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As much as I love doing it, I'd have to ask because some people get weirded out by it.
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I would ask first.
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Ask first, communication it key.
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ask first.
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5/15/2020 1:53 pm |
If I was with someone new and things were going along great, I think you would be able to know what you could do or not that they may enjoy I would probably continue licking from clit to rim and back again.
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5/15/2020 2:29 pm |
I would proceed to lick there and get feedback from the woman on the subject! Become an Apollorising58 watcher!
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As much as I love doing it, I'd have to ask because some people get weirded out by it.
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I would ask. Before I met we both said our likes dislikes and limits. Some never to be broken. Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth. If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.
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My perception the last few years is that if she is a truly passionate lady, teasing/rimming is totally acceptable. It is part of her body, etc. Remember, lots of females still hold traditional values as in she's a good girl getting seduced, getting taken advantage of. So you will get some nos that you didn't have to get. I like to go there later, sort of accidentally, quick brush and gauge her reaction. Nothing like lightly and quickly caressing past and getting her sexy little hole slammed into your face....! Love it!
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5/15/2020 8:17 pm |
I do enjoy oral sex and I would work the crotch miraculously and then slowly take a swipe at the puckered asshole and see what kind of reaction. If the Lady gets upset...no sweat. It’s back to working that swollen clit. If she says it’s okay then it’s time to play [post 4318896]
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Always ask...
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1 post 5/17/2020 10:41 am |
I have just done it, never had any objections.
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Hi Spanks, Over the last few says, I have started talking to a lady here in the UK. No chance of meeting as yet, due to lockdown, however our conversations regarding likes and dislikes have got quite Hot We discussed Cunnilingus, and I mentioned that my tongue might stray into her Anus, she reacted very positively and said that she loved it. So no problems here Please visit my Blog "Older but no Wiser"
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I like to do a little tongue teasing close by and pay attention to the reaction. A reply of no or a push away will always be respected. There are lots of other things to lick nearby.
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5/18/2020 2:49 pm |
I would check to see if she had interest
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In most cases, I would have already established general turn-ons and turn-offs. This can be both well communicated or be extrapolated from generalities. If there is any doubt, then clarifications are made.
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I'd just go for it, I luv rimming, you might say I'm into ass worship. Once I have licked her sweet ass for a while, I gently slide a finger in to see how she responds and so far, I haven't met a lady yet who didn't respond to it in a good way. I personally luv to kiss after rimming so we can share that sweet taste, not all women are into that but more are than one might think.
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I would ask first, unless she told me she wanted it without asking Either way I think it would be insensitive & arrogant to do it without knowing if she wanted it or not. I aim to please the woman I am with...
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I want to rim a woman's ass so badly that I wouldn't want to chance her saying no before she has had a chance to experience how good it feels. If you ask first, then she may say no simply because she is embarrassed to say yes and then you have lost the opportunity to introduce her to the pleasure of anal stimulation. I have found that women universally really enjoy it and, if you just proceed to do it as if it were a perfectly natural thing without making it a do or don't issue, they just lie back and enjoy it.
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You certainly do elicit a lot of commentary and attention with your questions.
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Depends so much on the person, but it's pretty easy to tell, and no, I do not like to ask. I love the chance to push a boundary. Having said that, first rimming for me is only after we're anal friendly (fingering during sex or 69ing) and in the shower after some washing to take away the nervousness about hygiene (for both of us). It's an odd act, being both dominant (in the access you're taking) and submissive (the fact you're on your knees with your tongue up his or her asshole) . I find it so erotic. Unless of course you're with freaky pro where rimming is where you start, ha!
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just go for it and see her reaction. I have never had a bad one.
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I hooked up with a young lady one night, and I love going down on a woman. When I brought it up, she stopped me, because she actually HATED to be eaten out. Like she would kick me kind of bad. Lets just say the sex was good, but that relationship didn't last. I imagine I could have warmed her up to it eventually, but I think it needs to be a conversation somewhere.
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7/14/2020 6:38 am |
I've had the opposite. Girl's start rimming me, no intro. They've taken the lead. I like it, so not weirded out at all Feed your passion
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7/31/2020 8:16 am |
I'm would just lick there and if they complain, then apologize. Otherwise go for it.
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I like to slowly run my tougue lower and lower towards her asshole and she will let me know by her actions if i can get in there really good. If I go slow its almost always a go.
