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Women/men  

2039loki 37M
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3/26/2019 7:38 pm
Women/men


You know for many years now there is one thing that I can say with out a doubt, women dont know what they want. They seem to be the most confused of the species. Now dont get me wrong some men are but women are the best at it. Lets take a look at what they say, do and how they act, shall we.
1. They say things like I want a man who will respect me and treat me the way I want. Well when you do just that they seem to accuse you of wrong doings, not being there when they need you or what ever hair brain idea they get into their heads.
2. They say I want a man who is old fashion. Do they really know what that means? Let see, I was raised in the south. I had a mother and grandmother who taught me to be a gentleman. Open door, pull out chairs, walk with the street on the opposite side of the woman. Say things like yes ma'am, no ma'am. You do any of these things they will say, I dont need your help, stop treating me as if I cant does these on my own.
3 .I want a man who will treat me as an equal. When you do they say things like your the man why dont you do it? Or What am I dating a lazy person? No you wanted to be treated as an equal so instead of me getting you can do it.
4. Food! Now this is a big one. You hear the I am hungry. OK Darlin what would yo like to eat? 40 minutes into you feel as if you. did something wrong because you dont know what they want. How about a burger? Nope! ok Chinese food? Nope, OK how about Pizza? No After naming every food or restaurant with in a 75. mile radius you have gotten nowhere. So you offer to cook then its why not pizza and we order in. Really?
5. Being on TIME.. Now I'm a man who for this one, will lie and say we need to be someplace 40 minutes earlier, just to be on time. Look women your beautiful. You dont need make-up, a dress, 3 showers, to try on everything in your closet. Slap on something men are simpler than that. We dont ask that you dress to impress every time you walk out the door.
Now lets talk about the word you see everywhere on every thing, Perfection or perfect. This is a dream, fairy tail. NO ONE IS PERFECT.. Nope I know that I have flaws and things that others dont like about me. And your know what I dont care because I know they have issues too. No there is such a thing as perfect match, but not perfect person.
Honesty is another one. Now obviously no one really is. Like I said I lie about the time just so I know I will be on time. We as men dont talk about women we have been with or compare you to them. So we will lie about certain things because we dont want to hurt you or have a fight over the past. You want honesty then dont bring up a girl from the past. Also most men feel they have to lie because they want to do something women dont like doing. So we say things like, yeah I'll be working late, but really our friend John who you dont like wants to catch up over a beer. Its gonna happen all men do it. I know first hand women do it.
Talking... Yes we men do like to talk but to be honest its not always about you. Sorry but true. We like to talk about some of the dumbest shit that pops into our head. We can see humor in EVERYTHING. Yes we can. But women, not so much. You say we're mean and cruel. But nope that shit was funny. And we will talk about it.
Feelings. Now this one is more of a 50/50. Yes men do talk about them. BUT when most men do some of you women can be a real bitch about them. OH you sound weak, or you pussy stop acting this way. WTF If we said things like that to women, they'd kill us in our sleep. But honestly we do and now 90% not to our friends because BS at home is a enough.
Ok now that that out of the way let talk serious for a few. Look we are all humans and all want the same things in life. Love, happiness, a family and success . Now for us to get there we do have to respect one another and truly try to be what our grandparents wanted for our parent, because somewhere along the line we have lost site of it. Give each other the chance to prove that your past relationships have nothing to with the person you are with now. If you say one thing, do one thing. Just be honest with each other and things will be amazing.
I do hope you see my humor in this and the truth at the same time. This does come with a few years experience and<b> lesson </font></b>learned through them.Peace, Love and Happiness to you all.

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