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mindful eating - bear with me  

JustHere2CU 55M  
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5/24/2021 8:14 pm
mindful eating - bear with me


dinner was
salad
glass of water
glass of red wine

put a bite in my mouth
then put the fork down
until i completely finished that bite
very hard do
took a long time to eat the whole bowl
sipped the water and the wine
no checking the phone or reading

did it as a test

why am i posting this here

because it occurred to me that sex like that
rambling
slow
deliberate
savoring
is quite enjoyable

have had several nights like that
one stands out

she worked on the other coast
had a lot of remote interaction
was in town and met with others for a drink
then went our separate ways

she texted me later
small talk
then mentioned she was going to masturbate
left that hanging
of course i couldnt
called her rather than continuing to text
talked way longer than was necessary in retrospect
sometimes more foreplay than necessary
even verbal
isnt a bad thing

eventually i went to her hotel
she met me in the lobby in a flowing nightgown
you need the key to go up

there is that slightly awkward moment
just after entering the room
we already decided we were going to be intimate
without actually saying it
that always strikes me as odd

anyway

there is that moment when it is still undecided
who will kiss who
whats the first move
after the first move momentum takes over
like standing at the top of a ski slope
things move fast

made out
a little oral for both
neither had sex for a while
so we got right to the point

then we were laying together talking
that is when we explored slowly
no hurry
i was not twenty anymore

so we had time on our hands
used those hands to explore
without hurry
talked about nothing and everything

i enjoyed that more that the intercourse
i shouldnt say that
but i did say it
it takes time to figure another person out

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