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If I'm down licking the Vijay I may side down further and just give a test lick then go from there.
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Well I like to know what my partner is into. I'ld ask before I lose a freind. If it no I don't go.
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With you I would just go for it and do so for hours .. as deeply as possible ..
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My experience has been that once the two of you are hot it gets pretty easy to tell. As the clothes come off and the passion builds, moving my mouth from the neck to the nipples is the first indication of how far down I can go. If she wraps her legs around me and starts grinding her pussy into my body then usually she want me to go lower. Once licking her, it is easy to take a longer stroke and see how she reacts, if she arches her hips higher, then I go lower, once the tongue hits the ass, she either pulls away or moans... I love it when they moan and let me worship their ass, roll over and put it in the air for easy access or climb on top my face and rub in on my mouth and nose. From then on she is usually giving directions!
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My experience has been that once the two of you are hot it gets pretty easy to tell. As the clothes come off and the passion builds, moving my mouth from the neck to the nipples is the first indication of how far down I can go. If she wraps her legs around me and starts grinding her pussy into my body then usually she want me to go lower. Once licking her, it is easy to take a longer stroke and see how she reacts, if she arches her hips higher, then I go lower, once the tongue hits the ass, she either pulls away or moans... I love it when they moan and let me worship their ass, roll over and put it in the air for easy access or climb on top my face and rub in on my mouth and nose. From then on she is usually giving directions!post 4318896
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10/14/2020 5:49 am |
Ask First ! Some really enjoy it and want it other just lock up and freeze so I always test the water!
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I enjoy giving Rim Jobs. I always ask before I move my tongue from Her pussy to Her ass.
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I have found that it is a feeling you can get from a woman. I have never asked, by-the-way, if I could lick a woman's ass. I can usually tell if a woman would get aroused by me lickin her ass, by how well she responds to me licking her pussy. If I am going down on her, and she is moaning and moving her hips to my tongue lashings, one slow long lick from her ass back to her pussy will let me know if I can pursue a good ass licking. My lil NDN gal loves my tongue in her ass. In fact, I have often neglected her poor lil pussy and just licked and tongue fucked her ass for long periods of time!!!
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spanksme 195 .. I'll just get right to the point .. I'd like to give you an all night rectal exam with fingers and tongue .. tongue and fingers ..
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1/3/2021 2:16 pm |
hmmm... just too much to say on this topic... maybe I post my novel later... until then a huge hug for you... it's been since before 2012 that we messaged on here... happy after all this time to return and find you still here!!! maybe we can chat later/sometime???
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for me it depends on my partner and how adventurous she is when it comes to sex. my 1st gf I rimmed had never had anal sex.... well she tried it once with a jerk she was with at the time and was forcing things and said it hurt to bad when we talked about it. so after going down on her several times i would rest a finger on her hole. the next time I pulled my finger out of her pussy and as I started licking and sucking her clit I eased my wet finger in her ass just to the 1st knuckle.... she stopped sucking my cock and asked what I was doing... I told her I already had my finger in and she looked back and smiled then went back to sucking cock and I worked my finger in and out going a little further each time till I had my finger all the way in. wasn't long before she was cumming like crazy. so when licking her sweet pussy juice i let my tongue lick closer and closer till I was just tonging her ass.... she started moaning and fingering her pussy herself as I tongued her ass and wasn't long before she was cumming again.... said that it felt amazing and thanked me for a wonderful experience..... several nights later she actually grabbed my hand and placed it on her sweet little hole wanting more.... it became a regular thing.... she even returned the favor
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go for it!
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2/8/2021 7:37 pm |
good answer coolpoolguy. If that freaks them out they may not want to see you again thinking your sick butt not fun. My wife had the prettiest, sexiest ass on the planet and she just wasn't into it. She at least let me do it after I asked but the experiences were too few and way too far between.
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I have helped two ladies have incredible organisms this way. I didn’t ask,but I had been performing oral sex for a considerable length of time. Not non stop,but with attention paid to other areas till they were ready for more. First time I ever did it a domme got on her knees and pulled me up behind her with a leash and choke collar on me. Was pretty obvious what she wanted. Didn’t know I would enjoy it that much.II guess I’m just an oral slut
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I would ask. Before I met we both said our likes dislikes and limits. Some never to be broken.
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4/9/2021 7:31 pm |
Communication and trust is key. So ask and talk about it first!
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