have no photos on their page, barely a vague sentence written about being chill, laid back and looking for fun times - you might be under a self induced delusion that you're going to attract someone - while offering them absolutely NOTHING to find attractive about you. Now this laziness is fine and dandy and their own choice BUT, expecting them to reciprocate your interest - IS DELUSIONAL.

It completely conflicts with reality when you believe simply because you're attracted to someone who posts their own attractive face photos, spent time and effort to write a bit about their personality and preferences on their page (which you mostly likely didn't bother reading) is somehow going to be attracted to your grey silhouette and empty profile; well, that mind set by definition is DELUSIONAL.

Now to be clear, the men who live in these complete delusions come fully stocked with every dull unimaginative excuse to justify their lack of effort or transparency.

First up, they don't post photos because they need to be discreet for professional reasons. You're welcome to not post a face pic, if that's your choice; but, why not send one with your first message? You see, the delusion is still rooted in your belief that simply because you're attracted to someone else's photo - they should somehow satisfy your attraction because YOU want them to.

In the real world, attraction is reciprocal. Boy sees girl, Girl sees boy. Both find the other attractive. They hook up and have crazy monkey sex all night long. Simple equation that has been overpopulating the Earth for over 5000 years. Yet, they believe they can circumvent these rules of nature and get a woman interested in them simply by sending one sentence that consists of nothing more than a compliment "You're hot!" and an offer "You wanna hook up?"

That my dear friends is delusion at it's finest.

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