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How to write a QUALITY profile
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How to write a QUALITY profile We always see the same descriptions and profiles. "We want to meet people like us" or " We want to add spice" , or "We joined to explore our sexuality" WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE do you want to meet, WHAT KIND OF SPICE, WHAT TYPES OF EXPLORATION? we see these statements along with a one sentence description and either NO pics , or just dick pics, or a bathroom toilet in the back round. Does anyone truly realize that saying "we want to meet people like us or add spice " is a completely EMPTY statement with no value to the reader? People like us could mean anything and adding SPICE is relative to the person who is writing the thought. WHAT KIND OF SPICE , threesome , water sports, BDSM , blood letting and cutting during sex. We are making a joke here but truth is there are MANY people that like this type of play here Most people writing a profile MUST stop to understand themselves FIRST, what they are looking for , what types of interaction they want to explore and create a profile with more detail around those specific thoughts , else we the reader have NO IDEA what you are talking about. The swing world has so many nuances, if you dont spell it out you will not be successful in trying to attract and meet the right people. HERE ARE SOME GOOD IDEAS here or any site because, after all, this is a DATING SITE LIKE ANY OTHER just sexually driven and based Step 1: CHOOSE THE RIGHT PICTURES Without the right photos, nothing you write matters. This is an article about how to write a profile, but if you don’t have the right collection of photos, even the best writer cant help you When putting together your photo gallery, make sure you look flattering in every picture, NOT a toilet in the back round or wearing dirty torn clothing LOL If you can combine this with pictures that also show your personal interests and most attractive personality traits, you’ll have a very powerful photo gallery. SPORT PHOTO PHOTO WINE & FOOD add something of interest not just a DICK or torso pic-contrary to what MOST MEN think .. woman and couples DONT CHOOSE TO MEET because of the beauty of your dick. SIMPLE and pretty much common sense. Step 2: THIS blog post has a structure ---- Your profile should be structured in a similar manner. Each “mini paragraph” should give an idea of who you are as a person, what you are looking for , LIKES & DISLIKES etc. Step 3: Add some ideas that give people a CONVERSATION STARTER The harder it is for someone to start a conversation with you, the more likely they will move onto the next profile, even if they were otherwise interested. ask a question: What is you r favorite place to ? What made you get into the lifestyle? What is your idea of a great lifestyle date night? These are ideas to give an ICE breaker and start conversation on more than just "hey , what are you into" and then having to re type and explain that THOUSANDS of times to different people contacting you Step 4: Remove all negativity. Instead of writing, “I was bored or I just got of a DIVORCE” try, “I am looking to explore some new sexual ideas and have recently become single. I would love to meet a couple to learn and enjoy MFM” Never focus on negative things in your life Negative energy always attracts negative attention. When someone approaches your profile it should exude optimism, happiness, and portray someone who is excited about meeting Step 5: Show don’t tell. Saying you are funny or adventurous DOESNT CONVEY ANYTHING try - telling a funny joke & story or explain HOW you are adventurous and show a MOUNTAIN CLIMBING picture- far more effective Step 6: change it up People who read your profile want to know that meeting you will be fun and exciting The more interests, passions, and personality traits you reveal, the more people will be drawn to your profile, and the more likely people will be able to find commonalities with you. More commonality means more success and quality matches Step 7: Proof read what you wrote There is a lot to think about and create but a poorly written , grammatically incorrect profile is disastrous. It could be something as simple as a phrase that accidentally comes across as desperate or needy, a really bad grammar mistake, poor language choice, a misguided picture, negative energy, or any of the dozens of unintentional red flags that people accidentally show. Always proof read your profile Step 8: Put some thought into what you are doing Time and EFFORT are prerequisites to a good profile and qaulity communication Writing a profile takes a time and extra effort, but you can create a profile that helps you stand and meet the kind of people you’re interested in. LOVE TO HEAR YOUR COMMENTS |
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7/16/2021 2:48 pm |
I'm a poor writer that has trouble pulling in all my thoughts and remembering what I want to say. This gives me structure and food for thought. I actually made a template to follow and gather my thoughts. I wish I could be more elegant and had smooth transitions of my thoughts. I have always been attentive to other peoples feeling and want them to like me.
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This has definitely made me make tweaks. Is it perfect? No. But hopefully that will come with time. MDonson Kiik Myonguy
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4/28/2019 9:42 pm |
dam good blog...yet such a waist! the people that read your blog are not the ones you want to reach the ones you want to reach don't read there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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Valid, well thought out points. 👍 It's always amusing to hear how something so simple, is impossible to do... isn't it. 🤔 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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4/28/2019 7:06 pm |
not every profile is like what you describe some of us don't play with couples but its what you are looking for , best to keep to what you look for and let people choose what they want to write ...your description of what you think profiles are supposed to be is way off the scale ..no one is going to take time and do all that..keep it on the down low and let ppl do their thing..
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WOW Comprehensive, nicely formatted.
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