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First in Person Encounter  

Talk1stThenMore 42M
60 posts
11/20/2018 3:49 pm

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First in Person Encounter

It didn't end with hot and passionate sex so if that's what you are interested in reading about, this blog may bore you.
Joining the site was more about new encounters, new experiences and<b> education </font></b>or enlightenment for me. There wasn't a major agenda. After being on here for quite a while, I met someone in person for the first time today.
It isn't always easy to get women to engage in chat on the site, but this lady grabbed my attention by being friendly and engaging right from the start. We began to talk fairly regularly on IM and she wasn't trying to sell anything. Our conversations were interesting and for me fairly enlightening. My 37 have been relatively tame so I can be admittedly naive to much of the world of fantasies, fetishes and NSA sexual experiences. Her personal stories highlighting the good and bad of FWB relationships grabbed my attention.
Enough comfort level was developed to meet for lunch today. I wasn't sure what to expect. I knew from her pictures that she was attractive and has a great body, but also knew she is also a few inches taller than me. I know that can be a turnoff for women at times.
It is difficult to read all about a person's personality from online chat, so I was interested to see what she is really like.
She walked into the bar after I had already sat down and her looks didn't disappoint. I wasn't picking up that she was deeply attracted to me, but her body language didn't say she was repulsed either. When her foot was against my leg under the table, she didn't get frisky, but also didn't pull away.
The conversation started with small talk but fairly quickly turned to being more about excitement she has pursued and encountered on "adult social media." Other people's experiences interest me so I listened and probably asked too many questions, as I have a tendency to do.
We didn't really talk about the two of us or whether or not further connection would happen after today. I had to get back to work and the conversation hit a natural lull so we parted ways.
Later on IM, she admitted there wasn't a strong physical attraction, but politely said she enjoyed the time with me and would be happy to continue talking. She is looking for a friend with benefits and I may not be her type, but that is totally fine. People are interesting. Connections, even when the don't lead to a hookup or incredible chemistry, can be enjoyable.
Overall, meeting someone for the first time on this site was a success. Maybe the more steamy encounters are still ahead.


Talk1stThenMore 42M
59 posts
11/20/2018 3:50 pm

If it isn't a "hot and steamy" connection right from the start, is that disappointing for most people?


bitchkitty2017 71F

11/20/2018 3:58 pm

I don't think most people get bored if its not a sex story a lot of people take breaks from the sex vids and erotic stories to come and read blogs which are not infused with sex tits and ass pics etc..blogs are where people come who really don't want to sign out but want to read things of interest or write things of interest ..physical attraction hon is not everything as well as mental..people don't always click even though they have the hope that they will..its happened to a lot of ppl on here don't be discouraged something will click for you when you least expect it...good luck


Talk1stThenMore replies on 11/21/2018 6:15 pm:
Thanks for your thoughts. Luckily, I don't think I will be too easily discouraged because I don't have much of an agenda. I'm happy just meeting people, talking, and seeing where things go.

fck4ble 54M

11/20/2018 4:15 pm

All you need is a beginning. She might change her mind


Talk1stThenMore replies on 11/21/2018 6:17 pm:
True. But totally ok if she doesn't. I don't expect every interaction to bring fireworks.

tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
11/20/2018 5:21 pm

Not everyone is physically attracted to someone, but a pleasant evening of conversation...though a little disappointing, is a positive and does inspire hope. Just proof to all who doubt...there are real people here.

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


Talk1stThenMore replies on 11/21/2018 6:19 pm:
It has been interesting to me to see the wide variety of reasons that have brought people to this site. From making money, to totally unique fantasies, to just trying to find an adult to talk to.

lonlyforlove2 81M
32704 posts
11/20/2018 7:42 pm

If she interest you, continue, you have the foot in the door... There have been real jewels found here.. And I can contest that there are real people here that do meet...

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


Talk1stThenMore replies on 11/21/2018 6:19 pm:
Cool. Glad you have found some good connections with real people.

pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
11/20/2018 10:49 pm

I like your common sense approach to your blog. So it wasnt a steamy meet- keep the friendship door open.Conversations are all about connection.

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Talk1stThenMore replies on 11/21/2018 6:21 pm:
Thanks! Yes, I agree. Sometimes minds and personalities click and sometimes they repel.

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