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Its tough to pull of NSA relationship because you eventually feel for that person (well anyone with a heart does)either as a true friend or as something more..NSA work in the short term but is hard to maintain for a long length of time
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Personally,not a fan of "NSA" for that reason
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No such thing as no strings. There has to be some physical attraction there is your first string and the second you swap body fluids you are having some sort of connection. If not you are a very cold hearten person. Wam bam thank you mam isn't a style I could believe in.
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I am so glad you asked this question! I dont respond to "No Drama" cuz I know me....hehehe
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12/19/2017 5:08 pm |
with nsa it kinda takes away from the commitment part of the relationship i for one have been burned and very hurt in two marriages gave my all to make relationship work but ended in divorce i just can't commit to that any more i can't take it thats why i ask for nsa i love to have sex with a woman and respect all that i have been with but when it comes to a commitment to a ltr or marriage i begin to panic and start heading toward the door sorry just how i feel i respect marriage but just don't want that any more hope you can understand
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i am glad to see that alot of you guys like to have some sort of feelings for that person you maybe having sex with,,it seems like alot of guys on here just not this site is just looking for one thing i know this is a hook up site BUT what other site are you going to go look for a partner? or friend and see where things go? seems like dating is foreign to men anymore,, idk
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There are always some kind of strings attached. Please don't let me be misunderstood.
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First I will say that this is just my opinion of the term and not at all am I an expert on this subject. I just play the game with a different mindset sometime. I see the phrase “No strings attach” “NSA” as a lame paraphrasing of “No real commitment” And this is because no expectation is not always a good way to start a conversation of getting to the meet and greet step of the Heated Affairs courtship. When you meet and greet someone you should have some form of expectations. You should expect them to be on time. You should expect them to be polite. You should expect them to be honest. Ect….. Yet NSA is not void of expectation, or emotions, or feelings, or lust, or respect… It is just a vague term for no having to commit to something in a ambiguous relationship. Like, just because we hang out and fuck, it doesn’t mean I have to meet your Mom. Just because we hang out and fuck, doesn’t mean I have to buy you a Xmas gift. Just because we hang out and fuck, doesn’t mean you have to agree to see me again. But after you have seen each other more than 3 time… NSA cannot apply…because you are now attached…. Contradiction of terms at this point
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I know it's not the best answer, but I hope I make scenes!! And tag lines should not take away from proper emotions and mutual pleasure.. I should still be able to completely satisfy a woman and hold a NSA relation ship with her.... To me it's like buying a car with no down payment!! I shouldn't have to pay money up front to be all in!! my thoughts
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well now we have to get into high level physics and sub atomic activity on a universe scale . string theory lol. yep the entire substance of the apparent universe we can see is strings ..... ironic isn't it . I have to feel for her soul ,something or i don't want to join with her physically .It always leads to joining spiritually for me and most higher functioning real peopleNow that joining may have an agreement that it will not include social constructs such as exclusivity , obligation to communicate about anything, entitlement to anything from either person other than respect ..The stated agreement however is often agreed to with one party crossing their fingers thus negating their actual agreement and they assume ,well I didn't think it was what you said is was so i lied hoping you would see it fully my way at some point . I had a girlfriend , i cared about her and her family ,w had a strong bond , but neither of us was in a position to make any long term committments ,and there was a 90 mile distance and schedules to deal with. She said she loved me once .I looked her in the eyes and said , no you don't and do not ever say that to me again until you actually love me . she once said in bed naked climbing on me looking deep into my eyes , im going to marry your ass someday .I said good luck with that lol. I knew we would not get married ,too much baggage for that , but for 3 years we mutually helped and cared about each other , her job and need to house her kids took precedence over any relationship and it just died out ,no time . I think thats as nsa as it can get
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I don't or can't do a NSA type of arrangement....I don't even think I'm capable. For me, I need a connection to desire sex with someone, and a connection generally brings a few strings at the very least. I was in something for over 5 years that was supposed to be (or started out as) an affair, but for me it turned into more. My feelings were more for the gentleman, than his were for me, and it just wound up being heartache for me. I don't plan on even bothering to become involved with someone who is only looking for NSA or FWB. For me it will be an (hopefully) LTR, but there will need to be a commitment of exclusivity. I state that pretty plainly and I'm not willing to settle. Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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I chat to a guy on here, who had a regular FB, I recently asked how she was, and he replied "gone" I asked what had happened,, and he replied.."she fell in love with me" ... I laughed,, as you do!... but he was sore.. I'm not sure why,, he didn't want to talk about it... but he's single,,, so is she,, so why split and not make a go of a relationship... very odd to me!
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I stay away from even conversing with those type of people. I see NSA as a come over, say hi, generic convo while undressing, do the do, then leave. That is the only way feelings can't happen, and even then, depending on the connection during the sex can lead to something. I'm not set up for that type of thing. I won't have the desire for sex if I don't feel some kind of connection.
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