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Can you find love on a sex site?  

ScarlotHarlot22 54M/50F
14 posts
11/25/2018 1:42 pm
Can you find love on a sex site?

I am curious if anyone believes or has found love on a sex site. My girlfriends and I have differing opinions and I am curious what others think. I am including what they have said as choices.
Yes, of course I believe you can, though I have not found it.
Yes, and I have found love on a sex site.
Yes you can though I am not looking for it.
Of course not! I want to find sex not love.
No because people are too selfish to be that intimate.
No and you are crazy for believing you can.


Scarlot the 🥀
”Men need to be loved. Women need to be wanted.”


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
11/25/2018 4:35 pm

It can happen and you not even looking for it.. just like being anywhere you meet people of different interest, once in a while the unlikely will happen. wasn't planning on it . I can say I am one of the lucky(?) ones to find the diamond among all the other Jewells on these sites, and it was across sites at that, you really never know what site you are dealing with from person to person, until you ask specifically, Story in my first 2-3 blogs if you like to read...have a nice evening

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


ScarlotHarlot22 replies on 11/25/2018 5:09 pm:
I will have to read it. . Thanks for sharing.

mindworker1970 53M
328 posts
11/25/2018 8:00 pm

I found my late wife on this site so that is how I voted. It can happen anywhere.


ScarlotHarlot22 replies on 11/30/2018 12:56 pm:
I think that is beautiful. I am sorry for her passing.

johns_folly 64M

11/25/2018 8:56 pm

I have found the love of my life here, so why cant others. I wasnt looking for it, it just happened.


amkamk48001 56M/54F

11/26/2018 3:35 am

We met on here 4 and a half years ago and been together every since.


ScarlotHarlot22 replies on 11/30/2018 9:38 am:
That is good to know. I have met lots of interesting people.

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
11/26/2018 10:10 am

Men only do this and men only do that!This is all men are after,they won't settle for anything more.Is the most common unfounded assumption leveled against men only because those that level that unfounded assumption don't have the guts
to find out for themselves by asking those that interest them themselves. No they'd rather just keep getting messages instead of lowering themselves to our level and sending them to get answers to their questions.

Which of course brings up the other unfounded assumption that men are liars.
If that's the case Why are you here even?

Using more than all the road!


ScarlotHarlot22 replies on 11/30/2018 9:05 am:
Hi Sir. I am quite curious as to why you commented how you did. I did not say anything about men in this. I was asking about if a person can find love. It seems that you angry about something but I do not see any need for your comment on this particular blog topic. Please have a good day.

thongsnbjs 41M

11/26/2018 11:58 am

met my wife on here.


ScarlotHarlot22 replies on 11/30/2018 9:08 am:
That is awesome.

meincovky 49M
12 posts
11/26/2018 3:23 pm

You never know what happens


ScarlotHarlot22 replies on 11/30/2018 9:10 am:
I completely and totally agree especially when people are upfront and honest from the beginning.

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
11/26/2018 5:44 pm

    Quoting  :

Did it ever occur to you that you aren't the only one here that says the same crap about guys?No of course you didn't ! You're thinking it was directed at you
because that's what you do best.Hi jack a blog and belittle someone you
have a big hate for like me or someone who says something you don't like. You do it all the time.Only because I question others motives just as you do
The only difference is that you are as mean as hell.
And you should apologize!

Using more than all the road!


yawhyknot 67M
39 posts
12/4/2018 1:13 pm

Not that my opinion really matters but... I chose yes you can just not looking for it. The question reminds me of a buddy of mine when asked about smoking and a Rx cure his Dr had prescribed. He immediately respnded that the cure was a miracle and he had quit every week since it was picked up at the pharmacy. Let’s be honest, some (maybe not all) of the women on this site are awesome. They are sexy, articulate, sexy, down to earth, sexy, open to possibilities, sexy. Bottom line I think I could have fallen in love every week since I joined


ScarlotHarlot22 replies on 12/5/2018 7:47 am:
I agree most people on here are awesome. Very few have not been. I believe it’s interesting that you said you could have fallen in love each week. What has prevented you?

Soukyan 67M  
17 posts
12/15/2019 3:46 pm

Didn't haven't found it on Heated Affairs ... but have on sites that are no longer around where the "dating" was heavily tilted toward sex.

Sex on the first date *can* be a wonderful thing, and last ...


ScarlotHarlot22 replies on 12/15/2019 5:45 pm:
I did meet an amazing man on here. We just don’t see eye to eye on what we have.

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