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Another wonderful conversation starter...  

Masters_sl_a_v_e 55F
95 posts
6/2/2020 10:54 pm
Another wonderful conversation starter...

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Masters_sl_a_v_e 55F
143 posts
6/2/2020 10:55 pm

BJ0911 in Colorado wrote to me for the first time. For him to insinuate that I have a lot of reds, I am not sure if he is referring to red flags or red hots? I actually have neither. I have no idea what prompted him to write such an engaging conversation that I am going to ignore. If he believes that it will discourage me from changing who and what I am or to rewrite my profile, then he has more bubbles out of plumb than I do. It makes me wonder how many times he has been turned down. He keeps on viewing my profile and has sent another wonderful message. I wonder what he means. Did he block me? It saves me those steps. Another reason why I seek those with just the right kind of mental stimulation that makes me do what I do and do so well…

You have a number of reds for being a sub.
Fuck you hoebag.
6/2/2020 11:36 pm

So you're deleted.
Too bad.
Could've shown you a thing or two.
6/2/2020 11:47 pm


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
6/3/2020 3:43 am

Maybe he meant limits or what you want and do not want. If so he is another wannabe. Those so called doms think submissives and slaves are not supposed to have any say in anything. Not even who they choose to talk to. That whatever they want they should get. That any and all submissions and slaves they are interested have to talk with them. To meet them and allow anything to happen that the wannabe wanta.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Masters_sl_a_v_e replies on 6/3/2020 8:09 am:
Thank you for writing your opinion. I had not thought about the wannabe perspective and truly appreciate the reminder which I hope will help others who may have had these encounters or possibly will have.

dogslife2live01 71M

6/3/2020 6:16 am

did you expose him to feel better, or are you just venting?

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


Masters_sl_a_v_e replies on 6/3/2020 8:07 am:
Thank you for writing your question.

I would say both and maybe more due to Brownie leaving a good explanation on the wannabe perspective just now, which had not crossed my mind at the time.

I like to have others options so that if I feel as if my nose just got bent out of shape that maybe I need to step back and re-evaluate my thinking to allow myself to continue to be open minded and not fall back into the Puritanical thought processes that I have been trying to leave in my past.

PlayGuruLoverNow 66M  
157 posts
6/3/2020 1:33 pm

Model Citizen NOT
Model Member... NOT
Model Loser.... YEP!


Masters_sl_a_v_e replies on 6/5/2020 8:34 am:
Thank you for writing your comment and opinion.

Ifixstuff2 64M
19 posts
6/3/2020 5:03 pm

It is all about what you want. To please or to be pleased. Givers and takers. I would rather give than receive.


Masters_sl_a_v_e replies on 6/5/2020 8:34 am:
Thank you for your comment and opinion.

For me, it has been truly a need, want, and/or desire when it comes to my interactions and who I choose to interact with. I will say that having the online and telephone mediums to help vet people out has worked well. This is a good example of what I would consider a red flag and to avoid him by all means possible.

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